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4 pointsThe first time I swapped, I was just out of my first marriage. I was dating this girl, Laura, she also was recently divorced and wanted all the sex from me she could get. We often hung out with another couple at their house playing backgammon. (In the late 70's, backgammon was the hip thing.) One night somebody suggested we play strip backgammon. Okay! So I saw my friend Barb naked for the first time, and had sex with my girlfriend in the same room. Talk about a rush. A couple weeks later, we do it again. As Laura and I start going at it, I feel a hand on my back, it's Barb. She joins the two of us, a little later I see Laura's over with the other husband. I wrote this up as a story, should I post it in the story section? Just 'like' this post or 'hot' it, and I'll take that as a yes.
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4 pointsJust to add to this, our club has a policy that a single man must be sponsored by a member couple and the first night they attend they must be with that couple. On any given night they limit the number of single males to 10% - 1 guy for every 10 couples. Add to this the fact that a single guy pays more than a couple, ($70 / $80) and you do get a better grouping of them. As a result, the single men act better, you have very little of the leering that I've seen at other clubs, and they know their way around. If you're thinking about it, Fire&Ice, call the club and ask about the single male policies.
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3 pointsJust to say it... I know that conventional wisdom in swingers clubs is that single males are a problem. They are generally considered creepy, leery, rude, pushy, etc. I am therefore sure that we have been unreasonable lucky with the clubs we've gone to, because I can pretty much count on one hand the number of problems we had with single males in our time. Our experience has almost always been that guys are polite, respectful and accommodating. Even our negative experiences were resolved by telling the guy to stop or back off, and that was the end of the matter. In contrast, my experience of clubs that only allow couples has been generally less positive (in my experience, they have been snobby and cliquish). Everything says my experience is atypical, but I wanted to put it out there. Just because a club allows single guys doesn't necessarily mean the atmosphere is that of a pack of starving wolves hungrily circling raw meat. Doesn't mean it isn't it either. It's important to get to know the community. You never know what you'll find until you look.
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3 pointsWe're not sure why, but we had never really thought of becoming members at a club, but we are starting to see the potential benefits both in terms of safety and knowing who might actually be available to play. It is something for us to reconsider, especially once the pandemic restrictions are lifted and it is safe form a health perspective. An added feature is that we have had a couple of experiences of finding people online who aren't in real life what they claim to be in their profiles. We see the positives of being able to meet somebody, know what they are all about and determine how or if we want to move forward from there.
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3 pointsI am against coaxing or pushing a spouse to do anything they wouldn’t want to do. Now that I got that out our first swap came after a visit to a nude beach while on a cruise and it was with a couple we went with to that beach. The visit to that beach was the catalyst to the conversation we had later back onboard our cruise. Being completely nude on the beach and some wine and laughs back on the ship could be considered the drug that led to swinging. Thank you for asking the question as I get to relive that night every time I write about the experience. Every woman remembers the firsts, first sex, good or bad, the first time with her husband when dating, our wedding night, and for me the first time being alone in a bed with a man after years of monogamy.
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2 pointsI appreciate your wife was turned on and you two practiced some discretion. Also, I understand the desire to have a little sexy fun and be cool about it. And I'm never going to say I haven't felt my dick twitch when I've been applying sunscreen on Ann's body, or her mine. Trust me. I'm as perpetually horny and full of testosterone as the next man. Lol... So, this is not directed at you per se. It's more just a statement about nude beaches and acceptable, and unacceptable, behavior: The people who attempt to use nude public beaches as their sex playgrounds are the very people who ruin it for everyone else. These kinds of activities, although comparatively rare and practiced by a distinct minority, create the image problems we in the nudist community have to overcome when working to either maintain a public beach's nude status, or establish a new nude beach. It took YEARS of effort, not to mention significant financial costs, to establish the nude beach we frequent most. We had to work closely with local political leaders, and law enforcement, to persuade them that people who enjoy nudism are not sexual deviants, and that nude beaches do not act as magnets that attract sexual deviants or predators. Our nude/clothing-optional beach ambassadors are well-trained volunteers who spend considerable time with local police departments and receive training on how to spot and respond to violators. Most mistakes are very minor and quite innocent and are the result of a simple failure to understand and follow proper etiquette (for example, disrobing in the parking lot rather than in the designated clothing-optional area.) However, unfortunately, we do have some idiots to contend with from time to time. It normally doesn't end well for them. We, both as an organization and as volunteers, actively support the arrest and prosecution of all serious offenders. In the State of Florida, *public* sex (i.e., intercourse, oral sex, masturbation, etc.) is considered "lewd and lascivious behavior" and will get you slapped with a potential first-degree misdemeanor that will include a serious fine and up to a year imprisonment. Do it in the presence of a person under the age of 16 (they just simply have to be anywhere on the beach, not necessarily in sight), and you graduate to a possible first-degree felony with a luxury car-sized fine and imprisonment up to 30 years, as well as registration as a sex offender. How's that for a bucket of ice water. Moral of the story? Public nude beaches are not for sex or sexual exhibitionism. Behavior that is not tolerated on a clothing-required beach, is not tolerated on a clothing-optional/nude beach. Let's all use good judgement and common sense.
