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4 pointsLinda and I are now three weeks post our second vaccine and have both tested positive for the antibodies meaning the vaccines are working as planned. We have been talking to a couple we have been with many times that also had the vaccines and we encouraged them to get the antibody test to make sure. With the new CDC guidelines stating friends that are all vaccinated can now get together safely we are planning a little holiday together.
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3 pointsWe don't give or accept validations (certifications). It has zero to do with the other couple. We simply don't like the idea of displaying a running tab of our encounters - good, bad, or otherwise. That said, if it's that important to you, ask them to do it. Hardly drama.
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2 pointsI don’t think we are experimenting, we are following the science. As per the CDC the risk falls on those that haven’t been vaccinated. Nothing is 100% safe in swinging such as stds or the transference of many other viruses, bacterial diseases and let’s not forget HIV. Possibly we should wear masks for safety?
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2 pointsThe word "intimate" is a tough one to nail down. Knowing something "intimately" can mean to know it very well, and your lips and tongue are some of the most powerful sense organs. All five senses are involved. So in that meaning, yes, you're intensely intimate with what you're working on. On the other hand, it lacks the intense personal intimacy of being a potentially procreative act, and perhaps of being face-to-face with your partner when you orgasm.
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2 pointsI never thought sex with strangers is intimate. My wife has sucked cocks of guys she hardly knows and has eaten plenty of pussy.
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2 pointsSearch is your friend and there are several threads that discuss this. That ought to get you started with some light reading. Here's a story from another couple overcoming this: Here's a book to also read on the topic: Divine Sex: Liberating sex from religious tradition by Philo Thelios And finally a quote or two that I made before and a link to a post that I regularly go back and read about monogamy and and the Bible: Being raised in a very religious family, I have done more than a little research on this topic. I couldn't understand why in the old testament men had multiple wives but it just stopped in the new testament with no explanation as to why. If you also really search the Bible, there is actually very little information regarding sex and what is and isn't 'allowed'. What are big issues now were almost overlooked in the Bible: homosexuality for instance is almost ignored in the Bible, yet the Romans openly allowed it. Over the years, depending on who was in charge and what their beliefs were, the Bible was 'edited' and spelling mistakes and/or translation issues have changed what the Bible said. While the Bible may have been from God, it hasn't remained untouched or unchanged by man. Bottom line is we both believe in God and are religious, but we also believe that whatever anyone else believes in, as long as it makes them a better person and doesn't hurt others, is a good thing and should be allowed and encouraged. I would hate to be in front of the gates of heaven only to see Buddha or Allah or The Great Spirit was the 'right' God and have Him tell us 'you picked the wrong God...sorry, you are out'. I believe that this won't happen, but at the same time believe that God wouldn't be so religious exclusive (only one 'right' religion and everyone else goes to Hell). Most organized religion teaches 'be a good person and be nice to everyone else'...we do our best to adhere to this although we identify ourselves as Christian. Swinging is something that we do TOGETHER in the light, not behind the back of our SO in the dark. It doesn't 'hurt' either one of us and we do our best not to allow it to hurt anyone else. We don't see where it goes against our 'makes them a better person and doesn't hurt others' belief so we don't have a conflict or issue with the two. We try, as instructed by the Bible, not to judge others and keep our stone casting in check. Monogamy Isn't Biblical, It's Roman I hope it is obvious that I have spent more than a little time on this subject attempting to understand the topic and we hope that something here will help you.
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2 pointsDavid and I had our first real swinging experience! It was just incredible; even way better than I expected in several ways. We were with Jacob and Hilda, who are a great couple of people. They were wonderful in pretty much every way. First I should give a little background: I'm Ilene. My husband's name is David. We're close to 40, have been together for almost fifteen years, and married for just under a decade. We're a loving, mostly boring couple who never even talked about swinging until about three months ago. After a lot of discussion and reading things on this board, we posted an ad on Swing Lifestyle. A few meetings with different couples and one false start later, we wrote to Jacob and Hilda. We had been out with a few couples prior to this and been to one private party, but our play had been limited to a little girl-on-girl kissing for me. We were really itching to have some play with a couple, but wanted to make sure we did it the right way. Jacob and Hilda weren't the usual kind of couple we'd be interested in, but something in his smile spoke to me and made me want to know him. His profile said some very sweet things about his wife, which is always a good sign. David and I had agreed that our first swap would be a soft swap. Well, actually, David said he wanted to hold it to soft swap to ensure we didn't rush ourselves. Of course I agreed, even though I knew I would want more once we started playing. We met Jacob and Hilda at a neighborhood restaurant for dinner. Unfortunately for us, there was a huge St. Patrick's Day party all over the neighborhood, and so the place was crowded, smoky and loud. We were having a hard time getting service and hearing each other, which made it difficult to get acquainted. In an email the day before, Jacob had mentioned that as a last resort, we could all go back to their place and get in their hot tub. We shrugged this idea off, since we were only meeting them for dinner and didn't intend to play. So when the neighborhood restaurant got to be uninhabitable, we decided to leave there and go to an Applebee's so we could get something to eat. However, when we got there, the doors were locked -- and it was only 9:30. We decided to try a nearby Bennigan's, but surprisingly, they had a band and it was at least as loud as where we had started out. At this point we agreed that the gods were telling us we should pick up a pizza and go back to their place. By this point, David and I were ready to go to their house with them and maybe do a soft swap, since we found ourselves attracted to them. They were very straightforward, warm, and funny. Jacob was much more appealing in person than he was in his pictures. Hilda hadn't taken much trouble in getting ready--her face was shiny and the long, lush brunette hair we'd seen in her pictures was pulled back unflatteringly. But after a few minutes of talking, it was apparent that these two were well worth knowing. Hilda started flirting a little with David, who was a bit too nervous to respond very much. Jacob was being very charming and warm without being sleazy. It was obvious that what I was seeing was his real personality. Their