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I knew it when he screamed, “Yes Fuck ME, Fuck me in my ASS, Give me more COCK, fill me full of cum in both holes.” as he sucked one of our friends so hard he was yelping as was the guy who was fucking him bareback. My husband went along for the ride with me and bi couples we befriended over the many years, eventually giving a little here and there, until the day he did this. It still takes him a while to get to this point but he definitely gets there more often and in less time. There have also been a few times recently where I have gotten him so aroused kissing him after sucking some off that he latched on to a few of the guys without me even feeding them to him. And even though he never asks upfront for cock I know he loves it, as well as cum, and most definitely getting his ass cummed in. His orgasms are way to explosive for anyone not to love that. We have been very fortunate to have many extremely trust worthy friends who all get along smashingly.

I just responded to a post about letting someone cum in your wife. What are the feelings about sloppy seconds? We have been playing with the same couple, our friends for a couple of years. We have not been using protection and it is a given that we are cumming in the wives. My wife and I had always cleaned up after sex and I figured most couple do. I hadn't gone down on her after I came. On occasion she would get me hard again before washing and we would have a second go at it. It was just my cum in her. Now with swapping new things happened. My wife would excuse herself after they finished but our friends would play as soon as he was hard again. No washing. My cum still in her or dripping out. I felt strange just watching that at first. I didn't know if I should be doing the same thing to my wife. I did one time and I felt strange but it felt the same as if I went for a second time without her washing. Maybe she was hotter or more lubed. What do others do?

And what did you think when you found out? My wife found out about my bisexuality when I told her I sucked a dick once and wanted her to watch me do it again. She was all for it and hoped to join in.

I cum either way. Lucky I guess.

Okay I want to know too!

I will message you about that so as to not hijack the thread

Step one - ignore the above advice. Step two - Communicate, communicate, communicate. A true story I have told many times here is that a wise man once told me that if he could watch his wife suck another man's dick, he could talk to her about anything. Since we were watching her do just that, I figured he knew what he was talking about. You and your wife need to be able to talk, openly and honestly about anything. Not just sex. Anything. You need to feel comfortable and that you trust her completely and she needs to feel the same. Now, on the sex side, you need to talk about it outside the bedroom, outside of the sexual fantasy. Talk about it in a context where you don't get turned on by it, but where you can talk about it together and together confront your concerns, your desires and your hopes in the cold, clear light of day. Because you're right... what sounds like a good idea when your horny can sounds breathtakingly stupid in the cold light of day... so it's in the cold light of day that you need to talk about it. Once you think you are ready, you need to find the guy... and that can be surprisingly difficult (see above re Step one) especially in these days of pandemic. There are a number of websites that specialize in helping swingers connect but a surprising amount of flakes, fakes and bad matches. Personally, I've never had any luck with websites so I'm of no help on this one. When you do find a guy, know and clearly state your boundaries. It doesn't matter what they are... no kissing, no oral, no anal, no small talk, whatever... know what your limits are and make sure the guy knows them too. Also, make sure everyone understands that if anyone... you, her or him... feel uncomfortable at any time, for any reason or no reason at all, they have the absolute to say Stop... and as soon as anyone says Stop, everyone Stops. Period, no questions, accusations, guilt trips, nothing. No means No. One last thing I really suggest is to set aside expectations. It's easy to build up a fantasy of what the encounter will be like. The reality will never match that fantasy. The best thing you can do is leave the fantasy at home and, if and when the time comes, go with it and enjoy the moment.

If she is no longer interested, then you need to find out why. If you can't have a talk about this without causing a problem, then that is a different (bigger) problem that needs to be worked on. For whatever reason it sounds like the communication has broken down and that needs to be repaired. At the same time, she is also entitled to not want to do it any more, in which case, you need to honor her choice. But first, fix the communication and then find out why she isn't interested.

Desire RM is just a few miles north of there. You can purchase a day pass for the resort. Desire Pearl is actually in Cancun. Fish where you know there are the kind of fish you want to catch. No special lingo (other than we call swinging the 'lifestyle' or L/S and anything that isn't swinging 'vanilla') and no secret handshakes. As for do's and don'ts: don't do anything without asking permission first. No means no...anything other than yes means no. Communicate with your partner and with whoever you are with. I can't tell you how many couples we have met (we usually have a vanilla first meeting with a new couple to make sure that there is a connection and to verify that both of them are on board) that don't want to talk about s-e-x...if they can't talk about it, how are they going to be able to actually DO it? We're all grown ups here and we've probably all had sex by now ?. Let everyone know what you are looking for and expecting. Since you are just starting out, it might just be same room sex or it could be full swap, but you don't know unless you can talk about it.