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2 pointsIt was about 9am in the morning when we struck up a conversation with a single guy on a nude beach in Florida. 12 hours later I watched him fuck my then-girlfriend (now my wife) in our hotel room. That was our first experience. It was fantastic and I would live it again in a heartbeat.
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2 pointsGo to a club that limits the number of single guys as part of their membership group. Those guys will be on their best behavior because they don't want to risk losing their membership which was difficult to come by in the first place. You can attend the club on a GB theme night or simply collect 3-5 singles on any relatively busy evening. Lay out your rules and head off to a room and enjoy your "party". By being at a club you'll sidestep many of the hassles and pitfalls you'll encounter trying to do it on your own. You can even advertise the GB in advance to prospects letting them know she'll be choosing from who is at the club on this night...
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1 pointHate to brag, but high school sweethearts here AND we're old now, so.. 42 years. We've shared everything, grown up together, made many mistakes together, had lots of successes and lots of adventures along the way and could not be happier. Well, maybe a little happier. We miss travel and warm beaches with clear blue water and young sexy people in skimpy attire. Don't judge it's all in good fun.
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1 pointMy wife was attending to her needs with a pocket rocket at a swing club. I was nearby. A single male took out his massive tool and was stroking it near her. He asked me if it was ok if he watched. I said yes, as long as you don’t shoot that thing on her face. He said “That would be impolite!” At the time, we were totally inexperienced. At a later time, my wife would have done him.
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1 pointBe interested in finding out how many of these folks are still together. BTW we are approaching our 38th anniversary. Still enjoy each other's company, having a drink together and of course fucking other people ?.
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1 point1st NOPE. Couple was a little strange, we were nervous. They said they were experienced. After we got to their place she bowed out, 'that time of the month'. We got more comfortable and he was wearing torn, faded tighty whities. We had gotten ourselves clean, pressed clothing etc. Putting our best foot forward. They didn't put any effort into their appearance. Their home was messy, like no where to sit or even really play. They seemed nice enough, the conversation before was electric. Sitting in a public space drinking coffee and openly discussing having sex with strangers. Really kinda hot. Never knew what their gig was, didn't care. We just chalked it up as a learning lesson. We're all human, different. Certainly didn't hold it over the swinging community and it did open our eyes to the possibilities and excitement of openly engaging with others around sex. 2nd not much better. Single guy. Very classy. Opposite of first. But he got totally drunk. Still a sexy evening with fond memories. I think I've told that story here somewhere.
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1 pointThis was us, and totally agree much nicer in a home. I believe it was our third experience (?) that was in a home, and I suspect if we wouldn't have had that more relaxed and fun experience then, I kinda think we might of just burned out and quit. Clubs are fun, but we've found the sex is way better in a house when you can take your time and be more focused without all the distractions.
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1 pointBumping up to give our newer members a chance to vote. Looking back, I see that we voted in this already, but have now moved into a different category, 30+
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1 pointTo my fellow Jerseyites who go to Gunnison’s in Sandy Hook, I know I’m a Bennie, a label put on us North Jersey peeps, the beach is not a place to have sex. We were warned very strongly not to do anything sexual the first time we went and things have only gotten stricter the last few years like no alcohol and I think no tents. We have taken our out of town friends there a bunch of times and I plead with them not to break the rules. I know people who claimed to have sex in the ocean, they said it was discreet. Not worth the risk. Is it an entry drug? I can see where it might be a way to get comfortable being nude in front of other people. If you think your body isn’t perfect, here I raise my hand ??, you now see in a perfect natural area, very few bodies are perfect. Most people will pay no attention to you and yet there are people who are looking, I did when I went. I looked at most likely gawked at T&A and P comparing myself to all those I thought were attractive. And how can I not notice the guys swinging as they walk. If you aren’t comfortable being looked at, you might need to wait for swinging. All the friends we have gone to the beach with we had played with so for us it wasn’t an entry drug.