love for each other was also on display. When she got up to go pay the tab at the neighborhood bar, her tight little body was on display as well. She is petite and very pert. I could see David looking at her and appreciating her. I am a little taller and curvy, and thought it would be nice for David to be with someone who had a different kind of body than I have. I was having trouble relaxing to the situation; I mean, it had been fifteen years since I had even kissed another man...and now we were going back to these strangers' house to mess around with them? It seemed surreal. I was worried that David would not deal well with what was about to happen. I was fairly sure I'd be okay, but I also knew that it's impossible to guess how any person will react until they are actually in the thick of things, so to speak. Jacob was quite nice about encouraging me to relax, smiling the whole time we were talking. I just loved how accepting he was of what I was feeling, and how warm they both were. We got to their house and ate the pizza {thank goodness, because both Hilda and I were starving}. David and I wanted to put on bathing suits to get in the hot tub, which Jacob didn't seem to be used to. I just didn't feel comfortable simply dropping all clothes so abruptly. Even when David and I make love at home, there is usually some buildup to getting naked together. It is part of the seduction. They put on suits too, even though Jacob didn't look thrilled about it. So we all got in the hot tub. We hadn't talked about ground rules yet. Jacob and Hilda had been used to playing with just one couple who had been their good friends, but had moved away. I think they weren't used to new couples and so just assumed that we were like them-- full swap, and furthermore, that we'd go without condoms. At some point I just kind of blurted out that we were going to be soft swap, because it seemed to be up to me to even bring it up. I wasn't exactly smooth about it, but I got the job done. We were sitting there and just talking, when at the first opportunity Jacob announced, 'Tops off!' Of course I wanted to take my top off and have him look at me, but I'd felt shy about just discarding it. So I turned my back to him, inviting him to undo my top for me. He complained mightily about the knot I'd tied in it...but he managed, and the top came off. {My hands had been trembling a bit when I attempted to tie a bow in my suit top, and it had ended up in a knot.} Then I kind of floated over and got on his lap, again with my back to him, and he let his hands roam quickly from my stomach up to my breasts. Although I had agreed with David that we'd do soft swap the first time time out, I knew that once I was in that situation, I wouldn't want to stop. Once a man touches my breasts, I ache to have him inside me. I wouldn't break the rules, I was resolved. No way was I going to jeopardize our foray into swinging by doing something stupid. But when Jacob squeezed my nipple in a way I'd never felt, I felt an electric jolt fly from where he was touching me directly to my pussy and then throughout my whole body. I sucked in my breath with a cry-- there was just something about the way he did it, and suddenly my whole body was begging for sex. We started kissing and caressing each other. Although he's ten years older than I am, he has a nice body...solid smooth shoulders, muscular arms, and a nice amount of fur on his chest. It wasn't long before he murmured, 'Touch me, sweetheart', which just turned me to jelly. My husband doesn't use endearments in bed, and I can't remember him ever having called me 'sweetheart' at all. I didn't know how it would make my head buzz. I knew approximately what was between his legs, because they had had a cock shot on their profile. It wasn't the most flattering picture of his body, and his cock wasn't even hard in it...I'm not sure why it was on their profile. {It's not there anymore.} David and I had agreed in jest that it was supposed to be a warning, because even soft, it looked around 7' or 8' long. I found out later that Hilda had started stroking David's cock after about 30 seconds of kissing, so I'm sure Jacob was used to this and thought I needed encouragement. I remembered later that I'd heard and read that longer or bigger cocks need more stimulation to stay hard, which fits with this experience. So, I reached down between his legs and couldn't suppress a few giggles of pure shock...I had seen the picture of course, but that didn't prepare me for actually touching it...a long, hard, thin curvy snake that must have been ten inches long. I couldn't get over how it felt in my hand, combined with simply touching another man's cock after all that time. I let out a couple of more mini-exclamations of half-belief, and he wanted to know why I was making those noises. I couldn't think of anything to say without sounding trite, so I said something, well, trite. Oh man...just the feel of it, and the pleasure it was giving him, and his appreciation of it...it was a moment to savor. I wanted to feel it on my lips and tongue, and felt a strange urge to dive under the water and get it, as if I could breathe through it. But I controlled this silly feeling and asked him to sit on the edge of the tub. I love giving blow jobs...I am not a Catholic, but it seems a little like a communion to me. Just feeling a man's cock with my face, tongue and lips...feeling the texture of it, feeling it swell in my mouth, and finding out what makes him take in his breath with pleasure. Holding a man's cock in my mouth makes me feel so close to him physically, and sort of in control but like an instrument of pleasure at the same time. After a few minutes, he trembled and swelled and said he needed to slow down, in case he got us to change our minds about being soft swap. He knew I wanted to, and was saying gentle things to try to convince me. Somehow, I wasn't offended by this...I think it was the way he said things, together with the knowledge that I wouldn't do anything I didn't talk to David about, combined with the warm pleasure of being desired. At some point, he motioned to David and Hilda at the other side of the tub and said, 'Look.' I looked over there, and was stunned: David was sitting on the edge of the hot tub, and Hilda had his cock in her mouth. The sight just hit me like lightning. It was so erotic; he was looking at me and smiling, the skin on his chest and flat stomach was dripping, and she was moving her head towards him and away, and also had her hand on him. I loved how it looked, and how much he was enjoying it, and as far as I could tell, she was too. The lights were off so that the neighbors wouldn't see, but to me it was as if there was a bright spotlight on them. I had had no idea how that sight would affect me. Later, he told me that it was a great moment when, in her sweet petite little voice, she had said to him, 'Why don't you sit on the edge of the tub so I can suck your cock?' After I don't know how many seconds of staring agape at them, I turned my attention back to Jacob. He is so nice to be with, I was enjoying myself so much, and just wanted to keep kissing and fondling; then he put me on the edge of the tub too. So David and I were looking at each other across the tub, each of us getting oral sex from our partners...it was surreal, and I was bucking and jerking with pleasure and with the occasional too-firm touch. After that, more kissing...and I got to see my husband give Hilda an orgasm by giving her oral. At some point Jacob and I talked, and when he asked I said yes, I wanted to have sex with him. Then to my surprise {but again, amazingly, not to my annoyance} he acted like we were just going to do it right then. I cleared that up by telling him