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Personally I’ve never had an experience where oral wasn’t involved. To me that’s part of foreplay as well as kissing. If a couple contacted us and they don’t kiss or engage in oral sex, it would be a hard pass. How do you warm up and get comfortable with someone without?

There are some questions/stories that seem fake to me, but are interesting nevertheless.

Some of us even need the craziness. Just ask my wife

I absolutely love DP with the right people, you know the ones who know what the heck they are doing and how to do it well! I by far have the most explosive orgasms when DP is done well. My husband likes doing it in most positions but of course says it's best when you are the one doing the pumping. Though we have discovered that when there are 3 guys with 2 doing DP on me the 3rd can keep us quite entertained and the combination of it all can be extremely pleasurable for us all. My husband wanted to add, that when just laying there focus on what is taking place, picture it, feel it, imagine it, and realize exactly what is taking place - that he does enjoy, knowing that I am getting pleasured beyond my wildest dreams. Oh and then there are my breast bouncing up and down or moving forward and back, the enjoyment on my face, in my eyes, and all the screaming, hollering, yelling, all the sex talk it produces from me.

Had to look that up, no pillow queens here. All mouths and genitals were used.

Still being new, isn’t oral part of all sex? I don’t remember not having or giving oral sex during any sex. I can say there were dates in my early life when guys wouldn’t give oral but I have always started sex with a blowjob. I thought it was a prerequisite to sex. I know friends who won’t finish that way I have no problem cumming just from a tongue. I would think oral is expected in swinging.

I think that the mainstream view is that the cuckold wants to feel humiliated - . My wife and I are definitely not into feeling humiliated. I believe that you're correct, and that's why the term "hotwife" was invented. No humiliation, just a celebration of her sexuality and pleasure. In the olden days such a man was called a wittol. And may I add that afterwards it is an ego boost for me when a guy who has had sex with my wife is appreciative, grateful, and a bit envious of me. The opposite of humiliation.

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Let me start by saying that I agree with you. When Daniela and I started to become serious, I said that I didn't demand monogamy, but no married men (or women) unless the spouse knew, and none of the married person's spouses did. Our relationship was such that she became monogamous with me. When we started hotwifing/swinging, I had the same requirement, to which she agreed. On the other hand, however, I had the opportunity to meet socially for several hours with three of the couples where the husband cheated on his wife with my now-wife. Everything was cordial between the women, and if there was damage to their relationship, I couldn't sense it, and my antenna were up. I still think it's a bad idea, but I understood the other side a little. Daniela said she didn't consider it any more wrong for the guy than if he were jerking off. Plus she bought gifts for the wives and kids for him to give, some of which the women really treasure.

We had done a number of pussy/ass DPs in our early hotwife/MFM and couples swap days, with me in either of Daniela's holes. The first time, however, I watched her doing DP with two other guys, it was a whole other level, both sexually hot and emotionally "WTF are we doing?" Of all the things we've done, it was the only time I felt that way.

Since when did love = sex? Do you have to love someone in order to have sex with them? If you love someone, are you required to have sex with them? If a couple loves each other and doesn't have sex, does that mean they are fooling themselves about being in love? Now if having sex leads to having a child, that child is much better off if the parents are both committed and in love with each other, but that is a separate issue. Sex and love are not the same thing and can exist totally separate of each other. It is only people who confuse the two and make it difficult.

I guess technically you can call it whatever you want. I’m not trying to yuck anyone’s yum, it’s just some of the stuff I see sometimes perplexes me. We’ve just got some weird messages the last couple days and it makes me wonder what some of these couples are actually thinking. That is all. Return to your regularly scheduled programming.