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With how things have gone in the past year +, our favorite sight at a swingers party would be just SEEING a swingers party. It's been SOOOOO long...

My favorite sight? Always has been and always will be my wife at play with others!

We agreed to “play” with a couple in which the wife would play with her husband, but not us. She would then only watch. We were on vacay, so we agreed. It was action. They were nice. Flash forward a bit. My wife is riding the other husband while his attractive and naked wife watched from inches away on the bed, her head propped up by her arm . I was standing on the bed receiving oral from my wife as she was bouncing up and down on the other guy. The entire scene was very stimulating. I proceeded to come in my wife’s mouth. And I kept coming. It seemed like gallons. Finally, she gagged and spit out the gallons on the other guy’s stomach. I felt bad and ran for a towel. He was a good sport. Hey, he got laid. I hoped that his wife would reverse her policy, but it didn’t happen. All in all, a crazy porn like scene. More fun than we expected.

... and it's getting soooo HARD. (Sorry... I tried to resist that... kinda... )

My wife, naked and either the center of attention or simply walking across the room (ideally with semen on her body in interesting places). I always really enjoyed watching her walk naked across our old club to the showers (which required crossing the "social area" from the "play area") after enjoying the attentions of several men... "Walk of shame?" she said once, "Hell no, I'm proud!"

A daisy chain? That would be so hot!

Happy to see you recovered. For people that work or play with heavy items, just not worth it.

A spit roast. One man is behind a woman having sex doggy style. One man is in front of the same woman receiving oral sex. Never fails to excite.

Here's the thing... if you're ever in a swinging situation (or any situation really) and you find yourself thinking "I'm not OK with this"... stop. It doesn't matter if that's what other people would do. It doesn't even matter if it's what you, yourself, did on a previous occasion. What matters is, there, in that moment, something about the situation feels wrong to you and you should just politely but firmly and quickly remove yourself (and your loved one's) from that situation. If you want an reason - You have an entirely lifetime's worth of experience, and a full array of human survival instincts, subconsciously observing and analyzing everything around you for signs of danger. Some part of your brain is always looking to the proverbial lion sneaking toward you through the high grass. So when you hear those mental alarm bells, even if you don't know why, listen to them. Better an awkward departure than meeting that lion.

We would have kicked him to the curb after the third or forth sentence of your post. We don't have many rules, but one of them is no cross talk (man to man = okay, woman to woman = okay, man to woman = absolutely not). In order to find out that everyone is interested, we meet for drinks or dinner with no play scheduled. You will learn more in five minutes in person than an eternity of email, texting or calls. Bottom line is that this guy is a jerk and just bullying his way to get what he wants (and so far, it has worked). There's always another couple out there and they will be a much better match. Tell them thanks but no thanks and start looking for a better match.

I agree with what you're saying here, and have questions about the merits of vaccinating young people. I also agree that this isn't something that can be tweaked away. However, the reason for that, to my understanding, is that both myocarditis and blood clotting/stroke are also reported symptoms in young people from COVID-19 infection itself. The most likely explanation for myocarditis - and the widely-accepted explanation for the clotting - are violent immune responses. The data is still weak, but significant, and many cases of myocarditis in infected young people may have gone undetected. (How many young people get a troponin level taken outside of medical research? Even older adults have a hard time getting cardiac injury noticed and diagnosed correctly.) This is most likely just a subset of what would happen if this same population got COVID. So what's the answer here? The virus is not going to go away, and will be a background infection circulating seasonally forever. If it's an "all or none" situation, we're either accepting that some will have harmful immune responses while also avoiding a small number of respiratory deaths, or we're accepting the small number of respiratory deaths and rolling the dice on how many young people will eventually become infected and experience the harmful immune responses anyway. Yet it's not an all-or-none situation. It seems to me that the ethical choice here to let families make their own decisions about this. I do agree with you that it's troubling to see universities require it, etc., but businesses and organizations do have property rights, and students have a right to choose their university. I do take issue with this passage: This is, essentially, the definition of inoculation since the days of smallpox variolation. Some vaccines. like the yellow fever vaccine, can cause complications similar to yellow fever infection, and become more dangerous as you age. Essentially, if you don't get the yellow fever vaccine and acquire immunity at an age where you' might be best-equipped to survive yellow fever, you should never get it and are advised to simply avoid parts of the world where yellow fever is endemic. COVID ain't yellow fever, but the fact pattern is similar.

There’s so much wrong here it makes my head spin. Life’s too short.; this interaction is wasting your time and energy. Move on.

Even if speed dating did not result in a match, we met a lot of couples that we could say hi to on the rest of the cruise.

