I wouldn't say it is necessarily all online. We are a younger couple and pretty much never use the internet to find people especially a guy for an MFM. My GF has used her social media a few times to reconnect with men she knew in the past either sexually or not but we rarely use the internet for meeting new people. Most of the time we meet them at a swingers club, a regular bar or dance club, strip club, the gym, or pretty much anywhere. It's not hard to find guys for an MFM out there but you do have to be more outgoing and approachable which I think makes some people uncomfortable which is why they go to the internet.