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2 pointsNot everyone has jealousy though. We got into this having mfm’s for a while before we added couples to the mix. I remember the first mfm. I remember when he first started to fuck her. I was waiting for some twinge of jealousy that never happened. It was so fucking hot. We ended the evening with a dvp, which was even hotter. Compersion is real.
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2 pointsAlways experiencing new things is one of the great things of freeing up your inhibitions. My first reaction to anyone sneaking up behind me was to pucker up, don’t want anything going in there. That first time was a shock and enjoyable at the same time. Different from other sensations.
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1 pointI’m pretty sure from a physiological perspective a vagina would mostly be affected by the total amount of time it was receiving penile thrusting and not the number of penises involved. From the psychological perspective, yeah, probably very different.
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1 pointI can tell my GF felt a little overwhelmed during her first gangbang when she a bunch of guys around her started pulling out their cocks but once they started fucking her she got over it pretty quick. We have usually done and prefer to do a gangbang over a weekend with the majority (but not all) of the guys being people that are friends and friends of friends. If we're walking into a situation where we don't know anyone then it's at some club or nearby motel where it's in and out. Both situations can be fun but the weekend gangbangs are by far the best for us. For the weekend gangbangs we go to a casino (my favorite for this) or some city a couple of hours away and our friends and friends of friends will stay at the same or nearby hotel. Even these can be very overwhelming and just too much. The first time we did this my GF loved it but even she said it was a bit too much sex so you want to make sure you don't make the weekend too long. I try to create a schedule too so that my GF isn't tied down (literally and figuratively) by the guys but it never goes exactly to plan. It has mostly been a lot of really young horny guys who want to fuck over and over again so if you don't manage it they're all over her all the time. She couldn't do anything without guys all over her. I opened the bathroom door once and saw her sitting on the toilet with some guys dick in her mouth while he was playing on his phone and she looked at me giggling "I just wanted to pee." The entire experience can be very overwhelming but my GF will admit that she likes that overwhelming experience and the sense of euphoria and accomplishment that comes from it. I think she also likes the sense of all the men wanting her all the time. Nevertheless even she admits that there is such thing as too much and that says a lot coming from her. So we pretty much do the same thing but cut it a night shorter and coordinate some planned breaks in between. But overall the weekend is still mostly fucking, sucking, and some other sexual activities that don't require penetration; golden showers, public flashing, dancing, flirting, etc.
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1 pointYou are surely correct. Guys notice, ladies know that guys notice, and clever textiles attract more attention than simple nudity. This is perhaps one reason why we prefer nude beaches and resorts--the variations in human form are neither concealed nor called to attention. People find comfort in their own skins. That, and people look you in the eye when speaking. Guys imagine one thing about nude beaches, and are often disappointed by the reality of ordinary people doing ordinary things with their ordinary bodies. Ladies imagine the same thing about nude beaches, and so often find the reality of ordinary people doing ordinary things with their ordinary bodies quite liberating. Candidly, nude is natural, healthy, and a lot more comfortable. The fashion industry doesn't want to hear that.
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1 pointAs a change we went to Belmar yesterday with old friends. We had not seen these people in years, it was more of a reunion of people I don’t really know, Alan’s old friends who he hasn’t seen in 20 years. They put this together on a Facebook group. One couple came up from Georgia, one lives Upstate NY, another from Long Island. Belmar is a Jersey shore beach that is popular with the college crowd though it has changed since most of the bars are gone. My observation, guys never change, bikini still are sexy on the right body. Not far from us were two young moms with their kids, wearing very cheeky bikinis. Almost thongs with the little piece of fabric in front. The guys were gawking. It was very obvious to me they kept looking. Plenty of others on the beach wearing similar suits, many shouldn’t have. The wives knew the husbands were looking and pointed out the lifeguard and a group of what I would say college guys. I’m thinking these moms are sexier in what they were wearing then the totally nude on Gunnisons. I brought up the topic of nude beaches being less sexy, admitting we go to nude beaches. None of the others had ever been to a nude beach. I could tell the guys were looking at me differently after that.
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1 pointSame for me. Much of the credit goes to my wife. We started with her hotwifing alone with a couple of exes (separately). She was honest about her experiences, and when she came home, she was appreciative for the freedom I gave her and was loving. Still is. There was nothing for me to be jealous about, it was all about her having a good time. Later, as we moved to MFMs and couples swaps (and alone play), the guys (and women) were respectful, appreciative, and somewhat envious of me, all the white I saw my wife treated well and happy. Good playmates make for a positive experience. The only WTF moment I had was the first time watching Daniela DP with two other guys. I had seen her have plenty of vaginal and anal sex with other guys before, and DPs with me and another guy, but this was different. But she enjoyed it and all is fine.
