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Wedding rings are a sexual/psychological kink for my wife. Before we met, she used to have relationships with married men, cheaters. She said it was because the relationship had built-in limits (men don't leave their wives), they were appreciative, the sex was good, they couldn't complain if she was seeing someone else, etc. I think there was also a strong element of sampling what another woman already had, like eating off her plate in a restaurant. Anyway, Daniela said she liked being with a man wearing a wedding ring, while she wasn't wearing one. That all stopped when we got together because I didn't like cheating, as well as thinking it is dangerous. But now that she's a married woman and we're swingers, she likes wearing her wedding ring while having sex with other people, men and women. I don't and never have worn a wedding ring with my ex-wife either, and never cheated.

lcmim - lmbo! ? why am I not!?

Surprised?

Apparently SLS doesn’t know either - this is so annoying - the responder literally said I’m not sure

Wow. Well that’s pretty much what is occurring. Since that moment, we have discussed the feelings. Hers and mine. What I enjoy watching her with another, what I feel. Mostly I am Proud of her, thrilled for her aroused in the opportunity to see her pleasure in full from just a few feet away. The Joy I get out seeing her not holding back her orgasms, moans and hunger. I don’t get to see that in full when I’m on her. In her or feeling her come multiple times. She comes easy and often with rolling spasms, increasing volume intensity and moisture. I can’t see all of that at once if I’m the one doing it. But watching her be with another man and being able to see all of her carnal pleasures, and then she rolls her head to stare at me eyes wide and glistening with tears of adoration. That’s what I see. And guess what. She locks her eyes on mine with a fire I haven’t seen since are first awkward moments together. She mouths, to me, while receiving a cock across the room. In those moments and our shared talks and whispers and touches. I have never felt more loved, more faith, more courage and Trust in our relationship. Our marriage has not ever been as free and and strong as it is now. There is a deeper love we share now. And growing. We got into the lifestyle, to share and experience and help the other try their fantasies. We consider ourselves very spontaneous and adventurous. Yeah well it’s multiplied x10. See and that’s just her being with another man. It grows as we each stretch out confidently in our Love. We aren’t naive, we know there can be some negative feelings. And we help each other over one and navigate those feelings. So much to learn. Our rules are always changing. As is our desire for each other.

I read this Guest Essay, as The Times now calls them, earlier today snd found it quite interesting. I’m a subscriber but last time I checked you could register and read several articles per week. (That may have changed.) The moderators here quite correctly don’t permit the posting of copyrighted material, but I’m sure the brief passage below, which is critical to the thrust of the essay, falls under the fair usage exemption to the law: "…according to Gallup, the majority of adults in the L.G.B.T.Q. community identify as bisexual, at 54.6 percent." I never would have guessed the percentage was nearly that high. Which leads to the writer’s point, that if they are to be accepted in both the LGBTQ and wider communities bisexuals need to be better about coming out than they have been.

My wife and I thought it was funny that we had more sexual partners while we were married in our fifties than we did when we were single in our twenties. If you told us that would be the case when we were in our twenties, we would not have understood it.

Nobody told us there was going to be a test! When we met in 2002, I was way ahead, having been a single young cop in eastern Pa in the late 70's( "Oh what a night" and "love the one you're with" happened a lot then). I was Mrs Doc's 4th. Im not sure that she's caught up yet but when you consider the built in limitations of erections, refraction periods and the number of available penises at swinger clubs and house parties she may well be getting close. We tried one night to put a number to both of us but we kept reminding each other of different events and additional people and finally just gave up. It was an amusing and erotic exercise. Our only conclusion was that we could easily be described as sluts, both of us!

Have we seen it at parties? Yes. What did it do for us? Nothing except make us slightly disgusted. It seems to us that it is done solely for the man to feel superior and to degrade the woman. Some women like to feel that way, but not under THIS profile. Cumming on other body parts is also something that we do not enjoy. Less disgusting, but still not our thing. Cum belongs in an orifice.