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1 pointA lot of swingers are flakes. Only time my wife and I were ever stood up in our long lives were with a swinger couple who no showed for a dinner that was a 45 minute drive away from our home. I texted them the next day just to make sure that they did not die in a fatal accident. The husband claimed he cancelled by email. I told him he didn’t have my email. He then claimed he cancelled by text. He didn’t. We later found out they stood up other friends of ours. Have not seen their profile on SLS in a long time. Maybe swinging wasn’t for them. So yes, potential gangbangers will no show in a heartbeat.
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1 pointYeah, seems pretty strange to me but it's a fairly common bit of shared wisdom when it comes to recruiting guys for gang bangs online. Most just don't show up. Personally, I've never had any luck with find play partners online anyway. I've always preferred clubs.
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1 pointIn the oral sex case, it was downgraded to an unspecified municipal ordinance violation and a minor fine. It does not show up as a disorderly persons offense or a crime, so it does not appear on the blower’s permanent record. I got my ticket reduced from 4 points to 2 points. I was interested to note that state icon Bruce Springsteen was arrested for drunk driving at Sandy Hook. But he only blew a BAC of .02. Way under the limit. He pled to a minor charge like public drinking. I understand he did a shot with fans. If he was not drunk, tell him not to do it again, get his autograph and send or escort him home. Warning: the federal police at Sandy Hook/Gunnison loves to write tickets.
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1 pointI am a retired lawyer. Many years ago, I received a speeding ticket at Sandy Hook/Gunnison nude beach. I decided to represent myself (usually foolish) to try to knock down the ticket. While I was waiting for court, I was hanging out in the judge’s chambers. The prosecutor was discussing plea bargains. One case involved a woman charged with disorderly conduct . She was caught giving her husband oral sex in the car in the parking lot. Her lawyer said to the prosecutor “Come on, this couple has been married for 25 years. She deserves a commendation!”
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1 pointI had my back against a post at the foot of our canopied bed, I was sipping a glass of wine. Against the headboard my wife Mary reclined. And next to her was her lover, James. Except for here and there on the floor not a smidgeon of clothing was in evidence. James was visiting us for perhaps the third time, Mary had taken a shine to him, his jovial manners, his inventive expertise in the bedroom. She had a touch of New Relationship Energy and when she asked if he could visit on a Saturday night, I quickly gave my consent. At this time, Mary and I had been swingers for a few years. On this night, both James and I had been intimate with Mary, for well over an hour she'd licked, sucked and screwed at both of us, an uncounted number of orgasms had swept across her ravished body. We were relaxing, chatting as friends. And since he was becoming a friend James wanted to know more about us, particularly Mary's desires and kinks. "What about anal?" James asked. "We haven't done that with other people," Mary replied, "but there's always a first time. Is that something you'd like?" "Sure. What about double penetration?" "I don't think I'd like to try that, too complicated to be fun." Mary admitted she liked her toes sucked, her very favorite position was kneeling at the side of the bed while her lover stood behind her. But James already knew that. "So, how often do you get together with other people?" James asked. Mary looked at me, I glanced back, then decided to answer. "It depends on how busy we are, how many offers we get. We've gone a few months or so without anything happening, on the other hand there's been weeks when we've had three or four dates. We like foursomes, meeting at our house or their's. Mary enjoys threesomes, as you well know. And we'll head up to DJs Island every so often, and if we get invited to a house party we always go if we can." "That's cool," James admitted - he of course knew Mary was far from being a tenderfoot. He looked to her and asked, "Do you like gang bangs?" "What do you mean?" "You know, a bunch of guys doing you at once, you being the center of attention?" "I've never tried it," she said, "I'm not sure if that's something I'd like." I spoke up. "What about those three guys in Green Tree?" She gave me a blank look. "You know, the time before we were married when you went over to your boyfriend's house and wound up with him and both his roommates?" "Oh, that. Yeah. But it was different, I went into their bedrooms one at a time, the guys didn't watch me." I let it slide, I think James asked her next about role play and a few minutes later James began sucking at her nipple, that inevitably led to Mary's arse on a pillow while James made her scream anew. As time went by and Mary and I had other lovers, other configurations, we'd chat of desires and fantasies, made some of them happen. I'd occasionally mention gang bangs. "Is that something you'd like to see?" she asked. "Not really, but if it appeals to you, I could help. I'm not sure I'd get that much out of it." "I've thought about it," she admitted. "I've got to say there's something about the idea. To have this bunch of guys all wanting me, and then to let whoever have their way with me . . . that's exciting. But it's scary, too." "What do you mean?" "If it's just me in a room with five or six men, what if one of them gets abusive, or doesn't want to stop when I want to? Even if you were there, I could see how it could get ugly." She was pensive. "Or maybe some of them thought they didn't have to use condoms. I think I'd have to be very relaxed and feel very safe to let something like that happen." I scratched it from our to-do list. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Some months or years later we were invited to a house party on the other side of Monroeville. Bob was the host, someone we'd played with a couple of times, a single man who was successful both at business and in the LifeStyle. He shared with us the people on the invitation list, half of the couples had been our playmates at one time or another, he'd invited a few single men we'd heard good things about. Of course we accepted. We showed up at the party just before nine, cars were parked halfway up the street. When we entered the kitchen to hand Bob our gifts of wine and gourmet cookies, I was greeted by a tall, dark haired woman who I hadn't bumped into before. She was dressed in a floor length nightgown of dusky blue, most of the fabric was lace. "You're Adam, I've heard about you. I'm Ruth." She flowed to my arms, raised her lips for the first kiss of the evening, I gave her mouth all the attention I could, not difficult as Ruth was a wonderful kisser. When we broke she complimented, "Well, yeah, that was pretty good. I'd like to get to know you better." I didn't have to wonder what she meant, I was tempted to take her up on the offer immediately, but the party was still in the mingling stage. I said, "Let's look each other up later." Ruth made her way around the room, greeting other men in like manner. By this time Mary had disappeared, I knew what she was up to. I greeted the other men I knew, was introduced to new friends. We were all wearing variations on the same theme, trousers and golf shirts, casual yet stylish. Most of the women wore something sexy, no complete nudity - that would come later. Mary rejoined us, she'd changed into a balcony bra and tanga, white with hot pink hearts and feathery trim, covered by a filmy scarlet kimono. We hadn't been to Bob's house before, so we gave ourselves the tour. On the top level there were three bedrooms, two of them had king sized beds and all had comfortable mats on the floor. The main level had the kitchen and breakfast room, where everyone tended to congregate, a dining room full of hors d'oeuvres, desserts and liquid refreshments, and a large den. In addition to the comfortable couches there were four blowup mattresses on the floor. This would be the 'common room', Mary and I realized. At the outset of the evening, there was flirting and conversation. And then, as if by a prearranged signal, groups started pairing off, migrating to various hidden spots. Mary and I were approached by Don and Linda, a couple we knew well, and after just a few seconds the four of us were heading for a bedroom. Linda, as I remember, was wearing a teddy, within a few moments she had my belt unbuckled and my cock out, sucking on it as I ripped my clothes off. I then placed her on her back, got a finger under her panties, she gasped as I probed into her. Next to us, Don had Mary naked already, his head was flanked by her thighs, she moaned as Don's tongue prodded her clit. The four of us progressed through the various phases of foreplay. Mary was the first, as usual, to give her shout of passion, Don's tongue was undeniably working its magic on her. Linda tore her gown off, I had the pleasure of toying with her pillowy tits as she sucked on my tool. Then she shifted, now my mouth was at her opening, licking at the ruddiness. It had been months since we'd cavorted with them, I'd forgot how she would stop breathing as she came, long moments when I actually became afraid she'd lose consciousness, but at last she exhaled loudly, panted trying to fill her lungs, pushed me away. "Oh, god, honey, Adam is just so good down there." The foursome laughed, I attempted to reposition my tongue on Linda's clit, she pushed me away, "If you do anymore of that, I won't be able to walk the rest of the night!" She pushed me back, I remember her kissing me and groping my prick, my hand slid over her rump and I inserted a finger inside her, a little gasp indicated she was still heated. I got couple of condoms, handed one to Don, sheathed myself. A few seconds later Linda levitated above me and I glided inside her. She was in charge, of course I played with her nipples, tugged on a lock of her hair. But I was accustomed to group sex, if I paid too much attention to the slick skimming of my cock inside her welcoming pussy I'd come, too fast, too early. So I diverted my attention to the revelry on the other side of the bed. Don was supporting his shoulder against the headboard, his legs were stretched down the bed. Mary was pointing away from him, her thighs abutting his hips, her hands on one side of his calves. I heard the slapping sound of her ass against his belly, Don was pulling her waist toward and away from him. She looked to me, her eyes were distant in their revery, but she managed to give me a smile, touch me briefly for support. Linda was holding her breath again, I twinked a nipple to inspire her, was treated to a muffled scream as she erupted. At nearly the same time, Mary started the coos she'd always had as the signal of her orgasm, I heard bawdy grunts flowing from Don's throat, I figured sperm was coursing from the dick embedded in my wife. I twisted Linda, now she was on her knees, I crept