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1 pointI have always been an ass man enjoying a well shaped butt rather than a big bust. My wife has a gorgeous butt yet we never went past me tickling or short fingering her butt. The few times we tried anal she said I should stop. Background: I met a woman on a business trip to Salt Lake City and took her out to dinner. Younger and married it was strictly business. She was explaining that she was a member of the LDS and was explaining some of the rules and customs. All women marry young and must be virgin. Men sometimes have other wives even if officially the church doesn’t support that. I wasn’t hitting on her just interested. When dinner was over she asked if she could go back to my room. I had many affairs traveling this was just not the way it normally went. She coaxed me into my shower, I didn’t balk. This plain woman was no longer plain. In the shower she tongued my butt and balls. That was different. I tried to enter her and she said she couldn’t. Wait for the bed. In the bed she backed herself onto my face. I was about to tongue her pussy when she stopped and moaned for me to go higher, her butt. My first ass eat. I know she had her hand between her legs and she moaned. My church lady had been to this party before. Since then I have done this a number of times. Some women stop me, fewer do it to me. When I eventually did it to my wife she asked me where did I learn that. We have an open marriage and we are always finding interesting things to do in bed.
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1 pointWe appreciate everyone's input and advice. We have decided to slowly ease into it as much as possible. The support offered on this forum was incredible!
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1 pointI'll add one thought: OP, your other post suggests the two of you are in your 20s. We started as I was entering my late 30s and her her late 40s. She felt like she'd missed some sexual experiences and I wanted to have more with her. We are delighted that we started. We already fucked a lot and talked openly, but fuck more, talk more openly, and see opportunities to have fun together where they didn't exist before. If you have confidence that you're both turned on by the idea, don't just write it off. Start cautiously and safely, but take the desire seriously.
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1 pointYes it is!!!! I bet most first time swingers have that jealousy of watching someone else with your spouse. I’m not sure how long it takes before the jealousy fades or if it ever goes away. Right now I am on a beach where everyone is without clothes, no fancy bathing suit to cover up any flaw. I am jealous of the younger women who haven’t felt the effects of gravity. I know women are looking at my husband as the men are looking at all the prettier women. Outside I say who cares, inside I hope to catch someone staring at me so I can feign contempt and call them pervert. Inside I don’t mind people checking me out as long as it isn’t a pervert. I have caught myself ogling. We had a pact before we started, if either of us were uncomfortably or over-jealous we would put the brakes on. Our first couple were certainly younger and more fit, we know now we both had some jealous moments. Best way to overcome jealousy is to confront and discuss.
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1 pointDo you experience guilt or shame after the two of you play this out in bed, like you've overdone it or said too much, or like she did? I've found that's a reasonable indicator. You will almost certainly feel something related to jealousy, but you should know whether that's a turn-on for you or not. You can always start small. Dancing, groping, even a handjob. You might figure out fast whether or not you actually like her feeling another guy's hard-on grinding into her.
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1 pointI know exactly what you mean by the post nut clarity. There have been times in a MFM where I bust my nut and start having different emotions. Unfortunately I don't think you really know until you just jump in. Maybe you should start slow and see how you feel watching another guy grope your wife, finger her, and maybe continue to progress to her giving a guy a handjob, blowjob etc.
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1 pointI knew it was inevitable that we would eventually see someone we knew, we are always crossing paths with people on trips. We saw friends in Rome, what are the odds. We are in NYC and constantly see people at shows, parks and stores. A nude beach is different. If we met a friend or a neighbor it would not have been upsetting. Meeting a woman I work with is funny, enjoyable. I wonder what she was thinking. I won’t bring it up at work, I hope she does. It could change the work relationship for the best.
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1 pointYou can stumble to the entrance of this beach and then there is a big sign that says the beach is clothing optional and you may encounter nude people. I thought it was funny. I’m learning more about this beach on Sandy Hook which is part of Gateway National Park. There are I think 8 beaches and only one is like this and the others are open to everyone who pays to get into the park(per car for parking, not per person). I think they just outlawed liquor on the beach. We would never stumble here only heard about because of new swinger friends. Plenty of lotion!! It sounds funny, you need extra lotion where the sun don’t shine. We all have parts that never saw sun that need to be protected. Thanks to our friends and new friends
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1 pointWe hope it doesn’t storm today, we are heading back today with a little larger group. Our umbrella is a rainbow with each panel a different color, one of our friends has a solid blue umbrella. If you see those two umbrellas nearby stop and say hello. No sex on the beach, no drinking on the beach, no litter on the beach, no taking pictures on the beach. I am pretty sure after the beach there will be drinking, maybe more. I am not a party person sexually, rather we like very small groups, posted this for others who are looking for new experiences. Bring suntan lotion!!
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1 pointGunnisons is a Federal Park beach with Federal Park rangers and they will prosecute it federal courts if caught. You can’t even drink a beer on this beach, a fine payable in Federal court. I haven’t done a poll of people on the beach, my guess Most are not swingers, most are not voyeurs, most are not exhibitionists. Some might be, not most. You say you have been nudists since 1969 but T has posted she has been since 1972 in another post. Memories “dose” vary.
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1 pointEvery newbie nudie has that moment when they look around and say to themselves I’m the only one with a bathing suit on. You wait for the others with you to strip and then hesitantly drop yours thinking please let it hang. Our first time at Gunnisons was with three other couples, I had fucked all four women, my wife, two of the women many times and the fourth woman just once. My wife likewise had been with the men. We had all been nude together before, nude and having sex, and I felt funny stripping on the beach. To me it was so different from what we had done before, I looked at the women in a way I never saw before. My wife’s closest friend who was my first swing partner and the woman I’ve had sex with so many times was just nude in front of me on a sand chair. Only second to my wife, I knew every part of her body intimately, I was catching myself staring at her think how beautiful she is. The same pussy that my mouth was on so many times, I was now just looking at. I saw these women as beautiful beings. Nudity is freeing in many ways.
