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All good advice above. Just judging by how threads on this site go regarding male bisexuality, acceptance of bi males has improved somewhat I think, but only somewhat. Ten years ago this thread would already be on page 2 of replies, most of them a strident NO WAY!!!! Granted, even then it was usually the same handful of posters driving those NO WAY conversations. But, even now, while female bisexuality is publicly celebrated, male bisexuality is kept quieter. It's there though, do enough reading here and you will see some stories like "they didn't say in their profile he was bi, and we don't advertise it in ours either, but when we all got together...." Good luck on your search, just be patient, it will happen.

I’m a married woman. My husband and I have been a couple for almost 20 years. We have been swinging since the very beginning and are very familiar with the lifestyle. We ebb and flow and sometimes we are more into the lifestyle than others just depending on our life demands at the time. When we first started exploring the lifestyle we had some strong boundaries that we followed, but as the years went on we became more comfortable and confident and my husband felt as if we could take away some of our previous agreed on boundaries. Two years ago after having my last child we were stuck in a brand new state and didn’t know many people or trust anyone to babysit our three kids so we decided to try out the hotwife lifestyle (husbands idea) I went out with a lot of guys, which was fun, but also found no one who got me really excited. Finally I met a friend through a friend and I knew I instantly wanted to have sex with him. I told my husband. We were all turned on and it started off great. I told this new guy I was looking for a no string attached situation for sex only. Someone who could help my husband and I live out some of our fantasy’s with. We instantly clicked, he made me cum every time we were together and he would text me every couple days. I was a stay at home mom and it was fun to get flirty/sexy messages during the day. My husband told me “no boundaries “ but that if he get uncomfortable he would tell me. So we continued to talk, had sex alone at my friends house and other times we’d invite him over for mfm fun with my husband and I. Three months of hot sex went on, until my husband started feeling uncomfortable with some things that had come up. Arguments between my husband and I started happening and miscommunications. Finally we agreed it was time to let my new friend go. I told him and all was good. About a month later my fwb came back pleading for me to take him back and let him have another chance. I explained to my husband how he contacted me and I told him what he said. My husband said “let’s start over with a clean slate”. The next year or so it was a big mess. It was my husband saying ok to me sleeping with my friend(I found out later he only said ok because he wanted me to be happy) and then my husband would be upset with me. I probably told my fwb 6 different times that we had to cut the friendship off, only for him to somehow keep coming back to me. I know he had other sexual partners at the time, but he told me he didn’t want to loose me and I was the kinkiest girl he’d ever been with. I loved the sex we had, he was the only other guy who could make me cum(other than my husband) and there was something about him that made me feel really comfortable. Finally everything hit rock bottom, husband was over the entire situation, I was realizing it had gotten to a really unhealthy point and I was scared to loose my bond and marriage, so I put my foot down for good this time. The same day I told my FWB that it was over for good, he told me he had just found out his mom died. I was sad I had to break that to him on a day he found out his mom died and was torn between staying around to support my friend I’d had for the past year and a half or to just ghost him completely. I felt terrible, but I was also close to loosing my marriage. Anyway now it’s been two and a half years since that day and since then he has tried to reach out to me multiple times. He’s been trying to keep me close, he’s been going to clubs that he knows my husband and I go to, and he found a new fwb girl and told me all about her(I told him I was very happy he found her, which I was, because it took pressure off of me) Basically were at a point where my husband does not approve of me even responding to him, which I understand completely. It was a very bad situation and I’m glad I’ve gotten over it. Last week he texted me out of nowhere with a video of a girl he had sex with. It was a video of him fisting her. When we were having sex together that was one of our kinks we explored together. I was happy for him to find a girl who was willing to explore that with him since I know he really liked it. He said it was fun but that she didn’t do it the same way as me. He said with me I just let him do whatever and didn’t run away like the girl he was with. Then he went on to tell me despite all the girls he has and has been with since me, I am still his favorite. He also mentioned cloning his dick with this dick cloning kit and giving it to me. Why won’t he leave me alone? Why would a guy who only wants sex, and gets sex from multiple girls, still be chasing me after 2.5 years? Could it really be because I was the kinkiest? He claims it’s only sex, but would a guy keep trying this long if it’s only for sex? Anybody ever been in a similar situation? All my friends are vanilla and I have no one to vent this out to. My husband is way beyond over this situation and I’m still scratching my head about this guys behavior.

Join SLS and either meet another couple or attend a function (meet and greet, etc.). Take baby steps to start and only do what you are both ready for. Go as slow as the slowest partner.

