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That's why professional porn never did it for either of us. Real amateurs all the way!

What if they are really good actors? Lol

Studies have shown that an overwhelming majority of heroin users started on milk.

So I will play a little game by myself whenever I watch a threesome/moresome porn video. I prefer the videos that present real people/real couples. Then, while watching the sex scene occur, I like to guess which pairings are the real couple, and who is the "extra" person in the video. I judge by how the participants kiss each other, how they look while giving a blowjob or going down on each other, little playful verbal banter caught on film, type or amount of dirty talk, volume or quality of vocalized pleasure during the scene...so I guess the question is: Am I the only one who does stuff like this, and what else do you do while watching porn (aside from the obvious activity)?

Rec is legal here. I have no issues with people who use it for medical whatsoever as i use it myself recreationally. With that said i prefer edibles. I do not feel compelled to say we use on our swingers profile. Feel it might run people off.

@SW_PA_Couple Looks like 10 years moved you to the 'dark' side on Marijuana. What changed your opinion about legalization? Our research tells us that smoking is not good for us, whether cigs, joints and especially vape. Use edibles for your medical and recreational marijuana. The benefits are huge, however, the effects from edibles last much longer and take time to come on. So you gotta plan accordingly. FYI - I support the legalization, but also feel like we need a lot of education as well.

I say yes. Once things are “back to normal,” people have short memories. But the comeback may be slow at first. Men with six foot penises will be accepted first. They can perform at socially acceptable distances.

there are some studies in humans using functional magnetic resonance imaging that show those sex-related areas are activated even more with the addition of cannabis...this explains why all of your sensations are at a heightened level. I am totally in favor of this experiment =)) My partner and I tried all possible combinations of hybrid weed that are made by crossbreeding different strains of cannabis which gives you some exceptional moments. You can't replace these sensations with anything, I understand you.

The gal that I started this journey with was really into the idea of getting double stuffed, and we'd roleplayed it a few times with toys as props. When we decided to take the leap, we had no idea what swinging was or that there was an entire community, let alone any of the websites like this one. But, as nearly fairly common, she did have an ex that would periodically contact her hoping that they could hook up. So, we went that route. It was easy, in that they were already comfortable with each other. He was a bit weirded out at the idea that I was going to be present (it was more of a tag team than a simultaneous 3way), but her "charms" convinced him pretty fast. I think the confidence level of the woman involved has a LOT to do with the ease of setting this up. If she is confident enough to take the lead, it will be really easy. If she is hesitant and needs the guy to take the lead, it will be much more difficult (not impossible).

PS, last week we got the first of two covid 19 pizer shots,

Numex, When the venue and situation is right and comfortable, we definitely agree! We enjoy watching couples make love, and it can be really exciting (and educational). Making love with others watching can be really hot and exciting for us (performing). We had these experiences several times last summer on our open bow runabout on the lake's west end. Once past "The Point", the water is shallower and the big bolts and sail boats don't go there, so it's pretty much nude. People know this so families don't go past the point. Best Regards, J& R

Hi All! With the RONA, we pretty much isolated, wore masked and stayed away from people who did not distance and wear masks. We simple dropped out it seems. We canceled at least 6 one to two week long vacations to Mexico (HBR), Florida (Caliente) and Arizona (Mira Vista) in the past 15 months, which really gave us time to reacquaint, spend time with immediate family and nude boat and sun on the big lake west of town during last summer. Our meal preparation, diets, exercise habits, etc. all improved! LOL, We both recently completed our second annual physicals since the RONA shutdowns with everything testing and checking out really good. After discussions with both of our personal doctors, we decided to avoid even soft swing activity to further avoid picking up anything bad or uncomfortable and bring it home. We like the energy of lifestyle venues like meet and greets, clothes optional resorts, and we are very upfront with people we meet. When appropriate flashing, watching and doing some public sex is very exciting and hot for both of us. Best Regards All! Julie and Robb

I wouldn't say it is necessarily all online. We are a younger couple and pretty much never use the internet to find people especially a guy for an MFM. My GF has used her social media a few times to reconnect with men she knew in the past either sexually or not but we rarely use the internet for meeting new people. Most of the time we meet them at a swingers club, a regular bar or dance club, strip club, the gym, or pretty much anywhere. It's not hard to find guys for an MFM out there but you do have to be more outgoing and approachable which I think makes some people uncomfortable which is why they go to the internet.

We started that way as well. Loved it. Actually enjoy it more than MFMF. Something about sharing my wife and having two men totally focused on one lady. Yes, she's still a 'lady' with a little wide side. I'd suggest you consider men without the need for a large cock as a requirement. I think you are just limiting yourselves unnecessarily and will end up passing on a lot of great guys that will rock your world. What we look for is a good man, honest, truthful, gentle, pleasant, with similar values and in our case in good shape. Cock size is secondary, especially in your maiden hook-up. There is so much to be excited about, turned on about and to enjoy. I know it's hard to believe, but even men are more complex than the size of their dicks. Find someone you click with, enjoy conversing with and you find attractive both physically and mentally and then if he's well endowed you get a bonus. Regardless, I think you'll find your first time quite exciting and a huge turn-on. Good luck.

In the modern world it's all online. Start with SLS or Kasidie or one of the swinger sites advertised here, make a profile, start talking w guys. Arrange Zoom meetings with the ones that interest you. MFM was how we got our start in the LS 20 years ago. We loved it then and we love it now.

It will come back, swingers are risk takers and as someone else answered many of us have short memories.

Although we swap with other couples, there have been times when we've gotten together with another couple with the expectation of fucking each other's spouses, but ended up with our own. Just because, and very exciting.

Once you are in the pipeline things will come up from different groups in your local area. We started out on SLS, joined a local group, heard from other people in that group things that were going on elsewhere. It is rather much like if you want a job take any job in a place and watch the hiring board same theory. Most of the meet and greets that we've gone to have been pretty tame. Those that weren't real tame we're still very far away from full blown orgies. I think you would find it a safe place to be. Who knows you just might meet somebody.

Lets be honest. 95% of all medical marijuana proponents just want to toke up and are using it as an excuse to try to get it legalized. Then when you talk about taxes and Mexican cartels its obvious the medical part is a sham, its all about toking up, because even if it were legal for medical issues it would do nothing in the area of taxation and drug trafficking THATS all due to recreational use. So what you are asking is should marijuana be legalized period. That goes too political here for me to discuss on this board, but be honest about the question.