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1 pointThe first time we went to a nudist resort, we were told on the tour that we didn't have to take anything off during the visit, but most likely we would feel...uncomfortable (for lack of a better word) after awhile since we would be different from everyone else. While this wasn't going to be a problem for us, there was another couple in the tour that was obviously having problems with the concept of being nude. It took them less than an hour before they were topless, two hours and they were nude. Your friends may be nervous now, but it becomes easier to undress when you are the only one with clothes on.
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1 pointThere is something about being free on a beach right here in NJ. It’s a shame that they did away with drinking, I enjoyed having a beer or a bottle of wine while sunning, it was an easy way to meet new people. A few years ago I hit the jackpot because of a bottle of wine. I was alone on the beach reading my Kindle, sipping on a drink when two women asked me if drinking was legal on the beach. They had that distinct Philadelphia accent and said they didn’t know drinking was okay. Being a gentleman I offered to share what I brought. That led to some interesting conversation. Their first time on a clothing optional beach, both divorced, away for a girls day at the shore. I told them I was single, I lied, and I enjoy the sights on this beach. They became flirty and we spent the day together. When I started to leave they begged me to join them for more drinks if I had no plans. They invited me to shower at their hotel and we can do a happy hour. They said they already saw me naked so it’s no big deal for me to shower and get dressed. I knew they had planned this, I heard them talking. No sex on the beach, I think their night out was planned after that first drink. While I’ve had many one-nighters, being picked up by two women was novel for me. That happy hour lasted longer than an hour, then they insisted on buying dinner. A win win day at the beach.
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1 pointWe were very emphatic that it’s a nude beach not a sex beach. No smoking, no drinking, no hanky panky and No Clothes. We never saw any real sex on the beach. If it happens it’s discreet, and you will be arrested if caught. You can’t even drink there anymore. It was a fun day, I think the men were more self conscious getting undressed. Guys will be guys and when they saw pretty 20somethings they gawked. Funny thing happened, I was walking by the water with one of the women and we were approached by two women to join them. Being nude with our new friends is much different from being nude for sex. Being with people who never were at a nude beach or being nude in front of thousands was full of laughs. We are used to the imperfect bodies, hate to admit they were being childish, they behaved in spite of that. The best part, we have new friends who we enjoyed being with. It was great to be with people again socially.
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1 pointWe are booked this weekend, but have fun! The nervous ones will notice 3,000 of their closest naked friends and will soon forget their own status. Remember, no hanky panky on the beach! Or they can arrest you! There are feds, undercover and above cover.
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1 pointA first experience is the hardest choice a couple can make and I know for me I was shaking not only being touched it was watching my rocker having sex with another woman. I have full knowledge of him worrying and having performance anxiety, he didn’t.
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1 pointI had my back against a post at the foot of our canopied bed, I was sipping a glass of wine. Against the headboard my wife Mary reclined. And next to her was her lover, James. Except for here and there on the floor not a smidgeon of clothing was in evidence. James was visiting us for perhaps the third time, Mary had taken a shine to him, his jovial manners, his inventive expertise in the bedroom. She had a touch of New Relationship Energy and when she asked if he could visit on a Saturday night, I quickly gave my consent. At this time, Mary and I had been swingers for a few years. On this night, both James and I had been intimate with Mary, for well over an hour she'd licked, sucked and screwed at both of us, an uncounted number of orgasms had swept across her ravished body. We were relaxing, chatting as friends. And since he was becoming a friend James wanted to know more about us, particularly Mary's desires and kinks. "What about anal?" James asked. "We haven't done that with other people," Mary replied, "but there's always a first time. Is that something you'd like?" "Sure. What about double penetration?" "I don't think I'd like to try that, too complicated to be fun." Mary admitted she liked her toes sucked, her very favorite position was kneeling at the side of the bed while her lover stood behind her. But James already knew that. "So, how often do you get together with other people?" James asked. Mary looked at me, I glanced back, then decided to answer. "It depends on how busy we are, how many offers we get. We've gone a few months or so without anything happening, on the other hand there's been weeks when we've had three or four dates. We like foursomes, meeting at our house or their's. Mary enjoys threesomes, as you well know. And we'll head up to DJs Island every so often, and if we get invited to a house party we always go if we can." "That's cool," James admitted - he of course knew Mary was far from being a tenderfoot. He looked to her and asked, "Do you like gang bangs?" "What do you mean?" "You know, a bunch of guys doing you at once, you being the center of attention?" "I've never tried it," she said, "I'm not sure if that's something I'd like." I spoke up. "What about those three guys in Green Tree?" She gave me a blank look. "You know, the time before we were married when you went over to your boyfriend's house and wound up with him and both his roommates?" "Oh, that. Yeah. But