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A spit roast. One man is behind a woman having sex doggy style. One man is in front of the same woman receiving oral sex. Never fails to excite.

While it worked out for Numex, we would caution against tracking down ex's. Mostly because they are not part of the swinging L/S and also because there were already strong emotions previously. While your wife may be okay with this, especially since it was someone she knew and was already comfortable with, it seems that it would be very easy for the ex boyfriends to misunderstand or misread that she wants to rekindle the romance or for them to try to reignite the old flames.

We were very emphatic that it’s a nude beach not a sex beach. No smoking, no drinking, no hanky panky and No Clothes. We never saw any real sex on the beach. If it happens it’s discreet, and you will be arrested if caught. You can’t even drink there anymore. It was a fun day, I think the men were more self conscious getting undressed. Guys will be guys and when they saw pretty 20somethings they gawked. Funny thing happened, I was walking by the water with one of the women and we were approached by two women to join them. Being nude with our new friends is much different from being nude for sex. Being with people who never were at a nude beach or being nude in front of thousands was full of laughs. We are used to the imperfect bodies, hate to admit they were being childish, they behaved in spite of that. The best part, we have new friends who we enjoyed being with. It was great to be with people again socially.

When we lived in Monmouth County my wife and I semi-frequently went to Gunnison. We aren’t really beach folks, so we would often arrive after 3:00 on a Sunday afternoon, when the crowd had thinned out and just stay for an hour or two. The prohibitions on sex weren’t as rigorous 20 years ago as they apparently are now. Kathy sometimes liked to go to the southern end of the beach, where there were few people and those present tended to be widely spaced, and masturbate. There was in those days a small amount of semi-discrete sex that went on. Still, I was on one occasion quite surprised to find a nude couple — youngish woman and older man — both nude and fully engaged in mutual oral just a hundred feet or so from where the path from the parking lot diverges to the clothing-optional fork to the right and the textile northern path to the left. It seemed a bit too ‘out-there" to me.

We are heading out to Gunnison with two couples who are new to nudism and nude beaches. One is all for it, the other very nervous. If you see us, we will have a multi-color umbrella, blue blanket close to the water, I’m the blonde with a Yankee hat, 5’3”, he’s 5’9”, will be 6 of us, say Hello. Most likely will be going for drinks after in either the Highlands or Sea Bright.

We both love to see people wearing welcoming smiles! (and occasionally, little else).

The old skeleton in the closet trick, as Maxwell Smart would say.

She definitely does not know. And I don't think it would go over well if she did.

Finding a man for a MFM threesome is like finding a cheeseburger in McD's. They're EVERYWHERE. What is harder is finding the RIGHT man for the job. Establish your limits and rules first (knowing that they can be changed after discussing them outside of a sexual scenario, never when things are happening). Then start looking on one of the swinger websites (see: please visit our sponsors at the top of the page...most will let you set up a free profile). Say exactly what you want in the profile...that you are looking for a connection and are taking your time. You'll still get literally HUNDREDS of responses. Week them down and then start meeting them (you will learn more about them in 5 minutes in person than 5 years of email/text/talking via phone). If one isn't right or steps over the line or moves too fast or whatever, move on to the next. I cannot overemphasize HOW MANY MEN you will be contacted by. Don't be afraid to toss one back if they aren't exactly what you are looking for.

Swingers club sounds like the best option here...go to one to first check it out and see if the 'vibe' fits yours, then ask the owners if you could set something like this up. More than likely they will say it's fine and give you some help. Then comes the hard part...finding out what your wife's next fantasy is.

Go to a swinger’s club and see what they do there. You could go two nights in a row if you go out of town.

We are booked this weekend, but have fun! The nervous ones will notice 3,000 of their closest naked friends and will soon forget their own status. Remember, no hanky panky on the beach! Or they can arrest you! There are feds, undercover and above cover.

Absolutely I have friends my xwife and I use to have 3somes with . We are still friends . If they need me for any reason am their for them .

Since we are looking for friends with benefits, I'm sure we could. We are always looking for friends first...the benefits are just a bonus. If they stopped, the friendship would still be there...

Some ppl take it as an insult. We had this couple who we really enjoyed socially and sexually. They even had kids our kids age and everybody got along. The only problem was that they were pretty hard drinkers and we started going down that same path so after a while we had to break away. They were pretty insulted and now it's awkward if we bump into them socially. Chemistry among couples can be very complex. Playing with single males is so much easier.

...and cheating isn't swinging, no matter how much you may think it is. Cheating and swinging are at the complete opposite ends of the spectrum.

We prefer to play with committed swingers over cheating spouses. We hope to avoid the vengeful cheated on spouse discovering us and breaking up our fun. There are a lot of hot tempered people out there who are willing to do harsh things. We don’t want to do unethical things and contribute to the demise of marriages. There are plenty of consenting swingers.

It also sounds like a good way to get an eye full of Cum which is why I started sucking them down in the beginning lol. I never worried about trying to get him to cum outside and the negative outcomes since I prefer it in me and not on me. Guys like it even better when I make a show of rolling their semen around in my mouth and displaying it on my tongue before the big swallow. That never appealed to me, the injecting of semen right down my throat. I've done it a couple of times, but no more (see above).

Like just about everything else in life, one gets better at the different aspects of sex and enjoys it the more one does it. There's a lot to miss in life if the first time you swing (at a softball, a golf ball) and you miss, or fall the first time skiing or riding a bike, you say "That's it, I'm just giving up."

It's probably harder when you're the one putting a stop to it. It is also probably awkward to bring it up which is why you haven't heard from those people. But I'm sure it can be done. I had a buddy who used to fuck my GF and have MFM with us. Once he got married he put a stop to it. Of course before his wedding he really got it all out of his system. But now we hang out with him and his wife like normal friends do.