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  1. 2 points
    Hi, great to see you make your first post! I would look at this as with any other rule or boundary. Let's use anal sex for example. Often you will read that even if couples are into anal themselves, that it is something they choose to reserve for just themselves and don't make it part of their swinging. Others may not like anal at all, with anyone, including each other. Others enjoy it and don't have a problem doing it with anyone. All are valid stances to have. So, in this case, you both like MFM threesomes and are having an awesome time with it, great! But, at least one of you knows for sure you aren't interested in FMF threesomes, so then that's something to just not do. Just like if you didn't like anal, then don't do it. Maybe you've tried it and he loved it and you hated it. His love of it is not going to somehow change your feelings about anal, nor should it. But, there are lots of other sexy things to do to each other that you BOTH like, so you just stay focused on those. A happy and fulfilling sex life doesn't have to mean you like every flavor in the jelly bean jar. Granted, swingers may like more flavors than most folks But for the vast majority, they have their likes and dislikes, and their boundaries are set accordingly. You guys sounds like you are having a great time with swinging, so he should count himself a very lucky man right where he is at. He's experiencing things that most guys only dream of (and yes, nearly all dream of it, there are just those that lie about it and those who don't ? ) Not that there is anything wrong with your feelings or staying right where things are, but just to throw something out there... Are your feelings primarily based on you don't want him to be with another woman, or on you are not interested in being involved in any way, shape, or form with another woman? If it's the latter, and the time does come where it is something he is asking about, which very well may be never, then there is always separate room swinging with another couple. Some people prefer it for various reasons, one of which being while they have interest in being with someone else, and don't care if their spouse is with someone else, they don't really want to be a part of it. Separate room is a solution to that. You're there together, so some comfort in that, but not right there next to each other during playtime. Just an idea... Hope that helped!
  2. 2 points
    Statistics never tell the full story. Behavior has a huge impact on probability. Lightening strikes are incredibly rare when measured across the entire population of 330 million people in the US. However, standing out in the open on a golf course during a thunderstorm exponentially increases the odds of being struck. Doing so repeatedly would be playing Russian roulette with your life. Likewise, intentionally sharing bodily fluids with multiple people who have multiple sex partners increases the risk of infection by a great margin. There is a reason the Red Cross still asks questions about sexual behavior before someone donates his/her blood. They aren't being nosey. They are being responsible.
  3. 2 points
    Thanks you all for the advice. We have shied away form clubs in the past because we thought couples would want to play together and right now we are just looking for the wife to play and didn't want to disappoint. We now think that maybe we need to do some more research into our local scene. We have been very disappointed with our online options which is why we came here. So far so good!
  4. 2 points
    Hate to brag, but high school sweethearts here AND we're old now, so.. 42 years. We've shared everything, grown up together, made many mistakes together, had lots of successes and lots of adventures along the way and could not be happier. Well, maybe a little happier. We miss travel and warm beaches with clear blue water and young sexy people in skimpy attire. Don't judge it's all in good fun.
  5. 2 points
    My wife was attending to her needs with a pocket rocket at a swing club. I was nearby. A single male took out his massive tool and was stroking it near her. He asked me if it was ok if he watched. I said yes, as long as you don’t shoot that thing on her face. He said “That would be impolite!” At the time, we were totally inexperienced. At a later time, my wife would have done him.