it was different, I went into their bedrooms one at a time, the guys didn't watch me." I let it slide, I think James asked her next about role play and a few minutes later James began sucking at her nipple, that inevitably led to Mary's arse on a pillow while James made her scream anew. As time went by and Mary and I had other lovers, other configurations, we'd chat of desires and fantasies, made some of them happen. I'd occasionally mention gang bangs. "Is that something you'd like to see?" she asked. "Not really, but if it appeals to you, I could help. I'm not sure I'd get that much out of it." "I've thought about it," she admitted. "I've got to say there's something about the idea. To have this bunch of guys all wanting me, and then to let whoever have their way with me . . . that's exciting. But it's scary, too." "What do you mean?" "If it's just me in a room with five or six men, what if one of them gets abusive, or doesn't want to stop when I want to? Even if you were there, I could see how it could get ugly." She was pensive. "Or maybe some of them thought they didn't have to use condoms. I think I'd have to be very relaxed and feel very safe to let something like that happen." I scratched it from our to-do list. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Some months or years later we were invited to a house party on the other side of Monroeville. Bob was the host, someone we'd played with a couple of times, a single man who was successful both at business and in the LifeStyle. He shared with us the people on the invitation list, half of the couples had been our playmates at one time or another, he'd invited a few single men we'd heard good things about. Of course we accepted. We showed up at the party just before nine, cars were parked halfway up the street. When we entered the kitchen to hand Bob our gifts of wine and gourmet cookies, I was greeted by a tall, dark haired woman who I hadn't bumped into before. She was dressed in a floor length nightgown of dusky blue, most of the fabric was lace. "You're Adam, I've heard about you. I'm Ruth." She flowed to my arms, raised her lips for the first kiss of the evening, I gave her mouth all the attention I could, not difficult as Ruth was a wonderful kisser. When we broke she complimented, "Well, yeah, that was pretty good. I'd like to get to know you better." I didn't have to wonder what she meant, I was tempted to take her up on the offer immediately, but the party was still in the mingling stage. I said, "Let's look each other up later." Ruth made her way around the room, greeting other men in like manner. By this time Mary had disappeared, I knew what she was up to. I greeted the other men I knew, was introduced to new friends. We were all wearing variations on the same theme, trousers and golf shirts, casual yet stylish. Most of the women wore something sexy, no complete nudity - that would come later. Mary rejoined us, she'd changed into a balcony bra and tanga, white with hot pink hearts and feathery trim, covered by a filmy scarlet kimono. We hadn't been to Bob's house before, so we gave ourselves the tour. On the top level there were three bedrooms, two of them had king sized beds and all had comfortable mats on the floor. The main level had the kitchen and breakfast room, where everyone tended to congregate, a dining room full of hors d'oeuvres, desserts and liquid refreshments, and a large den. In addition to the comfortable couches there were four blowup mattresses on the floor. This would be the 'common room', Mary and I realized. At the outset of the evening, there was flirting and conversation. And then, as if by a prearranged signal, groups started pairing off, migrating to various hidden spots. Mary and I were approached by Don and Linda, a couple we knew well, and after just a few seconds the four of us were heading for a bedroom. Linda, as I remember, was wearing a teddy, within a few moments she had my belt unbuckled and my cock out, sucking on it as I ripped my clothes off. I then placed her on her back, got a finger under her panties, she gasped as I probed into her. Next to us, Don had Mary naked already, his head was flanked by her thighs, she moaned as Don's tongue prodded her clit. The four of us progressed through the various phases of foreplay. Mary was the first, as usual, to give her shout of passion, Don's tongue was undeniably working its magic on her. Linda tore her gown off, I had the pleasure of toying with her pillowy tits as she sucked on my tool. Then she shifted, now my mouth was at her opening, licking at the ruddiness. It had been months since we'd cavorted with them, I'd forgot how she would stop breathing as she came, long moments when I actually became afraid she'd lose consciousness, but at last she exhaled loudly, panted trying to fill her lungs, pushed me away. "Oh, god, honey, Adam is just so good down there." The foursome laughed, I attempted to reposition my tongue on Linda's clit, she pushed me away, "If you do anymore of that, I won't be able to walk the rest of the night!" She pushed me back, I remember her kissing me and groping my prick, my hand slid over her rump and I inserted a finger inside her, a little gasp indicated she was still heated. I got couple of condoms, handed one to Don, sheathed myself. A few seconds later Linda levitated above me and I glided inside her. She was in charge, of course I played with her nipples, tugged on a lock of her hair. But I was accustomed to group sex, if I paid too much attention to the slick skimming of my cock inside her welcoming pussy I'd come, too fast, too early. So I diverted my attention to the revelry on the other side of the bed. Don was supporting his shoulder against the headboard, his legs were stretched down the bed. Mary was pointing away from him, her thighs abutting his hips, her hands on one side of his calves. I heard the slapping sound of her ass against his belly, Don was pulling her waist toward and away from him. She looked to me, her eyes were distant in their revery, but she managed to give me a smile, touch me briefly for support. Linda was holding her breath again, I twinked a nipple to inspire her, was