Most couples on SLS say they have a straight male and a bi female. Some to many males who say they are straight are bi-oral, but some straight guys are a bit hostile to the idea of male bisexuality. Your assignment is to sort these guys out! Your best bet is to look for males who identify as bisexual, either in their online profile or in a pre-play discussion of what the participants enjoy. I don’t mean to alarm you, but there are male swingers who are up in arms against bi males. Just screen for that.

We are older swingers. We decided not to swing until we are vaccinated from covid. Everyone has their own idea on this topic. This seems to be the consensus among our friends. When you resume swinging, you can try to find couples who are bi or attend a bi house party or event. There is a lot of intolerance towards bi-males in swinging, but everyone finds bi women fine. It will just require some searching on your part.

If anyone is looking for an inexpensive vibrating sex saddle build, I can help. I spent about 50.00 and 6-8 hours of my time. My efforts have been rewarded with the pleasure of watching my wife have MANY explosive orgasms. I would be happy to share the process with anyone who is interested.

Without hesitation it’s having sex with my wife after other men have cum in her. Was admittedly reluctant at first but quickly became a must soon after. A very close second is watching her be completely in the moment and have no regard for anything or anyone else when she’s getting fucked.

That question brings me back to how my life drastically changed, having a threesome with a college girlfriend. At the time I had no bi feelings and no need to have sex with a guy I hardly knew. I had a bf and wasn’t looking to cheat. The only reason I was with them was a snowstorm and the need for a shared hotel room. To this day I’m amazed that I allowed myself to allow my friend and I guess I was being bold to participate. I was more upset I allowed her friend to join, I felt I was cheating on my bf. Since that day my bf became my husband and we have had many threesomes with both guys and girls. He had confided to his best friend and encouraged him to join us. Before Covid that friend would keep me company when my husband traveled for work. We have also played together. I have a girlfriend, my best friend who found out and joined us too. Now with us not meeting others both of these friends are our the ones we play with. If I had my choice, my husband alone first, and then I enjoy one on ones.

Sounds like bragging and trying to impress people on here. I don’t know if you are off the bell curve as I know many men who can go forever or quickly recover. Why do you think you are special?

You have to realize this was before swinging was even a thought or in my vocabulary, our friend was like a sister. As a big brother you can’t imagine your sister having sex with different guys, a husband is different. After her divorce I once again thought like a brother and I know guys would want her for a good fuck. I know she was a woman with needs too, just never thought that. It was me thinking of protecting her in my head. As you continue to read my comments my view changed.

The most stand out event in our lives from swinging was when my wife was pregnant for the third time. She was going to have twins. When they were born, they were two fraternal black boys. We are still not sure who the father is but we don't care. Our lives have been better for having them. There older brothers, who are mine and my wife's, will take ya down if you say anything against them. Their bond is very strong. All four are married. We are very blessed.

At least the punishments aren't as bad as Saudi Arabia.

My big question is how man times did you cum while posting this? Did you stop typing after each orgasm to regain your thoughts? Did you use F to T (fingers to type) or V to T (voice to text)? What made you join a Swingers board to post your prowess for your first post? Welcome to the board!

You are off the charts. Both of you. Enjoy it while it works. Do you play with others? I am presuming truthfulness and not trolldom to tease the swingers.

And yet human behaviors are the same the world over. Social norms define public behavior; biology defines what happens in private. You must love the area that you live in to adapt to such a harsh environment.

Not exactly the same situation but, plenty of couples travel to Desire or attend sex clubs who are not couple-swapping swingers. They just enjoy the sexy vibe and like being around other sexy, open-minded, people. Probably one third of the people at Desire fall into this category. Point being, unless the people are in a play room with you - they really don't know what you are into... Moreover, if you run into someone at a club, a resort, or online - they are there too; and certainly not by accident. You know each others secret and should treat it with respect. We ran into one of my students at a club - said hello, and went about our evening(s). We now smile just a smidge more when we bump into each other.

How bad did it get? Were there compromising photos that showed your faces? In what way did they out you? We have a swingers profile and we are careful to be clothed in photos that show our faces, and we crop faces out of the naughty photos. We feel like that gives us plausible deniability in the event some jerk tries to do the same to us. Face pics are normally in private albums so somebody has to work at it for us to reveal them. If somebody works that hard that pretty much proves they are into swinging too - or worse yet posers. And being a poser on a swinger site is an akin to being the clothed gawker at the nude beach.

We have not, but we have discussed this. Answer vary from: Looking at them and asking "Where did you hear THAT." Looking at them chuckling and say something to the tune of "I'll add that to my resume." If they really insisted "Well do you?" I think I'd go up to them throw my arm over a shoulder and ask "Why? You interested?" followed by an evil chuckle.

