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2 pointsI say yes. Once things are “back to normal,” people have short memories. But the comeback may be slow at first. Men with six foot penises will be accepted first. They can perform at socially acceptable distances.
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2 pointsHope so; we haven't even really started lol. But together 23 years we are both secure in knowing what we want to do to add some additional fun to our lives so we're hopeful to explore the next phase of our amazing relationship.
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2 pointsI received my first covid vaccine today. It was by Moderna. This evening, my arm is slightly sore, but it is mild and if I don’t think about it, I wouldn’t notice it. I heard the second dose can have more side effects. We just heard tonight that the husband of one of our favorite lifestyle couples just got out of the hospital after three weeks. He is still using oxygen at home. He is a slim, fit, trim health conscious guy. His father also has covid and is in the hospital on a ventilator. I will accept all the teasing and criticism about being cautious. But I really don’t want to get it. I am going to an orthopedist tomorrow, hopeful they take appropriate precautions.
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1 pointI agree. As we've reached a point where people feel while not totally out of the woods yet, we can at least start to look at what comes next, I think this is a common belief. Like I said in the recent BBC article thread, I think the second golden age of swinging is coming.
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1 pointI agree "tolerant" does carry some negative connotation with it, but the definition from the source I looked at is to me slightly different/softer than they one you cited. 1. allow the existence, occurrence, or practice of (something that one does not necessarily like or agree with) without interference. Comparing the two definitions, it appears to come down to "approve of" vs "allow the". Using the anal sex example, some don't tolerate/approve of anal sex because of a belief it's perverted, sinful, dirty, nasty, etc. Others are tolerant of anal sex because while they don't necessarily agree on a personal level that it is pleasurable or fun, they acknowledge that some people do in fact find it pleasurable and fun. Like a "nobody should have anal sex!" vs "not for me, but if you like it, good for you". When one is personally ambivalent about something though, it's sort of hard to rejoice in it. I think "rejoice" involves some active engagement or participation in some way, and that's hard to muster when it's something you don't personally care much about. Maybe "acknowledgment" is what we are after here? That everyone should acknowledge that others may have, and are in fact entitled to, different beliefs, opinions, practices, etc. Put more bluntly, I really think it boils down to more people need to remember something some of us probably heard from our parents growing up - if it doesn't directly affect you, then best to mind your own business. And no, just because the fact that people simply exist that don't meet your standards/personal definition for x, y, and z, that doesn't mean that it affects you.
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1 pointWith that truth as a starting point, everything will follow. We've been playing within our closed group the whole time, driven more by the women than the men. It seems to me that the wives have a desire for "social sex" (including girl/girl play) which drives it more than their husbands.
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1 pointMy wife and I also actively look for MFM threesomes. Like you, her interest is in the guy, not his dick. She looks for gentlemen who will treat her with the appropriate respect and kindness. What size of penis he has is of no concern.
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1 pointWe had no side effects from the first other than a little soreness at the injection site. Second shot, again some soreness, Alan less than me. We both felt blah, tired and some stiffness. I stayed in, Alan went for a walk. Two days out we are pretty much back to normal.
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1 pointA few mainstream publications have made the same point I did earlier in a thread about this - the Jazz Age and "petting parties" came right after the Spanish Flu. I expect casual sex generally is going to being in high demand, including group sex, although it may or may not be called "swinging", just as relatively few vanilla people who indulge in threesomes embrace the term. Expect to see new and creative outlets and a lot more blind eyes turned.
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1 pointPeople really need to get the vaccine, not only for themselves, but for the greater societal good of herd immunity. Please note that this statement is apolitical and based on science. This country seems powerless to be selfless and to pull in the same direction to defeat the virus. Many people just want to continue their old life as if nothing happened. This is a war that requires all hands on deck. Masks, social distancing, vaccinating. While you contemplate your vaccine, think of your friends and relatives who are older and/or immunocompromised. If you don’t give them covid, it may mean life or death for them.