treated to a muffled scream as she erupted. At nearly the same time, Mary started the coos she'd always had as the signal of her orgasm, I heard bawdy grunts flowing from Don's throat, I figured sperm was coursing from the dick embedded in my wife. I twisted Linda, now she was on her knees, I crept behind her, we were linked again. My thrusts were deep, with each push Linda yipped, we were having a great time. Still, I had little desire to orgasm, it was too early. We screwed as Don and Mary snuggled next to each other, apparently finished with their erotic play. In those circumstances, when one couple is done, it can become a little uncomfortable for the other couple to continue. I used a finger to tweak Linda's clit, she screamed loudly then collapsed on the mattress, causing me to slip out of her. The married couples reconnected, Linda crawling to Don, Mary approaching me for a hug and cuddle. As I often did in these circumstances, I caressed her breast, it was still warm from her exertions, she allowed me to explore the terrain between her thighs, damp and hot, the labia spread, the clit prolonged and dense. Yes, I could tell Don had given her a good ride. While I was exploring her used body, her hand encircled my prick, found it still to be rocklike. Don and Linda climbed from the bed - we'd been in the room not even half an hour - and began to dress, Mary and I followed suit. Linda flowed to me again, telling me how I was a favorite of hers, I hefted a teat, Mary was similarly treated by Don. The four of us headed back to the party. I made Mary a vodka/tonic, in a quiet corner we reconnected. "You had fun," I suggested. "Don always gets me going," she admitted. "But you didn't come, did you?" "There's nothing wrong, I just wasn't in the mood yet. And it all ended so quickly." "You want me to take take care of you?" Mary offered. "Really, I'm fine. Plenty of evening left. And there's one girl, Ruth, who seems to have designs on me." Mary was willing to be my wingman, see if Ruth had an appealing husband, but I was in no hurry, I was enjoying the erotic vibe Bob had created. We stood by the door to the den, there were two women, one of which I knew, what was her name? Ellen? She was being enthusiastically screwed by a man, all the while sucking on her husbands prick. The other girl, a short blond, was being eaten by a woman, her hand surrounded a thick dick. A nice orgy scene, I figured the mats would fill out later with more people. Ellen caught my eye, smiled, perhaps it was an invitation, I merely smiled back. We drifted into the kitchen, seven or a dozen people were there, we fell into conversation. I noticed Ruth wasn't in the area. It was fluid, people joining and leaving, I finished my drink, strolled to the bar. Mary dropped into an intense conversation with a younger man, no ring on his finger, and he had his arm around my wife's waist. I was talking to one of my friends, he knew I was a golf rules official, he asked me about a situation where his ball had landed in a stream, floated towards the green. While I explained the intricacies of Decision 26-1/7, I watched my spouse move to a couch along with her guy, their lips met, his hand was just above her navel; I assumed in a moment it would be approaching her melons. Since Mary showed no signs of distress - indeed she was encouraging his approaches - I continued to talk with my friend about the Rules. Sure enough, the man had his hand on her tit in little time, I saw him whisper in her ear, I was sure I knew what the theme was. A moment later she bounced to me, dragged me to the side. "Got another one on the line, 'eh?" I teased. "Frank's awfully sweet. Would you mind?" This wasn't the first time at a party Mary and I had separated, although we tended to let each other know our intentions and location. "No, go have fun!" I encouraged. As I was questioned about the casual water rule, I watched my wife's ass sway away from me, grab the hand of her next lover. Then I was surprised - instead of heading down the hallway to the bedrooms, he led her into the den! Left to her own devices, Mary usually chose a quiet area in which to make love, her usual preference was to be more one-on-one than anonymous groups. But it appeared tonight she was willing to philander in a crowded room with multiple bodies nearby. I waited a few moments, calmly talking with my friends, then wandered to the den. On the opposite side from the door, Mary sprawled on a mattress, her back to a couch. Her lingerie had been tossed nearby, Frank laid on his stomach, his mouth pressed to my wife's pussy. Her eyes were glazed, her mouth open, panting, a position I'd seen her in many times before with scores of gentlemen. For perhaps five minutes she let Frank perform oral sex on her. Another man approached her, I assumed he asked if he could join the fun, Mary waved him away, she was into Frank just then. When she'd had enough of his tongue I heard her ask him to put a condom on. Mary climbed onto the couch, her feet on the cushion, her elbows and breasts resting on the back of the furniture, her rump displayed for Frank's assault. He was up to it, I watched him crouch behind her, he used his left hand to point his sword at the goal, he was in! I moved around the room, hoping to get a better view, and on the way surveyed the scene. The room was more populated then, four women graced the mattresses, including Mary, and at least seven men were engaging with them, with others standing nearby, watching the live porn and perhaps longing for an invitation. When I got into position, I was delighted with a side view of the action. Mary was pushing herself back into Frank at every thrust, his hands were on her hips, pulling her into him, his eyes closed, sweat on his forehead, Mary was softly keening. Suddenly, much too early, Frank grunted and finished, fell backward onto the mattress completely used. Mary's look of exasperation was obvious, at least to me. For the second time of the night the man making love to her hadn't lasted long enough, she was left wanting more. She twisted, her eyes swept the room, I wasn't sure if she even knew I was present, her gaze landed on John, the