This is a variation on the saying, "Don't get mad, get even." A bisexual woman doesn't need to get mad, she can partake in getting some fun pussy just like the guy. It has become a shared joy for my wife and I to play with the same woman. Her favorite encounter is FFM, either with me or another couple.

With the support in place I then flipped the housing upright leaving the sander behind. With the housing in the upright position, I put two strips of duct tape along each of the open sides of the support. I poured some epoxy I had lying around onto the base of the support. The duct tape held the epoxy in nicely. I added epoxy until it was about 3/4" deep. I then grabbed the sander, put the switch in the on position and placed it upside down in the epoxy. To do this, I edged the housing off of my work bench enough to get one hand inside to guide the sander to its resting place. I then let the epoxy set gor a full 24 hours. After it had cured the sander was solidly in place. I then filled in the gaps around the sander base with the remaining slats, cutting them as needed. Then I took my motorbunny attachment and coated the inside with petroleum jelly. That done, I filled the cavity with clear silicone sealer. It took five full days for the silicone to cure completely, at which time I was able to easily remove it from the attachment. Then I took the cured silicone and epoxy glued it to the masonite I had earlier glued to the sander pad. The silicone " mold" is the exact configuration of all of the motorbunny and sybian attachments. The go in easily and stay in place during use. I then made two notches at the base, one for the cord and one for the speed control. After installing the cord and speed control, I put the bottom on the housing. Then it was a simple matter of carpeting the housing. I cut the carpet and glued it on with contact cement. I then cut the vinyl to size and affixed velcro to the edges so it would adhere to the carpet. The only thing left was a "test ride" before surprising my wife with her new toy ( or is it furniture ? ). I plugged in the cord, put on the attachment and inched up the speed control. Even at the lowest speed, it produced much stronger vibrations than I had expected. At about half speed I became certain that my wife would easily climax on this contraption. An unexpected bonus was the resonance that was generated inside the housing a sort of low rolling wave of sub-vibration...very nice! I tell you, if I had a vagina, I'd have cum for sure! Anyhow, my wife was skeptical at first but came gloriously in just a few minutes on her maiden voyage. Since then it has been used OFTEN both solo and together! I you enjoy watching your woman get off, guve this a try. A few bucks and a weekend in the workshop will provide endless rewards.

Last year, I had my mouth treated as a cum receptacle. Had about 15 guys shoot their load into my mouth. It was a fantasy I never knew I wanted.

I will go with, because they are self centred assholes! No woman needs to do anything they do not want to sexually for any man and they shouldn’t. There are plenty of people out there that would be more then happy to play with them on their terms. As far as we are concerned women hold the power when it comes to sex as much as men don’t want to hear it. The days of men getting what they want when they want from women are long gone. I don’t know why any woman would tolerate it. They can do better.

I say it doesn’t hurt to experiment in bisexuality if the actor is curious themselves. It just seems to me that every profile on SLS lists the woman as bi or bicurious and I doubt that many women are interested. Conversely, very few males are listed as bi or bisexual because so many males in couples are militantly against male bisexuality. I bet many more males are bi or bi-curious than are listed. It’s a peculiar dynamic in the lifestyle that female bisexuality is so much more acceptable than male.

To me enacting fantasies is like a drug. Every time I enact one, the tolerance level goes up, and I need a bit more. So I will narrate only the last one and you can imagine what must have come before. We are at the resort having lunch and three guys want to join us. We gladly let them in and start chatting. While my husband is away, one of them said, "We saw you last night with this guy, and you were fabulous. We watched you having orgasm after orgasm." While thanking him, I said "Did you get an erection?" He said, it hasn't subsided since then. I put my hand to check and it was stiff. "So, you want to fuck me?" I asked. In unison all three replied, "Yes." I asked, "Together or separate." "Is it possible to do it together?" they sang." I looked at my husband and he said, "Your fantasy is about to get real." We fixed a time for 10 p.m. that night. In my room, they showered me and each one took turn to give me one oral orgasm, one penile orgasm and one anal orgasm. Because they were in condoms, none of them wanted to waste their semen inside their condom, they were stiff after all that fucking. At the end they all shagged on me. One in my mouth, one in my boobs and the other on my vaginal mound that trickled down to the floor via my ass.

My wife let a girl go down on her it was so amazing. The other woman was bent over getting fucked by her husband while licking my wofe’s pussy. I was kissing my wife and sucking her tits. It was sooo hot!

