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2 pointsAn intimate act is different than intimacy. From the internet Healthline: Intimacy is closeness between people in personal relationships. It’s what builds over time as you connect with someone, grow to care about each other, and feel more and more comfortable during your time together. It can include physical or emotional closeness, or even a mix of the two. Intimacy isn’t the same as Sex. It’s possible to have sex without intimacy as well as intimacy without sex. I am intimate with very few people. I am in deeply in love with one person, my husband. I do not consider myself polyamorous even though I am intimate with others. Oral sex is sex, sex that could be intimate or just a sex act. Thinking about intimacy, the sex I have with most of our friends is just for fun. I have had sex in the past years with tens of people, sex not intimacy. I have both girlfriends and guys orgasm from oral sex and never felt intimacy. Do other ladies feel a sense of intimacy if a man enters you from behind, brings you to a satisfying orgasm and no other attachment? I am sure many of you have oral sex because you enjoy giving it. For whatever reason enjoyment of giving pleasure is pleasurable to me. I have given long slow blowjobs to many and never considered it intimate.
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1 pointPeople may think that intercourse is the ultimate act of sex and that going all the way means having a penis in the vagina. My husband and I have oral sex only quite frequently and both feel very satisfied. Some mornings I will wake my husband up with a blowjob and not wanting anything in return and he will wake me up other mornings with a tongue pleasing wake up. We were with the couple we have been meeting and I started to do what I normally do with my husband by kissing our friend’s penis. I enjoyed his reactions and continued to give him a blowjob and started thinking how beautiful his penis was. He tried several times to stop me and go further and told him to just relax and enjoy as I enjoyed doing it. I licked and sucked, took him deep in and then only the head. I explored his walnuts with slight pressure. Several times he tried to stop me and didn’t. I could hear my husband talking in the other room and figured they finished what they were doing. When my friend came he said that was the most intimate thing he has experienced. Is it?
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1 pointBefore we formed our closed swinging group, if we had a couple over, liked them, and thought that they might be receptive to playing, my wife would invite them to our hot tub knowing that they didn't have bathing suits with them. We would step away to let them decide. Sometimes if my wife was eager, she would get topless, hoping to move things in the right direction.
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1 pointAgreed. My most enjoyable sexual experiences have come to be FFMs with two other members of our poly family. It satisfies all of my Lesbian and hetero physical and emotional needs. I enjoy an occasional DP, but if I am playing with even two men, I prefer one-on-one. I hate a guy putting his dick in my mouth when I am trying to orgasm with another in my pussy. It's distracting and hard to breath.
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1 pointExactly. Sex with perfect strangers has never been our thing and, frankly, we have no idea how that would be a turn-on for some people? For us, there is no shortcut to the pleasure of having sex with someone who has taken the necessary time to learn your turn-ons, and turn-offs, or helped you explore and discover new ones. Our sexual stimulation begins between the ears. What happens between the legs is a direct result of that. Seduction, titillation, sexual tension, fantasy... these are the things that get our pulses racing. Also, in a practical sense, once you get beyond three people, four at the max, involved in simultaneous sex... um, being delicate... she only has so much "attention" she can handle, right? I'm not attempting to shame or undermine people who engage in anonymous sex, or sex with large groups of people, or question their freedom to pick their own poisons, as we all do. I'm simply saying, in our experience, sex is far, far more than a simple biological response. This has only become more true as we have "matured" (read: grown old! Lol...)
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1 pointI think the situation is really everything. I guess about everyone on this site has been able to enjoy casual sex, at least to some degree. I think that most of us also see a clear distinction between casual sex and the type of intimacy that is possible through sex with someone you love. For me, I think that oral occupies both extremes. It can be extremely casual. In most situations, I'm happy giving out oral like a party favor and I've had several FWB situations over the years where the lady will occasionally want to blow me and that's it. This type of oral, maybe because it doesn't even require both parties to undress, feels the most casual to me. Likewise, with someone I'm in love with, giving oral is a very purely giving act. Especially when including the kissing and touching that is part of that sort of sex, and the fact that when giving oral you're not distracted by your own urgency of sensation, you can focus 100% on your partner. Vaginal or anal, feel to me like they can't be quite as casual as the casual sort of oral, simply because it requires more physical access be granted and taken. It just can't be done without a certain amount of closeness. On the other hand, even if it starts out as very generous and focused on the partner, as either of us gets close to orgasm, that takes hold and becomes the focus. That's not a criticism, just an observation. It does mean, for me at least, that the intercourse necessarily includes portions of self focus, that isn't necessarily part of oral. So, in a wide spectrum of differing levels of intimacy, I see the two extremes as solidly occupied by oral.
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1 pointI would suggest that 'romantic' sex is much more intimate than oral, for me. If I'm with a woman who's not my wife and we get into a groove of kissing and touching each other, looking into each other's eyes, I feel so close to her. Then, when we're in intercourse, completely linked, in cowgirl or perhaps missionary, and we're slowly thrusting together, I feel something that's different from just sex. Oral sex, either her giving me a blow job or me eating her out, isn't like that. I'm not putting it down, but I don't feel it's as personal as 'romantic' sex. Lest you think I'm saying that you have to be in love to have 'romantic' sex, I'm not. I've had that kind of sex with women I've met a few minutes before at a club, never seen them again. It can be just a karma you get into for a time.
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1 pointIt depends on whether I am with a man or another woman.
