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Due to our jobs and an uptick in cases we decided to take a break for a little bit. I prefer older men and due to the countless exposures or possible exposures we have had we wanted to see the numbers die down so we didnt potentially put anyone at risk. Two days ago i went in for a normal shift and we had started to look at our apps again to just test the waters. I had found a guy that was older (my type) on tinder and we started to chat a little bit I've found that its difficult to explain the swinging situation to a new person especially those that i dont meet on a swinger site. It still seems so weird to the outside world even though its common and something we have been involved with for some times now. As worrisome or at least in my mind is telling someone i work in healthcare in the middle of a pandemic. If that isn't a scarlet letter idk what is. We decided to meet for breakfast after i got off yesterday morning. We met up and had a decent conversation over breakfast and decided to meet later that day. I spent the afternoon getting ready as per usual. Picking out clothes lingerie etc. We had decided to meet at his place which is uncommon for me. I typically dont like meeting at someones house for safety reasons but it was spur of the moment and i got decent vibes from him. I remembered the rush i missed from the short time we had taken a break from swinging. The butterflies almost like a first date but with known outcomes. We talked a while and shared some cocktails. Its amazing that most of the questions asked to me are about my job. Apparently its more interesting than i think. After a while we started to make out and exchange oral sex. After several hours we had finished our escapades. The breath of fresh air to me was not only the sexual activities but the human interaction that was missed. It was a brief reminder of life pre pandemic. We will continue to keep an eye on outbreaks and do our part to keep others safe but this was a nice break from what has been a long nightmare to most healthcare workers regardless of their situation.

I agree with how you feel about the dick pixs, but not on your conclusion. Do they tell me something about the poster - yes and my interpretation of them mirrors your general impression. Where we differ is in that I would rather know who I am dealing with upfront than get blindsided later. So go ahead and keep the dick pics - better we see the warning signs in advance. ?

I never found close up pictures of genitalia in online profiles to be a turn on. I much prefer to look at happy faces or even erotic outfits. Microscopic shots of pussy and penis don’t rev my engine. Am I alone?

We know people who have hosted hotel parties. I think the key is to select fairly well behaved guests who you know or who your other guests know. You don’t want your crew to act like the movie Bachelor Party. The other key to success is to have a “Start Play” time. You can ring a bell or make an announcement that the play room or rooms are now open or you and your partner can get it started. We have been to hotel parties that were hours long staring contests. Sometimes we just went home before anything happened.

It's not clear to me what you mean. All bum holes start out really tight, that's the difficult part, but I don't think it depends on your height. Unlike in my vagina, where there is the possibility of a guy's penis "hitting bottom" on the cervix and being painful, in my bum I could take any length dick.

He is single, not a cheater. My wife is not cheating, I have full knowledge. Do you think any site or app is secure?

Just out of curiosity why have you and your husband not been vaccinated yet if work in healthcare?

I’m not one to exchange pictures, I have looked at the Gallery pictures on here. I pass over all genitalia shots and enjoy pictures that show a happy couple together.

I am not big fan of anal, for me is hard and a matter of physics, I am only 5’2”, however we have had some of the most memorable and erotic moments when having anal sex in front of my husband. We are lucky we have a friend-couple that are “experts in the matter” (DP is one of their favourites and my husband gladly helps everytime) so the male-friend has the patience and commitment to coaching me. I love to put on a good show and provide tons of dirty talk in the process for everybody.

It really comes down to what you want. For my wife and I, exclusivity means being able to play without condoms. With new people, we play with condoms. My wife has had a couple of long term boyfriends with whom she was exclusive (besides me of course) for a while. That allowed for bareback, which she far, far prefers to condoms. Both were good arrangements, with many play sessions over a few years. We were happy to give up the variety in exchange for a sex partner for her with whom she could play bareback. This was really mainly because both sex partners were really good for her. Neither of us wanted to have her break it off with a guy she really enjoyed having sex with because of a desire for variety or concerns over becoming too emotionally tied together. We're not poly, but also not averse to emotions developing. You need to consider the emotional impact of playing exclusively. The more you play with someone, the more likely it is you will develop emotions for them. Are the two of you ready for that? If you haven't discussed it, you need to. My wife developed emotions for both of her long term play partners. We talked about that beforehand, and it was ok with us so long as we kept our communication completely open and our relationship was stable and still primary. So, are the two of you ok with not having new partners for the foreseeable future and are you ok with the idea of emotions developing? If so, then go for it. There are rewards in having an exclusive partner.

