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I went through exactly the same situation! And I understood that the issue is just in my head in my "good manners"/"education" as GoldCoCouple said. I worked with my wife, we talked and had a lot of practice. And I also took several times viagra :) and the problem disapeared. So just be brave, work upon yourself! Good luck!

JohnbatoN, Thanks for posting your success story. This issue comes up regularly, and we tell the men that once they get used to the situation it will clear up. Then, they just ghost us, we never know. In your case, you took the couple of moments to let us know that the solution really works! It's appreciated by the folk on this board.

cuuuute!!!! I should get something like that for my wife!

I don't tiptoe around it - I don't have a "bi" side, I have a Lesbian side, which after forming a poly family with two other women and two men, is as important to me as my hetero side. Also, it seems that most men, even those in traditional, conservative marriages, wouldn't be upset if their wife had a relationship with another woman. It's just much more acceptable (for whatever reason) than a guy having a gay side.

Under the ideal circumstances, he then does oral on me and I have a second orgasm. Then she does oral on me and I have a third (it may be 69 and we both cum). Then I do oral on him just to get him hard again, share him with her and during the time he's in me I have a fourth O. That's enough then; I'm satisfied. It's usually some variation on the above depending on who in the family (David, Red, Clair, Lora, and me) are playing at any particular time. I can orgasm easily and repeatedly under most circumstances, vaginally or from oral, but not anal alone. DPs, however, are great.

When we happen to take pictures, or have them taken of us we will put them up. So the answer is yes, sometimes. It is not first on the list though. I barely pay attention to pics at any rate. Conversation is far more important. There have been times when we have played a few times before I ever thought to look at the galleries. Usually there is a face picture to facilitate meeting the first time at a restaurant. What we do is date stamp the pictures.

My wife loves to fuck another woman with a strap on. Even better, is when she’s fucking the other lady and I’m fucking her from behind and she has the other guys cock in her mouth.

So HOT!!! We totally get your perspective. My husband is completely turned off by guys kissing guys and has absolutely no interested in doing another guy anally in any form or fashion. I am the same with regards to guys kissing but the whole sucking and fucking anally - It totally gets me off!!! As for my husband doing another guy anally, I get it, he has me for all the anal he could ever want. He seldom even does the other ladies in our group anally. I am once again, TOTALLY into the whole handling and sucking the Big Cock as well as watching the guys do it, especially feeding it to them. AND stuffing or trying to cram the Big ones into their super tight little backsides. So to each, his or her own.

I knew it when he screamed, “Yes Fuck ME, Fuck me in my ASS, Give me more COCK, fill me full of cum in both holes.” as he sucked one of our friends so hard he was yelping as was the guy who was fucking him bareback. My husband went along for the ride with me and bi couples we befriended over the many years, eventually giving a little here and there, until the day he did this. It still takes him a while to get to this point but he definitely gets there more often and in less time. There have also been a few times recently where I have gotten him so aroused kissing him after sucking some off that he latched on to a few of the guys without me even feeding them to him. And even though he never asks upfront for cock I know he loves it, as well as cum, and most definitely getting his ass cummed in. His orgasms are way to explosive for anyone not to love that. We have been very fortunate to have many extremely trust worthy friends who all get along smashingly.

I think these are all good points. If playing separately had been a criteria, we probably would have never started, but that is just us. As we acquired a little more emotional experience with this, we had some events in which we realized playing separately might come up, and had some long discussions about rules for that: what needed to be discussed first, what should not happen after, and what we needed to discuss after. Being in the dark with each other is a non-starter. If we weren't fully excited to talk about it, we shouldn't be doing it. Strong and open communication is vital no matter how you structure it, and understanding why she'd feel distracted with you present is perhaps a good starting point: not because it's a bad idea, but perhaps if there's some mistrust or doubt you need to talk through before you do whatever it is you're going to do. In practice, we've only applied our "solo hard play" rules once each, her for an FMF and me for an attached woman who wanted a bull. We followed our rules rigidly and, frankly, she went above and beyond to communicate before, during, and after. Jittery, yes, but it made for a lot of trust and good memories.

Recently in a party of 5 couples (including us) that night I played (oral/penetration) with 5 guys including my husband, and I also, played with the girls.

Yes, I know what you are saying, it is not a matter of height, correct, I was just pointing out that I am tiny human and taking thick dicks in my ass is not an effortless task for me. Also, you are correct, it doesn't matter how long the penis is, the challenging part is getting the penis head in, once it is in I can archive full deep penetration.

I thought it was funny to watch Honey get into this contraption to fuck her friend. We have a man who enjoyed watching us have sex and he was the one who brought up the idea and bought us the pretty big purple strap on cock. We had played with this girl before and we all had laughs getting this done. With our friend on her fours I got her pretty juiced up with my mouth before Honey penetrated her. At the time I was very new to this with that man watching too I didn’t want him near me. Honey got into a good rhythm and was fucking like a guy.

I've taken 5 in a night but it was too too much so now I draw the line at 3.

I never thought of it like that. How are we counting? Three at once gangbang style or three in one night? I always think of my wife Amy having a just one man in a night. This is her usual swinger lover. One night we swapped with a different couple using condoms. Number 1. Amy did not enjoy the swap with condoms. She had a second swap with her regular swinger lover, going bareback. Number 2. We went home and had sex for a third time. Number 3. That's three, not all at the same time, but in the same evening.

A number of years ago my wife and I were having a threesome and it turned into a DVP. It was a very enjoyable experience so we did it again a few weeks later.