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Very simply put....hell ya. Most our gatherings have a wide range of ages. As young as late twenties early thirties to well into the seventies. The core age is mid forties to early sixties. personally two of my greatest experiences was with a late sixties woman and later another (some time later) with a mid seventies woman. I was mid fifties. Most my experiences now are 50s to late 60s. my experiences with older play partners is a much more enjoyable, slower paced....longer play touch caress taste...oral and a lot less inhibition experience. All the ladies were up for about anything and knew what they wanted and what they wanted to do. Much more physical.....and not much slam bang and move on. many of the late forties and fifties ladies with a few much younger enjoy and seek out older males for the same reason. Much more and longer attention paid to them rather than the usual male move it on get in and get out one shot sex play. as with all in the LS...it’s really about personality....humor....and self confidence. Be open...adventurous..... we all reach an age where we feel more comfortable.....and feel we look better clothed. But guess what? The person across from you probably feels the same. Its all in your mind set.

We vacation often in South Florida and have seen a good number of 70+ year olds in a swing club. Isn't 70 the new 50?

So, as a lifetime user on SLS I often review new profiles. I do it . . . just cause. Single guys tend to give me a good laugh every now and then. Like this: "Let's get together and no each other." True story . . .

Yeah, context is king. I have to wear diabetic shoes, and this latest pair is causing a sore on a toe. I had an appointment with my very cute doctor today. She looked at the problem, then at my shoe and said, “You need a big box.” Then, she realized what she’d said, we both laughed, and she explained, “your shoe needs a bigger box at the toes.”

See, swinging doesn't have an maximum age restriction...only a minimum one. You are just as old as you feel...as long as you feel older than 18

We would not tell anyone that other people are in the lifestyle or even nudism without the other people’s express consent. It’s not a matter of helping. It’s about privacy. One of our nude beach buddies (female) was on a bowling team with one of my wife’s co-workers (male). Our buddy let it slip that she hangs out with my wife at the nude beach. She called my wife immediately and apologized profusely. We did believe it was accidental. Everyone survived. The co-worker never said anything to my wife or anyone else as far as we know. I am sure our buddy was mortified and told him to forget she said it.

Lots of examples of things like that. Such as when I'm pushing one of my grandkids on a swing and they say they like to swing. And I say, "Yes, Pop Pop likes to swing, too."

The 2018 SESTA/FOSTA law made safely finding an escort significantly more difficult. Most of the websites and forums where you could previously interact with escorts or get access to their personal webpages are now gone. We have not used the services of one, but my wife and I discussed it, given the scarcity of unicorns and our specific wants out of FFM threesome. While prostitution and human trafficking are different things, the two are heavily intertwined legally, and commonly conflated by law enforcement (ie Robert Kraft's massage parlor incident). For those reason, my advice would be to stick to states and countries where it is legal.

While Tahoe is close to Nevada, escorts are rather expensive and you still run the risk of having to explain what you were doing if they are police instead of an escort. There is a swingers club in Reno (we haven't been there but maybe some day) called Pokher Knights (yes, that is the correct spelling) that has really good reviews. We, however, say just set up a profile on one of the swinger sites and go that route as well. No matter which path you take, report back and let us know how things are going for you two. Good luck!

Try a swinger club! There are a few good ones in Vegas, probably more in the Bay Area, assuming you are in Lake Tahoe. Or establish a profile on one of the date sites listed at the top of the page in blue.

If pay-for-play sex is what your after, and assuming you are located stateside, your best bet is to take a trip to Nevada and head out to one of the ten counties outside of Las Vegas where prostitution is legal and (somewhat) regulated. It will be pricey, but your experience is less likely to be a total disaster. Otherwise, wait for the pandemic to subside and book a flight to Amsterdam, where prostitution is legal, well-regulated and considered to be just another way to make a living. The prostitutes even have a workers union. Amsterdam has an entire district in the city devoted to the sex trade and you can find whatever it is you are longing for, from the tame to as wild as you want to get. It's comparatively safe as the police are never far away. Most of the crime is small time petty stuff, like pickpockets, etc. Violence is uncommon, but is not unheard of. Otherwise, you're playing with fire. Aside from those ten counties in Nevada, prostitution is illegal in every other county in every other state. Prostitution is almost entirely run by organized crime, either small scale pimps or syndicated crime organizations (i.e., mafia, drug gangs, biker gangs, etc.) Most call girls are drug users of some kind and hook to support their habits and/or the habits of their pimps. And many wouldn't have any qualms about slipping you a roofie and making off making off with whatever they can steal. Prostitution is a dirty, illegal business and there is nothing "safe" about it.

Like I said, we have done it. I have no issue with how far she wants to take it but its her preference to not go "all the way."

Thanks for your positive and uplifting msg. Ow we have reinvigorated our efforts to find the right couples again.

As long as you're breathing, there's a place for you.

Yes, you just have to locate people who want to play with people your age. I am unaware of your location, but you can hit paydirt in Florida, USA. The Villages near Orlando. Paradise Lakes near Tampa. Many in southern Florida. We are 61 and we are the 25 year olds of Florida.