husband of a couple we'd played with more than once, a flick of her finger tempted him. I was surprised. In the orgies we'd participated in up to this point, Mary had been demure about being the aggressor. When we were in a room with six or seven bodies involved, when she and a man were finished, she'd usually lie about, waiting for another gentleman to approach her patiently. This innocent signal, probably unnoticed by anyone else, alerted me that this night might be a little different. When John joined her, she began by helping him unclothe, as soon as it was revealed she had his phallus in her mouth. After just a few bobs to ensure the tool was ready, she laid on her back, John quickly covered her, their dance commenced. Frank hadn't left yet, though, I watched him run his hand over the side of her body, when John shifted Frank felt her nipple, with a palm she held his prick and soon he'd kneeled beside her, she was sucking on Frank as John was screwing her. I could tell John was doing it for her, her body was rosy, her eyes were closed, she was breathing her orgasm through her mouth. And John appeared, even though he was energetic, to be far from coming. Perhaps it was his second go of the evening? I sensed the softness of a female torso next to me, I swung my head and my eyes were filled with the beautiful body and face of Ruth, she was still wearing her dark negligee. Feeling invited, I slipped my hand around her waist. "Quite a scene," Ruth snickered. "Just a normal house party," I agreed. "Anybody you know?" I pointed, "My wife, Mary." "Oh, she seems to be having a ball." We watched for a moment, a man who had been toying with another woman approached Mary, she released Frank, took the new man's cock in her mouth, John shifted into a sideways attitude to make a little more room, but he continued to propel his dick inside her pussy enjoyably. My impression was that Mary was enjoying the erotic spotlight she was the center of. She caught my eye, I raised my thumb in a silent question, 'are you all right?' Her returning smile let me know I didn't need to concern myself for her safety. I turned my attentions to Ruth. "Would you like a drink?" We strolled into the dining room, I poured her a glass of white wine. After a sip, she set her goblet on the table, drew me close, we kissed again, the kind that promises everything. "I looked for you earlier," I confessed, "you weren't around." "There's a single girl, Becky, my husband and I have been emailing back and forth with her, she agreed to meet us here." "Was she fun?" "More for Bram than me, I'm afraid. She's the type of bi woman who doesn't mind if you go down on her, but she barely touched me. I think Bram is planning on going for round two with her, I haven't really had my first round yet." "Oh, that's too bad. Perhaps I can help?" "You know you can, I came looking for you. Linda told me how good you are with your tongue, I want to find out for myself." Our intentions clear, we sauntered down a hallway, found at the end a small bedroom not in use, she closed the door behind us. I was enthralled with this luscious woman, we took our time, slowly stripping each other, engaging in the various patterns of foreplay. Remembering her complaint of annoyance during her first romp of the evening, I ran through my repertoire. It seemed to engage her, I brought her to first one orgasm, then another before she aided me in slipping into a condom, then slipping into her. We roiled in three or four positions until I allowed myself to explode, Ruth joined me in boisterous glee as I climaxed. Then, suddenly, I was done, she was holding me, our breaths shaking the bed until our heart rates dropped. I rolled off her, we faced each other, kissing, stroking each other's bodies, telling ourselves how much fun we'd had. "I'm sure Bram's waiting for me," she suggested, the tone of her voice saying she'd rather stay with me, at least for a few moments. A wave of admonition flowed through my brain, for the thirty or forty minutes Ruth and I had frisked thoughts of Mary had fallen between the cracks. I wondered if she was concerned about me, surely she was done in the common room. Ruth rose, found her negligee and panties, I pulled my briefs on, suspecting by now the party had plunged into a scene of pure debauchery. We kissed again, I helped myself to a handful of those beautiful globes. "I'd love to see you again," Ruth complimented. "You were everything I heard about. Maybe the four of us could go on a date?" "Fine by me." I made sure she had our SwingLifeStyle profile name, she said she'd send us an invitation. Of course, I knew if Mary didn't care for Bram a foursome wouldn't happen. Even in that case, though, I felt sure Ruth and I might get together at other parties. In the kitchen, there were at least a score of people chatting, eating. Most of the men were clothed in only underwear, a few of both sex were completely bare. I looked for Mary, couldn't find her in the kitchen, after I got a drink I poked my head into the den. I was more than a little surprised to find Mary still in there. With the lateness of the hour it had calmed, in addition to my wife there was only one other woman, she was quietly in missionary with her partner of the moment. But Mary was anything but calm. She was facing me, mounted on a bearded man I'd not met before in cowgirl. To either side of her was a gentleman, one a stranger, the other our single friend Tim, her hand was on one of the dicks, her mouth encircled the other. I gazed at my wife, she was radiant in her pleasure, but she was at the same time disheveled; her hair flew every which way, her mascara ran badly, there was dried cum on her chest. I was a bit taken aback, worried she was having too much fun, but then I spied a phial of lube near her, a box of condoms, she was taking care of herself. I got a bottle of water, she smiled as she saw me approach her with hydration and took a long swallow, but didn't stop bouncing on the man below her. "Having fun?" I asked. "A ball," she admitted, and then giving little thought to me she went back to work on the man below her, placing her hands on his chest, doing her best to