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Everyone has their particular things when it comes to attraction... no judgement here. The key to successful swinging is open, honest communication... and not just within the couple. Therefore, I would say it is absolutely necessary for you to be upfront and honest about this with any potential play partners. Better to let someone know at the start that they aren't an option than find out when the pants come off.

I find this post very disturbing. Not that you made it, but the truth it contains. In a place where anyone and everyone has a gun, violence, deadly violence, can be expected in situations where it is not warranted. And from that expectation, the violence is justified. "My wife is cheating is cheating with you? The law lets me carry this gun and the expectation is that if I'm offended, I'll use it like a man."

Playing with cheaters is not advisable in Oklahoma. We have a "constitutional carry" law on our books.

If you guys want to do prostitutes, have a ball. But I'm curious. Why do you think an escort will be safer than a girl in a bar?

DJs Island outside of Pittsburgh has a great hot tub. They drain it after every weekend, I've seen the attendants checking the chemical levels three or four times a night. I know they closed it one time when it didn't pass. My wife and I have used it plenty of times. And, yes, all kinds of things go on in there.

She would probably be a hit at a lifestyle house party. Another endorsement for temporary tatoos.

I also would love to take it further, lovefest. Unfortunately, there are limits as to what love and tolerance will accomplish, given that some other people choose not to love or tolerate other's actions. Your example is very poignant to me. I have a lesbian daughter. I knew of her lifestyle when she was in college, but I felt I couldn't come out and say, "Hey, I know, it's okay." What I did was be careful never to say a discouraging word about it, and when appropriate praise the LGBT movement. When she finally admitted it to me a decade later my comment was, "What took you so long?" and we both laughed our asses off. The only other word I can think of that seems apt may be 'condone.'

Well, my wife posted hers yesterday. Here’s mine/ours. We went to visit her folks over Christmas, and always set aside at least a night to visit her best friend from college and her husband. Those two have known each other since college, and her friend has always had a thing for my wife’s tits - talking about them, joking, sometimes touching. My wife had already admitted all that turned her on more than she ever let on. We talked about possibly sharing a year or two ago, and have bought some toys and pretended others were in bed with us / including those friends. We had been drinking wine and talking, then her friend started touching my wife’s hair, face, running her fingers over her breasts. Her husband and I just grinned at each other and watched. Her friend suddenly said WE NEED MORE WINE! We all laughed and my wife went to the kitchen with her to help. Got to admit I was curious after a minute, so I went to the kitchen, too. Nothing was happening, but K told me her friend had kissed her on the cheek a couple of times before going downstairs for another bottle. I could tell she getting turned on, so I took a chance, snuggled her ear a bit and whispered to her that I thought it was time. I got behind her, and when her friend came back up, I lifted K’s shirt and bra and said we think it’s time you did more than just talked about them and touched them through her clothes. Her friend’s eyes got huge and she rushed over, grabbed my wife’s breasts and started squeezing and rubbing, talking about how beautiful and big they are. K was moaning almost instantly, because her nipples are super sensitive. I started kissing and biting her neck and talking dirty in here ear, and then her friend called her husband in. He was stunned at first, but walked over and after a minute asked if he could join in. K nodded, I said yes, and then they were both playing with them, squeezing and sucking, and K was going crazy. Her friend pulled her to the table and pushed K into a chair, got on her knees between K’s legs, and starting kissing and sucking again. Her husband and stood there watching getting hornier by the second. Then K’s friend looked at her husband and said come here. He looked at me, I shrugged and nodded, and he stepped over to the chair. K’s friend looked up at her and asked if she wanted to suck her husband’s cock. K was panting and whimpering by now, and she looked up at him, then at me. I said go ahead, and K’s friend went back to her breasts and the husband unzipped, pulled it out and stuffed it in K’s mouth. I was losing my mind! After a minute, K looked at me and told me to get over there. I did, and next thing you know I was watching her friend suck and lick her big breasts while she took turns sucking our cocks. K’s gf started rubbing her pussy and K’s through their jeans while still sucking her tits and they both ended up cumming that way. It was mind blowing to see and hear. K kept sucking us both until we each came in her mouth, and at the end we all were looking at each other like did that really just happen?? lol K and I did it again after we got back to her folk’s house, and it was so hard trying to be quiet! Our friends will be visiting this summer, and we’ve begun exchanging sexy text/pics and agreed to some ground rules. We’re not sure exactly what the future holds, but we’re expecting it to be fun!

For me, it was in college and I was 21. I had been to a party with a guy friend, and by the end of the night we were both kinda drunk and ended up leaving with another male friend (also a little hammered) from one of our classes. They walked me home and came in for a bit because it was cold. I noticed they were both looking at my chest a lot (I’m kinda top heavy). Being drunk, I asked them if they wanted to touch them. They did, and that led to much more. By the time they left, I had let one of them do me, sucked both of them off and one jacked off on my breasts. Crazy night. And my husband still wants to hear the story sometimes while we do it ?

We live in a small town in a rural area in a state that is ultra religious and conservative. So we usually go to the nearest big city to play. We know local swingers and they know us. One couple, my wife babysat her back in the day. So we just don't play at home. Not that we wouldn't like too but you can't let the little head do the thinking for the big head. I have to admit that we do have tons of plasible deniability. Unless you knew you would never guess how really kinky we are. TBH I think I would just lie.... sorry but it's true. In certain areas this becoming common knowledge would be disastrous. Your entire family would be negativity affected. So..... yeah I'm 2 faced but I still gotta live here.

We have not, but we have discussed this. Answer vary from: Looking at them and asking "Where did you hear THAT." Looking at them chuckling and say something to the tune of "I'll add that to my resume." If they really insisted "Well do you?" I think I'd go up to them throw my arm over a shoulder and ask "Why? You interested?" followed by an evil chuckle.

Let's just pretend: You play once with a cheater. Somehow his wife finds out. She wants a divorce because he is cheating on her. You get called into court as part of the divorce proceeding. Court records are public record (as well as whatever the wife tells...everyone). Now your wife is either outed as a cheater or the two of you are outed as swingers. Add to this that swinging is all based on trust and mutual respect and cheating is the exact opposite. Risk/reward. Not worth the risk.

If the spouse ever finds out what’s going on, you’ll be involved.