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1 pointWhile the pandemic may have made some people quarantine or take a break, others have just limited their activity to smaller circles or just another couple. Swinging has been around since the Romans controlled the world and will continue as long as men and women have a sex drive and the curiosity to want to try new people. While we are not necessarily looking for new playmates during the pandemic trust friends are still welcome in our life's and we know that they understand as much as we do that its important to be open about their health and those for the people around them.
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1 pointA nice mix. I find threesomes more exciting than two couples.
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1 pointThose who don't share completely with intimate partners don't, in my opinion, understand the "open" part of open relations .
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1 pointJust as an aside, we are a couple that actively looks for MFM threesomes on SLS. If a guy spends any amount of time at all bragging about his dick, we basically ignore him. So, if you want to get into many couples pants, don't even mention your dick on-line, or when you meet the couple.
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1 pointThis is a true mfm encounter from about 10 years ago involving myself, my wife and another man. I haven't ever discussed our sex life or any of our encounters with anyone other than my wife, or the people involved in the encounters. Ten years ago, we had a lot of stress in our life; old son problems and work was getting the best of us. We decided to go on a weekend getaway, grab a hotel room, and do some gambling at a casino to try to unwind a bit. While we were there we had ran into another couple we knew from a few years earlier who had moved away from our area. We both liked them, and they were a lot of fun to be around. His wife was meeting some other women that night, so he was free. I talked him in to going to the casino with us, but said we needed to stop by the motel and grab a couple of things on the way. He followed us on to the hotel and we went on in, at which point I got involved in a phone call from work. I still couldn't get away from work! That took some time and while that was happening our friend started channel surfing on the tv. There was an adult channel he came across, and of course he had to stop there and get a laugh and point it out to me while I am on the phone. About then I ended my call and my wife had just came out of the bathroom. Now her and I had always watched porn together at home, so she was no stranger to it, but never with anyone else around. We had also prior to this, maybe six months or so ago, discussed a lifestyle involving others. However no decision to act on it had been made then, it was mainly speculation. We all talked a few minutes as the adult movie was playing. Of course the best place to view it was from the bed, which we all perched on the edge of. Well, I admit I was getting a bit hard, and I know he was too. My wife had gotten fairly quiet, and I kinda watched her out of the corner of my eye. She was sitting on the right side of me, and he was on my left. She was leaning on me a bit. I asked if this bothered her. She said no, and kinda rubbed my leg some. I don't remember exactly who said what, but I heard her say something about all of us guys liking that, referring to the tv scene. I remember we both said oh yeah, or something like that. I made a crack about her being careful or she might find out, and she said something like ..yeah, right. I don't remember all the specifics, but it was kinda odd. I had seen this unsuspecting nod she gave me, it was like not saying anything, but I understood. The next thing I knew, I managed to get my cock out and she was all over me. The exact details are a bit of a blur, but before I knew it we were all naked and she was flat on her back. I am leaving out some of the more graphic details here, but with our consent he was up on top of her with her legs spread wide fucking her. It was amazing to me to see her being like that; letting herself go, releasing stress, and taking care of the both of us as we did her. After it was over we all went to the casino and had a great time there too. It was wonderful to me that it happened and I could get those feelings to come out of her. We were able to talk openly about it afterwards and it give us some energy to consider doing it again. I would be open to discuss this more with anyone, I'm open for advice. I am 56, she is 54, and we are considering doing it again.
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1 point"What if you have 4 - 5 inches!" I was getting excited, but sorry, I thought this was the ski report.
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1 pointI can recall my wife being with 2 guys who were hung like the proverbial horse. The first was one her worst sexual experiences, because it was painful for her when he thrust into her. The second I actually got to watch and this guy was clearly aware of the problem and handled his length with great care. I actually felt kinda bad for him. Large size may make a good picture but it doesn't seem to work well in application.
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1 pointDude, you're right there with the rest of us. According to Medical News Today, the average erect penis size is 5.1 inches. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/271647.php Mine is 5.2 inches, fully stretched, and not once has a woman complained to me about it. And do you know how easy it is to photoshop a flashlight? If your wife hasn't already told you, it's not how much you have, it's how you use it. Don't fixate on your size, just try to pleasure the woman you're with, you'll be fine.
