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We would not play with people who are unvaccinated. I suspect that a large number of lifestylers agree. As someone who contracted a serious upper respiratory infection from a swinging encounter a few years ago, I can tell you that swapping spit is a very effective means of transmission for a virus.

Agreed. Certain things are a turn off; wedding pics on lifestyle site. Pets, family, kids toys, and above all filth in a house. Laundry strewn about, messy kitchen, etc. see lots of pics in the bathroom. One of the recent was a sexy booty but looked like the bathroom hadn’t been cleaned since they moved in. Not a square inch ig counter space and looked like 6 months of toothpaste spit splash back on the mirror, gross! Immediately make me wonder about personal hygiene if that’s the kind of house they keep. to go along with Facebook mentality and texting talk...hate, hate, hate when people write like the txt; U up? U look hot, Wanna fuck? Send me u pics.....

I don’t want to get in the middle of the debate immediately above but wanted to weigh in. it’s pretty unlikely that we’ll jump back into any lifestyle activities until masks are off and things have settled more stable. Most probably we’ll want to make sure playmates are vaccinated. Many good arguments in the thread on both sides BUT pretty unlikely that we will be a match with the unvaccinated crowd on a social, political, or philosophical level and therefore probably would not be comfortable on a sexual level either.

In response to an abbreviated comments; yes we respect people’s devious about what goes into their bodies. So please respect ours that we don’t want unvaccinated people in ours. it is difficult not to lump ‘non-vaxers’ into a single group because largely we see the choice divided between a public health/safety vs. a personal freedom debate. I certainly understand the reluctance to receive the vaccine due to limited info on side or long term effects. I also have the opinion that those sitting on the fence should decide to vaccinate or wear mask and social distance indefinitely. Yes, very much like a Scarlet letter. But, at least in our experience locally and with regional travel, this is not the case. For example; as health care workers we are encouraged to receive flu shots every year. Until a few years ago there were no consequences if an employee opted out (either by choice or for medical/religious reasons). Not long after SARS it was mandated that we get the shot annually OR wear a mask at all times on duty between 11/1-3/31 to protect our patients, visitors, and coworkers. Now when you get a flu shot, you are given a color coded “badge buddy” (scarlet letter) that must be attached to your ID and visibly displayed while at work. If you don’t have correct badge or mask you are counseled once, then suspended w/o pay if caught again. Only tome mask can be removed is during meal in designated break area or cafeteria. Guess what? Annually we have greater than 95% compliance which is up from about 67% before the policy. Freedom of choice is still in place but consequences are clear for those not participating. There are tons of articles on herd immunity. It supports other statements on Polio, Small Pox, etc. noted here. With new debated on Vaccination Passports, I think we’ll see more of this. I believe that this passport is unconstitutional, however that does not prevent private operators such as airlines, cruise operators, amusement parks, etc. from make vaccine documentation a part of their T&C for accessing their goods or services. This is quickly evolving and we should start seeing how things like this shake out over the next few months. njbm: We would not play with people who are unvaccinated. I suspect that a large number of lifestylers agree. We agree. As noted above.

Don’t even get me started on the Instagram type filters/overlays on the photos......

Science!

We've both been vaccinated. I'm not absolutely sure that if we met someone who really turned us on that we'd require that they be vaccinated - after all, it's their health that would be compromised, not ours. But we'd appreciate them a bit better if they were; it would show they're taking their health and ours a little more seriously.

They keep lowering the age and opening up to more people. It’s crazy that smokers get priority, what do I know.

We both received our Positive results for the SARS-CoV-2 (Covid 19) DiaSorin Ab IGG The results do say there are false positives possible due to other past human coronavirus infections which infrequently occur. Being we both tested Positive I’m not sure of the odds we both got false positives. We have plans with out of town friends that both have been vaccinated to visit us this week. They want to see NYC and have waited for this week but knowing we weren’t vaccinated they were unsure if they should stay with us. She was one of the first friends I played with and it’s been a long time since we have seen them.

The advice here is good, but if you're looking for a man who is into swinging and a long-term relationship, potentially marriage, I don't think that like every other guy is into that. Men who want to share of life of non-monogamy and swinging with a wife are certainly out there (and if they are like my husband and the way other husbands here seem to be, the are above average spouses), but you need to be honest about what you are looking for and be choosey. Most men still think that they want monogamy, so you need to say that you aren't going to be monogamous up front so as not to waste anyone's time.

There are times that Mike will question if I cum and he doesn’t believe me when I say I did. He has told me that he didn’t feel me cum and other times he did. When I told him that his orgasms are not always the same, sometimes he has a bigger amount of cum than other times he said that’s different. I told him he sometimes speeds up when he cums and other times he doesn’t. Sometimes I have wondered if he came and other times it drips out plenty. I don’t control what happens in me I just know it is good.