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I have always been an ass man enjoying a well shaped butt rather than a big bust. My wife has a gorgeous butt yet we never went past me tickling or short fingering her butt. The few times we tried anal she said I should stop. Background: I met a woman on a business trip to Salt Lake City and took her out to dinner. Younger and married it was strictly business. She was explaining that she was a member of the LDS and was explaining some of the rules and customs. All women marry young and must be virgin. Men sometimes have other wives even if officially the church doesn’t support that. I wasn’t hitting on her just interested. When dinner was over she asked if she could go back to my room. I had many affairs traveling this was just not the way it normally went. She coaxed me into my shower, I didn’t balk. This plain woman was no longer plain. In the shower she tongued my butt and balls. That was different. I tried to enter her and she said she couldn’t. Wait for the bed. In the bed she backed herself onto my face. I was about to tongue her pussy when she stopped and moaned for me to go higher, her butt. My first ass eat. I know she had her hand between her legs and she moaned. My church lady had been to this party before. Since then I have done this a number of times. Some women stop me, fewer do it to me. When I eventually did it to my wife she asked me where did I learn that. We have an open marriage and we are always finding interesting things to do in bed.

New experiences with the right person is wonderful if you enjoy it. Not everything new is enjoyable.

This has been the summer of awakening. New friends, becoming a nude beach lover and learning what my body never knew. It’s a trip for us to get to the beach early enough to get parking. My friends got there before us and they were already talking to a few people I never saw before. Sitting near them I don’t know how the conversation turned to sex it just did. They were talking about TV and some new program on HBO I never heard of and how they are nude and a guy was eating ass. I thought they were just trying to see how we would react. I kept quiet, my friend said she doesn’t enjoy anything in her butt. I was dragged into the conversation saying I don’t do butt sex. So the talk was all about butts, the other wives laughing about it. I was told my butt was very nice. Thank you. One guy said I would enjoy it if I allowed it. No thank you. After the beach we have been going for drinks nearby. Our new friends had another place and invited us. I guessed more was going to be involved. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to have random sex with people we just met. My friends and Rock were gitty about the possibility. At drinks talk turned to swinging, we said we just started they have for years and stopped this year and back to fun times. The woman certainly are bi. They made some jokes about us being new to that. Now I know first hand about rimming or tossing my salad, new words and new experiences. My life is learning all these new things.

I tried to do both a Hot and Like reaction to this, but the system only allows one per person, so I settled on hot Blowjobs have never been my thing. I mean I like them, I appreciate someone wanting to give me one, and I certainly won't turn one down , but they just don't send me over the moon like they do for some. That's ok, different strokes for different folks. Now, going down on a woman, now we're talking! Her scent, her taste, her wetness, the feel of her skin, her reactions - love all of those!

Who else out there gets more aroused by giving oral pleasure then receiving it? Don’t get me wrong I absolutely love a good blowjob , but nothing gets me going more then burying my face between a sexy woman’s legs and tasting her sweet juices. Luckily Missus E loves receiving oral for extended time periods and just keeps cumming over and over again so we are very compatible in that way.

Sounds like a simple question but it really encompasses a great number of things here. (side note: whenever I think about simple questions I remember my HS philosophy class where we had a test that was one question...describe the universe and give two examples - that test was also graded on a curve ). First: we are here to answer questions so feel free to keep asking them as you decide what to do. Most swingers, at least the successful ones, have an 'above average' relationship with their partner. This means an abundance of love, trust and communication (you can never have too much of any of these). Couples that think swinging will save a failing relationship are usually disappointed. Swinging is like a magnifying glass: if the relationship is really good and strong, it will make it better and stronger. If it has flaws, it will make those flaws more apparent and larger. We refer to it as the sprinkles on the ice cream sundae. Not something that would be missed if they weren't there, but that little bit more when they are. It's always important to start with a great relationship. Remember you two are a team and that swinging is a team sport. If you don't trust your partner with your life, then maybe you should try to figure out why instead of trying to swing. As for swingers, there are two types (IOHO). What we call quality (as in FWB) and quantity (as in one and done). Personally we are the first meaning we are looking for other couples that we can be friends with, do things with (concerts, trips, dinners, etc) that sometimes are vanilla and sometimes involve playing together. There are just as many swingers that are looking for playing with another couple only once (give or take) either at a club, house party, event, etc. There is no right or wrong here, just whatever you two decide to do. As for intimacy, it usually increases it since this is something that you are doing together. It just seems like we value each other more knowing that we can do and say anything to each other and we don't have to fear their response. We are literally living out our fantasies together, I mean, how hot is that?!! Usually after playing with another couple, there's something called 're-connection sex' where you re-connect with your partner that is usually as good, if not better, than what happened with the other couple. So I would say it increases intimacy (see our tag line: when you don't have to lie about sex...). As for disappearing, there's a bunch of things that can cause that. Either a couple finds what they are looking for (as in another couple that they connect with) and don't need to stay connected with the community or they get older and start slowing down or they find that they have fulfilled these fantasies and move on to other fantasies. We have been doing this for almost ten years, but only with a few different couples (the last eight with one couple in particular). We have had a fantastic time...being able to go to concerts, vacations, dinners, even just visiting. It's one thing to have friends, but when is the last time you saw your friends naked? When is the last time you talked with your friends about sex? When was the last time you watched your friend kissing your partner while you are kissing theirs and thought how hot that was and how lucky you are? I'm getting long winded so I'll end this (for now) here. Next question...