  6. 2 points
    We use condoms with all new contacts, buut will go bareback with people we know and trust. There is a totally different feel to going without them. Also, since I tend to play with my partner, I may go through several cycles of hard and soft. This just won't work with condoms. We have one Male who loves to eat out Mrs Vjk after I fill her pussy, a real creampie afficionado. We are quite willing to indulge his fetish. J
  7. 1 point
    It was the deep winter of 1979 - and winters in Cleveland can be abysmal. And yet, there was a ray of hope, even though the spring flowers were weeks away. Backgammon was the game of the time, and I was playing by the fireplace against Brenda. Laura, my girlfriend, was a few feet away, moving the stones on the board against Brenda's husband, Jeff. The stakes weren't just a dollar or two, they were much more significant - we were playing strip backgammon. It wasn't the first time we'd placed such a bet. Just a few weeks before Laura had lost her panties and she'd taken them off briskly, displaying her engaging body not only to me, but to Jeff as well. That was the first time he'd ever seen it, and I remember him licking his lips in the glory. At the same time to keep my attention, Brenda, perhaps eight years older than my thirty years, deftly removed her bra and then her briefs. Of course, Jeff and I were chivalrous and threw off the rest of our clothing. Brenda watched me closely, I didn't notice if Laura inspected Jeff's body for I was distracted. It was a revelation to me, I was a greenhorn in the area of group sexual sports. I'd met Laura the spring before, a few months after both of our divorces. Other than my wife, I'd had just a few encounters with women. I was the only man Laura had had, save only her husband, and I'd brought her to her first orgasm. We were close, just short of being in love, and although I played the field when I was out of her sight, she told me she was being 'faithful' to me by her own set of morals. And here, in the glow of the fireplace, was a naked woman I'd never thought was available to me. That first night of strip backgammon, back in the depths of January, the sexual awareness of the foursome was at its peak. Laura cuddled to me, Brenda stroked her husband, facing us. I watched her take her husband's penis into her mouth, a few moments later I laid Laura on her back, pressed my tongue to her clit, she came brusquely. By common assent, the two couples moved a few feet from each other to continue our foreplay. As Laura's tongue tickled my manhood Brenda was on her side, facing us, her husband was toying with her lady parts from behind. I watched her as Laura gave me a blow job, Brenda gazed into my eyes. A few moments later the two women pushed their lovers onto their backs, climbed over them and the four of us were making love, Laura with me, Brenda with her husband. After a few position changes, and quite a few climaxes from both of the girls, I let loose into Laura's depths, to be followed a few moments later by Jeff erupting into his woman. Then Laura and I were treated to one of the little-known pleasures of life, the post-coital mingling of spirits. Without clothing themselves, Brenda and Laura fetched coffee and dessert, the four of us sat on the floor, chatting not of sex but just friendly topics. Yet we gazed on the luscious bodies of our partners in crime, pondering ribald reflections. Lazily the evening came to closure, Laura and I dressed for our escape into the snowy night, Jeff shook my hand, Brenda kissed me intimately on the cheek and pressed her lingerie clad body into mine. I can't remember who's apartment we went to that night, Laura's or mine, but I have no doubt we hungrily made love again, thinking about the naked couple in our memories. The next day Laura and I shyly recalled the evening before, I found Laura was as surprised by the curiosity as I, yet wasn't shocked or dismayed by the episode. She asked me if Brenda's body was more attractive then hers - I denied it honestly - and she admitted she'd enjoyed the sight of Jeff's raging prick, only the third she'd ever seen in action. With that, the incident slipped into the past. Or so I thought. A few weeks later, Laura informed me Brenda and Jeff had invited us on a long weekend jaunt to Niagara Falls. I agreed readily, We made plans to meet the Thursday evening before, head to a restaurant, then spend the night at their house before making the drive Friday morning. We met them, I'm sure, at a café not far from their house for dinner. I thought nothing of it, we'd dined with them a few times before, our palate was enticed with aperitifs and wine. Afterwards we drove to their house, Jeff poured us liqueurs and the two backgammon boards were set up. The fireplace was lit, candles illuminated the scene. I'm sure it was Jeff who suggested, "Usual stakes?" and the bargain was agreed to. We would play rotating games, first I'd play Brenda, then Laura and Jeff, we'd then repeat. Conversation was light, buoyant, and the rolling of the dice, the clacking of the stones added a sensuous touch. Brenda was the inferior player of the group, her clothing dwindled