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You now share a sexy secret about each other - enjoy it - and leave it at that.

That exact same thing has happened to us at Gunnison. In our case it was my wife's male coworker (and his wife). Like you, we made pleasant conversation and tried not to be obvious while checking each other out. The good news is that nudists and swingers tend to respect one another's privacy and discretion. Our encounter was pre-pandemic so my wife did have to face her coworker at work the next day but things didn't feel awkward and the encounter was never discussed in front of others (although sometimes he would privately ask if we planned on going some summer weekends). These encounters do sometimes happen, and when they do you have the same "dirt" on them as they have on you. Only a real asshole would "out" you to fellow friends and coworkers.

We too have been going to Sandy Hook and enjoy being with friends nude. Our friends introduced us to swinging and nude bathing, think their is a correlation, not all nudist are swingers. Recently while walking with my wife I saw a woman I work with walking with another woman. I am not sure who felt more awkward, me, my wife or the coworker. Neither of us have been to the office since the pandemic which led to extended conversation neither of us bringing up the elephant on the beach. We are both senior management, work together but as equals. I don’t know much about her personal life, our office contact is purely professional. There is no way she wasn’t checking me out as I was trying not to be obviously checking her and her friend. I am sure what happened, seeing a coworker or neighbor is nothing new. Lucky we are still on remote work from home and we won’t soon be in that awkward situation of being in the office together. How have others handled the unplanned sighting? Do you acknowledge the meeting back at work? My wife keeps saying she bets she swings. I say no way.

A little off topic, but once a female co-worker of my wife's was at our house. My wife changed into her bathing suit in front of both of us. I later told my wife that I thought it was a bit odd and inappropriate. She said why, it's normal to be naked in front of your husband, as it is changing with another woman around.

If we meet someone we know from the vanilla world as swingers or nudists, our first steadfast principle is to never reveal to anyone that the other person is a swinger and/or nudist. And we expect the same from the person we met. Not everyone is accepting of these hobbies and we prefer to keep it confidential.

I simply don't understand why people want to keep 'I'm a social nudist' a secret. Swinging, yes, but what clothes you choose to wear (or not wear,) simply shouldn't be an issue IMHO.

As already indicated, she probably wants to keep this a secret as much as you probably do. You both have a sexy secret to keep, but it is a secret and must be kept. Don't even mention it to her (and never to anyone else) unless she brings it up. Honesty among thieves and secrets among nudists (and swingers).

Gunnisons is a very very popular beach, on any given day there are tens of thousands of nude bathers are going to be there. Expect the unexpected! The more we go the more we see people we know. OMG what are you doing here? The first time you see someone you know you don’t know how to react. It gets to be normal. Some are just acquaintances, some are vanilla friends you had no idea enjoyed being nude and some will be people you know from work. Odds are you will see someone you know. If you live in NJ/NY and are active in swinging you will see someone, just like you will see people you know in a supermarket, a mall, or any other place you go. Bumping into someone when nude is a so what occurrence for us. It has led to some fun times.

No. Proceed with your job and ego at risk. I am a cautious sort. You can fantasize about it in the shower to your heart’s content, no foul, no harm.

We call the concept of outing other swingers and nudists “ mutually assured destruction.” If someone outs us, they are outing themselves. They had to be there to see us there. Most people don’t want people to know they are nudists and/or swingers.

I think some activities are best enjoyed as a voyeur rather than an actor. For me DP is one of those things (although there are many others as well). I did another DP with my GF not too long but it's still not my thing. I basically laid there with my dick in her pussy while my buddy pumped her ass away. Being involved I don't find it very pleasing and I also can't get comfortable being that close to another guy. However I have noticed that a few shots of alcohol takes the edge away and allows me to overcome some of those psychological issues so that I can perform a DP for my GF.

In the course of a long career I had two office flings, both with substantially younger women who reported to me. One instance was an alcohol-fueled one-off. We are friends to this day. The other, the young women having given notice that she was leaving to go back to school, seduced me. Our affair went on for a couple of months and eventually ended in a fashion that seemed to me amicable. She soon married her boyfriend. Decades later she found me on Facebook. She was embittered. Friended me and then blocked me. I carry a little sadness about that latter one. That’s really the only unhappy consequence I suffered. I was lucky. One of my colleagues a few years ago wasn’t so lucky. A senior manager at the US arm of a universally know global company, this woman had a secret sexual relationship with her secretary. Unwisely, she kept a photo folder of their frolics on her company computer. It was found by an IT guy servicing her machine. Apparently he thought it would be nice to join in, and threatened to out her if she didn’t comply. She turned him in to HR and he was summarily fired. Then she got called on the carpet, reminded that it was strictly against company policy to boff anyone who worked under you in the chain of command. My understanding is that she was permitted to resign. And of course everyone found out about it. She was actually pretty lucky. She had to switch industries, but I see her posts on Facebook and she seems to be doing fine. As others have noted, inter office sex can be fun, but these days it often carries with it career-ending risks. Of course perhaps the illicit nature of the relationship is what makes the sex so much fun.

How about some more? Time for an 'update'!

She says do you want to have sex. Or I do. No one said no yet.

Nice ! ...Thank you

Yes, I have enjoyed being involved in quite a few. I no overly fond of DV, butt I really enjoy doing dp. Either hole is good for me, I actually like the feeling of the other guy through the wall, then feeling him swell before he shoots. my first wife would get on me reverse cowgirl anal, then lay back on my chest, then the other guy would mount her and be fucking her pussy.

The women I meet in the "lifestyle" wear the term "slut" like a badge of honor. "I'm a bigger slut than you!" ?

So I've had the pleasure of being DPV a couple times and its fantastic once you get everyone in. Never felt more stretched ever and orgasmed so easily which is not my norm. Big dick on the bottom, woman takes him cowgirl then lays on him, 2nd guy enters from behind and fucks her doggystyle. It feels best if you alternate thrusts, so you are pulling outwards as he is pushing in, and you are pushing in deeper while he is pulling outwards. Do not actually pull out till everyone has cum.