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  1. 2 points
    Working fine now, might have just been a short down for maintenance outage. Getting a site back up and running usually isn't the end of it, there's often one or more short downtimes after that to do this or that to get back to full 100%.
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    I got a text response but I needed more so I called her. She claims she told me about her friend when we met, something I don’t remember if she did 2 years ago. She said she had a friend who went to my gym, again I don’t remember. I asked why didn’t she and her husband play with her friend and she said she tried alone and it didn’t work out. Her friend, the one at my gym, couldn’t do it. We then got into a discussion about turning 50 and changes we go through and the pandemic and what we have been doing. I told her we keep our private life private and I hate that too many people know what we do and she apologized and said she should have reached out not knowing both me and her friend would be at the gym at the same time. She swore nobody was stalking me, she thinks her friend just built up her nerve to approach me. Then she thanked me for being so nice when we met knowing how scared she was. Alan suggested I talk to the gym friend.
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    We would not tell anyone that other people are in the lifestyle or even nudism without the other people’s express consent. It’s not a matter of helping. It’s about privacy. One of our nude beach buddies (female) was on a bowling team with one of my wife’s co-workers (male). Our buddy let it slip that she hangs out with my wife at the nude beach. She called my wife immediately and apologized profusely. We did believe it was accidental. Everyone survived. The co-worker never said anything to my wife or anyone else as far as we know. I am sure our buddy was mortified and told him to forget she said it.
  4. 2 points
    What is the story?
  5. 1 point
    Huh? You know us? Think you might be right about things not changing since school.
  6. 1 point
    At some point you just have to accept the place you're at and not worry about finding out exactly how you got there. And I have to agree, at some point real life is just an extension of high school. Be seeing you.
  7. 1 point
    One question to ask yourself is: Did they do this to "help me" or "hurt me"? I would frame my response accordingly. Of course, they should have checked with you and asked permission before sharing your business. But, they did it with people in the lifestyle in what seems to be an attempt to facilitate connection not to hurt you... Given that, I'd temper my anger.
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    Haven’t heard back yet. I am a little upset that we were outed in our own area and wasn’t told that I was going to ambushed at the gym. Alan is making lemonade out of this saying we should be flattered that she searched us out. He is say so what if the couple enjoyed what we do and sent us a couple that is looking for a caring couple to guide them, that is what we did for them.
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    Do tell - what did they say?
  10. 1 point
    She recognized you from the swinger site and made-up the story about the other couple - or possibly had a casual/virtual contact with them on the site and noticed that you two verified each other...something like that. That's my guess.
  11. 1 point
    I was raised in a very conservative Christian family myself so I have an inkling as to what she is going through as well. Best defense for Christians is a good offense: I've posted this before (heck, I may have posted this earlier in this thread) but for other Christians having issues with swinging and religion, first remember that the Old Testament had almost every marriage being between multiple people and it wasn't 'condemned', it wasn't even said to be wrong. It was almost needed to provide the labor for farming or herding. It just kind of faded away as more people moved into cities instead of needing the help being nomads/farmers/herders. But just because having multiple wives came to an end, it didn't mean that monogamy was the only accepted 'norm'. In Roman times, just because you were married, didn't mean you never had sex with anyone else. People 'think' that the Bible condemns most sexual activity, but in actuality it doesn't, and the Romans had plenty: bath houses, legal prostitution, orgies, gladiators (not just for fighting in the arena), homosexuality, sex with slaves, and more were all considered legal, allowable, and not a violation of the marriage. Next, read this: Monogamy Isn't Biblical, It's Roman Finally, remember search (hidden in upper right corner) is your friend. There are a bunch of threads dealing with Christianity and swinging. Here's a good book on the topic: "Unprotected Texts: The Bible's Surprising Contradictions about Sex and Desire" by Jennifer Wrigtht Knust This ought to at least give you some ammo to start the conversation rolling. Let us know how things progress!