before the rest of us. She was sitting to my right, playing her husband I believe, when her upper lingerie was forfeit. I remember she turned her back and pleaded for me to unclasp the stays. I looked to Laura for a clue, she smiled permission to me, for the first time I was touching Brenda's unclad skin. She turned to me, kissed me on the cheek, her unclothed breast touched my arm. We continued to play, somehow Brenda kept her panties on, eventually Jeff lost his underwear. When his erect prick was exposed, by consensus the game came to a halt. Each couple formed, Brenda with Jeff, Laura at my side, foreplay began. Once again I was treated to the sight of lovemaking beginning between the married couple while I was entwined with my girlfriend. Slow moments went by, the sounds of sex filled the room, groans and whines from both women, and by-and-by Laura pulled me on top of her. I'm ashamed to say I was so wound up that I had little control, within a few moments I felt my orgasm force it's way to the acme, I filled Laura's womb with my fluid. My girlfriend and I rolled into a more comfortable position, my back to the other couple, I coddled her. Moments later I was taken aback to feel a hand on my shoulder. Laura pushed me onto my back, she was in the crook of my right arm, Brenda was to my left. Brenda placed her face to mine, for the first time we kissed passionately. I sensed a hand on my groin, one of the women was filling her palm with my testicles, I wasn't sure which. I turned to Laura, kissed her, then back to Brenda. Suddenly, Brenda was lying on top of me, her breasts were wedged to my chest, one leg was on each side of me, had I been hard I might have easily penetrated her. Jeff was perhaps ten feet away, observing raptly. Laura was still beside me, I looked to her, she smiled her consent. I became involved with the wife of my friend, we rolled over, I kissed Brenda's nipples, touched between her legs. There seemed no limits to what Brenda was willing to let me do to her, no curb on her lustful desires for my body. I paid complete attention to her, for a few moments I felt the hands of my girlfriend on my shoulder, my butt. I remember as I had a finger deep inside Brenda, Laura kissed me fervidly. I went down on Brenda, tasting her juices, arousing her clit, she pressed her hand to my head, pulling my tongue deep into her. She moaned loudly, announcing her first orgasm with me to the witnesses. I concentrated on Brenda, drawing her pleasure out, extending it, and finally she pushed my forehead away. I looked to my right, was flabbergasted to see Laura's rump facing me, it was obvious Jeff's prick was surrounded by her lips. I was a bit shocked; it hadn't hit me that if I was making out with Brenda, Jeff had every right to be sensuous with Laura. I'm sure I pondered the situation for a moment or two - did I want my girlfriend to be intimate with another man? But just a moment. My hands were full of a willing damsel who was not my girlfriend, and I wished to do despicable things to her. At the same time, I realized Laura was not my wife, might never be, and she had every right to her own desires. I went back to playing with Brenda, completely unconcerned with what adventures were being enacted on the other side of the room. (Well, perhaps I was a bit interested, but only in a lurid way, I wanted Laura to have just as good a time as I was having.) Brenda and I continued our erotic behavior. My prick was swallowed by her, it easily returned to attention as I was still a young man. Eventually, it was agreed between us the time had come for coitus, I believe our first position was a variation of doggy. I felt good, I felt strong, my penis was hard and straight, I gave Brenda every thing she wanted. For a good half hour we rolled in various positions, Brenda roared in appreciation. At the same time I was treated to Laura's groans as Jeff hammered into her, I admit I slowed my own efforts from time to time to observe my girlfriend at work. Eventually, Brenda had her fill of me, and I was yet to culminate with her. She asked me what I wanted, I suggested missionary, she complied, a throw-pillow beneath her rump. She held me as I thrusted, cooed to me, encouraged me to plant my seed deep inside her, and yet my willie was reluctant to burst. Certainly my orgasm with Laura before was a factor, the various alcoholic drinks I'd imbibed through the evening dulled me, the unique situation I was in seemed a deterrent. I came close, oh so close, but I simply wouldn't get there. Brenda understood my situation, when I slowed she asked, "Are you okay?" I grumbled I was fine, we disconnected. Laura and Jeff had been finished for some time, while Brenda and I were continuing our exercises they cuddled, chatted and watched the floor show. The four of us arose, Laura came to me, kissed me, we assured ourselves silently that no harm had been done to our relationship. Without dressing, just gathering our clothes, Laura and I walked to the guest room, performed our pre-bed rituals in the bathroom, then fell into a deep sleep in each other's arms. It was after eight the next morning when I rose, Laura was still in a