yes, I wanted to, but I needed to talk to David first. So I 'swam' over to David, and we talked about going full swap. I was concerned that I would pressure him into it and we'd regret it later, if he wasn't ready. But he thought about it, decided he'd be okay with it, and reaffirmed that decision when I asked him again. So we all moved inside, after another awkward discussion, this one about using condoms. They pulled out a sleeper sofa in their living room, and found condoms. We were lucky they had some, because David had shrugged off my suggestion of bringing some when we'd left for our date. After a little more oral play on the bed, I told Jacob how much I wanted him inside me. I forget what he said, but it was something sweet. So he put the condom on, and as he was putting it on, I said to David, 'This is your last chance to say no, honey.' Then Jacob knelt over me. Just as I thought it was about to happen, Hilda and David appeared over my shoulder. David was smiling and started sucking my breast, and Hilda's smiling face appeared right next to mine. I reached up and kissed her. She is so soft, it was a whole new sensation kissing her. She whispered to me, 'It's all about you', which was so sweet and made me feel selfish, and unable to absorb it all, and so adored. I don't even remember if I was touching Jacob with my hands as he entered me, or whether my hands were still around Hilda's neck, or even whether I could even see Jacob's face, but the sensation was so good, it's all I remember. David and Hilda left me to concentrate on each other, and me to concentrate on being fucked by this other man. It felt new and natural at the same time, and so incredible. Throughout the whole time, I was crying out, moaning, pushing against him, grabbing at his back and ass, and repeating 'It feels so good', over and over...and over. I couldn't stop saying it and at some point laughed at myself for it. Jacob was so sweet, and sensual, and we moved together well. He is so long that he had to be careful not to hurt me. It did hurt a little at times, but oh what a feeling. I told him he's beautiful, and he kept saying sweet things to me too: 'Sweetheart', and 'That's my girl', which I loved, amazingly. We took a break, looked around and saw David and Hilda patiently watching us, when Hilda announced that we were going to make David's fantasy of two women come true. She said he wanted to fuck me while she sat on his face. Jacob was quite gracious about this, being the giving person he is, and backed off. Happy to comply with David's request, I hopped on and she got on facing me. She and I started kissing again, and I felt the skin on her arms, her back, her hips...she is smooth and creamy, and has an incredible, tight little body. It seems a miracle, since she has at least three kids and doesn't work out. Her breasts, after presumably breastfeeding her kids, are pert and firm. They seemed tiny next to mine, maybe A- or B- cup breasts. Her nipples were a pretty pink color, and boy do they stand out! I enjoyed caressing her breasts and licking them for a few minutes. I thought about doing more, but didn't feel ready...Jacob wanted to join in, and at some point I was riding David, he was licking Hilda, and Hilda and Jacob each had one of my breasts in their mouth. That was amazing. But what was even more amazing was that when David finally put a condom on and started penetrating Hilda, and I looked over to their side of the bed, the sight was so exciting and beautiful that it just floored me. There was my beloved husband, having sex with this little goddess, and they were both so beautiful that it made my heart soar. I have to say that Hilda, while she looked good in her pictures and had a nice smile, she hadn't primped to meet us. And of course everyone's hair was messy from the hot tub. But underneath David, she couldn't have looked any more beautiful to me. The effect this sight had on me was a complete surprise. Later, he told me she'd had two orgasms while they were having sex. I felt great about that. We were all on the bed now, having sex. My leg was touching either David or Hilda, I'm not sure which. Jacob and I did it doggie style for a few minutes, which I enjoyed but I'm not sure he did. He turned me back over again {I love it when a man takes charge!}, and we proceeded to have some more really great and increasingly raw sex, with my moaning getting louder and more crazy. I got pretty close to an orgasm, but then it faded...with all the noise I was making, he thought I'd come, but I didn't lie to him when he asked. I didn't want to get hung up on it. After going at it for some time more, he came and let out a big yell right into my ear. It was loud, but I didn't mind at all. Then I made a mistake in wanting him to stay inside of me for a few minutes. I didn't think about the condom, because I wasn't used to using them. When he pulled out, it was nowhere to be found. Jacob and Hilda have kids that were with someone else's house that night, and no one wanted them to come home to a condom on the living room rug or in the couch cushions. It turned out that we had lost it inside me, which I didn't know for sure until after David and I had gotten home. I tried to find it inside me before we left, but couldn't. Finding it later and writing an email to them about it was pretty funny. At that point what was done was done. I'm on the pill, so I wasn't afraid of getting pregnant, but I certainly learned my lesson about when the man needs to pull out. One of the biggest surprises about this whole experience is the unmitigated positive feelings that David and I both have about it. I didn't have so much as the slightest twinge of jealousy. David and I know we will be together for the long run, so we didn't feel threatened at all. He said he enjoyed seeing me enjoying myself with Jacob. We have been with them again since then, and the second time was even better. We intend to keep seeing them for some time to come.
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1 pointPeople may think that intercourse is the ultimate act of sex and that going all the way means having a penis in the vagina. My husband and I have oral sex only quite frequently and both feel very satisfied. Some mornings I will wake my husband up with a blowjob and not wanting anything in return and he will wake me up other mornings with a tongue pleasing wake up. We were with the couple we have been meeting and I started to do what I normally do with my husband by kissing our friend’s penis. I enjoyed his reactions and continued to give him a blowjob and started thinking how beautiful his penis was. He tried several times to stop me and go further and told him to just relax and enjoy as I enjoyed doing it. I licked and sucked, took him deep in and then only the head. I explored his walnuts with slight pressure. Several times he tried to stop me and didn’t. I could hear my husband talking in the other room and figured they finished what they were doing. When my friend came he said that was the most intimate thing he has experienced. Is it?
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1 pointAnyone see this story? Tried to paste it here unsuccessfully, you must check the article on Google. Well, she is less deviant than her old man. She sounds fun!
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1 pointI was being light about it. If four vaccinated people are playing, it sounds permissible to me. But I am not a virologist. But I am very cautious.
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1 pointWe have some slutty play garments that can be used if we meet new people and then wear my everyday lacy bikinis and bras on repeat meetings. I might buy new thigh highs to sex it up.