Create long lasting, long term couple friendships, and stay in touch no matter where you all move. We have such a wonderful group of very trustworthy couples we can get naked with. Most recently we had a peg board competition, craziest thing to watch. Men went first getting we ladies so frothy, then it was our turn. My husband came in 2nd among the men, I came in 3rd among the women. Fun times with naked friends.

My wife and I went to a swinging campground and met a couple about 40. She said it was going to be her first swinging experience. During the evening we noticed she was going into the back room with a guy and returning over and over again to go back with another. She was not gangbanging but "pulling a train". One after another. In your hottest, horniest mood, how many men would most of you wives want to fuck one after the other before finding yourself not horny enough to want to fuck any more?

I tried 3. But not sure if I can do more. I will figure out when it's already safe to do so☺

We can't relate to this at all. The largest number of men Ann has been with simultaneously is two. And you know what they say, right? Two is company. Three is a gangbang ?

The Queen had 11. We hosted two different party groups and this was the second most common request by ladies and couples in our groups after MFM. We hosted dozens of these designed to meet the lady’s desires/fantasy. Always safe. Several where specifically designed for requested bareback/natural wet endings. Those had fewer more selected male participants usually 4-6 males. largest group was 26 men with three women. Most of the men went twice over a five hour afternoon.

4I went to a swinger hotel with a friend. He supervised so I could be blindfolded. He said he lost count after a few hours but it was over 30. A few came back a couple times I guess lol. It was marvelous.

So much has changed since I asked this question almost three years ago. At the time I was turned off by my own cum and kept away from any sloppy seconds from our friends. Just like never thinking I would ever swing, I never thought another man’s cum would be an issue. Now we are swinging and part of swinging is other men are swinging with us. We primarily swing with one couple and have had some parties with several couples. Being we are not using condoms there is definitely going to be cum in all women involved. I do enjoy watching the women play and lick the cum that will be there. We were with four couples and when we switched partners none of the other guys hesitated and I just went for it. As others mentioned it was very slippery and no different than me just going back in after my own cum being there. Another way things changed,, I have given oral while my own cum was dripping out and recently someone else’s cum.

Exactly.

So I said I would never do this. I was out with some friends the other night and my wife had her male friend over our house. I wasn't sure if they would play or not since things have gotten more vanilla with him lately. He was gone by the time I got home, and they did play. I was jerking off while my wife told me the details... next thing I couldn't resist and stuck in in her for sloppy seconds!!

We are a married couple that has been having threesomes with our male friend for close to three years now,she has always let both of us cum in her when we first started doing this she would clean after one of us came in her but now that doesn't happen anymore,she has gotten up to seven loads in her when we get together..all three of us get alone great as much fun a the sex is we enjoy joking around about it to..anyone new to this will be shy about it a first but the more you do it the more fun you will have

For me, I always prefer the feel of my wife after another man has cum in here. It is far better lubrication than anything you can buy and it really makes it easy for me to cum. Actually the few times we have had DVP with our friend are my real favorite. We have always gone bareback with him so each of us can feel everything that is happening and especially that sudden feeling of extra lubrication when either he or I cum.

I persuaded my wife into not "cleaning" herself after another man came in her. She felt "messy". Yes it wasn't normal to feel that wet down there but she grew to be comfortable with it in a sexual situation. She can't get pregnant so everyone goes bareback. I usually get the party started if we are playing with someone new. When I get that feeling like I'm going to cum I'll pull out. I want him to feel her like I do. She is so wet and lubricated after someone has cum in her that I can barely feel her. It is sexy to know that she is that wet from another man cumming in her. It doesn't take me long to add to the party. I prefer how she feels before someone has cum in her. That's why I let the other guy cum first.

