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Ordinarily I try to avoid necro'ed threads but this one calls my attention... When I was very young and stupid, my girlfriend and I had lost our virginity to each other and we didn't know anything. This was the days before the internet and even dirty magazines were difficult for us to get a hold of... so like any pair of horny 18 year idiots (yes, I lost my virginity at 18... I was, and am, a geek...it's a thing), we figured things out on our own. I didn't know what a clitoris was, much less where it was... and neither did she. We just knew she liked things inside her. So, we experimented with inserting... things. Eventually we found that she really liked when I touched her inside, (I think I discovered the G-spot before I discovered the clit) so we explored that further. It wasn't long before I was putting my whole hand inside her and opening my figures slightly, driving her absolutely, orgasmicly wild. Funny thing is, we didn't know that was anything strange or kinky. We just thought this was normal sex stuff. Now, somewhere out there in the world, there is this beautiful, passionate woman who probably has a fisting fetish because we didn't know any better. Ah, youth...

Thank you for sharing an experience. If you read my posts you know that I have been with women who are exploring a new experience. Almost all the women are having sex being watched by both their and my husband, not under the best circumstances to enjoy their own sexuality. I always concentrate on giving pleasure wanting a first experience to be memorable and positive. I’m not a therapist, I do enjoy talking after to the woman knowing it might be a life changing moment. It troubles me when they ask if they did right, did I enjoy, or they look to the husband for his approval. Being alone, no husbands or as I call them Sightseers is a different experience. My advice has always been to enjoy, it’s about them, not me. Be able to verbalize your likes, nobody knows exactly what feels good to you. I also know receiving is much easier for them, giving pleasure to a woman is alien to what has been learned. I normally guide them to places I enjoy being touched, externally and internally. Oral sex is the primary pleasure act even when toys are involved, it’s also the hardest act to start. If you can, you said your head was between her legs was a foreign experience, what went through your thoughts, what did you focus on, did she respond the way you wanted? I understand your want for a man, I enjoy men more as well and enjoy my man, this new part just adds to enjoyment. As I say to other women, don’t do anything because someone wants you to do it, do it because you want to do it. If you enjoyed her and think you will enjoy being with women, I say Enjoy! If you don’t enjoy, stop, I am sure you have tried other things once and never tried again.

I really don't know, gay sex just strikes me as weird in a way that Lesbian sex does not. Your explanation, if correct, bothers me as a feminist modern woman who has strived to be the equal of men, including sexually. Heterosexual couples engage in the same acts as Lesbians and gays, so I don't want to think that having a penis in my mouth or in my bum makes me weak. Is a guy licking a clit "weak?" IDK. It is also strange to me that I feel stronger and more in control when I'm on my back and a man is in me doing all the work, than I do when I'm riding cowgirl. Anyway, thanks for your thoughts. Ultimately, none of this matters so long as everything is consensual and fun.

I’m just postulating here. Don’t flame me, please. I think the ‘it’s okay for women but not men’ comes from the historic concept that men who have sex with other men are weak. As the idea that non-monogamous sex is ‘bad’ from the time we are small, so is the concept that gay sex for men is ‘bad.’ (Yes, that’s changing, but only in the last thirty years, give or take.) A non-woke male will assume that if a man even touches another man’s dick he’s weak, he’s not a real man. So that man won’t ever stop to consider, well, it’s only sex, who really cares. A tremendous amount of vitriol is spewed upon ‘gay’ men, still, and a ‘bi’ man will be the recipient of that hate as well. Women, on the other hand, will be looked upon by those same men with the chauvinistic attitude that, ‘well, they were born weak, so it’s okay for them.’ It is right? Hell, no. But, I think, it’s a fact of life in this day and age.

You aren’t dense, you know what the difference is between sex with a man and sex with a woman. You enjoy sex with multi people, I enjoy being alone with one person. Sex with a man is very natural to me, something I have done my entire adult life. I know how to touch a man, I know what the men I have been with enjoy. I am still very new to pleasing another woman. It should come natural, I know what pleases me and try to replicate the things I respond to. I missed a man, a penis specifically. I know how to please a penis, how to touch a penis, how to orally caress a penis. I enjoy having a penis in me. Swapping has allowed me to enjoy the differences I had not enjoyed since marriage. I think most on here enjoy the newness of being with a different partner. The different touching, different scent, different taste and the different motions. My head between the legs of a woman is a foreign experience. I was looking at a body part differently than I ever did before. Differently than I ever saw my own. I saw this one before from this angle, just not the same way as this time, alone with her and not being watched. You would think you would know what to do distinctively.

People are surprised when they meet me that I have a naturally blurry face and look just like the picture.