bring him to an ebullient come. I stepped back, she turned to the gent beside her, began the blow job with him again. I saw Ruth enter, she came to me. "Well, I guess that answers the question about will Bram like Mary." "Oh?" I said with a little confusion. "That's him below her!" she laughed. Realizing I wanted to keep an eye on my wife, but wanting to have a little more fun herself, Ruth dropped to a nearby mattress, dragged me with her. Without hesitation the few clothes we had on disappeared, she had my dick in her mouth again. I watched Bram and my wife, she seemed almost in a constant state of frenzy. Bram was silent, but his face scrunched, I was certain yet another man was satisfying himself inside my wife. Quickly, Mary turned to the stranger she was handling, handed him a condom. She flopped onto her knees, again she was penetrated. Bram, having had his fun and released, joined us, Ruth introduced us. "Honey, this is Adam. That's his wife, Mary." "Nice to meet you." We shook hands. "Your wife is having a really great time tonight. Is she always like this?" "The life of the party?" I laughed. "No, not usually, this is something different for her." Ruth lounged between the two of us, we took turns feeling her breasts, the rest of her body and toying with her clit. She had another orgasm, just as I heard the stranger grunt behind my wife. Tim was still near her, he attempted to mount my wife, but she pushed him away. "Sorry, I'm pretty well done for the night." Gracefully he backed away, I saw disappointment on his face. Mary joined us, I introduced her, she recognized that just a few moments before she'd been intimate with Ruth's husband. I put my arm around her, we talked for a few moments, Mary agreed the four of us should get together some time. Then she said, "I've got to go to the bathroom," and she ran away. I took my leave of the couple, went to the threshold of the powder room, waited for Mary to emerge. When she came out, I asked, "What do you need?" "Oh, let's go have another drink." We stood in the kitchen, naked as prairie dogs, chatting. A couple of guys put their arms around her waist, I wondered if they'd been inside my wife earlier. A half hour later, long after the witching hour, I saw Mary yawn, the sign she was winding down. "Sure you don't want to go back in the den?" I asked with a laugh in my tone. "I think there's still a couple guys who'd like to take a shot at you." "Oh, I couldn't. It's tempting, but I'm worn out down there!" We found our clothes, said goodbye and thanks to Bob, headed out the door to our car. On the drive home, as we always did, we reviewed the night. "Ruth seemed nice," Mary said. "Did you . . ." "Yes, we went into a bedroom while you were in the den. She's something special. How was Bram?" "Bram?" "Her husband. Beard. One of the last guys." "Oh, yes, now I remember. There's something about the way he did it, it really filled me up." "And the other guys? What got into you tonight?" "You're not pissed, are you?" she asked cautiously. "Of course not. We've always said when we go to these parties we don't have to be together every moment, and anything that happens is okay. It's just that I've never seen you like that before." "I don't know what got into me. When Frank asked me, I figured we'd go into a bedroom. This was his first time at a LifeStyle party, a rookie. But he said one of his fantasies was to do it out in public, where people could watch, and I said okay. And then, John was just so pretty, I invited him to play. And it just took off from there." "So, how many guys tonight? I'm sure it's a new record." "I'm not sure. Six?" "I know of at least five. First Don, then Frank and John. That's when I went I took Ruth into the bedroom. We stayed in there at least forty-five minutes, when I came out you were with Bram and finally the last guy, I don't know his name. Were there others?" "I remember Bob and I had some fun." "And you gave Tim a blow job." "Oh, I remember giving lots of guys a little bit of head, and I got felt up a lot." "But you had fun," I asked. "A ball. I don't know if I'd want to do it again, but once was wonderful." When we got home, it was nearly two o'clock, I put Mary in the shower, washed the residue of her love making off. I kissed her before we drifted off, happy in our evening. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ This is an absolutely true story - - - Adam Gunn
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1 pointBefore reading this, be aware that writing this as a bi man, there are some things that you may find distasteful. Read at your own risk. I had been e-mailing Paul a few times before Mae saw the notes. He broke some big rules we have when man hunting. He’s married, which is a huge strike against him. And, he has no place to meet; another big issue because it means hotels. Everyone loves hotels including us. Our goal though it to find a long term, exclusive fuck buddy. Married guys in hotels are long term for four months, and then it fades. After a few fucks with the same guy, one starts to question if it’s worth it to drop another $70 or $80 to split a room. The third strike was that he is straight. I told him I couldn’t care less if he touched me but he had to be comfortable with me blowing him and having a lot of cock contact. He said that was cool as long as it was in the setting of the threesome. Fine. I assumed Mae would read the notes, and say ‘he’s married’ and that would be that. She read the notes, and asked me if I wanted to meet him. Obviously I did or I wouldn’t have shown this to her. After another few messages and phone calls, we agreed on a place to meet over drinks on Saturday night and if all went well, get a room on Sunday. We planned on having a drink and chatting for a half hour. Usually that is plenty of time to judge if the attraction is there. We spent almost two hours laughing and talking like old friends. He was very well-mannered, paid close attention to Mae, and complimented her at the right times without sounding corny. He came across perfectly. On Sunday I reserved a room near the bar where we met. It was close to 3 p.m. before we finally got there. Mae