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Many people are on social media such as Facebook. Facebook may have their mobile number attached to their account/profile. With their phone number you have access to the last name, workplace, town, etc. Way more info than you might want to share before you actually know people. Regardless, you can find a fair amount of information simply with a phone number. KIK or one of the many messaging apps is a better choice for many people.

kik is a great vehicle for this; you can text, send pictures etc, and without divulging your phone number or any other personal info. It also has the added benefit of allowing you to set up separate accounts for each of you and then you can each chime in on the conversation separately or together, as you see fit.

And clean up the room behind you!

There is another facet of this that I would like to mention. First, I would like to say that all of the above cautions are correct. There are however other possibilities. In 2018 I had a conversation with a lady at a swingers event. We were both waiting for our spouses in the hotel lobby. I had seen her before. She was hard to miss. Ladies in wheelchairs are not the norm. After ten minutes I knew that we were meant to know each other. I am still trying to figure that out. When my wife came down, I told her that this lady was in my future in some way. It was that clear. Over the next three years the four of us developed quite a friendship. With the knowledge and blessing of our spouses the two of us were clearly falling in love. At no time did this pose a threat to any of the marriages involved. The two of us were crystal clear about where our loyalties were placed. My lady just died as a result of her MS. I owe my wife and the lady’s husband a debt beyond measure for their ability to allow us to be. Outside of my wife there is no human being with whom I have been able to share such total transparency. Despite the pain it was worth it. To say that opening oneself to other loves in the LifeStyle is always wrong, is an error. Obviously there are dangers and if it threatens a marriage , either one, run for cover. Sometimes though there are marvelous , life affirming possibilities.

There are so many options that it is not necessary to give a phone/text number. Messaging apps are widespread, and even videoconferencing can be semi-anonymous.

Ok where to start...We were introduced to the lifestyle (concept) by a trusted friend and his wife who were living a lifestyee (work, kids) like us. No we did not hop in the bed with them but it started with a good old friend who went through a divorce. We were visiting the area where he lives for a week some years back and well had some mojitos with some friends and later went out for a bite to eat. We three returned to our hotel room at a local Inn. We shared some stories and a little more wine. My SO´s neck and shoulders were tight from our long flights. He is an expert at back massages... long story short... as he massaged my SO I came over and kissed her, then her neck and slowly worked my way down her shoulders and grabbed her breasts. She enjoyed it. His hands with my permission and hers slowly moved down her back toward her breasts where he glanced them. This unreal erotic experience kept going as she laid back on his chest, I caressed her chest slowly removing her blouse and began kissing her chest and sides. We moved around a bit on the bed and began kissing her stomacn and inner thighs. We cahnged positions I moved to the side while he moved between her legs. I began rubbing her pussy through her panties and got her super hot, I slowly removed her panties and began from the side kissing her lips. As he sat there he began kissing her stomach and then inner thighs. She said nothing but moaned pleasure. I kissed her breasts and neck again as he leaned up and she slowly massaged his cock through his pants and finally I nodded to him and he unbuckled his jeans. She stroked his cock and I began moving down her stomach again. Ok.. the part I will never forget was when he moved again in between her legs, looked at me if it was ok I nodded yes and asked her if it was ok. She said... oh yes... and his cock started stroking her pussy not entering but slowly. We kissed and I watched as he he slowly pushed in... he could not hold out any more, his cock was soaked with her moisture and his precum probably. As he entered her she turned her focus slowly to him... I felt like a bystander as he thrusted.... her back arched and her nipples hardened. I assume she was orgasming ... I could see by the thrusts he was about to cum, he looked at me, pulled out his cock as to unload on her stomach and she grabs his hips and ass and pulls him in.He looks to me I nod against my hearts wishes.."yes"... he pushes into her again a few more thrusts and says.."I Am going to cum... oh I am going to cum inside you..." She said.."yes... yes... cum inside me... please spray inside me..."... as he does... she moans.."Oh I want you to put your seed in me... please please" and he does. It was a roller coaster... of emotions. As they finished she stroked my cock a few times and that was it... for me. He looks at her and say I want you to clean me up... she leans forward and sucks his cock dry. Just an amazing experience. That being said... wow

Honey and I welcome many singles. So many women are open to enjoy sex are afraid to have labels put on them. Go out and enjoy yourself.

First, welcome to the group. Stick around and read much. This is a group of folks sharing their experiences without any agenda. It is always straight talk . We do not always agree, because we all have different life stories, but everyone is speaking their truth. You may even find your eventual story in there somewhere. Time will tell. In the meanwhile we provide what i see as a God's eye view of the LifeStyle reality. I suggest paying close attention to mostly everything that Fundamental Law says.

I submit that every man in a successful marriage to a lady knows how important that internalization is. It goes for vanilla, LS, and every other marriage type. The reason that this is so important in the LS is that monogamy is commonly perceived to be--or actually tries to be--a fence that contains--and thus prevents --that "love of your life" status from escaping the marriage. The symbolism of taking down the fence is probably more important than whatever effectiveness the fence had in the first place. It is that truth--that the pairing is more meaningful than any physical act or pleasurable experience--that sustain the LS and those in it.

I've had partners/playmates start that kind of stuff with me, telling me what their partner lacks this or that or treats them this way or that or what their other issues are, etc. For me it's a BIG RED FLAG. Regardless of how I feel about her, I break it off. I don't need their drama throwing ruining my Zen. Usually that type of a person is looking for a way out of that relationship, and I refuse to be "it".

Let her go. Do it now. Respect their marriage. And this mess you're talking about, know that on some level, you had a hand in it. Your absence will be part of showing the 'respect' you mention. Move on and do not look back. Frankly, it's what being a man is all about. Just watch the end of Casablanca. Here's Looking At You, Kid - Casablanca (5-6) Movie CLIP (1942) HD - YouTube.webloc

I'm not sure - I'll report back after my visit. That said, while I appreciate the notion, I can't logically put a whole lot of confidence in temperature check or ask if vaccinated. You?

Does the club take any precautions? Temperature check? Ask if vaccinated? Are you ok with playing with (making out with) unvaccinated people).

We have had two threesomes recently with a vaccinated gentleman. We had no hesitation about it. (We are also vaccinated, of course.)

Fauci says if all parties are vaccinated then no need for mask. We plan to apply this principal to swinging!

'Be seeing you' is simply a phrase to use instead of 'Take Care', or something like that. Unless you're Number 6. You'll have to look that up.

A keeper!

As long as they're not super closeup we're fine. My wife is not fiercely anti dick pic. She considers one or two dick pics to be a normal part of any guy's online swinger profile. But the one thing that makes her want to puke is when there is a toilet in the pic - and it's amazing how many guys take dick pics standing over the toilet. The other thing she can't stand is when you can see their place is a mess in the background of the shot. Again, amazing how much of that you see too.

You did the right thing.

Our 1st full was good for me anyway. For Mrs ID not so much. I am pretty sure they were not completely honest about their experience or lack thereof. He had whiskey dick so when we got home we had amazing sex at 4 in the morning.

Welcome to the club. Your official T shirt and membership card will be in the mail. Congrats on having a relationship great enough for you both to be able to experience this together!

A good thing to have is a swinger phone. One of those pre-paid phones. Your personal phone won't be overwhelmed and other things.