I went to BDSM birthday party where the lady guest was screwed doggy style over the kitchen table by a dominatrix husband with an 11 inch cock. His cock had a huge gold PA and the underside of his cock also was pierced for the bar bell. He lasted forever and the woman had several orgasms until he was ordered to pull out without coming. His wife the dominatrix strapped on a dildo and fucked the birthday girl in the ass and I could hear her cries in the other room while I was getting whipped. Things got wilder when the husband with the big cock sucked off the husband whose wife was getting screwed in the ass at the same time. A beautiful dominant woman from San Francisco force me to kneel and suck dildo that she had strapped to her waist almost gagging me as she shoved it all the way down my throat. I had to leave early and get back to my girlfriend who allowed me to go threatening that if I had sex with anyone I would pay steep price. But it was definitely one of a kind party with lots of naked breasts and wild sex.

So I'm brand new here, only been swinging for 6 months. But I've/We've had a good deal of interactions. I suppose the one that sticks out at the moment for me was after my daughter's soccer game. We are good friends with a couple whose daughter is also on the team, we've swung with them once at a part we went to very early on. After the game the girls were all going for pizza and that kinda left us parents with some time on our hands. Now honestly sex isn't always on our brains or anything but I guess K (the dad of the other girl on the team) was thinking about it all day. He said it was because of my sports top, a long sleeve spandex purple crop top. My stomach was showing a bit, little bit of a muffin top i'm still trying to get rid of. I'm not a busty girl at best a B but more an A cup. He invited us over to their house which was just a few blocks down the street from the fields so we walked. It was really hot out and so we were all pretty sweaty when we got inside. K invited me into the kitchen for some water while his wife J and my husband L went to the bathroom (not together just to actually go). In the kitchen we chatted about the game, drank some water and then K, as bold as I've ever seen sat in a dining room chair and asked if I'd ride him. I was stunned to say the least. I mean we are still really new to this life and hadn't been so very upfrontly asked something like that. Well it was why we were there after all so, blushing like a little girl, I started to take my top off. He told me to stop and keep it on. It was stained a bit with sweat and really clinging to my breasts, I wasn't wearing a bra so my nipples were poking through. He told me he loved seeing my breasts bounce when I was cheering on the girls that's what gave him this, and he pulled down his track shorts. K isn't especially long, maybe like 7 inches at best, but he's thick. And wow he was as hard as I've ever seen a guy get. Well i pulled my yoga pants down, i was wearing some simple seamless purple lace panties with a wide waist. They were kinda sweaty too. Honestly at this point I still wasn't used to the whole, other man inside me thing. It was still and still is like some kind of strange dream. He told me to leave the panties on too, so i straddled his lap. He pulled my panties just enough to the side to see my vagina and complimented it. Telling me he loves how smooth and tight I looked for a mom. Surprised me a lot but was kind of a turn on. His penis was straight up and so he very gently but firmly put his hands on my bottom, half exposed in the panties, pulled me to him and lowered me on. I told you he's thick so it was intense. I'd only had sex with him one time before and that was after I'd had a load of semen inside to help lube me up. Now it was just me, my sweat, my already warming juices and him. His eyes were locked on his tip pushing my lips open, entering me, slowly sliding in. I'm kinda tight so it was slow, pushing in a little sliding back out then going further. It took several minutes but soon every inch was in me and it was soooooo intense. He was long enough to just tickle my cervix but it was that girth, stretching me that was making me shiver. K just sat back his hands on my bottom and slowly helped me rise and fall on him. Going about halfway up then down, hitting my cervix. Then almost all the way up to the tip and back in slow. He kept that pattern and pace up for a while. He'd alternate watching his penis slide into me and watching my breasts gently bounce in my top. We were already sweaty from being out in the heat at the game but this worked up more of a sweat, like we were dripping on the floor more than my juices, which themselves were dripping down his balls to the floor under us. My tummy was bouncing a little too as I rode him. He has some incredible staying power and I think we were like that for nearly ten or more minutes before I couldn't hold back anymore and I orgasmed. I'm a little bit of a crier when I orgasm so I teared up whimpering, crying, body shaking and vagina squeezing down hard on him just making the orgasm more intense. I'm not sure if it sent him over the edge or he just let himself go because right in the middle of my orgasm he pushed deep into me right up against my cervix and blasted thick streams of semen. He's a very heavy thick ejaculator and i felt it splashing inside so hot it was amazing. We just sat for a minute after that, dripping sweat and now some other fluids. Then we saw the clock on the wall. Our girls were due to get done with the pizza party soon so we were going to need to pick them up. K pulled out of me and put my panties back over me before anything could drip out. He patted my stomach and kissed my stretch marks and said he loved filling a mom's tummy. Totally made me blush. I put my pants back on went to check on my husband and J. I walked in on L orgasming onto J's beautiful C cup breasts. She kissed his tip and thanked him, waved to me and got up. Gave me a kiss on the cheek as she walked by going to take a shower. I left with my husband to go get our car and pick up our daughter and the entire ride home my vagina was FULL of semen. My panties were a total mess! I'm just glad it didn't leak and show through my yoga pants. That's a stand out experience for me.

