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A guy on Fetlife had a real good explanation about his cuckold fetish. The usual conversation started about how the definition of the word is the husband of an adulterous wife. He said that because it was his fetish he could define it and role play it how ever he wanted to...??‍♂️. I mean he kind of has a point. I think this is how most people look at it. I just like to give credit where credit is due. Have met many woman that had a single profile posted on SLS and then later I learned that they were actually married. Im not saying that I support people cheating on their spouses but there are some women out there that do what they want with who they want and the husband knows and accepts it. I usually reserve my use of the word cuckold for those guys. But if a man wants to call himself a cuckold...then who am I to stop him. Do you!

We didn’t get the invite ? The more you play the more things come naturally. You won’t have to worry about who does what to who. Mike and I enjoy the smaller parties, 2 ,3 or 4 couples or even an extra man or two. I enjoy being with 2 men, Mike enjoys 2 women, so 3 couples are perfect for us. I forgot to welcome you Rockland, to the board and the fun.

This is what we see. We have done gang bangs. The men are respectful to both of us. I am there to run things. We don't get the humiliation etc but I guess it if it someone's kink it is.

That never happened for us. My wife's play partners have been very respectful of me and somewhat envious that I have such a sexually powerful wife. It's the same now that we're swap swingers, but it's not so much on our minds since the situations are equal all around.

My new friend told me they met with the friends who told her to talk to me. Two couples, friends for years, new to swinging, swinging together for the first time. She asked me to join them for a little party. We aren’t big on parties, we have better times with being with a single couple, and will see if we will join them. Both couples are fun, the new couple I enjoy talking to her at the gym, I don’t want something to go wrong. I stated before we don’t normally move to relationships with people we meet.

Now you can party with them and the original friends.

After meeting the couple several times, they are a terrific couple just very nervous, we finally introduced them to a new way of enjoying their sexuality. Usually we don’t extend our contact more than a few meetings, I think our friendship can extend passed the bedroom, something that will make going to the gym less uncomfortable. I found I enjoy her friendship.

The couple has to know how fortunate they are to have you as their first experience. Before our first successful meeting we were being fooled by internet vultures and scammers. During the pandemic people are preying on others just looking to get out and try new things. The big testament to you being thoughtful was her friends suggested her approaching you instead of pushing to play with them first. I wonder if one of our friends approached us how I might jump right into it. I laugh because I know which of our friends I would love to think would do this. Making a sexual experience more than a sex event is magical. I only prayed that our first time wouldn’t be with a hardcore sex driven orgy type people. Being undressed in front of anyone can be painful especially in front of a beautiful couple, making it fun by someone skilled in reading peoples feeling is such a talent. As mentioned before, you and Alan are indeed wonderful mentors and guides. Even your dialogue of your experience makes me look forward to your next post.

This sounds odd to me. My wife and I have an open relationship and for many years we never discussed what happens with others. We are much more open now and have met couples together and continue to have our own trysts. She enjoys meeting new partners and stays away from long term partners. She met a new married friend and has met him three times. According to her he is married and sex has stopped in his marriage, a common story she hears. She told me he is very nice and fun in bed. I always wonder what that means. She said the first time after they finished, or he finished, he started sneezing. She said she didn’t think anything of it. They go at it again and again he starts sneezing after. One more time and again sneezing. Meets him a second time, he sneezes after every time. Meets him again and each time he has sneezing fits after every pop. Does anyone know what causes it? I read that orgasm and sneezing are both from the same pleasure zone in the brain. Have not read there is a cause and effect.