  12. 1 point
    My partner Marylin and I enjoyed a wide range of sexual activities together and we had both lost any sexual inhibitions we may have had many years ago. Both of us were in our early forties and were in good physical condition. We had often fantasized while having sex about another women watching us in bed. The other woman could sit on a chair and watch us, talk and comment as much as she liked, preferably become extremely turned on, but she would not be allowed to participate. One Friday night one of Marylin’s female friends joined us for dinner in our city apartment. Good food, even better wine and stimulating conversation, which towards the end of the second bottle, turned to sex and in particular our sex life. Marylin took great delight in telling her friend, not for the first time I suspect, how she especially liked me to fuck her. The first step involved Marylin dressing in nothing more than perfume, high heels and a g-string to highlight her brilliant arse, and getting me as hard as a rock using a range of foreplay and techniques which included a mouth full of ice among other equally erotic methods. When Marylin had me almost fully aroused she would then insist upon me kissing and licking the cheeks of her glorious arse as she stood with her legs apart and arms raised with one of her hands resting on a wall and the other grasping and measuring my cock until in her words “You are rock hard and ready to fuck me really good.” Marylin seemed a little agitated as she recounted to her friend with a knowing smile, “He has a rather pretty and big, thick cock you know.” Her words arousing me as I watched Marylin’s friends obvious mental turn-on. With that Marylin disappeared into the bathroom in our bedroom and I thought that was the end of that particular conversation. Marylin’s friend and I switched the conversation to far more mundane and arcane matters and we began to wonder what had happened to Marylin. In due course Marylin reappeared from the bathroom and it became obvious why she had been gone so long. Wearing a very confident smile, high heels and nothing else other than a g-string Marylin slowly walked back into the room, smiling and switching eye contact between her friend and me. Emboldened by the wine and without saying a word Marylin approached and kissed her friend long and hard while she was she was still seated at the dinner table, at the same time looking out of the corner of her eye at me and enjoying the obvious effect her kiss was having on me. Marylin then turned her attention to me and tongue kissed me with a passion that I never experienced from her before. But then, no one had ever watched her kiss me before while she was wearing nothing but high heels and a g-string. Her friend’s smile indicated that she was not in the least uncomfortable with what was happening in front of her as I returned Marylin’s passion and felt my erection straining under my clothes. Marylin took me by the hand and still without saying a single word she stood with her legs apart and two hands on the wall and indicated for me to lick and kiss her glorious arse as her friend watched fascinated. “Show my friend just how pretty your big thick cock is,” were the first words Marylin had spoken since she had come back from the bathroom as she turned and started pulling at my clothes. In no time Marylin had her wish and her friend seemed to be beaming her tacit approval as Marylin took one hand of each of us and led us into the bedroom. “Well, is his cock as good as I have been telling you?” Marylin asked as we walked to the bedroom. “I am most impressed,” was the strained response. “Sit there and you can watch,” Marylin instructed her friend as she indicated a chair a short distance from the bed and led me to the bed. “Take my g-string off and fuck me from behind while my friend watches. Show her what you can do,” Marylin instructed as she laid on the bed directly facing her friend with my rock hard cock in her hand. Always eager to please I assumed my position and took one of Marylin’s glorious arse cheeks in each hand as I slowly thrust into her from behind and watched the reaction from her friend. “Is he really hard and thick Marylin?” “Extremely.” “Is he right up you?” “Not yet. Come on fuck me harder.” “Is he a good fuck?” “The best. Come on, fuck me harder.” “I love the sound of him slapping into your arse cheeks.” “Good. Fuck me harder. Harder.” “You two are really turning me on.” “Harder. Harder. Give it to me.” “I always wanted to watch him fucking you Marylin.” “Do you like hearing him slapping against my arse?” “I am so turned on.” “Not as turned on as me. Watching you, watching me being fucked like this this is heaven. "Harder. Faster. "Push me over the top.” “Are you getting close?” “Very close. Show her how good you really are. Harder. Faster. Give it to me.” The timbre in the voice of Marylin’s friend indicated that she was as turned on as both of us were and we feel sure that the three of us had simultaneous orgasms.
  13. 1 point
    What Is a Gangbang? A gangbang is a sexual scenario where one person has sex with many (four or more) people of the opposite sex at the same time. Women are most often the center of a gangbang while enjoying the attention of multiple men. A gangbang can have as many participants as you desire. A gangbang can also occur where one man has sex with many women at the same time. This referred to as a reverse gangbang. How Do Gangbangs Work? Since there are only so many ways that a single woman can please other people, the number of participants at one time may be limited. If there are more men than available than the woman can accommodate at one time, she may want to invite a 'fluffer.' A fluffer's job is to keep any men who are not actively participating in the gangbang at that moment hard or to get them hard. For extremely large gangbangs, you may need multiple fluffers. How Do You Find Participants? Unless you already know a large number of people who are interested in joining your gangbang, you may find it challenging to arrange enough men. If you've had several MFM encounters, you may have built up a pool of men to draw from for this activity. Ask those guys first and see how many positively respond before you branch out into unknown territory. Keep in mind that even men who are comfortable with threesomes may find they aren't comfortable in a gangbang scenario. When drawing from a pool of unknown men, you will find that half (or less) of the men you invite actually show up. Unfortunately, many men who not experienced in gangbangs (or swinging of any kind) find the idea appealing, but when faced with reality, not so much. The best way to find participants is to search for a local gangbang group. You can often find these on internet groups or by talking to other swinger friends in your area who might know a group. If seeking men on your own, stick to single men on swinger lifestyle websites that have certifications showing that they are experienced swingers. While they may not have experience in gangbangs, at least they've had sex with other people in the room. What Should I Expect? In my opinion, there are two types of gangbangs. The first is a gangbang where the girl is the center of attention and getting attention from more than one guy at a time (and giving attention to more than one guy at a time). If you are the guy in this type of gangbang, understand up front that you will not be getting the undivided attention of a woman. Your job is to give her your full attention! While you won't get her full attention, you hopefully will get enough of her attention to ensure that you have a great evening. The second type of gangbang is a "train." This is what most people envision when they think of a gangbang. A train is basically a line of guys waiting, cock in hand, to have sex with a girl as she lies back and takes them on. In this situation the guy is more likely to get the female's full attention when it is his turn. When planning a gangbang, consider which type you'd prefer and be sure to make your participants aware of what you expect. Where Should We Have It? The best place to have a gangbang is anywhere that you are comfortable. However, I would not advise inviting a bunch of guys you don't know over to your house. A hotel is probably the best choice. Make sure you get a room that is big enough to accommodate the number of people you hope to have show up. You may want to get a suite with an adjoining sitting area, to have room to spread out. Don't forget the necessary supplies like lube and condoms. Make sure to have plenty of your preferred condom on hand, as well as your favorite lube. You're likely to get a little dry after a couple of hours. When planning your first gangbang, go into it with an open attitude and the understanding that it may not turn out as you hope or plan. Invite at least twice as many men as you'd like to have show up, and know that you'll have a good time with whoever shows up, even if it's just one guy.
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