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My problem is that after a man has had his penis within the walls of my vagina, it comes out noticeably smaller than it went in, squeezed beyond its elastic limits, never to go back to its full size. And his testicles are shrunken, withdrawn inside his body.

As it should be. When one of us has had sex with someone else earlier that day, it is more of an imperative that we mate before the day ends. Which is why, when done properly, sex outside of marriage is good for a marriage. All those thoughts: other men find her attractive but she still wants me, I just banged another woman and she still loves me, she's had several orgasms and still wants me...

The most I was with is 2 and 2 women. When we were home and showered and ready to call it a night I was reminded we never did it that day. My Rock made my trifecta that day making three a perfect number.

Yes, indeed. Daniela says that works better than Viagra. And I love it under any circumstances when I'm totally flaccid and a woman takes my entire penis in her mouth, only to have my dick slowly outgrow it.

My husband will say I’m Shrinnnnking after he cums and stays in me. Think he said it’s from a movie. If he’s in my mouth it’s fun when he shrinks and his balls tighten up and I get him bigger again.

Well, it was pretty fantastic as it goes. Mrs. C had a whale of a time and explored lots of fantasies - said mostly she was comfortable because she could treat the other guy however she wanted without having to be careful about the feelings of his partner. We think now she must definitely be switch. She really let loose and it might have been the first time I have seen her completely at ease with her own (somewhat ferocious :-)) sexuality. He was a gentleman and (I think) couldn't believe his luck. I came 4 times (which is a record for me by a factor of 2), once in DP (again a first), and she is still horny 2 days later. Naughty flashbacks apparently! I think in an ideal world (for me at least), we would find a great couple that we could be natural with, but this was an amazing and big step towards what I hope will be a great future......... Thanks for all your kind comments! Until the next time

Hate to be a stickler but WTF? "Marie Antoinette was a plaything of Henry the VIII, when he was done with her he had her head cut off."

It’s your fantasy, if she doesn’t want it it’s not going to happen. Why is it the men who have a fantasy of Big Men? Do you want her hurt? Sorry. That doesn’t sound like fun for her. Possibly that’s the reason things have dried up in your sex life putting your fantasy above her pleasure.

I feel as though my gf might not let me do this also but I wanna try it. Maybe after a time or two of sneaking it and if I like it as much as I imagine I’ll bring it up. I prepped today and I masturbated earlier into a cup while she was at work. My plan is, Im going to pretend to take a drink of “water” before I go down on her, hold my cum in my mouth and begin licking, shoving my cum inside her so I can lap it all up. She’s in the shower right now washing herself. Im really excited, this has been a fantasy for awhile. Eventually I’d love to bring another man home for her and see where it leads.

It is great that you are being sensitive to your wife's feelings. My comment wasn't directed at you, just the asymmetry. Thinking about it, it is interesting that men having multiple female sexual partners seems to be the historic norm, but recently the trend is to MFM threesomes, cuckolds, and hotwives.

Just because someone asks a question doesn’t mean you need to answer it…

I don't really think it's possible to go from dried-up sex life to cuckold/hotwife in a single step. Before we were in the Lifestyle we started visiting nude beaches together. The fun yet naughty, zero sexual pressure atmosphere of the nude beach, combined with all those naked bodies, eventually led to first Lifestyle experience. Fast forward a couple years and my wife is dating other men with my full blessing and support. Today, two decades after we started visiting nude beaches, she is still dating other men and we couldn't be happier together. But it probably wouldn't have worked if I just told her i wanted her to see other men back then. That probably would have freaked her out. So I think a shift to a hot kinky lifestyle is possible, but I think taking a series of baby steps in that direction will get a better outcome. For us it was the nude beach. For you it could be something else - like perhaps arranging a masseur to come to your house. But I advise starting small.

I never thought I would see this, my wife with a woman. I’ve posted that my wife and I have an open marriage. For years it was unspoken, more recently we talk about our experiences. She meets married men for short relationships, I meet women on business trips. Business trips have been put on hold this year, her meetings have been curtailed. Her meetings have resumed with a new frequency since being vaccinated, something that doesn’t bother me. She recently told me she met a man and another woman, not his wife, and went into details of the meeting. I never heard her say anything about enjoying other women and it excited me to listen. She told me the woman was my type and I would like her. Watching her with men is new for me, watching her with a woman is much more exciting. She said they asked her how much I know about her cheating and asked her to invite me when she said I knew. The woman was my type, she loved sex. The sight I enjoyed most was after having sex with this woman and my wife having sex with her partner, the women cleaned up. Watching my wife licking up my deposit was not only exciting it was surprising. I never knew she would enjoy other women.

Our first experience contained more than our first swap, it was also the first time I had a bi experience. The couple that we met online, also a first, was thoughtful, considerate and I want to say we are lucky to have met them. It was the first time I ever had sex without kissing because with the pandemic we figured kissing would add extra risk. I think our first fun went without a hitch and I would thank our partners for making it fun.

We have only been to a few larger parties. We have never been to a club. I was with 3 different guys and I needed a break. After a little rest my friend and her guy friend had a 3some that went on for an hour. I needed to stop at that point. I was getting sore. Mix that into plenty of other fun and oral, I was exhausted. Three is enough, after that it’s not as much fun. I also like playing orally during the party.