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1 pointWe generally, shop for Julie's fun clothes when on vacation or when at larger cities. It's a fun pastime for both of us!! LOL Some of Julie's favorite outfits are swimsuit coverups worn with out bikini tops and/bottoms. Several of Julie's shorter and more revealing "dresses" are straight wear intended for use with tights, layers, etc. Surprisingly, Julie has found a couple of surprisingly good dresses on Amazon of all places.... LOL Robb
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1 pointGood for you! We know many who refuse to take it and we are too young to qualify. We are low risk and just wish everyone would just shut up and get the fukin shot. We know friends who had gotten sick and got over it. I call it lucky. I heard younger people have bad side effects from the shot, did you.
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1 pointI think you are reading too much into it.
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1 pointSome people are just lazy or lack confidence or ability in their writing. We know that we have blown other couples’ minds (and other parts), given them a cert and not received one back. They may just not care much about certs. We are friends with a couple who periodically delete certs to keep their number low so they don’t look like such sluts. They recently deleted our cert and I did find it offensive. Don’t know if that means they lost interest in us. Whatever. Good thing about swinging is: Thank you, next!
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1 pointInteresting, I'll need to read the original article. This sounds like my wife, who prefers FFMs both with and as a married couple. These are two totally different roles for her (as a third for a married couple and having another woman join us) with different dynamics, but satisfying both her hetero and Lesbian needs.
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1 pointHow about starting a club here? "Swingers in Trophy1802's Area" sort of thing. The club feature here is vastly better than what was the "social groups" on the old vBulletin platform, and it's really underutilized. We have some big ideas for it, that may or may not ever come to fruition. Covid, clubs closed, etc. have made it more a time to focus on trying to hold onto what you've got instead of focusing on the new... but maybe someday. Basically, you can make your group public, private (by application and approval), or invite only. Then you can have like your own special forum that is just for that club. It's kind of like a FB group, but better, because speaking as a forum owner, FB sucks Like anything on the web though, visibility is the name of the game. If search engines don't serve you up so people can find you, then it's going to be a very slow go. That's going to be true of any platform, and it is a LOT of work and constant battle to even keep your head above water on the google game. Some sites can afford to have a staff of full time professionals doing just that. Note - this site isn't one of them! We would like some of that please Maybe even just a little piece?? Maybe even just a crumb??? Websites aren't expensive to start, you can do one for dang near free...and then see your site running on your free software and your $4.99/month shared hosting plan melt down right when all of your hours upon hours, days upon days of hard work start to bear fruit and your site starts to take off. But, you can spend a lot of money quick putting up a big fancy building with all of the lights on and it stay virtually empty too... but the bills keep coming. So, the most important thing is to be nimble enough to adjust as needed, but that's easier said than done because the further you go down one road on a platform or whatever, the more difficult it is to switch to something different/better even when you know you need to. Curious to hear more and happy to help in whatever way we can. Don't claim to be experts, talented amateurs even a stretch, but we're still here so doing at least something halfway right.
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1 pointBeing an IT guy, we say 'have you tried rebooting it?'...sounds better than turning off and on again.
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1 pointI agree totally with this comment and I was amazed he made a intimacy comment which made me wonder about his relationship with his wife. The intimacy feeling could have come from us being in separate rooms for the first time. Our previous meetings with them were always playing in the same room possibly not being totally free, I found myself peeking over and watching. It was my idea to try separate this time and he was a little hesitant to leave his wife alone. Alone we were able to talk openly about why we were swinging, what made them interested and who brought it up. He told me his wife was the initiator after watching numerous lesbian scenes on tv and movies. I joked that I should be in the other room then. I had no plan other then having an hour alone with him, he is the first man I had been alone with since meeting my husband. Nervous/excited and not sure what I could do. I lost the sense of time as I went between his legs and started to enjoy the differences of his penis to the one I was so used to. I didn't think of this as intimacy, I didn’t do much thinking of much more than the erect penis.
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1 pointThat especially works well if the other woman has a Lesbian side, but beware, if that is true it doesn't necessary mean she is up for a couples swap with the guys doing each others wives.
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1 pointAn intimate act is different than intimacy. From the internet Healthline: Intimacy is closeness between people in personal relationships. It’s what builds over time as you connect with someone, grow to care about each other, and feel more and more comfortable during your time together. It can include physical or emotional closeness, or even a mix of the two. Intimacy isn’t the same as Sex. It’s possible to have sex without intimacy as well as intimacy without sex. I am intimate with very few people. I am in deeply in love with one person, my husband. I do not consider myself polyamorous even though I am intimate with others. Oral sex is sex, sex that could be intimate or just a sex act. Thinking about intimacy, the sex I have with most of our friends is just for fun. I have had sex in the past years with tens of people, sex not intimacy. I have both girlfriends and guys orgasm from oral sex and never felt intimacy. Do other ladies feel a sense of intimacy if a man enters you from behind, brings you to a satisfying orgasm and no other attachment? I am sure many of you have oral sex because you enjoy giving it. For whatever reason enjoyment of giving pleasure is pleasurable to me. I have given long slow blowjobs to many and never considered it intimate.
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1 pointWe certainly feel that oral is more intimate than vaginal sex. And, because of that, we can't really process the "soft swap only" rule that works for some couples. We are more than happy to play that way - just don't get the rationale. Frankly, some of the hottest play sessions we've had were 'soft swap'
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1 pointIt was about 9am in the morning when we struck up a conversation with a single guy on a nude beach in Florida. 12 hours later I watched him fuck my then-girlfriend (now my wife) in our hotel room. That was our first experience. It was fantastic and I would live it again in a heartbeat.