deep trance, and I smelled the coffee. I dressed in slacks and shirt and waddled into the kitchen to find Brenda, dressed in an opaque negligee, preparing the breakfast foods. She came to me, hugged me, I was skittish about it. "Are you okay?" she asked. I nodded. "It's usual, I think, to be a little shy the next morning. I just want you to know you were fantastic last night." Not too long after that, we were joined by Jeff, then Laura, and the muffins and eggs and coffee were dined on with cheer, but the lewdness of the night seemed to have dissipated with the morning sun. We piled into their large car, a 1970's era gas guzzler, with Jeff driving, Brenda in the front with him, and Laura and I sprawling in the comfortable back seat. On the ride, at least three hours, I'm sure we chatted, played games, listened to music and perhaps even sang. But no overt sexual topics were raised, nothing that seemed lustful. Crossing into Canada, we were questioned about our purpose, I thought there was, perhaps, just a hint of whimsy in Jeff's reply, "Pleasure." We checked into the Old Stone Inn in the mid-afternoon, a historical hotel just a few blocks from the escarpment, found that Jeff and Brenda had rented two rooms, one an apartment with a large jacuzzi tub, the other adjacent with a connecting door. I remember the first evening we went to a gourmet dinner in the hotel's dining room with many a beverage, then retired to our rooms - it was simply too cold, too snowy for strolling or heading for another venue. Someone suggested we take a bath in the jacuzzi, we all stripped and squeezed ourselves into the hot water. Nature took its course, as expected, Jeff and Brenda headed for the mattress, Laura and I made love in the tub. I'm sure everyone watched each other, the concept of multiple people making love in one room encouraged passion, but to my disappointment there was no suggestion of interchanging playmates. I wanted to, badly. Although I'd capered with Brenda's bewitching body the night before, there was some ridiculous notion within my brain that I hadn't really 'made love' to her because I hadn't orgasmed with her, inside of her. Oh, she'd invited me to, but I knew I hadn't. Perhaps I thought I was less of a man because of my 'failure.' In addition, Laura and I hadn't discussed the atrocity. In my naive state, I simply wasn't sure if Laura had enjoyed herself, had desired the other man; I wondered if she hadn't gone along with it just to be 'part of the crowd.' So, as the foursome was engaged in the passionate arts, I neglected to suggest another form of coupling, and no one else expressed the motivation. After awhile, when the troupe calmed after fulfillment, Laura and I retired to our own room, to the bed. We slept in the next morning, Laura and I rising sometime near eleven, and we checked on the couple next door; they were still sound asleep, we chose not to disturb them. After dressing, we headed for the dining room and a lingering brunch. It was well on the way to one o'clock when we returned to the suite, through the door we heard Brenda's groans, it was obvious what they were up to. Laura and I climbed into our heavy winter coats, the boots, hats and gloves and trekked to the cataract. The temperature was well below zero, celsius, the falls were half encased in ice, we stood for only a few seconds in the wind admiring the phenomena, we ran to a nearby shelter for coffee. We tried to travel the tourist zone, hopping from gift shop to cafe in an attempt to wave off the freeze. Sitting over hot toddies, I'm not sure who first raised the subject, we shyly compared notes of the shuffle with our friends. "Did you enjoy it?" I asked Laura. "Yes, it was . . . interesting. You know, Jeff's only the third man to have me." "I thought I heard you come." "I did, almost as hard as the ones you give me," she declared. I thought she held back a bit, considerate of my male pride. "Did you like it when you screwed Brenda?" "I cannot tell a lie . . . Of course I did. She's sexy. Not as sexy as you, not by a long shot, but yeah, I had a good time." "It didn't bother me that you were making love to her," Laura continued. "Did it bother you that I was with Jeff?" "No, not really. I didn't get jealous, much." We paused, thinking our own thoughts of the conflagration. "Can I ask a question? Did Jeff finish inside you?" A wistful gaze came to Laura's face. "It seemed pretty big to me when he did. Did you like coming inside Brenda?" Apparently Laura hadn't realized my dilemma, my failing. "Yes," I lied, not wanting to seem like less of a man. "If we got the chance, would you want to do it again?" "Only if it was okay with you," Laura conceded. It was clear she was leaving the matter up to me. And her question about me being jealous led me to think that, just perhaps, I was supposed to be a little more circumspect. Once outside, the cold snapped us again, we decided to give up our journey, returned to the Inn. Walking into Jeff and Brenda's room - the connecting door hadn't been closed since we arrived - we found the other couple napping. The clothes on the chairs alerted us they'd been out of the room, they'd had lunch. They