behind her, we were linked again. My thrusts were deep, with each push Linda yipped, we were having a great time. Still, I had little desire to orgasm, it was too early. We screwed as Don and Mary snuggled next to each other, apparently finished with their erotic play. In those circumstances, when one couple is done, it can become a little uncomfortable for the other couple to continue. I used a finger to tweak Linda's clit, she screamed loudly then collapsed on the mattress, causing me to slip out of her. The married couples reconnected, Linda crawling to Don, Mary approaching me for a hug and cuddle. As I often did in these circumstances, I caressed her breast, it was still warm from her exertions, she allowed me to explore the terrain between her thighs, damp and hot, the labia spread, the clit prolonged and dense. Yes, I could tell Don had given her a good ride. While I was exploring her used body, her hand encircled my prick, found it still to be rocklike. Don and Linda climbed from the bed - we'd been in the room not even half an hour - and began to dress, Mary and I followed suit. Linda flowed to me again, telling me how I was a favorite of hers, I hefted a teat, Mary was similarly treated by Don. The four of us headed back to the party. I made Mary a vodka/tonic, in a quiet corner we reconnected. "You had fun," I suggested. "Don always gets me going," she admitted. "But you didn't come, did you?" "There's nothing wrong, I just wasn't in the mood yet. And it all ended so quickly." "You want me to take take care of you?" Mary offered. "Really, I'm fine. Plenty of evening left. And there's one girl, Ruth, who seems to have designs on me." Mary was willing to be my wingman, see if Ruth had an appealing husband, but I was in no hurry, I was enjoying the erotic vibe Bob had created. We stood by the door to the den, there were two women, one of which I knew, what was her name? Ellen? She was being enthusiastically screwed by a man, all the while sucking on her husbands prick. The other girl, a short blond, was being eaten by a woman, her hand surrounded a thick dick. A nice orgy scene, I figured the mats would fill out later with more people. Ellen caught my eye, smiled, perhaps it was an invitation, I merely smiled back. We drifted into the kitchen, seven or a dozen people were there, we fell into conversation. I noticed Ruth wasn't in the area. It was fluid, people joining and leaving, I finished my drink, strolled to the bar. Mary dropped into an intense conversation with a younger man, no ring on his finger, and he had his arm around my wife's waist. I was talking to one of my friends, he knew I was a golf rules official, he asked me about a situation where his ball had landed in a stream, floated towards the green. While I explained the intricacies of Decision 26-1/7, I watched my spouse move to a couch along with her guy, their lips met, his hand was just above her navel; I assumed in a moment it would be approaching her melons. Since Mary showed no signs of distress - indeed she was encouraging his approaches - I continued to talk with my friend about the Rules. Sure enough, the man had his hand on her tit in little time, I saw him whisper in her ear, I was sure I knew what the theme was. A moment later she bounced to me, dragged me to the side. "Got another one on the line, 'eh?" I teased. "Frank's awfully sweet. Would you mind?" This wasn't the first time at a party Mary and I had separated, although we tended to let each other know our intentions and location. "No, go have fun!" I encouraged. As I was questioned about the casual water rule, I watched my wife's ass sway away from me, grab the hand of her next lover. Then I was surprised - instead of heading down the hallway to the bedrooms, he led her into the den! Left to her own devices, Mary usually chose a quiet area in which to make love, her usual preference was to be more one-on-one than anonymous groups. But it appeared tonight she was willing to philander in a crowded room with multiple bodies nearby. I waited a few moments, calmly talking with my friends, then wandered to the den. On the opposite side from the door, Mary sprawled on a mattress, her back to a couch. Her lingerie had been tossed nearby, Frank laid on his stomach, his mouth pressed to my wife's pussy. Her eyes were glazed, her mouth open, panting, a position I'd seen her in many times before with scores of gentlemen. For perhaps five minutes she let Frank perform oral sex on her. Another man approached her, I assumed he asked if he could join the fun, Mary waved him away, she was into Frank just then. When she'd had enough of his tongue I heard her ask him to put a condom on. Mary climbed onto the couch, her feet on the cushion, her elbows and breasts resting on the back of the furniture, her rump displayed for Frank's assault. He was up to it, I watched him crouch behind her, he used his left hand to point his sword at the goal, he was in! I moved around the room, hoping to get a better view, and on the way surveyed the scene. The room was more populated then, four women graced the mattresses, including Mary, and at least seven men were engaging with them, with others standing nearby, watching the live porn and perhaps longing for an invitation. When I got into position, I was delighted with a side view of the action. Mary was pushing herself back into Frank at every thrust, his hands were on her hips, pulling her into him, his eyes closed, sweat on his forehead, Mary was softly keening. Suddenly, much too early, Frank grunted and finished, fell backward onto the mattress completely used. Mary's look of exasperation was obvious, at least