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That's because you're a freethinking Libertine in a world of hypoctricital, judgemental moralists. As has been stated here before, you will be judged less harshly if your neighbors believe your wife to be merely unfaithful, rather than think you're both swingers. As for us, we don't mind telling vanilla friends about our occasional trips to the nudie beach, and it's not uncommon for some people to act completely shocked even by that.

I'm back from my midwest trip with an update: My wife spent the week at home with a regular single male playmate of ours and it was a fantastic experience for everyone! The knowledge of them together was very exciting and arousing to me and added a nice extra layer of intensity to my days - which seemed to provide me with added energy. It's hard to relax with visions of your wife and another man in your head. Hard to describe. But I was energetic and hard working (there was work to do). As for my wife, she really enjoyed time off from family, going out on dates and being spoiled by an attentive lover. They even visited Gunnison Beach last Saturday (sent me some great pics), and when it started to rain returned home to make love as the storm raged outside. As for our friend - what's not to love? He had access to my beautiful wife all week and didn't even have to share! I would call it a win/win/win! Now that I'm home my wife and I are energized and horny for each other like teenagers! I will undoubtedly be doing this more often and highly recommend it to our fellow Lifestyle friends!!

Just to clarify: your husband knew and knows about this and has given his approval? Personally, we think that this is a VERY BAD idea...that you spend so much time with this person in a private setting. This is the path to developing feelings towards each other (or at least one of you developing feelings). If this happens, then what...you quit your job? I just don't see very many paths that don't lead to trouble here, but I could be wrong. We seriously wish you good luck, hoping that you won't be needing it.

In the course of a long career I had two office flings, both with substantially younger women who reported to me. One instance was an alcohol-fueled one-off. We are friends to this day. The other, the young women having given notice that she was leaving to go back to school, seduced me. Our affair went on for a couple of months and eventually ended in a fashion that seemed to me amicable. She soon married her boyfriend. Decades later she found me on Facebook. She was embittered. Friended me and then blocked me. I carry a little sadness about that latter one. That’s really the only unhappy consequence I suffered. I was lucky. One of my colleagues a few years ago wasn’t so lucky. A senior manager at the US arm of a universally know global company, this woman had a secret sexual relationship with her secretary. Unwisely, she kept a photo folder of their frolics on her company computer. It was found by an IT guy servicing her machine. Apparently he thought it would be nice to join in, and threatened to out her if she didn’t comply. She turned him in to HR and he was summarily fired. Then she got called on the carpet, reminded that it was strictly against company policy to boff anyone who worked under you in the chain of command. My understanding is that she was permitted to resign. And of course everyone found out about it. She was actually pretty lucky. She had to switch industries, but I see her posts on Facebook and she seems to be doing fine. As others have noted, inter office sex can be fun, but these days it often carries with it career-ending risks. Of course perhaps the illicit nature of the relationship is what makes the sex so much fun.

Because it goes against what the majority (right or wrong) of the people view as 'acceptable behavior'. Senior management is expected to set an example and conform to the greater public's 'norms'. In many cases they will even have morals contracts for their job and something even as innocent as this could be taken as grounds for termination. It's not we we (in this board) believe and feel, but what is perceived by the greater 'everyone' as what is acceptable.

The shower? ? My wife and I fantasize to one another about the objects of our desires (she has more because it's both men and women) as foreplay and while we're having sex. That was our gateway to swinging - talking about who we previously enjoyed fucking (although being married I had much more sex, Daniela had far more different partners, which gives her better stories). We started swinging by hotwifing with exes she told me she would like to do again.

Just to clarify: your husband knew and knows about this and has given his approval?

How about a zoom party ?

I think some activities are best enjoyed as a voyeur rather than an actor. For me DP is one of those things (although there are many others as well). I did another DP with my GF not too long but it's still not my thing. I basically laid there with my dick in her pussy while my buddy pumped her ass away. Being involved I don't find it very pleasing and I also can't get comfortable being that close to another guy. However I have noticed that a few shots of alcohol takes the edge away and allows me to overcome some of those psychological issues so that I can perform a DP for my GF.

Please, pull down those panties, spread her legs, and bend over. There is more to admire.

We all hear about the office sexual and romantic relationships that go wrong, but not the ones that don't. Actually, I know of a few that either ended in marriage, or just ended with no adverse consequences.

If we meet someone we know from the vanilla world as swingers or nudists, our first steadfast principle is to never reveal to anyone that the other person is a swinger and/or nudist. And we expect the same from the person we met. Not everyone is accepting of these hobbies and we prefer to keep it confidential.

No. Proceed with your job and ego at risk. I am a cautious sort. You can fantasize about it in the shower to your heart’s content, no foul, no harm.

Seems like you obsess over penis size. You have been posting about this from your very first post. Men worry too much, believe me most women don’t care. Some men are just big dicks regardless of the size of their penises.

Both me and my GF have taken a few separate vacations. They are mostly just weekend trips. Actually right before the pandemic I was supposed to go on a weekend trip with 2 of my buddies to a casino which we do all the time. We split a suite 3 ways but right before the trip I had a bunch of work that came up that I needed to get done and I wouldn't be able to get it done on the car ride up and didn't feel like bringing my laptop and just doing all the work in the hotel so I backed out. Since it was all paid and I didn't want to ask for my money back my GF volunteered to go with them. She had fun and obviously they had a blast with her. They kept me in the loop during their sexual activities and I got a call from them in the car driving up while my GF was blowing my buddy and I could hear her gagging on his cock. 99.9% of the time I love hearing that stuff and being kept in the loop but I had so much work to do that weekend it was a distraction. I would have enjoyed it more if I just got to stay home and relax without worrying about a deadline and enjoy the sex calls, pics, vids, etc. It was still hot but I was up 2 straight nights working while they were gambling and fucking so not as enjoyable for me as them. But still hot.