were both naked, I had a good view of Brenda's alluring nipples, had they made love yet again? Laura and I crept back to the room, she kissed me, I started stripping her down to her sexy underwear. We stood next to each other, our breaths gushing, our juices flowing, and suddenly I knew what I wanted. "You want to go into the other room, be with them?" I posited. She looked to me for a moment, brazenly responded, "I'd like to, would you?" "Yes!" We raced into the other bedroom, Laura unhooked her bra as she ran, exposing her generous breasts. Brenda, I remember, was stirring, she looked at my state of dress, opened her arms to me. I laid beside her, within a moment I had my lips on her nipple, she had a hand on my prick. For her part, I noticed Laura's panties fly across the room, in a moment she bent and was giving Jeff a blow job. I couldn't wait, nor did Brenda want me to. Sensing my need, she placed her rump to the bed, extended her thighs, proffered her body to me. I climbed aboard, with a hand she guided my missile into her silo, I thrusted hard, she pressed back. I was so excited I lasted less than two minutes, I pumped into her, she realized what was happening, she joyfully surrounded my hips with her legs, let me have my trophy. For his part, Jeff was gleefully cavorting with my girlfriend, he had her in some sideways position, I heard Laura's song. Brenda and I didn't stop simply because I'd orgasmed, I was hot for her, and I was young and horny. I recollect placing her on her hands and knees, punctured her and thrusted hard towards her, she crooned in pleasure. The lovemaking continued. I found later Jeff hadn't been able to fill Laura's crevice, he'd had too much sex lately, but that didn't stop them from copulating. At some point, we returned to our original configuration. This was so exciting to me, screwing one girl after I'd just had another, that I managed to let go again with a bit of spunk. "Well," Brenda laughed, "I guess this means we won't be playing strip backgammon tonight." We all laughed riotously. For the moment, our sex was over, yet we were in a playful mood. I'm sure the jacuzzi was filled with squealing bodies again, I wouldn't doubt that backgammon or Trivial Pursuit was played. We dressed for our eight o'clock dinner reservations, once again ate in the Inn as no one particularly desired to head out into the bitter cold. When the meal was over, Jeff and Brenda disappeared into the gift shop, Laura cuddled to me. "Are you all right?" I asked. "Just fine. Sex is so much fun, isn't it?" "Just for it's own sake, yes. You're right." I was wondering if the swapping with Jeff and Brenda was over, or if something else was on the menu. Laura spoke up again. "Brenda wants to know if you might want to be alone with her for awhile." "Why?" "Well, she sees you've got this romantic streak, she wonders what it would be like if you were all by yourself with her." "And you'd be with Jeff?" "Brenda says he'd like to, yes." I didn't speak my agreement, didn't dismiss the idea. As we walked back to the rooms, I thought about it. Were we going too far, too fast? But what was the problem? Was I worried Laura wouldn't be my girlfriend anymore, that she'd want to become a slut? There was certainly a dash of tart in her, when she met me she'd been somewhat cautious in bed, along the way she'd wanted to try everything, from sex in places we might get caught to anal to, now, swapping. But what was the problem? It wasn't as if I had any plans to marry the woman. We were, I knew, just marking time. Back in the suite, Jeff poured some liquor, we sat and enjoyed the fire, decided to play backgammon. When I lost the first game, I took off my shoes and socks. Over the next forty-five minutes, the heat rose in the room as clothing was discarded, erotic skin was uncovered. When Laura lost her panties, she let Jeff take them off, he promptly placed her on her back, crawled between her legs, licked her clitoris. I stood, pulled Brenda to her feet. Her bosom was bare, her nipples taut to my fingers. "Why don't we go into the other bed, let them have a little space?" "Oh, I'd like that," she blessed. I took my time with Brenda this time, making sure she was pleasured by fingers and mouth and rubs of the skin. She complimented me on my love-making skills, wondered where I'd come by them. And when she was ready she climbed above me, I was able to watch her in her glory as she surrounded my willing prick with her warmth. I was in no hurry, nor was she, and we played together for a lengthy time before I felt inclined to release, I placed her on her back, she rose on her legs, provided me the perfect target, I poured into her. Brenda and I cuddled, the room was warm, our psyches satiated, I dropped off to sleep. In the early hours, when the light of the morning was peeking through the curtains, my bladder woke me, I noticed the woman in my bed was a naked Laura. I stroked her, she slit her eyes and smiled at me, we wrestled on the bed together. When the clock indicated it was after ten, we were awoken by a knock on the door, "Housekeeping!" We realized we needed to check out, so we showered and packed our