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I never thought I would see this, my wife with a woman. I’ve posted that my wife and I have an open marriage. For years it was unspoken, more recently we talk about our experiences. She meets married men for short relationships, I meet women on business trips. Business trips have been put on hold this year, her meetings have been curtailed. Her meetings have resumed with a new frequency since being vaccinated, something that doesn’t bother me. She recently told me she met a man and another woman, not his wife, and went into details of the meeting. I never heard her say anything about enjoying other women and it excited me to listen. She told me the woman was my type and I would like her. Watching her with men is new for me, watching her with a woman is much more exciting. She said they asked her how much I know about her cheating and asked her to invite me when she said I knew. The woman was my type, she loved sex. The sight I enjoyed most was after having sex with this woman and my wife having sex with her partner, the women cleaned up. Watching my wife licking up my deposit was not only exciting it was surprising. I never knew she would enjoy other women.

M has had three children and is still the tightest woman I’ve ever been with (lucky me!)

Everyone knows that a sneeze separates the soul from the body. To prevent the devil stealing the soul the incantation “bless you” is said to release the soul from Satan’s clutches and return it to its rightful owner. It's true, look it up on the internet!

It's like asking if a woman's mouth will be looser after sucking bigger dicks.

A partner told us sex is a physical response like sneezing. Does everyone make ornate rules around sneezing?

The orthogonal responses above simply indicate that there is no one right answer, there is only the right answer for the OP. It's perfectly reasonable to draw a sharp separation between public life and private life. Whether that separation can be maintained, and at what level of effort, is another question. Keeping track of who knows what is not trivial. And in this age of so much communication, there may be unexpected spillover between private and public life. The general guidance above is sound. Volunteer nothing. If asked, include as much truth as reasonable. Avoid deception whenever possible. You don't have to answer every question asked of you. However... At some point you may well get a direct question that will force you either into a lie or into telling some uncomfortable truth. If you lie, be prepared to perpetuate a consistent lie. If you tell an uncomfortable truth, make sure you control the message, stay on message, and message only what needs to be shared. Figuring out how you plan to handle the direct question before it comes is a little like an insurance policy: you pay the (planning) premium hoping you never have to use it.

Winner, Best Advice of the Week Award. Certain contender for Best Advice of the Month Award. My nominee for Best Advice of the Year Award.

Our social calendar seems busier each week. (Most) humans don't like isolation and look forward to connection. COVID and "the lost year" brought that into much sharper focus. It's not just minds that want to make up for lost time--bodies want to come along.

Again , someone seen "sneaking" in through the back door is far more comment worthy than any one walking in through the front door.

True. Bf doesnt like swinging. But SO and I are into it. So it is like, "one nation, two systems" (2 sets of rules) for me! ?

Yes, definitely.

No. It has to do with muscle tone.

So why isn't it just as crazy a concept for me to let my husband sleep with other women? Is it because a man, even a married one, having more than one female sexual partner - his wife - is considered "normal," while a married woman fucking around is breaking a taboo? Why are there no examples (that I know of) of a woman having a haram of men, yet the sultan with his multiple wives is a cliché?

My favorite sight is watching Ann, my wife, having fun. That doesn't necessarily have to be sexual, by the way. Just seeing her laughing and enjoying herself, letting go of all of her stresses and worries, is tops for me. Obviously, when it is combined with hot sexual activities, it is even more titillating. And she enjoys being an exhibitionist. And I like to be her voyeur ?

Laughing and talking. We are not fans of being with many couples at a party, when we are with a few couples the best Sight is everyone enjoying and getting along. It is the time between the sex when we are relaxing and just talking makes me smile because I am thinking our party is a success.

Same, but the woman being done doggy is performing oral on another woman. Especially when the woman in the middle is my wife (and I am otherwise engaged).