What got me to enjoy anal is that I started with a guy whose penis is much more slender than my husband's. So find the right slender-dick, patient guy who otherwise turns her on. Ultimately for me, however, anal is enjoyable but doesn't get me to orgasm. I either give it after I've had my Os, or in doing DP, which for me is wonderful.

Ewww. I thought the post was about swinging with my doctor.

Other than age, he is from Brooklyn and she is from Jersey, so they have to be fun.

Hope you get vaccinated. It’s beneficial to both of you and your community. Other than rank speculation, there is no valid cost benefit analysis reason not to get it. We know people who suffered and died who wish they had the opportunity to get it.

We were with friends this past weekend. I credit her as my first, my first threesome and my first bisexual experience. She was my introduction into swinging and give her credit indirectly for me being married to my wonderful husband. She came with her current boyfriend, not the guy who she was with years ago for our threesome. I had seen her many times at parties on football weekends up at school. This is the first time in years that she has come to visit us and it was fun to talk about that first time when we shared a bed in a hotel because of a snow storm and I woke up with her nudging my legs apart and her mouth attacking me.

We assume people that only have pics of their vagina or penis are fugly, clueless and have nothing going on for themselves! Totally ignore them and instant block if they contact us. We also assume any female with just a pic of her big old boobies is heavy. If there are not full body shots of everyone who wants to be involved on a profile we don’t give them the time of day. Don’t care if they are fully clothed or naked. If we can’t see their body type to start out with there is nothing to talk about.

A thought about the Dick Pics. They are a handy indicator. It is just such an obvious red flag. They save a lot of time reading before discarding.

Yeah, not really a selling point for us either in profile pics. Nothing wrong with some nudity, but a screen 100% filled with cock or pussy not our choice. Kind of depends on the whole gallery too, if there's a good mix of pics then no big deal to have the occasional more hardcore one, but if that's all there is, then that's a turn-off and probably a good sign we aren't going to be compatible. When it comes to just porn viewing in general, just depends on my mood how much of it there can be before turn-on turns into turn-off. Hadn't really thought about it before, but interestingly, my tipping point there would be more generous than it is looking at profile pics of someone we might be interested in actually meeting. Random anonymous internet T&A vs real person you might be interested in actually meeting I guess.

Nope... I'm a breast man, personally. Breasts, eyes and hair. A lovely close up of well-shaped tit can be very aesthetically and erotically appealing to me. Still, generally, I like images in context. I think close-ups of any body part tend to be lacking when compared to well framed picture of an actual person.

Using other couples for your "therapy" rubs me the wrong way. Your "therapy" could very well end up being a ton of drama for some couple. Wouldn't it be better to sort that stuff out first and then try out the swinging lifestyle?

Talk about people falling for conspiracies. The whole world, almost every country has conspired because they had a secret meeting to put forth an agenda. Countries that can’t get together on anything else all figured a way to kill the economy of the world. They all said you know too many people are swinging so let’s say there is a pandemic so men keep their dicks in their pants. Oh, and let’s make sure to close schools, there are too many smart people and we need to level the field. Didn’t we hear Covid is a hoax and will go away in the heat of summer, all the greatest minds agreed. If you want to play that is your choice. Don’t downplay the risks, don’t put forth a false narrative. People played during the HIV crisis, I was too young. HIV is still not eradicated, still no cure, but there are therapies to treat. Your body, your choice. Something makes me think this your thought too, but only for men.

Well in response, I might add, that in this thread I spoke of having tried it on several occasions as I am what would be mostly "Submissive" but can be a "Dominant" when I ask for what I want. True I did ask when it stopped being painful... and it wasn't until Saturday night when I asked him to do it and enjoyed it because of the mood I was in and I was very relaxed. True at the time we were in a parking lot and having a great time I might add! If this experience of mine was taped (lol) sure wish I could get a copy of it LOL... never thought that there could possibly be camera's out there while we were doing the "Wild Thing" in a parking lot!