A little history. We started playing with our best male friend in 1986. In fact he and his wife were the ones that seduced us into playing. That was a time before HIV so we did not worry about going bareback. I remember the first time when we were seduced. We were all nudists and got together on a weekly basis and we had gotten to the point that there was a lot of flirting between all of us. Our male friend and my wife were on the living room floor and he was massaging her. I was on the floor across the room massaging her. I looked over and saw that my wife and my best friend were having intercourse. Even though my wife and I had never discussed it, it just seemed right to me. I pointed out to his wife what was going on across the room and she gave me a little smile. After seeing that I started being more sexual in my massaging and in a few minutes we started having intercourse too. After a few minutes I realized that I knew her husband had had a vasectomy and my wife had had her tubes tied, but I didn't know about her so I asked. She mentioned she had had her tubes tied too, so we continued and we continued until I came inside her. After that my friend who worked nights and my wife who wasn't working got together many times during the day, which I really found exciting. Unfortunately his wife, although a good friend, was not that interested in me but was playing with others. My wife playing with our male friend turned into the two of us playing with her. As time went on, sloppy seconds became very common and even an occasional DVP. At that time he had no trouble cumming and it was always inside her. He and his wife got divorced and each got remarried and everyone knew we were playing with him. My wife and I continued playing with him and we all had a lot of fun. His new wife died of a heart attack in her early 50s and we became even closer to him. We all even agreed to a poly relationship which worked very well. It was not exclusive. One of the problems he had was masturbating so much that he couldn't cum through intercourse, which was a disappointment. A couple of years ago he got in touch with woman he had known years ago. Her husband was fine with them playing, and even though his new playmate said it was fine for my wife to play with him, we stopped because there seemed to be the potential for too much drama. We are still friends with him, but don't feel comfortable playing with him.

If you're swinging, sloppy seconds is going to happen. Why not enjoy it?

I love it

We do the "sloppy seconds" thing & I absolutely LOVE it!! My man loves fuking me right after another has finished inside of me. He tells me to stay laying down on my back until he is ready to enjoy me (normally after our company leaves). We stick with a small circle of playmates & he always screens very well for us so we play as safe as possible. I can't get enough of the way he lingers with & admires my body after getting filled by another man. I can really tell how much he enjoys it by how he takes me afterwards! I hafta admit that one major reason I enjoy being with other men is because of how great & sexy he makes me feel after! I also like to clean off my hubby's dik after he soaks it in my filled V. If we play with a female I always hope she is also okay with getting filled up because then I eat my hubby's cum out of her & clean her up as much as possible. However, we do feel like pubic hair is pretty gross & we prefer you shaved. Its cleaner in general but you can also tell if there's any visible soars or what not.

Among our closed little group, the guys certainly don't let sloppy seconds stop them and the women enjoy the mess. As to going down, the guys don't necessarily seek it out, but will do it for us if asked. We women are bi, and like licking pussy and sucking dick after two have finished.

While I don't seek it out not do I have a fetish, Im fine with sloppy seconds when it occurs, usually as a reconnection boink. If Mrs Doc isn't quite done after her partner is, I'm quite willing to jump in if that's her desire.

With one couple we really trusted, after a few months we decided to go bareback. After we had a session and they left, my wife and I often had reclaiming sex, as we did after couples and men where they used condoms. My wife was a freak about using tissue on herself after sex, but still when her insides were coated with our friend's sperm, it was always much silkier, lube wasn't necessary at all. Yeah, it was hot and wonderful. But still, don't let this fantasy get away from you; worry about STDs and pregnancy; play safe.

when I have reached that number, I will let you know.

4-5 would be great. But I want my husband to lick me in between each.

We have only been to a few larger parties. We have never been to a club. I was with 3 different guys and I needed a break. After a little rest my friend and her guy friend had a 3some that went on for an hour. I needed to stop at that point. I was getting sore. Mix that into plenty of other fun and oral, I was exhausted. Three is enough, after that it’s not as much fun. I also like playing orally during the party.

We had a GOOD time. She boinked 3 guys, one of them twice, one 3 times and me before the party and after we got home so if you count individually, it was four, if you count penises it was 8! I was a bit behind only enjoying 2 of the wives. We napped a lot on Sunday!

My wife has never done but she admitted she would enjoy up to 5 guys if she ever go for it.

My wife loves to orgasm. As long as she is having orgasms and not getting sore or having leg cramps, I think she could go forever. The most she ever had was at an adult resort over a fourth of July weekend. The total was 27 men not counting those going back for seconds and more. She was give out and tired when we got home. She said it was fun, but she would rather have intimate sex.

I like the variety of having sex with more than one guy. I usually pick clubs that allow single guys so I can have 5 to 15 in one night. I prefer gangbangs but sometimes that doesn’t work and you have to invite them one at a time.