to me. For the second time of the night the man making love to her hadn't lasted long enough, she was left wanting more. She twisted, her eyes swept the room, I wasn't sure if she even knew I was present, her gaze landed on John, the husband of a couple we'd played with more than once, a flick of her finger tempted him. I was surprised. In the orgies we'd participated in up to this point, Mary had been demure about being the aggressor. When we were in a room with six or seven bodies involved, when she and a man were finished, she'd usually lie about, waiting for another gentleman to approach her patiently. This innocent signal, probably unnoticed by anyone else, alerted me that this night might be a little different. When John joined her, she began by helping him unclothe, as soon as it was revealed she had his phallus in her mouth. After just a few bobs to ensure the tool was ready, she laid on her back, John quickly covered her, their dance commenced. Frank hadn't left yet, though, I watched him run his hand over the side of her body, when John shifted Frank felt her nipple, with a palm she held his prick and soon he'd kneeled beside her, she was sucking on Frank as John was screwing her. I could tell John was doing it for her, her body was rosy, her eyes were closed, she was breathing her orgasm through her mouth. And John appeared, even though he was energetic, to be far from coming. Perhaps it was his second go of the evening? I sensed the softness of a female torso next to me, I swung my head and my eyes were filled with the beautiful body and face of Ruth, she was still wearing her dark negligee. Feeling invited, I slipped my hand around her waist. "Quite a scene," Ruth snickered. "Just a normal house party," I agreed. "Anybody you know?" I pointed, "My wife, Mary." "Oh, she seems to be having a ball." We watched for a moment, a man who had been toying with another woman approached Mary, she released Frank, took the new man's cock in her mouth, John shifted into a sideways attitude to make a little more room, but he continued to propel his dick inside her pussy enjoyably. My impression was that Mary was enjoying the erotic spotlight she was the center of. She caught my eye, I raised my thumb in a silent question, 'are you all right?' Her returning smile let me know I didn't need to concern myself for her safety. I turned my attentions to Ruth. "Would you like a drink?" We strolled into the dining room, I poured her a glass of white wine. After a sip, she set her goblet on the table, drew me close, we kissed again, the kind that promises everything. "I looked for you earlier," I confessed, "you weren't around." "There's a single girl, Becky, my husband and I have been emailing back and forth with her, she agreed to meet us here." "Was she fun?" "More for Bram than me, I'm afraid. She's the type of bi woman who doesn't mind if you go down on her, but she barely touched me. I think Bram is planning on going for round two with her, I haven't really had my first round yet." "Oh, that's too bad. Perhaps I can help?" "You know you can, I came looking for you. Linda told me how good you are with your tongue, I want to find out for myself." Our intentions clear, we sauntered down a hallway, found at the end a small bedroom not in use, she closed the door behind us. I was enthralled with this luscious woman, we took our time, slowly stripping each other, engaging in the various patterns of foreplay. Remembering her complaint of annoyance during her first romp of the evening, I ran through my repertoire. It seemed to engage her, I brought her to first one orgasm, then another before she aided me in slipping into a condom, then slipping into her. We roiled in three or four positions until I allowed myself to explode, Ruth joined me in boisterous glee as I climaxed. Then, suddenly, I was done, she was holding me, our breaths shaking the bed until our heart rates dropped. I rolled off her, we faced each other, kissing, stroking each other's bodies, telling ourselves how much fun we'd had. "I'm sure Bram's waiting for me," she suggested, the tone of her voice saying she'd rather stay with me, at least for a few moments. A wave of admonition flowed through my brain, for the thirty or forty minutes Ruth and I had frisked thoughts of Mary had fallen between the cracks. I wondered if she was concerned about me, surely she was done in the common room. Ruth rose, found her negligee and panties, I pulled my briefs on, suspecting by now the party had plunged into a scene of pure debauchery. We kissed again, I helped myself to a handful of those beautiful globes. "I'd love to see you again," Ruth complimented. "You were everything I heard about. Maybe the four of us could go on a date?" "Fine by me." I made sure she had our SwingLifeStyle profile name, she said she'd send us an invitation. Of course, I knew if Mary didn't care for Bram a foursome wouldn't happen. Even in that case, though, I felt sure Ruth and I might get together at other parties. In the kitchen, there were at least a score of people chatting, eating. Most of the men were clothed in only underwear, a few of both sex were completely bare. I looked for Mary, couldn't find her in the kitchen, after I got a drink I poked my head into the den. I was more than a little surprised to find Mary still in there. With the lateness of the hour it had calmed, in addition to my wife there was only one other woman, she was quietly in missionary with her partner of the moment. But Mary was anything but calm. She was facing me, mounted on a bearded man I'd not met before in cowgirl. To either side of her was a gentleman, one a stranger, the