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No man should force a woman to do anything she doesn’t want to do. You can’t force a person to change their sexuality. You have to know the true definition of bisexuality to understand that urging someone to do an act is not changing the person’s sexual preference. A man can’t make a woman to be sexually attracted to another woman any more than a woman can make a man be attracted to another man. Our LS quest started with my wife’s curiosity in being with a woman sexually. I wouldn’t call her bisexual, I would call her sexual. Porn gave her the curiosity not me pushing her or making her bisexual. As fact she was very nervous in allowing herself to explore her sexual experience with another woman. I have read too many posts of men making their partner do things and hardly none where they were willing to do similar things when urged. If my wife didn’t want to explore, it would have never happened.

You are no more a mess than many other posters. I think many are masturbating while posting

She must have been a good seductress (or you had repressed homosexual desires) because every first time girl-girl experience that I've seen or story I've heard of starts with the new-to-the-game woman being the one to have her pussy licked. She can lay back, close her eyes, use her imagination, and enjoy the attention. There's even a name for women who accept that, but won't reciprocate, a pillow queen. I don't think there's a word for the other way around. A woman getting into also performing oral usually takes time. Being licked by a woman isn't a new sensation, but putting your mouth down there can be sensory overload along with her responses. Anyway, a very nice story, thanks for sharing.

Sometimes viruses mutate to be less virulent. Hoping for that. Easy to be pessimistic now with the variants getting out faster than the vaccines. The world deserves a break. I am hopeful in science.

I am guilty of going overboard with posting after being silent for a while. Not posting is part lack of time, but much of it is mood. My recent spate of posts was when I had to travel because of issues both technical and personnel that had to be dealt with in person. The strangeness of the times is more extreme when in a hotel, alone without the usual after work hours distractions. No getting together with colleagues, no dining, no fitness center, no other diversions (even if available, you can't just show up, you need reservations). Only the occasional run. The reason I bring this up is that it put me in a really weird emotional state, the isolation and being away from home. When traveling is about the only time I masturbate, and then it used to be once, maybe twice a day, 15 to 30 minutes, one quick orgasm to wake up and one to go to sleep. This time it was more frequent, much longer, and much harder, three or four fingers instead of two; staring at the six porn pictures I have on my phone that I hardly ever look at. Unusual extreme emotions. Then afterwards, visiting the Swingersboard. From the first time I visited here over a decade ago, I got validation, felt like a deviant, but within normal. Being here still makes me feel that way. And I feel compelled to post, please forgive me, not all of it is worth anyone's time. It made me realize that my visits here are almost always after I have had sex (unlike those who come here to get excited), feeling fulfilled but also puzzled by it all. Why am I so compelled to do all of the things that I do? Why are the others? Is it a massive waste of time? How strange that it has produced our wonderful children. In case you are wondering, yes, about 15 minutes after making love with Lora and David (hubby loves her move than he loves me, but I accept that, I love her too), then Red and Clair, I logged on here to get a sense of validation and to exhale my feelings. I'm not the occasional power poster, I am an occasional mess.

If you think he won't come back to you because he'll have sex with women who have larger breasts then you're either lacking confidence or your relationship might be too delicate to consider swinging right now.

Why? They've moved on, literally and/or figuratively. Might they return? Possible. Ann and I went years without posting here. For us, COVID was a large part of the impetus to return. Some intellectual lifestyle stimulation was better than no lifestyle stimulation ;-) However, our humble opinions are that the "lifestyle" will never be the same for any of us. This virus has permanently altered the way people physically relate to each other. Will any of us ever casually, almost thoughtlessly, shake hands with people the way we used to...? I know we won't. Although it's still very early in the cycle, it appears the vaccine is not a panacea. This virus, like many others, is capable of mutating and possibly rendering the current vaccine(s) far less effective, or perhaps not effective at all. The newest vaccine from J&J is about -40% less effective, for instance, against the mutated COVID strain that originated in Africa. At this point, it appears the vaccination program will evolve to be more like the current influenza regime, where you get vaccinated every year for the strain that appears to be the most common and/or dangerous. Not happy about typing any of this.

Just about everyone here has a regular sex partner at home in addition to lifestyle partners, so that they still have some joy and something to talk about. Many also have especially close friends they still play with. And we all have past experiences and memories. Sharing those bring happiness, to me and my wife at least.

I once wore an empty extra large bag that had contained potting soil. I went as a dirt bag. I smeared some of the soil on my face, arms and legs for full effect. Another time I went in body paint, as you can see below.

From my experience, this is true even for vaginal/anal DP.

If you were doing a double penetration and you came, that frequently is enough extra stimulation to make the other guy cum right away, with no buildup. And, his climax may have been a quiet one that your wife did not feel. For those reasons you should not blame either the guy or your wife. If you do not want a guy cumming in your wife, both of you should stick with the condom required rule. My previous swing partner was very hot, juiced a lot, and was very tight. She had many guys cum within ten strokes the first time they fucked her.