Leaderboard

This Sunday evening just past we were introduced to the Lake Como Family Nudist Resort. The difference from Paradise Lakes Clothing Optional Resort are subtle but we are learning to appreciate them. I will say more on this difference in future posts. All visitors are required to check in at the front office (no "gate" exists). You tell the office manager your reason for wanting to be inside of the resort. Acceptable reason seem to be going to the restaurant (our reason), visiting a resident, or just to look around. We were given a paper form that a waiter would need to complete as we were leaving. The waiter wrote the time that we went out the door and we presented this paper to the office manager (along with our restaurant credit -card receipt) as we drive out. I assume that if too much time had elapsed between leaving the restaurant and going out of the resort, uncomfortable questions would have been asked. To assure that we would return with the proper documents, the office employee kept our drivers licenses while we were inside. The Lake Como restaurant has a menu a bit more varied than the menu of the Waters Edge Bar at Paradise. The quality of the food is about equal. Neither Lake Como or Paradise Lakes have food equal to Caliente. My overall impression is that "condos" at Lake Como are not so much like condos as like double-wide trailers those trailers being separated on average just far enough apart that you could easily maintain your patch of grass with a weed whacker. Every person at the restaurant with whom we spoke expressed complete happiness with the resort, the activities available, and their living arrangements.

I agree that both parties should share the experience together... but what the means can vary from couple to couple. At times in our swinging together, my wife has gone to a club alone, hooked up with a guy and then come home and shared that experience with me. She does this because she enjoys it and she knows I enjoy it. It's kind of an exhibitionist/voyeur thing I think. What's key is that it is a shared experience, even though I'm not in the room with her at the time. For some couples, separate room play is unthinkable, or others it's preferred.

He doesn't feel left out. That's a misinterpretation of things. In the "hot wife" scenario, the husband gets as much spark out of it as she does, even though he's not actually having sex right then. The fact that she is having sex with another man is what turns him on. I know, it's a head scratcher. But, that's why Baskin Robbins sells 31 flavors ?

A swinger told me "We're in a group now in [state] that has two rules.1 No fucking outside of the group. 2 No condoms inside the group." Has anyone ever heard os such a thing?

One of the top rules of nude photography... make sure you are clean. As I understand it, professionals have makeup artists. (The things you don't think about...)

Never forget it but believe it was AFF, girl posted a closeup pic. It looked like she had her shoulders on the floor and had rocked her pelvis back almost to her face. Has everything spread wide open, grinning ear to ear, with little toilet paper rolls stuck to her twat. Nasty!!!

Not me. I love seeing a nice vagina in context, when you can see the rest of the woman. But just the folds of skin? Nope.

Off Off Off. No Dick or Pussy pics. We usually think they are fake and stupid. Close ups of anything is never good. Hardly any are posted by women, that tells you something. Want to impress us, a picture dressed in a normal situation tells us plenty about you. Do we enjoy a nude picture? Sure, it does say something too as does some sex shots, just no close ups please.

Nope... I'm a breast man, personally. Breasts, eyes and hair. A lovely close up of well-shaped tit can be very aesthetically and erotically appealing to me. Still, generally, I like images in context. I think close-ups of any body part tend to be lacking when compared to well framed picture of an actual person.

Or even for a couple on different occasions. Sometimes it is hotter for me when my wife comes home from playing alone and telling me about it, even though she's had sex with him or her or them in my presence numerous times before. Then we really go at it.

Fluid Bonded is the term...

Yes...often and in varying levels. From various levels of poly lifestyles and within the swing/lifestyle communities. As with any alternative lifestyle choice....it is a choice. For many it is a desire to share naturally and fully and found more often then not among older couples and singles. A choice....not an assumption.

Construction workers? They'll be days late, argue over who is supposed to do what, get things half-ass done, and leave a mess.

Mr. FL, Pfizer x 2. Minimal arm soreness on both injections, a day of fatigue and feeling crummy after the second. Mrs. FL Moderna x 2. Minimal arm soreness after first injection. Soreness, headache, moderate fatigue for about 24 hours beginning the day after the second injection. All resolved around 60 hours after the second injection. We would both do it again in a heartbeat.