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5 pointsThis fellow is a rude person, swing partner or vanilla acquaintance. My rule is that swing partners (man or woman) need to keep my wife happy by accommodating her and not pushing her into anything she doesn't want. It's worked because I haven't imposed any rules on her and she stands up for herself, so no one is going to demand that she engage in private conversations unless she wants to. Find better people to share your time with.
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4 pointsPlease spare us from your anal sex research.
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2 pointsI want to change my vote. Puppy pile!
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2 pointsAs others said earlier, the conversation would have ended very early. The dude seems very overbearing and cares not a whit about anyone but himself.
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2 pointsMy favorite sight is watching Ann, my wife, having fun. That doesn't necessarily have to be sexual, by the way. Just seeing her laughing and enjoying herself, letting go of all of her stresses and worries, is tops for me. Obviously, when it is combined with hot sexual activities, it is even more titillating. And she enjoys being an exhibitionist. And I like to be her voyeur ?
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1 pointAs Idahocouple said, it would largely depend upon why we stopped playing? The biggest hurdle is when a couple starts to have trouble in their relationship, then splits up. When that happens, we have a hard rule to stop playing with both partners, regardless of how much we liked one or both. Recently-single play pals are a definite no-go. In our experience, they are not in a healthy place emotionally and are often looking to rebound. This creates an witch's brew of emotional conflict and drama that we neither want nor need. Cutting them both off may seem harsh to some people. But, it's better for us and them. Frankly, they should not be having sex with other people's spouses/partners after losing their own. It's far too easy, and common, to form emotional attachments that go beyond the sex. It's for this reason that we tend to play almost exclusively with long-married, or at least LTR, couples. Stable relationships are a definite pre-requisite.
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1 pointSquirting: Is it urine, or is it something else? The following is the results of a peer reviewed study that appeared in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, March 2015: Conclusions: The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists. Translation: It's the result of loss of bladder control. With apologies to the folks who had imagined they discovered... wait for it... the Fountain of Youth ?
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1 pointI'm thinking it would depend on why we stopped playing with them.
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1 pointBetter late than never: The old quoting Maxwell Smart trick... It missed me by that much... and loving it.
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1 pointIf he's that domineering and rude before you've even met, imagine him once the clothing is off.
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1 pointThe couple understood and we continued our friendship. No the lifestyle was not the cause of our breakup.
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1 pointOur hard rules include the no cross talk rule, never moving faster than the slowest member is comfortable with, and never changing rules an/or limits in a sexual situation. Probably three rules you should also incorporate.
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1 pointHere's the thing... if you're ever in a swinging situation (or any situation really) and you find yourself thinking "I'm not OK with this"... stop. It doesn't matter if that's what other people would do. It doesn't even matter if it's what you, yourself, did on a previous occasion. What matters is, there, in that moment, something about the situation feels wrong to you and you should just politely but firmly and quickly remove yourself (and your loved one's) from that situation. If you want an reason - You have an entirely lifetime's worth of experience, and a full array of human survival instincts, subconsciously observing and analyzing everything around you for signs of danger. Some part of your brain is always looking to the proverbial lion sneaking toward you through the high grass. So when you hear those mental alarm bells, even if you don't know why, listen to them. Better an awkward departure than meeting that lion.
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1 pointWe would have kicked him to the curb after the third or forth sentence of your post. We don't have many rules, but one of them is no cross talk (man to man = okay, woman to woman = okay, man to woman = absolutely not). In order to find out that everyone is interested, we meet for drinks or dinner with no play scheduled. You will learn more in five minutes in person than an eternity of email, texting or calls. Bottom line is that this guy is a jerk and just bullying his way to get what he wants (and so far, it has worked). There's always another couple out there and they will be a much better match. Tell them thanks but no thanks and start looking for a better match.