I happen to like giving oral sex but it is good to ask especially with a new partner, same for passing from oral to penetration. Personally I am happy to be groped and more by either sex, they don't have to ask, although I will back out if I approach climax and I don't know how they feel about me cumming in or on them.

We've done fingers, toys, dicks, but tongues? Never.

Don't obsess on squirting, not every woman does, and if they do it may not be every time. Just like orgasming every woman is different. The most important man in your like has never made it an issue or loves you less because you don’t squirt, you have always enjoyed the sex you two have had. It’s not a contest. I realize you are first starting on your swinging journey, you will find men ejaculate in different quantities, especially as we age. Women’s bodies change too, lubrications change and squirting can change too. I am happy if a woman is enjoying, has an orgasm, not if she squirts. I suggest you Google squirting or female ejaculation, you will find many different statistics and even ways to find your own way.

I never knew Squirting was a thing. We are just learning the differences in people’s responses during sex. Never too old to learn about sex. We had met our first couple who guided us to a breakthrough moment, not only swinging, my first lesbian experience. Being about the same age as us I didn’t notice anything strange about her wetness or lubrication. The amount of his ejaculate matched my Rock. We joked and laughed about a Juicy Pussy. Couple 2 was still a learning moment. They were more intent sexually. With Rock watching I had my face planted between her legs and was entered from behind. I noticed immediately how wet she was, I felt a feeling of pride getting her so excited. She left my whole face pretty wet by the time we finished. Rock later told me how hot she was we slid in and she switched to a top she was dripping on him. Couple 3 are our friends. We held off playing with them, now we both had been with others first. Totally different playing. Now me and my girlfriend, both of us still new to this get into a 69 position. I am trying every tongue motion I can do and she is enjoying. Hard for me to hear with her legs around my ears I could tell she was going to cum and cum she did. She pulled away from my mouth and with her hand she she shot out like a man. Squirt squirt. I never saw that not even in sex on the pc. Being we are friends we talked about how she does that a lot when excited. We get home and I asked if he ever saw that before. He said he did a few times when he dated. He explained he thought it was pee so we looked it up. Do that many women do that all the time? I thought I was sexually hot, never did that.

Anyone here care to share about their largest gangbang experience and where was it held? For me it was with 12 guys but there was another women (my BFF) in the room. It happened 3 years ago at my house. We knew most of the guys in it. There were 2 husbands, 3 guys from our circle of swinger friends, 2 guys of our parent's swinger friends, and 5 guys from a swingers site and our local club. It was loads of fun. We did pretty much everything you can think of, minus guys doing each other. None of the guys were bi. Most of the guys went bareback, only the ones we did not know wore condoms. We all played for a good 3 hours. I was so sore after that, I needed to take a few days off from work just to heal up. Haha

Not every woman squirts. To me it could be pee or a mix of some secretion mixed with urine. Whatever it is it’s exciting to me when a one does squirt.

She's out there, you just need to seek her out. You could look on swingers' sites, but my recommendation is just to date in real life and when after the first couple of dates the conversation turns to sex (don't push it too early but don't wait too long), let her know that you will be monogamous but you do not demand monogamy from a partner - even a future wife - and it would make you happy for her to play around on her terms. Many or maybe most won't consider the idea, but definitely a few will and will love you and be happy for it.