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1 pointShoes, but I don't wear heels enough, so uncomfortable at times..... J
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1 pointOur summers always begin the same. Laura and I throw a party on the first weekend of June every year. All our friends and many of theirs that we don't know come over to swim, play volleyball and cornhole, eat, drink, and have a good time. This summer was no different. At 4:00 p.m., over 60 people were running around enjoying themselves. Laura and I had been introduced to several friends of friends and couldn't remember most of their names, in all honesty. Bathing suits are the norm, and most of the ladies are in bikinis laying out working on their summer tans while the men are playing. Like all men, I size up the ladies around the pool and do my fair share of flirting with all of them. Laura is, of course, flirting back with everyone flirting with her. As I walked around, I noticed a drop-dead gorgeous young black women in this incredibly tiny bikini. I remember being introduced to her earlier when she and her husband had arrived, but I couldn't remember her name for the life of me. Her husband was playing volleyball while I was standing there, staring. By midnight there were twenty or so people left. By 1:00 a.m., it was just six of us. With fewer people to entertain, Laura and I had slowed down and had time to relax. I had learned from friends of ours that the black couple's names were Deshawn and Jasmine, and they had come with Mike and Julie. I grabbed the beer cooler and pulled it up next to the edge of the pool. Laura quickly shed her shorts and dove in. I followed right behind. It was nice to be able to relax after a long night of playing host and hostess. We were spread out around the pool, and I was teasing Laura with my hands under the water when Julie called out that she had been waiting all night for everyone to leave so that she could skinny dip. She asked if we minded? Laura laughed and said, nope, it sounded like a good idea to her. In short order, we had all removed our suits and thrown them on the deck. Everyone was still spread out in the pool. All three couples were obviously doing some heavy petting under the water. Laura was getting horny, and I was enjoying the play. Julie and Mike swam down to the shallow end near Laura and me. The girls started chatting while Mike and I were trying to see their nude bodies, but the lighting wasn't cooperating. After a while, Jasmine and Deshawn came down to the shallows, but they stayed on the other side. I was still playing with Laura's pussy, and she occasionally reached around and played with my erect cock. From the way Julie was squirming, I was pretty sure that Mike was doing the same thing to her pussy. After a few beers, I needed to use the restroom and went to reach for my trunks. Laura and Julie gave me such grief that I just jumped out of the pool without my trunks, walked over to the corner of the house, and relieved the pressure. As I returned to the pool, I was completely exposed to everyone in the pool. Julie and Laura were catcalling, while Mike just laughed. I dove back into the pool right over top of Laura and Julie, and when I came to the surface, I was about five feet away from Deshawn and Jasmine. I asked them if they were going to stay over there all night or if they were going to join us on the other side? That got Laura, Julie, and Mike yelling encouragement for them to join us. Deshawn looked down at Jasmine and coaxed her over. When I swam back to Laura, we started our mutual teasing again. Julie and Mike were right next to us at that point, and I could see Mike's hand down around the front of Julie's waist. It was incredible watching them even though I couldn't see exactly what was going on. Jasmine and Deshawn were still about five feet away from the four of us. Mike suggested we play chicken. Naturally, all three of us guys were more than willing. Julie and Laura quickly agreed, but Jasmine didn't seem interested. I dropped under the water and put Laura on my shoulders. As I stood up, all of Laura came into view. Julie was only a second behind on Mike's shoulders, her wet tits shimmering in the moonlight. Julie had beautiful tits. They were smaller than Laura's but were very firm. The four of us started horsing around when suddenly Jasmine and Deshawn joined in. Laura and I lost first because I was too busy staring at Jasmine's tits. When Jasmine and Deshawn won, the girls accused Mike and me of rigging it just so we could see Jasmine's tits. We laughed and said they were definitely worth losing the first game over. We played another round, which Julie and Mike lost. Then Julie suggested that we play a game. She explained that we were going to use the rules from quarters. If any couple won three in a row, then they could make a new rule. We all laughed and agreed to give it a go. Deshawn and Jasmine won the first one, and then Laura and I won one. Mike and Julie won the next two, and Mike started winking at Deshawn and me, so we let them win a third. Julie quickly announced Rule #1. From now on, the two losing couples had to switch partners. The idea of having Julie or Jasmine on my shoulders gave me a hard-on. I must digress here and explain that although Laura and I have experimented with our sexuality by opening our marriage, she has never been with a black man. To be honest, she had never mentioned it. The next game Deshawn and Jasmine won, and before I was out of the water Julie was next to me, waiting for her ride! As I took a deep breath to go underwater to put her on my shoulders, she reached down and grabbed my erect cock. Before I came up between her legs, I ran my hand over her pussy. I rose out of the water, and the next game started. Julie and I won, and I waited in anticipation as Laura swam over to Deshawn. I almost came just watching her sitting on his broad, black shoulders. Watching Jasmine on Mike's shoulders made me jealous, so as soon as Jasmine went in the water in the next game, I lost my footing, and Julie followed. While we were under, Julie turned quickly and took my cock into her mouth for a couple of quick licks. Man, I was on fire! When I came up, Jasmine was standing right next to me with her beautiful tits only inches from my face. She was just watching me. I reached out my hand under the water and slid a finger along her pussy. She just smiled. As I walked around her, I told her I was dying to taste her. I stopped behind her, and she reached back and grabbed my cock. I just stood there watching Deshawn and wondering if he had any idea what she was doing to me? I went under and put her on my shoulders. The game continued for several rounds, with all of us switching partners and teasing each other. I was ready to explode, and Jasmine was definitely warming up to things. Finally, Julie and Deshawn won three in a row. They went to the side and conversed about what Rule #2 was going to be. When they turned around, Julie was grinning from ear to ear. She said, "You're going to love Rule #2. From now on, the losing couple must give the winning couple head for two minutes". Nobody disagreed or complained about the rule, so we mounted up for another go, knowing the stakes had been raised! Laura and I won, and Julie