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It's hard to make predictions, especially about the future.

From our experience which is limited you might be on to something. Since more people are vaccinated and things are opening we have met two couples that are new to extracurricular sex. I think staying home has either made them realize that they were getting bored or they had time to watch porn opening up to new ideas. Changes for the wife was also a factor. The first couple was very specific to what they wanted to try with the wife extremely curious about playing with another woman. We were very cautious and didn’t push or pressure them. We made sure they wanted to explore. The second couple are friends of the first couple. They agreed that it would be better for a third couple, us, be the guide for them. The original couple put the idea out there but found it awkward to play with their friends. Here are two couples coming out of isolation who had new ideas of where their sexual futures should go. Don’t know if that is an indicator.

If others are like us there will be a big boom. Locked up and isolated gave us time to figure out life is fragile. Healthy today on a respirator tomorrow, know people who exercise and eat healthy trying to always doing the right thing having their life cut short. Being together 24/7 gave us time to talk and have sex. We watched online porn with people having fun and our conversation went to the question of could you do that. We got to the part about transmitting diseases, here we were isolating did we want to tempt fate. Vaccinations done the talk was do I want sex with someone new. Vaginal or oral? I said sex is sex. A woman? Maybe. YOLO. We found a couple, strangers to us and after we did the deed we had no regrets. I shared my thoughts and deed with a very good friend telling her why we did it. She explained to her husband my thoughts. Didn’t take her long to say her husband wanted me. We put off swinging with them and suggested it would be better if they were with someone else first. Make sure first, we can wait. Boom? Well here are 2 new couples who have joined the LS after vaccination.

If I could predict the future with any amount of accuracy, I would be rich enough to where we could have all of the women and couples we could ever want. We would probably also have bought this forum as well and would be planning the biggest swinger event since the Romans...

Predicting the past is much easier.

I do expect a bit of the roaring twenties, after a pandemic, again. With an upswing in swinging being part of that. We are returning to swinging after having taken a years long break before the pandemic. Spending a year bottled up inside caused a little recalculating on how we want to enjoy life.

We may see a temporary increase in attendance at swingers events, due to pent-up demand. I feel that in a relatively short time, two to three years, we'll have about the same percentage of the population who are active swingers as before the pandemic.

Absolutely I have friends my xwife and I use to have 3somes with . We are still friends . If they need me for any reason am their for them .

The transformational image of "nudist turned into a swinger" might be slightly off the mark. Both social nudism and consensual non-monogamy (swinging) are alternative lifestyles that remove a restriction on ordinary vanilla life. Vanilla people shower nude, take a bath nude, and not infrequently sleep nude. They are seen by their spouses nude, they change in locker rooms with members of the same sex and so on. That's the usual limit constrained by social norms, although there are those who participate in world naked gardening day, or some other one-off event who do not consider themselves nudist. Nudists remove the constraint. Nudists socialize nude and do not see anything unusual about doing ordinary things nude in the presence of the opposite sex. They are simply more comfortable in their own skin than they are camouflaged. Vanilla people masturbate, watch porn, have sex, engage in fantasy, do some role play, but claim to do so in a monogamous way. Non-monogamy for them is non-consensual and is called cheating. Cheating is so common that it might be considered a social norm: the tabloids are full of breathless revelations and consequences. Swingers remove the constraint. They have sex with others and do not see anything unusual in taking their interest and fantasies outside the boundary created by monogamy. They are simply more comfortable accepting the drive for sexual variety than trying to suppress it. There is a common thread: vanilla life is defined by social norms--behaviors that widely practiced bounded from behaviors that are not widely practiced. The opposite of "vanilla" is "not vanilla" and encompasses a wide range of alternative choices. What binds nudists and swingers is their initial decision to engage in any alternative choice. The first step from vanilla to non-vanilla is the longest. After that, it becomes a question of what alternatives fit an individual and a couple. This may explain why traditional G-rated social nudism promulgated by the AANR has declined in favor of broader removal of restrictions at gatherings and resorts and greater tolerance of choice. These places have become "nudist resorts" and more non-vanilla destinations that are nude-friendly, swinger-friendly, non-binary etc.

My regrets aren't the guys I didn't have sex with, it is the girls.

That's why I got together with Red, then hubby - they appreciated me, including my scrawny body, in a non-pervy way. (You wouldn't believe how many guys hit on me after finding out that I was 16, 17, 18 because I looked 12, 13, 14 but was legal by some calculation.) I was going to say "underdeveloped" instead of "scrawny," but although I was a little late to the puberty party, had small breasts, and a face that looked a lot younger than I was, I did have thick pubes and was fully functioning between my legs.

I'm a simple man, naked does me just fine Any other votes?

Ah, it's just convenient shorthand that everyone's understood for a couple of centuries now. About the same as 'hooking up,' - you can do that without being a pirate, right?

Probably because they couldn't believe that I'm ok with them having sex with hubby (or boyfriend, Red) and they expect me to cause some drama. In reality it's the opposite - he having sex with another woman was something that I did and do want. Most were even more reluctant to let me watch/participate, probably for the same reason. This is partially correct in that I did become extremely jealous, but it was also a turn on for me, and the jealousy made me love and want my husband and boyfriend even more. Admittedly, it has become a drug for me. The ones who did let me watch and participate were bisexual and wanted to play with me as well. Actually, that was brought out my Lesbian side, my jealous desire to get into the mess that was/is sex between her and my guy.

In my experience, women who have no problem having an affair with a married man have difficulty if the wife is OK with it, more difficulty if she is encouraging it.

It's still perfectly relevant today. People are far, far more taken aback at the idea that a married person is playing with permission than they are with the idea of a married person cheating. Cheating is more socially acceptable than swinging. I've seen this first hand.

After I ate my wife after I came in her, she married me.

I have only eaten my own cum out of my ex-wife and being new to scene I haven't had a MFM thus the opportunity to eat another man's cum out of the woman and would be concerned about STD's etc. Not something I fantasize about but if all was perfect - which its not nor ever will be - and the woman was really turned on by the idea it would be worth considering. My ex found my doing this to her with my own cum very hot and have read of many other women who also find this hot and I didn't mind at all, as a matter of fact it was much easier than trying to do it on my own which I never could get past the post-orgasm refractory period. It helped a lot to see how excited she would get.

When I looked at my previous response to this thread, I saw my post was over seven years ago and it needed an update. It's no longer me, my boyfriend, and my husband with an occasional girl for him, we are now a poly family with two other women (and five children). 1) My boyfriend will now do it with any of the girls, but it has to be his cum. 2) No change - hubby will eat any cunt with any cum. (Am I the only woman that actually likes the word "cunt" for both the genitalia and as slang for a woman? It sounds so strong.) 3) Still true. 4) I'll lick Lora or Clair after one or both of the guys pumps semen in it. There's a totally different mind set for me depending on whether it's before or after I've orgasmed.