I often write about our first swap with a couple and my night alone with him. The next day I had a very uncomfortable bi experience, something I never wanted to do. I never had any sexual attraction to women and certainly had never planned to explore. As it was our first swing I just went along not wanting to ruin my experience from the night before. Over the years since that first time I have had contact with bi sex in very small doses. Normally it was done as part of another playtime thing. I became less afraid of being with a woman, still not giving totally to being bi. Our friend who we met on vacation years ago, our first and primary play partner was coming to NYC on business and said she was going to have free time and wanted to meet in the city for a Girl’s Day. She was on business and finished early and the weather was perfect. I agreed to meeting, we had become very good friends and I never spent time with her without our husbands. She booked a Mani/Pedi and massages for both of us. Her treat. Lunch outdoors in great restaurant, walking and talking. I always wondered if we were their first, I told her they were too relaxed that first time, she swore we were, they had agreed before the cruise that they would approach a couple. I told her how often I think about that night and how romantic her husband was. She told me they have played with others and she always thinks about her first also. A beautiful day, we had drinks at a rooftop bar and talked and talked. She mentioned that her hotel was great and invited me to stay the night. She read my body language as not being onboard, and said we would be alone, no putting on a show for the men. Give it a try, I could always leave. After big hesitant minutes, I gave into lust. My friend is a beautiful person, as romantic as her husband. With my inhibitions taken away, we made love for hours. Made love to a woman for our own benefit not for men watching us. I still don’t think I am bisexual, it was a magical day.

My buddies have been trying to talk my GF into creating an OF page. They would set up the page, fuck her, do the filming, etc. and split the money with her. She had done the live cam thing in the past with them and made some decent money from it. I think the idea of doing an OF page is hot if you're an exhibitionist (which is why I think she is so open to it) but I don't think it would be worth it for the money. It seems like you really have to be out there constantly promoting yourself to gain fans. They were talking about all of them promoting the page on their social media pages which sounds pretty crazy to me. But the thought is that if people know my GF and/or my buddies they would pay to join the page. If you're just trying to sell to someone who is in another country and doesn't even know you exist or are even real then why would they pay?

Survey research suggests you are correct in believing that women are more likely to identify as bisexual than men. I conclude that based on two recent reputable surveys. (See links below.) In one survey about 6% of American women identify as members of the LGBTQ community while about 5% on American men do. (Other surveys, including one cited here, suggest the overall frequency is lower.) The second survey found that among members of the LBBTQ community more women identify as bisexual than lesbian, while more men identify as gay than bisexual. That leads me to conclude that there are more bisexual women than men. A couple of caveats. First, the percentages are not robustly different. I’m thinking in the American LGBTQ community there might be 10% to 15% more bi women than bi men. Second, the distribution of bisexuals and gay people within the swinging community is clearly different than in the LGBTQ community. There have been plenty of bi women and men present at the events I’ve attended over the years, and heard women say that evening they only wanted to play with other women. But I don’t recall meeting anyone who identified as strictly gay or lesbian. (I reckon those folks are going to be more interested in exclusively gay or lesbian events/venues.) https://www.statista.com/topics/1249/homosexuality/#dossierSummary https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/publications/how-many-people-lgbt/

The night with her was very similar to a night with her husband with one major difference. When we first met and we swapped husbands I had a hard time liking her. She didn’t do anything to make me dislike, I enjoyed my time with her before the swap. I wasn’t ready for sexual advances by a woman. I had a very difficult time responding and even harder time touching her. Over time they became very close friends, at a distance, and I love spending time with them. I am a drop more comfortable with her sexually, not totally loving it. The things we have done were always part of other play we all did. This was the first time alone with her, no help from the men. I had a good time, you can guess the thing I missed most.

Watching my husband suck a dick is an instant puddle in my panties! Sploosh!

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I always respond. It is being polite. Never had any bad follow-ups.

We are very interested in meeting a couple with the same turn on.

I’m a very dominant woman who enjoys MMF bedroom fun. My husband is a bottom so I find a safe top to play with both of us. I found a sexually safe partner cute and hung with real stamina. He allows me to dominate him including discipline and using his cock for my pleasure. My slave/husband likes him and willingly sucks his cock and take it in the ass. Our buddy loves sucking off my husband rendering him useless temporarily freeing him up to fuck us both. My husband is straight but will do anything sexual as long as I feel it is safe. I love helping him bend over and feeding a hard cock into his ass. I never let the guys out of the bedroom without a load of come in their bellies. Our friend can fuck pussy and ass giving us both orgasms and will voluntarily allow me to fuck him with my strap-on. Having a safe partner is prime.