and Deshawn lost first. Laura and I swam over to the edge of the pool, pulled ourselves out, and sat on the side. I reached over and started kissing Laura, squeezing her nipples, when my cock was wrapped in the warmth of Julie's mouth. I opened my eyes and looked down. God, Julie looked good sucking my cock but what floored me was seeing Deshawn licking Laura's pussy. He was going crazy, and Laura was nearing orgasm when Mike started yelling, "time!" Nobody stopped right away, but we finally disengaged from each other. Laura and I got back into the water, and I told her I couldn't wait to see her suck Deshawn's cock. She smiled and said, "I can't wait either because it's huge." I asked her how she knew? She just smiled and said, "What, you think you're the only one playing around under the water?" I smiled and slid my finger into her dripping cunt. She had enjoyed Deshawn's attention considerably! Julie and Mike won the next round, with Deshawn and Jasmine the losers. Deshawn dove right into Julie's pussy while she pulled and tugged on her nipples. Mike was all smiles as he watched Jasmine slowly run her tongue up and down the shaft of his cock. I moved Laura over to the side of the pool and, after a few moments of feverish fingering, slid my engorged cock into her waiting cunt. We slow fucked as we watched the action. I said to Laura, "I bet you want to feel Deshawn's huge cock inside you." She said, "God, yes!" We let things go on for a while longer than two minutes, and I noticed that Jasmine had never actually taken Mike's cock into her mouth. We finally called time, and Jasmine came over to me while Laura swam over to Deshawn. I smiled and said, "Did that taste good?" She said, "Not as good as you're going to." I reached down and started playing with her pussy while she squeezed my cock and balls. I wanted her so bad. Mike and Julie won the next round again, with Deshawn and Laura losing first. As Laura swam over to where Mike sat, I stepped behind Jasmine and started sliding my cock between her ass cheeks and along her pussy lips. I watched as Laura slid her lips over Mike's cock, and as soon as Deshawn started on Julie, Jasmine reached down, grabbed my cock, pushed back her hips, and slid my cock into her sopping pussy. She turned her head around and said, "God, I want you to myself so bad." I was playing with her tits with one hand, rubbing her clit with the other, and kissing her at the same time. I nearly lost it when I felt her pussy start to convulse as she let out a low moan. Just as I neared my climax, Jasmine yelled, "Time," and everyone stopped. I pulled out of her, and she turned, smiled, and said, "We'll finish later." Laura and I won the next round and quickly swam to the edge. Deshawn and Jasmine had lost! I started kissing Laura as they approached when Laura said, "Stop, I want to watch her suck on your beautiful cock." We both played with each other's nipples as Jasmine slid between my legs and, with one smooth motion, slid her lips over my cock and started going down! She kept right on going until she reached the bottom, and while Jasmine held all of me in her throat, she looked up at me. Laura looked at me and said, "You're not going to last two minutes with her doing that." I thought I was going to cum right there. Laura bent over and started sucking on my nipple, while Jasmine began sliding up and down my shaft. Sure enough, in no time, I was spewing stream after stream of hot jism into Jasmine's waiting mouth. She swallowed every drop! I don't think that anyone realized I came except for Jasmine and Laura. Jasmine kept playing with my cock until Mike yelled, "Time!" We all hit the water and started the next round. Julie and Deshawn won the next two games, and Laura wasn't joking when she said Deshawn was huge. I watched Jasmine give him head and couldn't believe how much of him she could fit in her mouth. Laura and I fucked in the water, and Laura had a small orgasm. The second time they won, I fucked Jasmine in the water while Laura sucked on Deshawn's cock. Jasmine came pretty hard while we were at it. If Deshawn and Julie won the next one, there could be a new rule! The next round started, and Julie and Deshawn won while Laura and I lost. I dove into Julie's waiting cunt with all the vigor I could muster while I intently watched as Laura tried to swallow all of Deshawn's massive cock into her mouth. I couldn't believe how much she was taking, easily as much as Jasmine had, and I'm sure Jasmine had spent a lot of time practicing. It was incredible to watch Laura going down on Deshawn. When we hit the water Julie smiled and said, "Ok, let's make this really interesting! From now on, both losing couples must do whatever the winners want for FIVE minutes!" God, I knew what I wanted! The next round lasted longer than any other did all night long. Everyone wanted to win this one. In the end, Julie and Deshawn won once again. Julie jumped out of the pool, onto a lounge chair, and said, "Come on boys, it's time for me to have some fun." I set the countdown timer on my watch and started her way. I watched in awe as Deshawn told Laura to ride his cock while he ate Jasmine out! I watched in admiration as my wife stepped over that huge black cock, her first, and slowly slid down on top of it. Inch by inch, she slid down until almost all of him was inside of her. Then she started sliding back up. Julie was watching me and said, "Come here, let me suck that cock of yours while you watch your wife fuck that huge, black cock!" Mike was slamming his meat in and out of Julie's pussy, while she sucked me, and I watched Laura slid up and down Deshawn's cock, faster and faster. It seemed like only seconds had passed when my watch started chirping. We all went back into the water, and Laura and I won the next round. I jumped out of the water and told Jasmine that she had better get off while she rode me. I had Julie ride my face all the while. I looked over a couple of times and saw Laura on her knees sucking Mike's cock while Deshawn filled her pussy from behind. I was a little too busy eating and fucking to tell what all Laura was doing. Suddenly Jasmine and Laura both started screaming, "I'm cumming, fuck, I'm cumming, God yes." When the two of them quieted down, we could hear my watch chirping as the timer went off. We all slowly disengaged and headed back into the pool. Laura came over to me and whispered, "I want his load so bad." I just smiled. I guess her first black cock was to her liking! Jasmine and Deshawn won the next round, and everyone was out of the pool again. Jasmine grabbed Mike and me and said, "You two are going to fulfill a fantasy of mine. Mike lie down." He did, and she took his cock into her waiting cunt in one quick drop. Then Jasmine looked at me and said, "Fuck me in the ass, God, please fuck me in the ass." I couldn't believe that I was a woman was telling me to do something that I would have died for. Man, I was in heaven as I slid my cock into Jasmine's waiting asshole. I never even saw what Deshawn was making Laura and Julie do; I had all I could handle right in front of me! I fucked Jasmine's ass, spanking it with every stroke, while Mike fucked her pussy and twisted her nipples something fierce. It wasn't long before Jasmine started screaming, "I'm cumming." After