I know that you have to be...older to understand the reference, but Apple once had a VERY popular commercial back in 1984 (only shown during the Super Bowl) for the Macintosh where Apple was accusing Microsoft and IBM of being 'Big Brother' (from the book '1984' by George Orwell where the society is ruled by the "Big Brother" and citizens are constantly monitored by the government). The tag line was was "...and you'll see why 1984 won't be like '1984'." The circle is now complete as Apple as become 'Big Brother'. Careful what you say, Apple...

For both men and women, getting re-excited is much easier with a different partner.

I absolutely adore licking my wife's butt. I also love having mine licked too. I mean who doesn't like having their butt licked!

I want to add something, are you having fun? This is all about enjoying what you are doing. I bet almost every woman has tasted cum, I swallow, some don’t. I hope every man has tasted vaginal secretions, pussy juice as we call it, and I am sure there is some urine involved. A teaspoon of urine most likely won’t cause harm, more might. Urine is not sterile and might have bacteria in it. We have experimented, I’m not a fan, and I do enjoy swallowing after oral sex. Have fun!

After seeing my friend squirt and posting here asking about it I researched who and if then what. There is a skenes gland that could be like a prostate, some of us have it not everyone. I also read it’s mostly pee mixed with a secretion maybe. It’s my friend who squirted the most and damn I can ask her anything. She didn’t add anything to my research saying it just happens sometimes not always. I asked if it’s pee and she had no idea and said it doesn’t feel like she’s peeing. This may sound disgusting, I didn’t taste pee when she squirted. On Sunday I did a a sicko thing, I asked her to pee in a clear cup. Me and my husband tried to get her to squirt again and couldn’t so she used her own hand and got a small squirt into another cup. It looked different. I wanted my husband to see if they tasted the same and he wouldn’t. Nobody wanted to so I said I would. Yuk. Only a small taste, first urine almost vomited, then squirt. Squirt was thicker and different. It wasn’t like sucking a dick not that thick, for sure it want the same as pee. It was just interesting not a necessarily important thing.

Kathy squirts almost every time she orgasms, which is to say almost every time she has sex. (She’s a super easy cummer.) She always puts a doubled-over beach towel under her ass so as not to soak the linens and mattress. She experienced orgasms from the time she began masturbating as a pre-teen and in her late teens had an orgasm the first time she had intercourse. (Anecdotally that seems fairly rare.) But she didn’t begin squirting until she was post-menopausal. At the same time, she reported her orgasms were stronger and seemed to last longer than ever before. It would be easy to conclude she was urinating. That the combination of the aging of the muscles that control the bladder and the stronger orgasms lead to a partial voiding. But, even if she pees, gets immediately into bed and masturbates herself to orgasm — which generally takes less than two minutes (yeah, I sheepishly confess that I’ve timed her. ?☺️) she still soaks the towel with something that doesn’t smell like urine. So, I don’t know, I’m still agnostic on whether squirting is a form of urinating or if there is some fluid that is mysteriously released by the contractions that are part of orgasm. For my own part I choose to honor the soaked towel as a manifestation of a wonderfully intense and fulfilling experience on Kathy’s part.

In real life, that's the way it seems to be whenever there are more men than women, the men take turns.

Agreed. My most enjoyable sexual experiences have come to be FFMs with two other members of our poly family. It satisfies all of my Lesbian and hetero physical and emotional needs. I enjoy an occasional DP, but if I am playing with even two men, I prefer one-on-one. I hate a guy putting his dick in my mouth when I am trying to orgasm with another in my pussy. It's distracting and hard to breath.

Exactly. Sex with perfect strangers has never been our thing and, frankly, we have no idea how that would be a turn-on for some people? For us, there is no shortcut to the pleasure of having sex with someone who has taken the necessary time to learn your turn-ons, and turn-offs, or helped you explore and discover new ones. Our sexual stimulation begins between the ears. What happens between the legs is a direct result of that. Seduction, titillation, sexual tension, fantasy... these are the things that get our pulses racing. Also, in a practical sense, once you get beyond three people, four at the max, involved in simultaneous sex... um, being delicate... she only has so much "attention" she can handle, right? I'm not attempting to shame or undermine people who engage in anonymous sex, or sex with large groups of people, or question their freedom to pick their own poisons, as we all do. I'm simply saying, in our experience, sex is far, far more than a simple biological response. This has only become more true as we have "matured" (read: grown old! Lol...)