Kathy squirts almost every time she orgasms, which is to say almost every time she has sex. (She’s a super easy cummer.) She always puts a doubled-over beach towel under her ass so as not to soak the linens and mattress. She experienced orgasms from the time she began masturbating as a pre-teen and in her late teens had an orgasm the first time she had intercourse. (Anecdotally that seems fairly rare.) But she didn’t begin squirting until she was post-menopausal. At the same time, she reported her orgasms were stronger and seemed to last longer than ever before. It would be easy to conclude she was urinating. That the combination of the aging of the muscles that control the bladder and the stronger orgasms lead to a partial voiding. But, even if she pees, gets immediately into bed and masturbates herself to orgasm — which generally takes less than two minutes (yeah, I sheepishly confess that I’ve timed her. ?☺️) she still soaks the towel with something that doesn’t smell like urine. So, I don’t know, I’m still agnostic on whether squirting is a form of urinating or if there is some fluid that is mysteriously released by the contractions that are part of orgasm. For my own part I choose to honor the soaked towel as a manifestation of a wonderfully intense and fulfilling experience on Kathy’s part.

A few men have successfully elicited this response from my wife. She was surprised that she could do it. She said it was a pleasant feeling of release, but less powerful than an orgasm. There is a finger movement/placement technique to elicit it, but it has eluded me without formal training. You Tube?

This topic is going to be around for a long time. Here's a somewhat different perspective on the vaccination thread. 1. When the virus first surfaced, no one had immunity. The virus spread rapidly, and felled many of the most vulnerable. 2. Prior to the vaccine, the virus continued to spread contained only by social distancing, masks, handwashing and so on. As those preventive measures were relaxed, the virus spread faster. We learned how many would get sick in the July-August "second wave". 3. By the time the third wave started, a couple of things happened. Vaccine started to make its way into use, and there was focus on those vulnerable patients remaining alive. Moreover the number of people mildly infected or asymptomatically infected had grown to the point that the virus started having trouble finding a non-immune host. Put differently, the effective R number started dropping towards 1. What we're seeing in the hospital and in the intensive care units are the "unlucky unvaccinated". These are individuals who, as a matter of random chance, missed getting infected in the first year or so of the pandemic. This is not unlike the situation with any other respiratory virus--in any given year, some people simply escape infection rather than having low-grade or asymptomatic infection--and then get infected on the next round. Unfortunately, some of these people will have especially horrific infections. See, for example, https://www.webmd.com/vaccines/covid-19-vaccine/news/20210618/man-refusing-covid-vaccine-later-needs-lung-transplant It's not just SARS-CoV-2, the cause of COVID. As social distancing has relaxed, we are seeing a off-seasonal spike in other respiratory infections. See https://www.webmd.com/lung/news/20210614/with-covid-easing-germs-are-on-the-hunt-for-us The uptake of vaccine among practicing physicians speaks to the their level of concern. 96% is "nearly all". Some nurses have declined. From personal knowledge, those who work in the front lines are far more accepting than those who do not have direct daily patient contact. That's our general sense, and emphatically not based on systematic collection of data. The bottom line is that a substantial number of people --at least in the USA--are going to continue to decline the vaccine. Most will be lucky. Some will be unlucky and end up in the hospital, in the ICU and so on. As the Delta variant becomes prominent in the USA, we think there may be an uptick in those serious cases as the variant is at least a bit more transmissible (that is why it is becoming the dominant strain) and likely causes slightly more severe illness. The current vaccines are at least partially protective, and for COVID partial protection means not ending up in the hospital, in the ICU, on life support. The next uptick could be as early as the fall season. Cooler weather favor respiratory illness, and we will likely see an uptick in transmission as kids return to face-to-face classes. Kids typically (but not always!) have milder infections. Kids also will have difficulty maintaining distancing. Unless they are vaccinated, transmission will be probable. And then we will get into the wintertime "influenza like illnesses". It's going to be an interesting 12 months ahead. Our perspective is that the vaccines are the best countermeasures that we have, and we will continue to roll up our sleeves as the seasonal influenza vaccine is rolled out, the COVID booster is rolled out, etc. We understand the concerns, and nothing is risk free. But we also have looked at the numbers, and the numbers tell us that we are at far less risk from a serious reaction to any of the vaccines than we are from the viruses themselves. We are headed to a gathering of LS people in about 5 weeks. We expect all will be vaccinated.

A doggie-69. Conventional doggie style sex with a friend under the girl, either male or female, having mutual oral sex with the girl getting pounded from behind!

LOL, mine seems downright tame compared... I'm always turned on by the sight of a woman blowing a guy in a very casual, leisurely way. Not the quick race to the end, but the relaxing sort of bj that's more of a promise than a finale. It's all that much hotter if I know that they don't previously know each other.

Same, but the woman being done doggy is performing oral on another woman. Especially when the woman in the middle is my wife (and I am otherwise engaged).

I think it is a sight, not a site. Too many websites!

We both love to see people wearing welcoming smiles! (and occasionally, little else).

Wife always wears hers, unless her hand is swollen (old broken arm injury that is sensitive to weather). I never wear mine, for fear of losing it... as an active guy, often around machinery and vehicles.... wearing ANY kind of ring (or jewelry of any kind, even a watch) is a good way to lose body parts.....