she finished her orgasm, she looked back at me and said, "Cum in my ass. I want your cum in my ass." I started slamming in and out of her beautiful asshole for all I was worth. The watch started chirping, but no one stopped. I kept going until I couldn't take it any longer. With a mighty grunt and a shove that slammed my balls against the base of Jasmine's pussy and Mike's cock, I let go. Spurt after spurt of hot, sticky cum flooded Jasmine's rectum. Just as I was finishing, Mike started thrashing and filled her pussy with cum. The watch had quieted by now, and the three of us turned to see Laura swallowing Deshawn's cum load. She was ravenous! When Laura finished cleaning Deshawn's monster cock we all opened a beer and relaxed. Laura was sitting in between Mike and Deshawn with Julie on Deshawn's other side while Jasmine and I were between Mike and Julie. After the beer, Deshawn said there was one thing that he had always wanted Jasmine to do and asked her if she was game. Jasmine looked very nervous for someone who had just been fucked by two men at once, so I was wondering what was up. Julie and Laura were both encouraging Jasmine to go for it, even though they didn't know what it was. Laura was taken back a bit when Deshawn turned to her and said, "Actually, I'll need your help in this." Talk about opening your mouth! Laura had no choice but to go along. Deshawn took Laura and laid her down on her back, legs spread, then took Jasmine and put her head between Laura's legs so he could fuck her from behind as she ate Laura's cunt. Deshawn didn't know it, but he was fulfilling one of my fantasies as well. Laura had never been with a woman, and she knew it was something that I wanted her to try. Deshawn slid his cock into Jasmine from behind and started a steady rhythm. After a few seconds, Jasmine tentatively leaned forward and began sliding her tongue up and down Laura's pussy. Laura just closed her eyes. As Deshawn's pace quickened, so did Jasmine's tongue on Laura's pussy. I wanted to see Laura involved, so I turned to Julie and said, "You know Laura's never tasted another woman, and I'd love to see it. Would you mind sitting on her face?" Laura's eyes lit up as Julie straddled her shoulders and started lowering her pussy down. I watched in fascination as Laura stuck her tongue out and Julie began sliding her pussy up and down on it. In no time, Laura was covered in Julie's juices while Mike and I masturbated. Jasmine looked over and saw me playing myself and stopped eating Laura out. She turned to Deshawn and said, "Why don't you let me under you so you can fuck my pussy while Rob fucks my ass? Laura can lie beside me so I can eat her pussy with Julie by her so Laura can eat Julie and then Julie can blow Mike." Sure enough, in short order, Deshawn was on his side buried in Jasmine's pussy. I laid down behind her and slowly slid my cock into her waiting rectum. It felt completely different this time since Deshawn's cock was so much bigger than Mike's and didn't leave much room inside her. Once I was completely inside, Deshawn and I started a steady slow rhythm. Laura lay down with her pussy facing Jasmine, who quickly went back to licking her clit. Laura's ass was facing me, so I started licking her asshole. After a while, I started fingering Laura's ass and licking her pussy from behind while Jasmine sucked on her clit. Laura was busy sucking and fingering Julie's pussy while Julie was busy sucking Mike's cock. Laura was the first to start screaming as she reached her climax. Jasmine and I kept right on eating and fingering her until she finally calmed down. Then we lightly licked her. Deshawn was next, and I could feel the warmth of his load splattering against the membrane separating our two cocks. Shortly after Deshawn had his orgasm, Julie and Mike both came too. Julie held Mike's cum in her mouth, and after they were both done turned around and kissed Laura, sharing his load with her. Jasmine and I were the only ones left, and since Deshawn was spent, he slid out of her pussy. Jasmine rolled over as I laid on my back and started riding my cock hard. Julie came around and started sucking on Jasmine's clit and licking my balls and shaft as I slid in and out of Jasmine's ass. Laura and Mike began to suck Jasmine's nipples and kiss her. Her pace quickened, and I couldn't take it anymore. I started cumming and screaming like a fool. I thought there for a second I was going to pass out. As I was coming down from my climax, Jasmine finally got hers. Julie sucked her clit into her mouth and started flicking her tongue over it. Laura was giving her a deep French kiss while Mike and Deshawn were sucking her nipples, and I was still semi-erect buried in her ass. When she finally came down, we all passed out in a heap of bodies on the deck. I don't know what time it was, and I don't think anyone cared. Everyone got quiet as they dozed off for a while, and when I woke up, my cock was still partially in Jasmine's ass. That knowledge made me start to get hard, and Jasmine squirmed as my cock grew. Jasmine turned her head towards me and smiled as she pressed back into me. I looked around and saw that Laura's head was resting on Deshawn's cock and groin, Julie's head was resting on Laura's pussy, and Mike was sleeping with his head on Julie's pussy. I slow fucked Jasmine's ass for several minutes until I sent my third load of cum into her ass. Afterward, she pulled off of me, turn to face me, kissed me, and fell back asleep in my arms. We all woke up later in the morning. The girls made breakfast while we guys cleaned up the mess from last night. Nobody said much, but we each gave very affectionate hugs and kisses when we parted.
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1 pointUs too. Online everything these days but the only problem is the wife can't pick up men at the online casino. Hotwifing at the casino is a popular swinger activity we also enjoy, and this is my wife doing just that from a 2019 Vegas trip...
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1 pointYep. A woman I'd started dating took me to a 'swinger' party. More accurately nine or ten horny young Marines, male & female getting naked and engaging in assorted sex acts. Cant remember if any were married, tho most were dating couples of some degree. All probablly under age 25. I was 21 & a couple months, my new gf a few months older. We met for a easy dinner, went to the party which she & some friends organized, had sex with several others, and crashed when the party faded after midnight. I was sold,
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1 pointYes it was the best. We have talked about it many times and believe we were spoiled by it. The first date with them we went to dinner and could not help myself thinking about what might happen. Across from the younger woman I tried to imagine how the sex would be. It was special to travel through the evening going from a casual conversation at a table to being between her legs. We had danced some and on our way to our cars, She embraced me and kissed me. She said to follow them home. No woman has ever accepted me inside and giving me all her sex like she did. My wife was emotionally attached to her husband and we dated them many times. NO other couple has been so special to us.
