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Both ways can work for me. I do enjoy sex with people I know (in the lifestyle); the familiarity of an existing connection is nice. On the other hand at parties I’ve had great fun with women I’ve met just minutes before. I try to remember their names and make sure to use it a couple of times early on in the play session. Unfortunately, over the course of a really strong experience it’s too easy for me sometimes to forget the name when I’m being overwhelmed with how good they fuck or suck. Which is embarrassing when my partner might have just a few minutes before swallowed my load. ? (I do wonder if there have been women who have been cuddling with me in our mutual post-orgasmic bliss and said to themself ‘’Gee, that guy was pretty good. I’m embarrassed I can’t remember his name..." ? )

There is an upside if you are all tested and STI-free. Downside is lack of variety. Do you want the same entree every time you go to a restaurant or do you want to try the buffet, knowing that some of the buffet items may be spoiled?

Yeah if you’ve found another bi male(based on your other posts) that you like, I imagine this is in the context of losing condoms and having a closed system? We had that going with one guy, but it was for less than a year before he moved away.

Not particularly difficult in our experience. With the caveat that you should disclose that on any online profiles. There are a whole lot of couples with bi males out there that list themselves as straight. Until they contact your openly bi profile. Basically you have to make the first move. In a swingers club in a threesome wife will ask a guy if he enjoys two mouths on his cock to see if he’s at least heteroflexible to be receptive. With another couple we’ll ask how open minded they are or she will ask the other woman while making out with her. Some clubs have explicitly lgbt friendly nights too where there would be less risk of rejection, for that reason. Our local example: https://velvetropepdx.com/event/pan-demonium-3/

It might be interesting to try it out for a little while. But . . . the action would all be limited to your wife (unless you guys are bi.) Are you willing to settle for that, long term? I have to ask, what is the impetus for this desire for exclusivity, on his part, on your part? What would you get out of it? If you decided not to become exclusive, what would his reaction be? Would he break up with you?

I’ve participated in quite a few "parties" that were in reality orgies. The lights are always dim — because really whose body stands up to OR-bright lights? ☺️ But I’ve always been able to recognize the individuals with whom I’m coupling. I’ve enjoyed being blindfolded while receiving coed erotic massages. A completely dark room would essentially be like everyone being blindfolded. That said, if you are overly squeamish about the gender of the mouth or hands that are ministering to your body, this probably wouldn’t be a scenario for you.

You will be enthusiastically welcomed into the LifeStyle, and (for the most part,) on your own terms. You need first to decide where you wish to fit into the LifeStyle: with Single Men, as a bi-female, as a unicorn (being with a married couple.) And then the way you wish to party: One on one, small gatherings, orgies, clubs. What level of participation do you want: in a private location, at a club, at a house party. Understand that if you choose category A, it will be easy to slip to category B later if you change your mind or become more (or less) adventurous. As to how to do it, there are two basic methods: on-line or heading to a place where swingers hang out. If you want to do it on-line, the best way (IMHO) is to put up a paid profile as a single woman on one of the big sites, SwingLifestyle, SDC or Kasadie. Understand that you'll be inundated with messages, you'll have to wade through dozens or hundreds of invitations until you find a good match in the configuration (couple, single woman or single man) you want. There will be very many fakes, flakes that reach out to you, along with people that are nice but just don't fit what you're looking for. If you decide to go to a club, pick a club and a night, put on some sexy clothes, and go. When you get there circulate, have fun. Here's a list of clubs: www.swinglifestyle.com/swingers/clubs/ That's the basics, each of my points can be further developed. Best of luck. If we can be of further help, don't be shy in reaching out.

As for “what to wear”, that’s one of the fun aspects of the LS—fueling your fantasies by choosing to dress in ways that might not be appropriate for a Kroger or Publix run or a visit to the High Museum.

You just found him

I know....naughty girl! Once in awhile, especially if he's married I'll go bareback. Love the feeling of the CUM in me...with multiple guys too!!!

We always have fun in the theaters. Whoever, however...depends on the mood. Hubby was at fault for my 1st black encounter there. Wow! was that ever fun. I usually just wear my beach cover-up...zipper in the front. He's also BI...I love to watch him suck or be sucked too!!!

It's night and day for me.. There's nothing that turns me on more but when I'm sober i wouldn't even consider it. When I'm having sex with my husband, all he has to do is tell me how much he wants to see me getting fucked by a group of guys and I'll cum so fast. I hate condoms but unfortunately there a must when I've been a naughty slut. My favorite way to finish is to have them shoot right on my clit. It's incredible how it it's so hot that it almost burns. I was wondering if anyone here has been to the porn awards thing in Vegas? I would never admit it but I love to watch these creampie gangbang videos my husband has. I can't believe these bitch's paid to get tossed around and turned out for a solid hour. If that isn't enough they get to taste and experience all of these beautiful cocks. i get so jealous when they zoom in and show how the cocks throb and pulsate as they cum. These fucking ungrateful sluts just sit there and pretend that they're loving it. My husband thinks that he wants me watch me fuck all the pornstars. I don't know if that's such a good idea because he may not like to see how dirty I can actually get. This is his idea so he better not hold it against me.

Yes, I get turned on when Bob calls me and says he is bringing home a couple newbies for me to please.

We often have sex with strangers. It is exciting, the sex is great. You also avoid the overhead of "courtship" with your partners. Downside is, you don't get the libido build-up that you do during the courtship.

I absolutely love it when my wife plays with my ass. The first time she tried it with me was while she was giving me a BJ. She lubed up her finger with some saliva and started rubbing it all around my anus. I really started to moan, almost without control. Then she slowly pushed her finger in. OMG....I had never felt anything like that before but didn't want it to ever end. I came after just a couple of minutes with the biggest and strongest orgasm I had ever experienced. After she got it all, and it felt to me like I came a gallon, she rose up and just said WOW... AND SO DID I... The next time we tried it, she got out some of her toys and OH MAN!!! It only got better. I can only tell you guys who have never experienced this. Try it.

We both do it to each other & some of our friends too. I especially like it when someone does it on my pussy so I can get myself off at the same time. Drink lots of water or take a diuretic before hand. It makes things nice & clear. Love the sensation!

In the net at the front of a large catamaran while on vacation at Hedo II in Jamaica. There was a large audience of naked people watching us. Someone was nice enough to give us a copy of their video of the event after we returned home.

In a public park one morning with 3 guys watching. Couldn't let them just stand there with hard-ons so I let them do me after hubby got done. Wow!!!!

Try this for something really wild! Both hubby & wife do anal with other partners at the same time while watching each other. We've tried this a few times & got to tall you when we are done he is sooooo hard & I'm....well...........you figure out the rest

We frequent several clubs & do the "Theater" scene as often as we can. Aside from the clubs, I really enjoy having "mystery" sex in the theaters with guys I don't know. It's also a big turn-on for hubby. He says he loves to watch & is usually the first to CUM::P: I pick & choose because a lot of the guys are really weird or think they are my answer to a good time. Talk about a slob is when a guy just walks up next to you while you're sitting on a sofa & sticks his dick in your face as if this will turn you on....wrong:slam" Best way for me to fuck you is just sit down & let me see what you have. My favorite now is at least 8" & the BEST sex is with the black guys...Wow:fun: Be polite guys...you'll be the ones who score in my book:)

Well, I guess you're right. I'm a woman and I like to get to know people first. That being said...there were a couple of experiences in my much, much, much....and even a few more "much's" ... younger years. Memories.... -EBF