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1 pointWe certainly feel that oral is more intimate than vaginal sex. And, because of that, we can't really process the "soft swap only" rule that works for some couples. We are more than happy to play that way - just don't get the rationale. Frankly, some of the hottest play sessions we've had were 'soft swap'
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1 pointFor me, oral sex and kissing on the mouth are definitely the most intimate and VULNERABLE sexual acts. When I was married to my first husband and the marriage was falling apart, I was miserable. But I could always knock out some vaginal or anal sex with him. It felt good and I could just enjoy it for what it was. Totally different for me than oral sex or kissing. Especially oral sex being done on me. It's so much a mental enjoyment as well as physical. At the end of my first marriage I just couldn't let him go down on me. I couldn't separate the emotional from the physical. That's not to say that I don't enjoy oral from people that I don't love. I do! It's my fav! But I have to enjoy the person or at least not have negative feelings towards them. I hope that makes sense.
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1 pointBill Clinton didn't think so. Lol... ? Personally, I draw no distinction between the intimacy of one sex act versus another. Is anal sex more intimate than vaginal sex? Is oral sex more intimate than vaginal sex? I don't recognize any difference per se and have never attempted to grade them on an intimacy scale. However, if you're asking me when do I feel most "connected" with my lover when having sex, it's a tie between intercourse and sixty-nine. Likewise, I've never asked Ann her opinion on this subject, but I am fairly confident she would say intercourse. I think the answers will vary considerably based upon the individual, but I could be wrong.
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1 pointMy fiancé and I had done MFM threesomes a couple of times in the past but went quiet for a few years. We were lying in bed one night, and somehow the conversation turned to threesomes. She asked me what I really thought of her while we did them? I told her that it was so sexy watching the look on her face as she sucked my cock while taking another cock in her pussy, and how much it turned me on. I asked her what she was thinking during it? She said that it was the most amazing feeling having two guys fuck her at once. I asked her if she would ever do it again? She said she would like to, but didn't think we would be able to find someone she was comfortable with. A few weeks later, I was chatting with a mate on Facebook, and he told me that he was pretty sure he and his girlfriend were gonna split. I knew he had always perved on my girl, and they had always been friends, so I asked him if he'd be keen to join us? I was a bit surprised when he said he couldn't because he was a good friend to us both and didn't want to fuck that up. I said that's ok and left it at that. About a week or so later, he messaged me saying that he hadn't been able to stop thinking about it. I told him that we had done it before with other blokes, and it wouldn't fuck up our friendship. Feeling reassured, he said he wanted to. With him on board, I told him not to mention it to my girl, and we would find a way to surprise her. My brother's engagement party was a few weeks later, and we were all there. My girlfriend was drinking, and I knew this was our best opportunity. I said to him that it could happen this night if he was still keen. The party was starting to wind down, and my girl said she wanted to go clubbing. I told her to go out, and I'd see her at home. She went out with a big group that included our friend, so I didn't think it was going to be our night. She rang me about 3 a.m. and said she was on her way home and our friend was with her. She thought he just wanted to keep drinking with me, and that's why he was in the cab with her. When they got to our house, we just sat in the lounge room drinking. After a while, he went out for a smoke. I whispered to her, "Do you know why he's here?" She said he wanted to keep drinking. I said he's here cause he wants to fuck you. She didn't believe me at first, but when I told her that me and him had spoken about it for a while, she said she wanted to but wanted a shower first. She was in the shower when he came back inside. I told him she wanted it. She came into the lounge room just wearing a t-shirt and undies. She sat down next to me, and we started kissing. While we kissed, I felt her begin to move around. I opened my eyes and saw that our friend was taking off her underwear. She wriggled forward while still kissing me as he started eating her pussy. She pulled away from me and said: "Take your cock out." I took my pants and boxers off and was hard as fuck already. She grabbed my cock and guided it into her mouth. She sucked my cock as he ate her for a while, then he got up and took his clothes off. He got on the other side of her, and she started going from cock to cock sucking and licking. I grabbed her off the couch and put her doggy in front of him. She went back to sucking him while I licked her cunt and arse. After a few minutes, she turned to me and said: "Fuck me!" I got up behind her and slid my cock into her hole. She was loving it as I pounded her, and she had a mouthful of dick. I could tell he wanted to fuck her, so I pulled out of her and said: "Ride him." I sat away from them a bit so they could fuck while I watched. I was getting hornier and hornier watching my cute fiancee grinding on another cock. When she said, "Come back," I jumped right back into the action. For the next hour, we fucked her in every possible position a girl can suck and fuck two cocks. She had cum a few times, and we were ready. I was on top of her fucking her on the floor. My mate was up near her head, slipping his dick in and out of her mouth. She said to us: "Tell me when you're going to cum." My mate was pulling his cock while she licked it and said he was about to blow. She pushed me off her, got on her knees, and told us to stand either side of her. She was rubbing her abused pussy, watching both of us pull while she waited. He started moaning, so she turned to his cock and opened her mouth. He shot his cum into her mouth, on her face, and a bit on her tits. She let the cum in her mouth drip out of her mouth and onto her body. As I saw this, I couldn't control it anymore. She took my whole load in her mouth, then looked up at me and swallowed. We all just collapsed, completely exhausted. I'll never forget how turned on I was knowing my pretty, innocent-looking fiancé loved being a naughty girl.
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1 pointMy wife and I have done it normally in singles nights at local Clubs, 3/4 guys each time we venture in the orgy rooms, what we do some 3 times. Her record so far were 15 that I saw (17 or 18 in her account because once I did not follow her back there). On another night we got into a cabin with 5 other guys and she did all 6 of us during over 2 hours nonstop, and we all DP'ed her at least twice each.