Me neither. I am not turned on by the idea of sex with strangers, but I could imagine enjoying sex with a number of guys if I knew them, liked them, already had sex with them.

We can't relate to this at all. The largest number of men Ann has been with simultaneously is two. And you know what they say, right? Two is company. Three is a gangbang ?

The Queen had 11. We hosted two different party groups and this was the second most common request by ladies and couples in our groups after MFM. We hosted dozens of these designed to meet the lady’s desires/fantasy. Always safe. Several where specifically designed for requested bareback/natural wet endings. Those had fewer more selected male participants usually 4-6 males. largest group was 26 men with three women. Most of the men went twice over a five hour afternoon.

4I went to a swinger hotel with a friend. He supervised so I could be blindfolded. He said he lost count after a few hours but it was over 30. A few came back a couple times I guess lol. It was marvelous.

I was going down on my wife and I told the other girl to play with her boobs. I knew my wife was ok with a little touching. Next thing I know they're making out like crazy...I stepped back for a second in awe and the girl asked my wife if it was ok to lick her. I asked if she was comfortable with this and she said yes...next thing I know she's having an epic orgasm. It was quite a sight to see! I doubt she would ever reciprocate...but after that who knows? We'll have to wait and see.

My wife let a girl go down on her it was so amazing. The other woman was bent over getting fucked by her husband while licking my wofe’s pussy. I was kissing my wife and sucking her tits. It was sooo hot!

My largest number is 18 guys. Normally it’s 5 to 10 guys.

There was a woman at our club in Indy who did regular GB's with at least 25 guys. I participated on two different nights. Hubby would sit in the corner and masturbate and pick who would be next. The woman was one of the most beautiful creatures I have ever seen, so thee was not trouble getting lots of willing participants. I once tried to wipe some of the overflowing cum off of her buy hubby stopped me. Part of their thrill was to have her pussy overflow. It was messy (some would say disgusting) but remember that I said she was truly beautiful! Eventually, they moved to CA to go into the porn industry. Prom may have been the winner, but our club really lost a STAR!

Never attended or held a "traditional" gang bang of only one woman or two women and 3 or more men (for 1 lady) or 6 or more men (for 2 ladies) attending. The way I figure it is that a traditional gang bang should have equal or more men than the number of ~potential~ female orifices available. Yes, I know that a lot of women don't do anal therefore the ~potential~ in that statement. In my opinion, all other combinations are just swinger orgies that may sometimes have a gang bang focus on one woman. However, if all the other women adopt specific rolls like only fluffing up the men for the center of attention lady and don't have sex otherwise (like sex hand maidens for the sex queen!), then you've gotten back to traditional gang bang definition. Swinger orgies, however, yes, I've been involved in several multiple people on one bed orgies over the years, yummy!

two guys five women...I had a great time!! Ended when my wife needed me...sigh...the things you do for love.

I was fortunate to be the only guy with 5 hotwives in a reverse gangbang. Still one of my favorite memories. :-)

I've done a few where I was one of six guys including the husband of the star of the show and just recently one of four

The largest gangbang that I've ever been a part was me and 8 other guys. It took place at a gangbang party in long island new york. It was a lot of fun, I mainly got my dick sucked while other guys fucked her.

Mine was about 12-15 guys, but I can't remember for sure. It was at a local swinger club who organized the gangbang. There were a few wives there also but I was the main attraction since I asked the club to organize the gangbang. It was a lot of fun and a lot of soreness afterwards.

Our largest was 10 guys that played with her, including me, but some came back for seconds, so it was around 15 rounds. Others were at the party, men and women, so not every guy played with her.

I think our largest was ten guys, maybe more. It was a big party at a local swingers club. We set up in one of the play rooms with a couple of guys, left the door open and pretty much invited the gathering spectators to join in as they desired. It was a thing done pretty much to say we'd done it, but it was fun.

While my wife has not use a strap-on, she has used a double dildo. I think this is a little less intimidating to her. It also allows both women to be filled. The best way to play is both on their back in a scissor position. The men can pump it for them.