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Too much for Mrs. Shy to think about. If I bring it up she either said “nope” or puts her fingers in her ears and says “la,la,la,la,la.....” However, her dad had pretty major surgery a couple of years ago so she went to to help out her mom. While she was at their house a neighbor came by and gave them courtesy card, business card, or intro card with pic and contact info. I had to say hmmmmm, told ya.

If you are vaccinated with both doses of either Pfizer's or Moderna's vaccines on schedule and it's been 2 weeks since the second you are pretty safe from the original variant of COVID-19. However there is no certainty about the mutations that are appearing nor whether you can pick up and pass live virus to others even though you are immune. And how long will your immunity last? At least 3 months, actually probably longer, hopefully much longer but not yet documented.

We both on scholarship when we met that paid most of our college costs not our everyday expenses. Most of us found jobs both private and on campus jobs. Honey was a gymnast and spent hours and hours conditioning and practicing, I did also maybe not as dedicated. I knew where she worked and was amazed the hours after practices she had to work. I was very busy myself trying to finish my senior year and we got together whenever we could and I made the most of it fucking a gymnast is the best sex a guy can get. At her place after a great fuck and still in her bed she became nervous and asked me to listen. She said that I only knew about her office job not about the man who gave her the money for her place, her Benefactor. The man was a voyeur who liked to watch. Then she asked about another girl athlete I knew, he was helping her also. He would have the two of them have sex for him to watch. I just wanted to blow the whistle on this perv or kick the shit out of him. She stopped me and pleaded with me to have sex with her and her friend but it had to be in front of her Benefactor. He would just watch and won’t be involved. That’s when I found out she had done this before with other friends. I was sunken to know she had been doing this all along. I did it. My first time with two gorgeous women and a perv watching. I was going to break up with her afterwards, I didn’t want a whore. Now I’m still enjoying her as my wife.

The CDC knows more than the people on here. Science evolves and is not static unlike the minds of some people. Better medications, my mom said it was only penicillin when she was young, then antibiotics and even antibiotics change. Polio vaccine, first Salk then Sabin. This virus keeps changing and science has only a very brief history to work with. You want to play scientist, go ahead, I’ll listen to the best minds our country has even if their direction changes.

What it actually means is that the CDC doesn't know anything. Just like the mask mandate. We were told masks were to protect others. Then it was masks protect you but not others. Then they protected both. I read an article today stating that TWO masks is better. TWO! The gator actually caused the virus spread to be worse. Then the gator worked like masks. Then the gator was better than masks. No one knows anything.

I thought I remembered something on this from a few years ago... The Villages, near Orlando I did find the article entertaining. I think mainly because I like the idea of people in that age group still living it up and having fun. Everyone there like that? I'm sure not, but I think pieces like that are a good reminder for all age groups that life doesn't end at 30, 40, 50, or whatever decade birthday is next after the current one they are in ? Kind of like how when you are 40 then 50 sounds old, then before you know it, there you are yourself! I met someone once who worked for the same outfit as me and had just a few months left before they could retire from there and draw a pension. He was super excited that it was all working out that within a year's time that he could retire from that job, and they would meet the minimum age / no kids requirements of moving to the Villages. That just seemed sort of odd to me, that someone would want to move there that young and with the nest just having been emptied. To each their own, but seemed to me to be getting into a little bit of a hurry on things. He had a professional interest in the whole planned community aspect of it though, so maybe that was some of the attraction.

Unfortunately, if you live a good, full life it will happen to you eventually. You'll find that you adjust, hopefully, by doing things that make you happy. Such as swinging . . .

I don't know you two except through your posts, but don't think any less of either of you for what you have posted. I admire you both. All the best.

There is a great deal that we do not know about this virus. There's reason to believe antibody resistance fades after a few months, but that t-cell resistance remains, possibly for years. There's speculation that you will need to get booster vaccinations periodically. With reference to swinging; at least here in the U.S. we're supposed to have enough vaccinations that anyone who wants to be vaccinated will be vaccinated by June. We've all (well, most of us) have been waiting for almost a year now without having sex with anyone other than our spouses. Surely we can wait four more months.