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1 pointMy name is Susan, and my husband Joe and I are swingers. We've made many friends in the Lifestyle. Anytime we get the itch to play, there is always someone to get together with. Last weekend I went over to Liam and Katy's house without Joe since he had been called into work for the afternoon. When I arrived, they were having drinks on their back deck and invited me to join them. They asked about Joe, and I told them he was busy with a client but might come over later that evening. After a couple of drinks, the sex was positively hanging in the air. Katy asked if she should excuse herself to give Dave and me some privacy. "Of course not," I replied, "You are entitled to watch or join in if you like." Obviously, this was the answer she was looking for. The three of us retired to the master bedroom, where we all undressed as casually as if we were just going to bed for the night. Liam couldn't keep his eyes off of my breasts as I undressed. When I slipped out of my panties, he came over and kissed me on my vaginal lips while lifting me up and depositing me in the middle of their king-sized bed. Talk about good oral sex! Liam was licking and tasting and rubbing my clitoris with a professional touch until I told him it was my turn to do something for him. With that, he rolled over on his back, and that was a good thing because of his impressive size. At 6'3" and 240+ lbs, he could crush me by being on top. I began to lick his tool, and it started to rise up to the challenge immediately. When he was good and hard, I tried to deep throat him as he is only about 8" long but pretty thick. I could get him almost in my mouth up to his balls. But when I did, I was having trouble breathing due to his girth. Meanwhile, Katy was licking me from behind, and I was sure I felt one of her vibrators humming in preparation for the next thing she had planned. This caused me to lubricate so much that my juices ran down my leg, and Liam was getting ready to blow his load down my throat. "Hold on, big fella," I said, "I want to get that thick thing in my snatch and right now." Moving over him, I positioned my pussy above his rock-hard dick. I slowly descended down on it until I had an inch or two between my slick plump pussy lips, and he was thrusting up to meet me. I continued to lower my vagina until I had him wet all the way to his balls. Liam was in seventh heaven. I like to be on top of a big man as it gives me a lot more control. I rode him like a bronco for several minutes until he said he was ready to shoot. "I want to cum with you, Liam, so hold out for a minute if you can," I requested. The feeling of his dick buried deep inside me meant he couldn't even speak, so he just nodded. Then I began to rock back and forth to get the maximum stimulation to my clitoris while moving up and down and clenching my kegel muscles at the same time to bring him off. This worked so well that we came together in an explosive orgasm. I collapsed on Liam's massive chest while catching my breath. Meanwhile, Katy, not wanting to be left out, began to use the vibrator on my ass, which I am not into yet. Instead of telling her no and making her feel bad, I just rolled off Liam and pulled Katy over me. I sucked her tits, and then we rotated into a 69 for mutual pussy munching. It took me a few minutes to cum again, but Katy was all worked up, having watched her husband take me, and she came immediately. When I had my second orgasm, Liam was now ready for a repeat performance. He took me doggie style while I licked Katy between her legs. With every vigorous thrust Liam made, my tongue slid up Katy's clit with even more pressure. Soon both of them were cumming, and I was again on edge. We all rested together on the bed until Joe rang the bell. He had brought several bottles of champagne for us to celebrate with. It was almost dawn when Joe and I went back home with everyone but Joe having gotten their rocks off that night. However, Katy promised his turn will be next, and she will make the wait worth his while! Susan & Joe Tampa, Florida
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1 pointLol... well played ?
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1 point1) Two people within a month is much better than average for SwingLifeStyle. 2) Other Web sites will bring your a greater number of contacts but fewer quality contacts. 3) I have no way of judging if my wife and I represent the norm, but I can say that we have never never sent an inquiry to a non-paid member. There might be other who feel the same. Hoping this helps. ~Michael
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1 pointI'm replying as a couple on sls. It's my favorite site. I think it's worth it to have a paid membership. It's much less than we spend on going to clubs, babysitters, sexy underwear, etc! You can have a private gallery, you can send and respond to as many emails and view as many profiles as you want. You can certify people you meet. I think having a paid membership gives you a tiny bit more credibility as person who is serious not just looking for pictures. I find that we get very few contacts. So I contact anyone we're interested in and we do get positive responses on some of those. In your case I wouldn't contact anyone who says no single males, but otherwise you may have better results if you take the initiative rather than waiting to be contacted.
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1 pointMy only thought about that is it requires us to patronize one particular business. I was looking at something more general. Remember when in the 80s you were thought to be a gay man if you had an earring in your right ear? Same concept. Something subtle and general that we could all exercise in our own way. It could anything, I just know that unless somebody says, "OK, we're going to do this", then it will never get done. Maybe we should hire a PR firm.
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0 pointsAfter seeing my friend squirt and posting here asking about it I researched who and if then what. There is a skenes gland that could be like a prostate, some of us have it not everyone. I also read it’s mostly pee mixed with a secretion maybe. It’s my friend who squirted the most and damn I can ask her anything. She didn’t add anything to my research saying it just happens sometimes not always. I asked if it’s pee and she had no idea and said it doesn’t feel like she’s peeing. This may sound disgusting, I didn’t taste pee when she squirted. On Sunday I did a a sicko thing, I asked her to pee in a clear cup. Me and my husband tried to get her to squirt again and couldn’t so she used her own hand and got a small squirt into another cup. It looked different. I wanted my husband to see if they tasted the same and he wouldn’t. Nobody wanted to so I said I would. Yuk. Only a small taste, first urine almost vomited, then squirt. Squirt was thicker and different. It wasn’t like sucking a dick not that thick, for sure it want the same as pee. It was just interesting not a necessarily important thing.
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