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As I remember, it was something like 'Thank you God! I'm the luckiest man alive'. Actually, we were talking about our past sex lives and her and her ex tried to breathe life into their failing marriage by swinging with their best friends. It didn't work...in fact it made things worse for them, but she also said that she wasn't opposed to the idea of trying it again. That's when we first came onto this board in an effort to find out information and how to do this 'right'. Took our time, but we started from there and it has been a wonderful ride ever since.

I usually read that it’s the man that suggested swinging, for us it was my wife, how did you react? I figure most will immediately say they didn’t hesitate and jumped at the suggestion. I think that is a too simple answer. My first feelings were why did she want or find the need to go to someone else for sexual satisfaction, was I not enough. She did explain that our friends were swingers and it sounded fun and thought she would enjoy sex with her girlfriend. We have now been playing with our friends for years and I have no regrets, they are our pandemic lockdown relief and we were talking how they got me to agree in the beginning.

Have never been able to convince my wife to try it. Since we live in a rural area getting caught isn't really a big deal.

Simple...you aren't ready to be swinging. This is a sign that there is something wrong in the relationship and that she can't or won't tell you what it is should be a HUGE for you. You need to stop, have a talk with her, and find out what the issue is before continuing. The reclaiming is usually the best part! If she isn't allowing that, it seems like she doesn't want to be reclaimed by you. Good luck, but PLEASE find out what is going on before continuing.

This is a great fantasy but would have the same concerns over safety. The obvious were mentioned, but there is still the STD factor. Someone mentioned a hotel but that takes a little bit of the risky thrill away. We have been to adult theater/arcade seeking to fulfill similar fantasies. But when we arrived, found that the reality of the filthy environment and sketchy crowd brought us back to reality.

I prefer to have meaningless group sex with strangers for sport with only fit, healthy, good-looking, well-groomed people. Call me shallow.

SAMnTINA, one time...at band camp.....(sorry. I saw the post about Band parents, and my mind went there )

No apology necessary. I hope my response didn't come off as curt. I will be happy to answer any questions you may have. I'm sure there are many things I failed to mention. The bottom line here is that this project is MORE than worth doing. I'm happy to share an affordable alternative to the Sybian saddle. Happiness is an orgasmic wife!

The problem arises with professional boundaries. There are rules that are in place to protect both clinician and patient. Same thing goes with professor and trainee (or senior/junior professor) -- power and authority is imbalanced.

Mrs. cplnuswing isn't a big talker during sex, and one of the sexiest things she ever said to me came not during sex. It was before we were married. She had come down for the weekend to visit me at my college and of course wasn't completely through the apartment door yet before the clothes were flying off We finished taking that initial edge off, and then hit the bars. We were sitting at a table with a pitcher of beer in front of us and a few of my friends there, and she nonchalantly leans over and says in my ear "I can feel your cum in my pussy." That was one of those up until dawn nights that we fucked ourselves raw, literally. Ahhh...the days of youthful vigor

Word to the wise, just don't scream out the wrong name....like your brother in laws name