several with the same single man stick out. one, is The time that we tried double penetration with mild success, I was straddling crazed as he entered my pussy,J came up between crazed knees and began massaging my ass and squeezed out some lube rubbing it in. I flinched at first when he touch my asshole as I had not done anal successfully yet but he was gentle and slow and waiting for me to get into the sensation crazed was creating. when he knew I was aptly distracted, he just plunged right in!!!I didn't have time to be scared, I only felt...extremely full. we moved together in tandem for a bit then I got a little too carried away and crazed slipped free. J just continued to move in my ass and crazed was still sliding between my lips with every thrust he hit my clit when he senses that J was almost there, and so was he, crazed reached up and squeezed my nipples sending me over the edge we all came together and it was very very memorable. Crazed may decide to chime in as well, but I know he has told me that one thing that made it so hot for him, is watching both my own and J's reactions to each other while being in such an intimate vantage point.

For me, my most memorable swing event went like this. My wife and I were fairly active in the swing community, and we were contacted by another couple. We went back and forth for a couple of months, they seemed reluctant to meet, I didn’t push - after all, if they’re not ready, they’re just not ready, right? So, finally, they agreed to meet for drinks at a bar. We go over, have a great time, we invite them to our home, they accept. We sit around for over an hour, nothing is happening. I’m trying to make some moves on this sexy lady, but for one reason or another, it’s just not going anywhere. They’re getting ready to leave, the lady gives me a nice and very suggestive kiss as they’re at the door on the way out. I whisper into her ear, “Would you like to come upstairs with me?” To my surprise, she agrees and announces to her husband what she’s going to do. We head up to the master bedroom, go slow for a little while waiting for our spouses, and then when they don’t appear, we make wonderful love for over an hour. (The spouses were doing the same thing downstairs.) We became great friends with this couple, meeting with them often and traveling with them. Fifteen years later, our spouses are out of the picture. (One death, one divorce - not from swinging.) And that wonderful lady is now my girlfriend.

One of my favorite memories is the time that my wife and I had her first full swap with another couple. Up until a certain point in that night, we had to been having a soft swap out with the other couple. Lots of wandering hands And oral between both couples. At one point my wife looked up and said "all right now, I don't care whose dick it is but somebody is going to fuck me now! " it was so hot to hear my wife be so blunt and into the experience. I promptly obliged and began to slide inside her briefly. I then watched another man have fun with my wife for the first time :-)

This may be too focused but wth. As a bisexual with a strong oral fixation, the high point of my sexual life was licking a pussy being fucked.

Her first time with another man in front of me since we were married couldn't have been more perfect. She was so shy and nervous it was like watching a virgin. She kept her eyes closed from the moment she was naked and laying on her back on the bed waiting for him. As he began to press his cock into her her mouth and eyes opened wide to look at him and down at his cock as he pushed into her.

Without a doubt, the first time I watched my husband have sex with another woman.

Events that stand out most in my memory... The time, at the club, when a guy had my wife bent over a foot rest/ottoman and thrust into her so hard both the ottoman and the wife basically went flying across the room. We promptly decided to relocate to an actual bed... and four or five guys from the audience followed, and eventually joined in. The time, also at the club, when I was watching my wife in a threesome with two guys and another guy, sitting next to me, said how beautiful she was and how he wished he could have a chance with someone like her. I encouraged him to ask her, once one of her play partners finished, and sure enough he got his wish. Finally, my first time with the young lady who was my friend-with-benefits for about a year. Seeing a strong, smart, kind of sarcastic young lady suddenly look shy and hesitant as we kissed for the first time... just wow. Given how that whole thing ended, that one's bitter sweet but I don't regret it.

Gotta point out how life is in a conservative area. People here are employed at will. Employer can and do fire people because they feel like it. We have one of the lowest minimum wages in the country. People are routinely fired for affairs. We have no LS clubs because it's against the law: no more than 2 person shall be in an unclothed state in a building whether or not admission is charged. We have sodomy laws that are enforced. An ounce of marijuana will get you a mandatory $50,000 fine and a mandatory 20 year prison sentence without any chance of parole. Any hemp possession is treated the same as MJ. You cannot sell liquor by the drink except within city limits and there is a strict number of license available. So you can understand why we creep around and are extremely careful who we associate we still have to live here.