The fact of the matter is that I, Tina, would like to say that I would like to know someone before having sex. When Bob and I started swinging it was mainly clubs and and he encouraged me to experiment because I had had limited sexual experiences. For those that know about San Francisco clubs some can be fairly open/wild to say the least.
Bob introduced me to swinging, I have to admit that sexually i was very conservative, like 5 guys before Bob and that includes the ex.
Anyway a few SF clubs, lots of naked big cock guys, that Bob personally would want me to do, I would wear a mask and lay on the bed, so no face images.
I was terrified and my knees trembled literally,almost peed, think I did a little in beginning, but then I relaxed and was able to somewhat enjoy experience; actually was able to orgasm a few times.
Fact is after that I was able to realize that sex is more than just something that you do with your lover; it can be just for your own bodies personal satisfaction. Sometimes i think that Bob has opened up a side of me (wildside) that maybe should have been caged. Any one else feel that way?