other our single friend Tim, her hand was on one of the dicks, her mouth encircled the other. I gazed at my wife, she was radiant in her pleasure, but she was at the same time disheveled; her hair flew every which way, her mascara ran badly, there was dried cum on her chest. I was a bit taken aback, worried she was having too much fun, but then I spied a phial of lube near her, a box of condoms, she was taking care of herself. I got a bottle of water, she smiled as she saw me approach her with hydration and took a long swallow, but didn't stop bouncing on the man below her. "Having fun?" I asked. "A ball," she admitted, and then giving little thought to me she went back to work on the man below her, placing her hands on his chest, doing her best to bring him to an ebullient come. I stepped back, she turned to the gent beside her, began the blow job with him again. I saw Ruth enter, she came to me. "Well, I guess that answers the question about will Bram like Mary." "Oh?" I said with a little confusion. "That's him below her!" she laughed. Realizing I wanted to keep an eye on my wife, but wanting to have a little more fun herself, Ruth dropped to a nearby mattress, dragged me with her. Without hesitation the few clothes we had on disappeared, she had my dick in her mouth again. I watched Bram and my wife, she seemed almost in a constant state of frenzy. Bram was silent, but his face scrunched, I was certain yet another man was satisfying himself inside my wife. Quickly, Mary turned to the stranger she was handling, handed him a condom. She flopped onto her knees, again she was penetrated. Bram, having had his fun and released, joined us, Ruth introduced us. "Honey, this is Adam. That's his wife, Mary." "Nice to meet you." We shook hands. "Your wife is having a really great time tonight. Is she always like this?" "The life of the party?" I laughed. "No, not usually, this is something different for her." Ruth lounged between the two of us, we took turns feeling her breasts, the rest of her body and toying with her clit. She had another orgasm, just as I heard the stranger grunt behind my wife. Tim was still near her, he attempted to mount my wife, but she pushed him away. "Sorry, I'm pretty well done for the night." Gracefully he backed away, I saw disappointment on his face. Mary joined us, I introduced her, she recognized that just a few moments before she'd been intimate with Ruth's husband. I put my arm around her, we talked for a few moments, Mary agreed the four of us should get together some time. Then she said, "I've got to go to the bathroom," and she ran away. I took my leave of the couple, went to the threshold of the powder room, waited for Mary to emerge. When she came out, I asked, "What do you need?" "Oh, let's go have another drink." We stood in the kitchen, naked as prairie dogs, chatting. A couple of guys put their arms around her waist, I wondered if they'd been inside my wife earlier. A half hour later, long after the witching hour, I saw Mary yawn, the sign she was winding down. "Sure you don't want to go back in the den?" I asked with a laugh in my tone. "I think there's still a couple guys who'd like to take a shot at you." "Oh, I couldn't. It's tempting, but I'm worn out down there!" We found our clothes, said goodbye and thanks to Bob, headed out the door to our car. On the drive home, as we always did, we reviewed the night. "Ruth seemed nice," Mary said. "Did you . . ." "Yes, we went into a bedroom while you were in the den. She's something special. How was Bram?" "Bram?" "Her husband. Beard. One of the last guys." "Oh, yes, now I remember. There's something about the way he did it, it really filled me up." "And the other guys? What got into you tonight?" "You're not pissed, are you?" she asked cautiously. "Of course not. We've always said when we go to these parties we don't have to be together every moment, and anything that happens is okay. It's just that I've never seen you like that before." "I don't know what got into me. When Frank asked me, I figured we'd go into a bedroom. This was his first time at a LifeStyle party, a rookie. But he said one of his fantasies was to do it out in public, where people could watch, and I said okay. And then, John was just so pretty, I invited him to play. And it just took off from there." "So, how many guys tonight? I'm sure it's a new record." "I'm not sure. Six?" "I know of at least five. First Don, then Frank and John. That's when I went I took Ruth into the bedroom. We stayed in there at least forty-five minutes, when I came out you were with Bram and finally the last guy, I don't know his name. Were there others?" "I remember Bob and I had some fun." "And you gave Tim a blow job." "Oh, I remember giving lots of guys a little bit of head, and I got felt up a lot." "But you had fun," I asked. "A ball. I don't know if I'd want to do it again, but once was wonderful." When we got home, it was nearly two o'clock, I put Mary in the shower, washed the residue of her love making off. I kissed her before we drifted off, happy in our evening. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ This is an absolutely true story - - - Adam Gunn
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1 pointThat's an interesting point we hadn't really thought of... the dates not showing up. Just thinking out loud, We are not sure we would want that in the case the wife might be disappointed at the turnout and think it was something about her. Only the flip side 10 is too many for our comfort right now. Hell 5 might be too many for now. Looking to start slow. Thank you for your reply, this has given us a lot to consider.