things, met Jeff and Brenda in the breakfast room. There was no shyness this time, I kissed Brenda openly, Laura was greeted as warmly by Jeff. On the ride home, again Jeff drove, but Laura was his companion in the front seat, Brenda let me hold her in the back. We played our games again, sang the songs, and though there was emotional closeness, passion was dimmed for the moment, we'd all had more than enough. The next morning, I had to catch a plane - my job required a great amount of travel. I talked with Laura in the evening by telephone, the upcoming weekend was my time with my daughters, a divorced father never gives that up willingly. The next Monday I headed to my corporate headquarters for two weeks to teach rookies in our products. Yes, I met someone there, on four or five nights I stayed in her bedroom, there was no love involved, just a desire to couple. By the time I got around to Laura again, a full month had passed. We spent a pleasant weekend together, the sex was as good as it always was with her, and yet, somehow, the closeness we had was ebbing. I had no idea if she was seeing Jeff or someone else, she didn't ask me if I'd been less than faithful on my travels. It simply didn't matter. We went to a dinner for four couples at Jeff and Brenda's house, Brenda greeted me as a welcomed friend, but no other intimate actions or suggestions followed. Laura and I drifted in this fashion for some months, at some point Laura became jealous of another woman she knew I was seeing, she left my bed in the middle of the night to 'punish me.' By the fall, we'd run our course, we had one last evening to celebrate our friendship, over the next months we'd have an occasional lunch or perhaps cocktails, simply to keep in touch with each other, but both had moved on. I'll always be fond of Laura, remember her and her friends ardently, remember that long weekend, my first foursome swap, very fondly. It was to be over twenty years before I found myself in a similar situation. ~~~~~~~~~~ The above is an absolutely true story, as close as I can recall. Of course, the names have been changed to protect the depraved. If you enjoyed this story, won’t you please leave a comment? I, like every other author that is unpaid, crave to hear your opinion, leaving a note is a kindness. Or, if there was something lacking, if I may have done better, creative criticism will be quite welcomed.
  8. 1 point
    We met 46 years ago, and our 39th wedding anniversary is in the very near future. We are curious to know, among the many couples here who are truly "long-married" (we'll let you decide what that means, but we see it as ' at least a couple of decades') how many of you number other long-married LS couples among your closest friends. When we think about couples we know and interact with for whatever reason (neighbors, co-workers, other affinity/hobby groups, the LS) the LS couples seem 'closer' and not just physically. At our ages--kids on their own etc--there is a level of comfort and candor with LS friends that seems greater than with others. Maybe it's just our experience.
  9. 1 point
    When we went to the green door, we went in the hot tub pretty much when we first got there. Thought it was a good way to get nude in front of people, but not fully on display - if that makes sense. Another couple came in, and we watched the wife jerk him off - not to completion but close. It was erotic for sure, but now when I think about it, that was probably the most mellow thing that happened in there all night
  10. 1 point
    Well, the votes have been cast, the story "What A Surprise!" has been posted. Please, if you read and enjoy it, leave a comment for me. That will encourage me to post more of my stories to this and other sites. And if there's something I can improve, go ahead and tell me so.
  11. 1 point
    Soon will be 37 years been "swinging" for 33 of them. Never looked back. Last several years been mostly mfm. Less drama
  12. 1 point
    Our first experience was at Desire RM. We met a nice couple who told us they were into the sexy vibe, but they were not swingers. We were only aspiring swingers. We had dinner with them a couple of times. After dinner, we went to the disco and danced with our opposite spouses. My wife informed me that the husband leaned into her with his erection. Then off to the hot tub. A drunk guy on his own was masturbating to us in the hot tub. I asked the other couple if they wanted to come to our room. They did. The husband grabbed a squirt bottle of chocolate sauce from the bar. At our room, the other husband suggested that we blindfold one of wives, put on chocolate sauce strategically located and they would guess which of the three of us were licking what. We then tried it on the other wife. We went through so many towels to clean up, we took a picture. I then asked if they wanted to have sex with their own partner next to us while we were having sex. The other wife got skittish and they left abruptly. I didn’t push the idea hard, but I feared that I offended them. We saw them the next day. Based on their enthusiastic swingers’ kisses (on the mouth), they were not offended. Super nice couple!