My wife is a lot more into quantity than quality, if you know what I mean. Once we went to a Club in a very rainy night and at the end we were the only couple there so she ended up being the only woman around to satisfy everyone. First we did it on our own, then she got back with 3, and later with the 2 remaining dudes. It was funny, the seven of us nude in the bedroom, she being the only woman and center of the attention of 6 hungry men !

My wife and I have done it normally in singles nights at local Clubs, 3/4 guys each time we venture in the orgy rooms, what we do some 3 times. Her record so far were 15 that I saw (17 or 18 in her account because once I did not follow her back there). On another night we got into a cabin with 5 other guys and she did all 6 of us during over 2 hours nonstop, and we all DP'ed her at least twice each.

My largest number is 18 guys. Normally it’s 5 to 10 guys.

There was a woman at our club in Indy who did regular GB's with at least 25 guys. I participated on two different nights. Hubby would sit in the corner and masturbate and pick who would be next. The woman was one of the most beautiful creatures I have ever seen, so thee was not trouble getting lots of willing participants. I once tried to wipe some of the overflowing cum off of her buy hubby stopped me. Part of their thrill was to have her pussy overflow. It was messy (some would say disgusting) but remember that I said she was truly beautiful! Eventually, they moved to CA to go into the porn industry. Prom may have been the winner, but our club really lost a STAR!

Holy crap, people! I feel like we are such lightweights compared to some of you. Thelargest group working on the Mrs. was one time when she was the center of attention with four guys and two women at once.

wife's largest gangbang was with 11 guys at a party. it was fantastic to see. what a great show.

I've done a few where I was one of six guys including the husband of the star of the show and just recently one of four

The largest gangbang that I've ever been a part was me and 8 other guys. It took place at a gangbang party in long island new york. It was a lot of fun, I mainly got my dick sucked while other guys fucked her.

Mine was about 12-15 guys, but I can't remember for sure. It was at a local swinger club who organized the gangbang. There were a few wives there also but I was the main attraction since I asked the club to organize the gangbang. It was a lot of fun and a lot of soreness afterwards.

Our largest was 10 guys that played with her, including me, but some came back for seconds, so it was around 15 rounds. Others were at the party, men and women, so not every guy played with her.

I think our largest was ten guys, maybe more. It was a big party at a local swingers club. We set up in one of the play rooms with a couple of guys, left the door open and pretty much invited the gathering spectators to join in as they desired. It was a thing done pretty much to say we'd done it, but it was fun.

I did a MFM with a girlfriend. I went first because he was nervous and not real hard yet. When I noticed he had gotten hard from watching us I let him take a turn. After he came and got off of her I was still hard and got on her again. I didn't stop until I came also. When I got off of her he got back on for another turn. He fucked her for what seemed like forever. I don't think he came again. She had come close to cumming but had not yet gone over the edge. She was a woman that needed direct clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm. She couldn't cum from just fucking. I was still hard from watching them and I went to get back on her again after he got off when she stopped me. She said she was too sore to continue. That made four different penetrations. I've felt sore myself after an all night marathon with just the two of us so I believed her that she was too sore ( from the friction, even though two of us had cum in her ) to continue and not that she was just becoming bored.

One of my ex's told me about a time, long before I met her, where she was the center of attention for a group of lawyers. Most were one on one and she said that she had a great time, though was sure tired afterward. The lady just loved to fuck.

It's all down to personal preference. Some women can't handle that much sex, some women just want one man who can perform very well, some women enjoy being able to have sex with a stream of different men. My missus has done the gangbang scene which she is a little bored of now, but she does enjoy having a stream of men. Last month she came back from her holiday with some friends in Ibiza so a lot of partying (I'm 31, she's 25), she said she had sex with about 25 (give or take 5) guys over 3 weeks while she was there. Five of which were on the same day, 1st guy was when she woke up after he slept with her friend in the same room for the night, 2nd was with a guy in a public toilet by the beach, 1 or 2 guys in some nightclub and another guy she slept over with. Yet, if you was to meet her, you would never in a million years think that she was such a slut, her parents think she has only ever been with no more than a few men, lol... more like thousands.

Eventually, it's time to go to sleep or to go home or to eat breakfast, but other than logistical or personal needs considerations, I haven't actually ever found a limit. I don't think that's particularly unusual, either, because I know a number of women who could give the same answer.