To me this is incredibly romantic: how you met, what she and you did, your feelings, how you fell in love with her and that she became your wife. Perhaps in a way it is because I also felt like a whore (but entitled , confident, powerful) for fucking two men, but the man I loved married me despite/because of what I was doing and he let me continue. Either way, we all lived happily ever after...

This was my post about Super Bowl and you don’t need to apologize for anything you post. You are most likely on the younger side of posters, like me, and for me posting is cleansing, cathartic, and it gives me time to reflect and free think. I post things that I would not share outside of an anonymous forum. The things you and your wife did in your past is only your business and not to be judged by others. You lived through that past and are only living in the present. I hope you aren’t venting because you have doubts in your marriage. I can’t tell how long you are married but you both seem to be enjoying your lives. Just a tip, pushing the submit button leaves very little time to edit or delete, I have deleted many a post before submitting.

This article is from 2014. There may already be an older post about it. Full disclosure, my n-laws live in The Villages.

Indeed. We know a LS couple or two who contemplated moving to The Villages, and decided that it was not how they wanted to golden years to unfold (or unravel, as the case may be). The core questions in later years--health issues aside--revolve around the balance between community and tranquility: whilst the image of "cheek-to-cheek" has its attractions, the image of "cheek-by-jowl" has decidedly fewer, and neither seems inviting without the opportunity for respite. It is this paradox, namely that community is attractive only when retreat is easy, that faces couples approaching retirement. While retirement communities--vanilla, nudist, swinger--are attractive to some, they struck us as potentially nicer places to visit than to live.

We’ve met people from there. I think they also have spirited political cross currents among the residents. You could also retire at or near Caliente and Paradise Lakes near Tampa. We have a second home in southern Florida in a vanilla community. Not sure we want to be surrounded by hijinks 24-7.

I'm reminded of a Jeff Foxworthy stand up routine in which he notes women wondering what men are thinking. "I'll tell you what they're thinking. They're thinking 'I want a beer and I want to see something naked!'"

That is precisely the reason that he will not only come back to you, but also love you all the more. My wife enjoys physical and behavioral (kinks) aspects of other men that I don't have. I'm not threatened, however, because she comes back to me grateful and knows that if she wants whatever it is he has, she can get it again. She has no reason to leave me. See above. Plus, as a guy, big breasts are overrated. My wife has fairly large breasts, but I come to find myself more and more attracted to two woman who have small tits. It's about exploring new bodies. Have fun and don't worry. Let us know how it goes.

I am guilty of going overboard with posting after being silent for a while. Not posting is part lack of time, but much of it is mood. My recent spate of posts was when I had to travel because of issues both technical and personnel that had to be dealt with in person. The strangeness of the times is more extreme when in a hotel, alone without the usual after work hours distractions. No getting together with colleagues, no dining, no fitness center, no other diversions (even if available, you can't just show up, you need reservations). Only the occasional run. The reason I bring this up is that it put me in a really weird emotional state, the isolation and being away from home. When traveling is about the only time I masturbate, and then it used to be once, maybe twice a day, 15 to 30 minutes, one quick orgasm to wake up and one to go to sleep. This time it was more frequent, much longer, and much harder, three or four fingers instead of two; staring at the six porn pictures I have on my phone that I hardly ever look at. Unusual extreme emotions. Then afterwards, visiting the Swingersboard. From the first time I visited here over a decade ago, I got validation, felt like a deviant, but within normal. Being here still makes me feel that way. And I feel compelled to post, please forgive me, not all of it is worth anyone's time. It made me realize that my visits here are almost always after I have had sex (unlike those who come here to get excited), feeling fulfilled but also puzzled by it all. Why am I so compelled to do all of the things that I do? Why are the others? Is it a massive waste of time? How strange that it has produced our wonderful children. In case you are wondering, yes, about 15 minutes after making love with Lora and David (hubby loves her move than he loves me, but I accept that, I love her too), then Red and Clair, I logged on here to get a sense of validation and to exhale my feelings. I'm not the occasional power poster, I am an occasional mess.