  13. 1 point
    Just to say it... I know that conventional wisdom in swingers clubs is that single males are a problem. They are generally considered creepy, leery, rude, pushy, etc. I am therefore sure that we have been unreasonable lucky with the clubs we've gone to, because I can pretty much count on one hand the number of problems we had with single males in our time. Our experience has almost always been that guys are polite, respectful and accommodating. Even our negative experiences were resolved by telling the guy to stop or back off, and that was the end of the matter. In contrast, my experience of clubs that only allow couples has been generally less positive (in my experience, they have been snobby and cliquish). Everything says my experience is atypical, but I wanted to put it out there. Just because a club allows single guys doesn't necessarily mean the atmosphere is that of a pack of starving wolves hungrily circling raw meat. Doesn't mean it isn't it either. It's important to get to know the community. You never know what you'll find until you look.
  14. 1 point
    Well, now we have a good group so they tend to show up
  15. 1 point
    1st NOPE. Couple was a little strange, we were nervous. They said they were experienced. After we got to their place she bowed out, 'that time of the month'. We got more comfortable and he was wearing torn, faded tighty whities. We had gotten ourselves clean, pressed clothing etc. Putting our best foot forward. They didn't put any effort into their appearance. Their home was messy, like no where to sit or even really play. They seemed nice enough, the conversation before was electric. Sitting in a public space drinking coffee and openly discussing having sex with strangers. Really kinda hot. Never knew what their gig was, didn't care. We just chalked it up as a learning lesson. We're all human, different. Certainly didn't hold it over the swinging community and it did open our eyes to the possibilities and excitement of openly engaging with others around sex. 2nd not much better. Single guy. Very classy. Opposite of first. But he got totally drunk. Still a sexy evening with fond memories. I think I've told that story here somewhere.
  16. 1 point
    The first time I swapped, I was just out of my first marriage. I was dating this girl, Laura, she also was recently divorced and wanted all the sex from me she could get. We often hung out with another couple at their house playing backgammon. (In the late 70's, backgammon was the hip thing.) One night somebody suggested we play strip backgammon. Okay! So I saw my friend Barb naked for the first time, and had sex with my girlfriend in the same room. Talk about a rush. A couple weeks later, we do it again. As Laura and I start going at it, I feel a hand on my back, it's Barb. She joins the two of us, a little later I see Laura's over with the other husband. I wrote this up as a story, should I post it in the story section? Just 'like' this post or 'hot' it, and I'll take that as a yes.
  17. 1 point
    Just to add to this, our club has a policy that a single man must be sponsored by a member couple and the first night they attend they must be with that couple. On any given night they limit the number of single males to 10% - 1 guy for every 10 couples. Add to this the fact that a single guy pays more than a couple, ($70 / $80) and you do get a better grouping of them. As a result, the single men act better, you have very little of the leering that I've seen at other clubs, and they know their way around. If you're thinking about it, Fire&Ice, call the club and ask about the single male policies.
  18. 1 point
    It was about 9am in the morning when we struck up a conversation with a single guy on a nude beach in Florida. 12 hours later I watched him fuck my then-girlfriend (now my wife) in our hotel room. That was our first experience. It was fantastic and I would live it again in a heartbeat.
  19. 1 point
    Go to a club that limits the number of single guys as part of their membership group. Those guys will be on their best behavior because they don't want to risk losing their membership which was difficult to come by in the first place. You can attend the club on a GB theme night or simply collect 3-5 singles on any relatively busy evening. Lay out your rules and head off to a room and enjoy your "party". By being at a club you'll sidestep many of the hassles and pitfalls you'll encounter trying to do it on your own. You can even advertise the GB in advance to prospects letting them know she'll be choosing from who is at the club on this night...
  20. 1 point
    We will go bareback with couples we know and trust (which to date number 2) and wear condoms with new contacts. Frankly, we both prefer going bareback. It's more of a rush.
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