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Are you wrong, you ask. I don't think there's any right or wrong here, just what works for the two (or three) of you. I have to ask first, how committed to you is your wife? What would happen if you said no? If she would comply with you, you've got options. If she says she would leave you for him, the only choice you have is to either allow the polyamory or file for divorce. Here's some good news. If the guy is getting divorced, it's likely that your wife is the rebound woman. Those relationships tend to peter out after awhile (how long is very hard to say,) and he's likely to be in a bad spot. It's possible that your wife is going to get tired of him eventually. No matter what happens, it seems to me you're in for a bad time here . . .

I have sexy outfits that make me feel sexy. I’m short and I think wearing thigh highs gives me the appearance of longer legs. I think whatever makes you feel good is sexy.

Sometimes when we're in the mood to take pics, we'll also take some short videos. We've never set up a camera, though, and it's a no-go with us to video or photograph with other partners. Mrs. E's take is that everybody already knows we fuck and if they see it, life goes on. No graphic evidence about the side activities needs to exist. https://www.redgifs.com/watch/phonylawngreencrustacean We do like "professional" porn, too, and share a Pornhub account to organize favorites, but they're two different things.

Does appear to be higher rates(in our circles anyway). Just defined as polyamory and ethical non-monogamy rather than swinging. And more prevalent use of hookup apps to go about it rather than a swing club/house party(or an online forum for that matter).

The transformational image of "nudist turned into a swinger" might be slightly off the mark. Both social nudism and consensual non-monogamy (swinging) are alternative lifestyles that remove a restriction on ordinary vanilla life. Vanilla people shower nude, take a bath nude, and not infrequently sleep nude. They are seen by their spouses nude, they change in locker rooms with members of the same sex and so on. That's the usual limit constrained by social norms, although there are those who participate in world naked gardening day, or some other one-off event who do not consider themselves nudist. Nudists remove the constraint. Nudists socialize nude and do not see anything unusual about doing ordinary things nude in the presence of the opposite sex. They are simply more comfortable in their own skin than they are camouflaged. Vanilla people masturbate, watch porn, have sex, engage in fantasy, do some role play, but claim to do so in a monogamous way. Non-monogamy for them is non-consensual and is called cheating. Cheating is so common that it might be considered a social norm: the tabloids are full of breathless revelations and consequences. Swingers remove the constraint. They have sex with others and do not see anything unusual in taking their interest and fantasies outside the boundary created by monogamy. They are simply more comfortable accepting the drive for sexual variety than trying to suppress it. There is a common thread: vanilla life is defined by social norms--behaviors that widely practiced bounded from behaviors that are not widely practiced. The opposite of "vanilla" is "not vanilla" and encompasses a wide range of alternative choices. What binds nudists and swingers is their initial decision to engage in any alternative choice. The first step from vanilla to non-vanilla is the longest. After that, it becomes a question of what alternatives fit an individual and a couple. This may explain why traditional G-rated social nudism promulgated by the AANR has declined in favor of broader removal of restrictions at gatherings and resorts and greater tolerance of choice. These places have become "nudist resorts" and more non-vanilla destinations that are nude-friendly, swinger-friendly, non-binary etc.

We are hotel club members, I'm partial to the ladies in a nice dress, nothing underneath. although some carry off sheath and see through with panache. Once the social hour is over and the party starts I like skin to skin although I know a bi-guy who wears thigh high hose to carry his condoms, convenient if one needs a special size.?

I was very hesitant to start anything with her, only got involved as a favor to another couple. I know they are good friends and now they have another dimension to their friendship. We enjoyed being with that couple but most likely we would have discontinued any contact going forward, not for any reason just not wanting to build a real friendship. I would first say that we decide on who we will meet then agree I am more opinionated on who we play with.

My regrets aren't the guys I didn't have sex with, it is the girls.

What I really wish that I had are intimate photos or videos of when I first got over my jealousy sufficiently to set up hubby with friends and acquaintances of mine. None were ever taken of them during sex, but seeing those women again in person or just pictures makes me wet. The best situations for me now are when we get together with the women who are married and their husbands. The situation for me is maddening in a very pleasant way, especially the couple who openly laugh about when she and my husband were sex partners at my urging. More than a good Catholic girl ever expected.

There is great insight here. Friendships need to go beyond sex, of course. And the "friends first" neighborhood of swingtown is really about the ladies enjoying spending time with each other. Their spouses understand that the ladies run the LS, and that such friendships are valuable and worth finding ways to support.

Except that there was no other wife there for him.

So he should accept that he will never get a passionate bj? really?...and what, masturbate in the corner while she goes off to fuck others?...he's not selfish, he wants as the life partner to get at least the same quality of sex his wife gives others. After what she told him, complaining to her is pointless, she clearly has no more respect or desire for him. He should leave her and find a woman who will love and respect him. That couple is doomed.

I was taken to a nude resort by a photographer I worked for. (He said I needed to work on getting a full body tan). I should add that I'm an orphan, so I had no family to object. We arrived there late on a Friday, I remember, and were invited to stay with the owners in their small cabin. With our clothes locked in the car, we all sat around in the common space cross-legged, and drank wine. I wasn't used to drinking and it hit me. The owner made the statement, "You two have to be initiated, so we get to watch." The photographer openly took me and I didn't resist. During the night, the owner took me too. I was introduced that weekend.

HELL YEAH! (as long as the Ms. was okay with it, that is). With how screwed up I was in high school (and even into college) I had dated lots of girls, but the strict Christian upbringing kept me from having sex with most of those girls. There are several that I would love to rectify that with now (even better, with the Ms. playing with us as well). Sign me up!

Yes! I can think of one person, who I dated in high school and then in college... Also, my main high-school crush is my wife!

Without a doubt yes!