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Mrs Doc wears bra and panties for work each day. They hit the laundry basket within 10 minutes of her walking in the door. At home, no, never!! Depending on the outfit, she will wear a bra when we go out socially but she and I both prefer a sundress (ONLY a sundress) and heels.

Last weekend…

My wife and I are in our 70s, so we enjoyed porn from that era when it wasn’t vintage. ?☺️ We still ejoy a vigorous sex life, but erotica isn’t such a big part of it, in part because we don’t find current porn very pleasant. When she is in the mood, her go-to is the classic “Behind the Green Door”. Seeing contemporary photos of the stars from 50 years ago (those still living) can be a shock. Of course we’ve barely aged in the interim... ?

I recently got hooked on vintage porn too. Maybe it will sound strange, but I am excited by the fact that porn actors had that sex even before I was born. Such a feeling, as if watching mammoth sex. Sometimes, when I masturbate with a dildo, I imagine being fucked by a dick from the past. Such a machine (penis) of time. The only downside to vintage porn is that there is a limited number of it. Sometimes I have to watch the same one couple of times. Btw I liked the idea of guessing who is who. I will definitely try it today.

Strike up a conversation and see where it goes or have her approach and while he watches from across the bar. A woman asking to join you is a lot less threatening. It is much easier finding a male to join you.

Yes yes YES, let the woman do the speaking. My husband is very smooth and he still doesn't come across as well as I do. No offense to the men but none of our ladies have even felt threatened by a lady, it is always the men who put us off. Once we get to know the husbands very well there is seldom a problem as long as the wife is present but either way the women have always been the catalyst for our great hook ups. Alura wrote it like a pro!

Great post, Alura, spoken like a true salesperson. My wife always responds if a man approaches her by flirting. A typical first question is, "Which do you prefer, fish or rubber balls?" Two very unrelated things, not at all related to the place. This lets her know whether the guy is agile on his feet, has a thought process as strange as hers, if he's willing to take it further. If he comes back with a double entendre, such as, "Do they have to be rubber?" and makes her laugh, his stock goes way up. If he simply says, "Fish, why do you ask," he's pretty much flunked the first test, She'll respond by saying, "Well, I'm more into rubber balls. Doesn't seem we have much in common," and she'll blow him off.

Changes the definition of going for 'a work out'

That is why we try to treat every question as real. Even if the original poster turns out to just be looking for a cheap thrill (not saying that you are, just talking in general) there may be someone later who comes by and finds the advice helpful. We hear you about the FWB and one night stands but swinging has never been mainstream. Maybe a tributary during the late '60's/early 70's, but never mainstream. There are guys out there, you just need to keep looking. Referring back to what Idaho said: The best way to catch a fish is to first find a lake that HAS the right fish. Start with meet and greets or a swingers club. Trust me, you will have NO PROBLEM making friends. Just make sure that you vet them and never settle. You hold the cards here and should be able to find exactly what you want. It just takes some time, effort and patience. Now, did you ever take off your clothes and assume the position?

Cough cough, hair, there is a hair caught, cough cough (couldn't resist on an earlier post). I understand your thoughts though about vintage.

I can't say that I've been as conscious in my evaluation. But I am aware of the things that you mention. I will say that if it's obvious to me that none of the participants have any actual connection to each other, and they're not genuinely into each other, it becomes far less interesting.

Most of the time I don't wear underwear. My wife and I never do around the house. In fact I often wear nothing but a T-shirt around the house and my wife usually wears less than I do. When my wife and I went over to a friends house to hang out and possibly play, we never wore underwear, and usually took off everything when we got there or when he visited us.

My wife stopped wearing a bra until her supervisor pointed out that some people in the workplace were uncomfortable seeing her nipples. Now she only wears them a work. I can't convince her to not wear panties unfortunately.

Not often. Outside of work, almost never. At work my skirts are long enough that I don't wear panties or pantyhose. (It helps that I have nice legs.) If people only knew... I usually, but not always, wear a bra at work. My tits are small such that I don't jiggle or need support, but my nipples are prominent enough that their size and shape could be discerned under most blouses.

Last Tropics Party, ladies night. Corset n Lace night. Most our party pics show others.....etc....not for public view

This is an awesome thread, thanks to all for the contributions. Posting rules - forums no more than R rated (no pink), photo galleries get as naughty as you would like.

wore this on the other night for easy access. Can we post pics showing genitalia in the chats?

here's a couple.

Here's one of my favorite outfits my wife wears. Very popular. Me, I'm a jeans and t-shirt guy.

Here's what I wore to the club most recently. It was "see thru night" and this is the most risque thing I've ever worn there. The results were fantastic BTW.