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1 pointI agree with the openness of knowing what to expect as it takes away any unwanted play. We like to meet couples where the female is curious, it was the reason we started playing. I like that she assured you that stop is stop and no pressure to do anything you aren’t comfortable with. Now that I’m the experienced one, I will start the play with kissing, not every woman wants kisses, I don’t understand but respect wishes. From there I need to read signals, touching and being touched. Most women we have been with who are still exploring this new sex play never take the lead in touching. Most will follow the lead I show and then the ultimate move. I find the hardest part for a new curious woman is oral yet the all want the oral they may balk on giving. Some just can’t do it, some go very slowly and very few go right to it. Most acts just go forward naturally as you become more comfortable doing it. It will get easier without thinking too much, there isn’t a manual or step by step directions, it should flow with excitement.
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1 pointAs we go into meeting others he said he would make calls til then he likes me do the talking. We make the decisions together to meet a couple and we usually agree if it’s a no go. With this couple we had a very easy time starting this time. In my call with the wife she explicitly asked about me being open to playing for our husbands. She said she wasn’t sure how I felt about girl play I think she saw my shyness. She talked about toys they have been playing with. She assured me she cleans and sanitized her toys. She also told me if she starts and I didn’t feel good with it she would just go back to swapping only. When we met this time she had a bunch of toys out and said she had favorites. We started with her choice which broke the ice
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1 pointTell him guys do make calls and set things up. What would he say if you set a date up and he didn’t want to go? It’s great you met a couple that you enjoy and they enjoy being with you. With the pandemic and most couples not looking to risk people they don’t know you lucked out. Did you finally find out how to start playing? It does get easier as you get comfortable with your own body.
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1 pointSecond meetings are a little easier if the other couple knows what they want to do. My husband and I are still hesitant to be aggressive and we both would rather have the other couple take the lead. I spoke to the wife of our first couple a few times when I wanted to see if they enjoyed our time together. Part of the calls was sexy and some was just general talk. I thought the calls went well yet I hadn’t heard from her again. I hesitated calling her again until she called first. My husband wouldn’t call the husband saying guys don’t make those types of calls. She did call me last week and apologized for not calling, snowed plenty and just got caught up doing nothing. She said they haven’t answered any ads on the site since we met and that they agreed that they didn’t need to if we were interested in meeting again. We talked about the hassles of finding new people who think alike.
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1 pointWe don’t chat through Facetime or Zoom, so pre-pandemic, we met people for the first time in person. More than once, people posted 10 year old pictures. We thought we were dining with our grandparents. So we are not ready to go before we meet, see and get to know people a bit. Also, sometimes one of us notices things about the other couple that the other did not. Like some space to discuss.
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1 pointWe had an amazing first experience. In fact, I wrote a story about it that lives here at The Swingers Board Swinger Stories - A Great First Experience. We consider ourselves lucky, because our second experience was so-so. And if we'd had a *negative* experience the first time, it would have seriously dampened our enthusiasm for the whole hobby. We repeated with the same couple for a little over a year.
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1 pointDefinitely worth repeating but not at all as we assumed it would be. We decided to check out a club for our initial introduction into the lifestyle. We had all these rules, and ideas on how it would be but everything we thought went out the window when we were consumed and overwhelmed with the atmosphere. We were amazed when we seen so many attractive couples around our age with the frame of mind that most swingers were much older than us so we probably wouldn't be compatible with many people. Since then our perspective has changed about the older peeps and so has almost everything else haha. I could honestly write a book about our first experience but I will quickly summarize it into a quick sentence or two. We were at the famous New Orleans club Colette where for our first time we experienced a girl on girl, then a FMF with a different girl, then a four couple group play. I thought I would be semi weirded out by seeing my Heidi with another guy but I will never in my life forget how beautiful and amazing I thought she was after waking up beside her the next morning. We have been full throttle ever since.