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1 pointThe question is, what was my first swinging experience? I broke up with my fiance but we were still seeing each other and screwing. Was it when I met and started dating my future husband, and went back and fucked my ex? Or when I started fucking my future husband while still fucking my ex? Or when my future husband told me he knew about my ex and said he was OK with it? Lots of people have multiple sex partners in the dating world, so maybe swinging started for me when hubby and Red and I had our first MFM; or our first FMF with another woman. If "swinging" requires some sort of swap, then it would be when hubby and I started couples swapping with Lora and her boyfriend, Walter, who then got married but kept swapping with us. It was fun, but I was more interested in Lora than Walter. Lora left Walter and joined our family. She was more interested in hubby and me than Walter. In any case, YES, it was all worth repeating.
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1 pointOur first time was wonderful. My wife and I had never discussed swinging and it just happened when a very close nudist couple had come over to our house. We were all nude and our male friend started massaging my wife while I was massaging his wife. His wife smiled and pointed to her husband and my wife were having intercourse. His wife and I immediately started ourselves. It made our friendship much closer.
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1 pointThis happened in a very short time after posting on here. I wasn’t shopping, I wasn’t searching, I just posted on a site. Am I going to get my FB loaded with ads for underwear now? I could understand getting an email about something I searched the Internet for but here I posted on a site with a little ci on it. Doesn’t that mean secure? I swear Alexa listens too.
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1 pointAfter posting I got an ad from Century 21 a store that sells high fashion at discount prices and the lead ad was of sexy underwear. I swear the internet knows everything about you. The ad was for really cute bra-panty-garter belt sets. I’m sure the model made it cuter than what I’ll make it look. PS I’ve never worn a garter belt.
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1 pointMarshall’s? Lol. TJ Maxx. If I feel like splurging Victoria Secrets. My husband likes my cotton bikinis.
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1 pointOur first was with a couple in Florida who ran a club (now defunct) that was devoted to education of novices. the couple was full of good information and had a caring attitude. At the end of a couple of hours of discussion with them, they simply asked if we were ready to try swinging. If we weren't, that was OK, but we were. The first swap was full swap, separate rooms. It was wonderful. My wife actually learned a new position from the guy that we have use, to our delight, many times. I got over my nervousness quickly because I was with a delightful, beautiful, well built woman who couldn't have been more encouraging and reassuring. I wish I could thank them both again for introducing us to the lifestyle 20 years ago.
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1 pointOur first couples experience was one we should have avoided. It was ok physically, but we went way too far. It was our first visit to a club, someone on sls noticed we were going and decided to casually run into us there. The husband was someone I had dated just after high school. We flirted, my husband seemed into the wife, we jumped right in with both feet with a full swap in separate rooms - which wasn't on the agenda. After that, we slowed way down and got our bearings. We gladly full swap separate rooms now - heck we don't even necessarily have to be with a couple to go off on our own at parties, for instance. We most frequently meet with singles and sometimes get into group action. So, would we repeat - nope.
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1 pointI've had a lot of firsts with Mr. Sun as well, considering he was my first real boyfriend, first had sex with, first with oral/vaginal/anal sex, first to go to a club with, first to swap, and first to have a threesome with. In terms of the first time we swapped with the first couple that "broke us in" the sex was meh but the environment and atmosphere along with doing this together with Mr. Sun was awesome. Based on sex alone, no, I wouldn't repeat again but considering the experience, yes! I don't think we've met a couple yet that has wow'ed us on the first swap. Maybe we need more experience or maybe sex gets better and better the more chances and the more you get to know a couple.
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1 pointWe had an amazing first experience. In fact, I wrote a story about it that lives here at The Swingers Board Swinger Stories - A Great First Experience. We consider ourselves lucky, because our second experience was so-so. And if we'd had a *negative* experience the first time, it would have seriously dampened our enthusiasm for the whole hobby. We repeated with the same couple for a little over a year.
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1 pointGive me a "Hell, YEAH!" I guess my first swing experience set me up for failure, because it's still in the Top Ten of my lifestyle experiences at this point. I admit that there have been much more exciting and interesting encounters since then, but to have several fantasies fulfilled in one evening -- especially my first ever swing-encounter -- makes it a special, and memorable event. I was finally out of an on-again/off-again relationship by January 2000. I dislocated, and had to have surgery on, my shoulder in February 2000. Just a week or so after I was cleared for "normal" activity with my shoulder -- in April 2000 -- I visited a lifestyle club southeast of Pittsburgh. Up to that point I had never veered from vanilla sex except for some basic toy and fetish stuff with previous girlfriends and lovers. I was nervous when I arrived at 8pm when the club opened. I met a few singles and a nice couple, none of whom were interested in me, but were nice people to talk to, and they showed me around the club, and introduced me to other people. (Just so you know, the owner admitted me for $75 for the party...I thought that was a reasonable cost...but he wasn't very nice to the few single males he DID allow at the party.) After schmoozing with a lot of folks at the bar, I hit the 20-person hot tub and talked to a few people. The only "contact" I got was massaging a woman's calves. Several of us, both male and female, moved upstairs later, towels around our waists, where there was a 3X3 or 4-mattress public area and as well as several adjoining private rooms. We're standing there in our towels, and I noticed one 20/30-something couple going at it doggie-style. Half jokingly, as he looked over, I made several indications to him, and wouldn't you know it, he beckoned me over, and that's where I spent a major part of a half-hour on my first lifestyle night. Too good to be true...for me, anyway. Later, I was back on the ground floor in the party room where smokers were allowed. Lots of kissing, fondling, carressing and some oral going on, but mostly just people talking. It was after midnight and my mind was still buzzing from the threesome play (my first threesome and my first sex in public, btw), and a single woman (who had come to the club with a male friend) engaged me and two couples in conversation about blowjobs. Someone initiated a dice game where-in it apparently became impossible that I would be a loser. I got a prolonged and very public blowjob to completion from the single female. The rules were very flexible, apparently... So, in my first lifestyle experience, I had not only participated in my first threesome, but it was in public, and I also got a very elaborate blowjob, in public, and was complimented by my partner to boot. I've had much more satisfying encounters since then, but I realize that I was VERY lucky with that as my first encounter -- especially as a single male -- in the lifestyle. So yes, my first encounter is worth repeating. And I'd like to try it again several times...just to make sure I was right.