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Agree with the other posts. Most people (including swingers) are trying to stay safe and healthy always but especially during the pandemic. I don’t really want to get off on a rant on single guys but like Sam&Tina said, not all swingers are looking for single males. When they are, they are incredibly selective because there are plenty to choose from. Additionally, they do, it’s on the couples schedule, not the single guy. it’s not a bunch of horny, perverts looking for sex whenever and wherever they can get it. Be cool. Be respectful. Be patient. And bring your A game to introductions because most single guys don’t get a chance to make a second impression.

Happened with us; friends we knew who were pretty dang hot -- and then three years later, not-so-much. She had cancer, and treatment did a number on her looks; he went grey / white with more facial-wrinkles than expected, most likely from stress over her diagnosis and the loss of both parents and a sister in a car accident. Frankly, we're surprised they're both holding up as well as they are. Edited to add: When we say "No Drama" in potential play-couples, *this* is acceptable life-drama; it's the selfish/jealous stuff we don't want to deal with.

In "The Time of Covid" some of us will find out, for use it will be almost 2 years away from our club, at least I hope we will be back then.

People really need to get the vaccine, not only for themselves, but for the greater societal good of herd immunity. Please note that this statement is apolitical and based on science. This country seems powerless to be selfless and to pull in the same direction to defeat the virus. Many people just want to continue their old life as if nothing happened. This is a war that requires all hands on deck. Masks, social distancing, vaccinating. While you contemplate your vaccine, think of your friends and relatives who are older and/or immunocompromised. If you don’t give them covid, it may mean life or death for them.

Reading Mr & Mrs Naughty's thread regarding Single men and profiles got me to thinking that maybe it would be a good idea to have a thread where single guys can post a link to their SLS profile (or other external profiles/ personal ads on other sites) and let the couples who are interested in single guys review said profiles to give them an idea of how to make it better and more appealing to said couples. So single guys, here's your opportunity, post your link. And couples, be honest and let them know what you think.

The pandemic is a downer, but when it’s over my advice is to join a lifestyle site such as SLS, SDC, etc.and attend one of their events such as a meet and greet or hotel party.

What conflicting reports are you seeing? That the vaccines are causing harm? That the vaccines are ineffective? What are the sources for those reports?

An old joke: "Are you from Alaska?" "No. Why do you ask?" "You look like a husky fucker."

I've never been to such a party, but I have been in that situation many times - some sexual, some not. I would style my pubic hair: short enough so as not to obscure my inner parts, highlighted, and curled into ringlets. I would use body paint on my breasts to give them more of a 3-D appearance, and accentuate my nipples.

Mrs. Shy and I are both in healthcare and were vaccinated. Her with Moderna and I had Phizer. Nothing to report. No symptoms afterward. Arm pain was no worse than the flu shot. I had really hoped to wait until the end of the healthcare line but my number was called right after Christmas and was afraid if I decided to wait, I would end up waiting until summer.

Those who don't share completely with intimate partners don't, in my opinion, understand the "open" part of open relations .

We never take pictures because anyone can be hacked. Even if you take pictures on a separate camera it may have the ability to WIFI connect, or the moment you hook it to the computer to view your memories, it all gets uploaded to some storage service somewhere. (And then they try to sell you framed prints with two dicks in you.)

Steroid related for sure.

I like to kiss with my eyes closed, but when I am still in the seduction phase I really like to kiss with my eyes open. I like to see the arousal in his eyes.... Kiss!