had spent a long time getting ready for this. She dyed her hair, closely shaved around her pussy, and carefully chose her outfits. Meanwhile I packed everything we would need: dildos, condoms, lube, Rum&Coke, weed, bong, water, and snacks. Along with those things I also grabbed three swim trunks in case we wanted to go for a swim. I called Paul when we got our room and he was there in about 20 minutes. Mae was still on her first glass of sex lube, I mean wine. We sat and chatted while the alcohol had is calming effect on me and Mae. Once she felt ready, she went to the bed and stretched out. Paul and I joined her on either side. Mae always finds getting clothes off is a cumbersome activity so she pretty much just stripped in about 20 seconds. Paul and I each took one of her sensitive nipples in our mouths and sucked and nibbled while rubbing her all over. Neither of us had touched her pussy yet. When she was on fire, she noticed that we were both still fully dressed. We got up and ripped our clothes off and got back on the bed. I went back to her nipple as Paul started to stroke her pussy and tell her how beautiful it was. I noticed she had his dick in her hand and was slowly stroking the full length. This part always sends an erotic ripple through me when I see my wife of 35 years, lovingly stroking a total stranger’s cock. I moved up and fed her my cock for a few minutes, mostly to let Paul know that it was an available place to put his. I slid down her body and watched his hand stroke and pull on her pussy lips, lightly dipping into her. She pulled his cock to her mouth and tasted the strange cock for the first time. She moaned as his finger sunk into her pussy as his dick sunk into her mouth. I replaced his hand with my mouth and kept her on the edge while she noisily slurped on his beautiful cock. I pulled her knees up to her chest and sank balls deep into her slimy cunt. Rather that thrusting into her, I pushed down on her hips, sending her into the mattress, she bounced back up, pushing me balls deep. I started slamming into her like this. Hips frozen in place, her ass being pushed into the bed and back onto my dick. About a minute of this, it sent her into the first of the numerous orgasms the night still held. Paul had watched me fuck her and was mesmerized. He told us it was really hot watching that. I asked him if he’d like to take a shot. He moved into position in front of her, on his knees and quickly slid into her. He stayed on his knees for a short time before falling on her and giving it to her missionary, with her legs around his back. In this position, I could get down and see, and smell, the action, as well as snake my tongue in now and then to lick the copious juices off his cock as it retreated from her. She was shoving her hips back at him, begging for a harder fuck. He did his best, slamming into her with everything he had. After a few minutes, Mae came again and he rolled off her, trying to keep his cum. I took advantage of the opening and rolled Mae on her stomach and pulled her ass up to me. I fucked her doggie while she moved back to Paul’s dick and spent a few minutes on the spit. We timed our thrusts to match so we would fill her pussy and mouth at the same time, back and forth, in and out until she screamed and thrashed around moaning. This lady was so fucking hot tonight. As we lay back resting, Paul asked if she was ready to take us both. She said sure, why not. Paul said he would need to be coached as it would be a first for him. So we lay him in position and Mae climbs on and sinks him in as deep as she can get him. Then she leans on Paul and I move in behind, slathering lube on my cock. I tell them to stop and hold still. I probe around her cunt, which seems impossibly full of cock. I find an opening and slide just the head in. Mae freezes and her muscles tense. She asks us to hold still, to let her fuck us at her pace. We agree and just hold still, the head of my cock pressed firmly against his shaft, held by her pussy. I feel her cunt loosen slightly and she backs up onto me another inch and freezes, moaning and twitching. Another moment and she takes another couple inches in. Now she starts to slide her very full cunt along the length of our dicks. She has been in this position numerous times. She usually lasts about 15 seconds before exploding, shooting the cocks in her out like a cannon along with a gushing squirt. Paul and I worked into a rhythm and pushed into her like pistons. Me in, him out, him in, me out, back and forth, holding her down as she starts to wail and thrash. She comes with too much force and we topple into a sweating heap of throbbing cock and gushing pussy. ‘Holy fuck’, was all he could say. We take a break, and have a bottle of water and a couple hits from the bong. In about five minutes we are all rested and ready for more. Paul asks Mae to let him fuck her doggie style. She rolls over and puts her ass in the air, reaches back, opens her pussy and tells him to take it. I slide in under her and get into position just as his cock enters her. I just watch for a little while, loving the sounds, sights, and smells coming from this. Mae was ravaging my cock with her talented mouth, holding me on the edge, making sure I am at the maximum horniness as she fucks back into his rock hard dick. It’s still too early to end this so Paul has to pull out and recover before he shoots. He started to lose it when I stuck my tongue In her pussy as he fucked her, then sucked on his shaved balls. He said later he didn’t know what I was doing but the sensations were incredible. I know that, been there. Next, I asked J if she was ready for a DP. She said, sure, who’s going where. That’s my girl! I tell her to fuck Paul as I get ready to take her ass. I grab a rubber from the pile I brought and slide one on. I lube up my dick and her ass while she bounces on his dick, getting closer to coming, anticipating what is her favorite position. I easily slide balls deep into her ass as she barely slows down on Paul. This is a position she can take for a long time. Paul is moaning loudly, telling her how he can feel me fucking her ass against his dick. I’m afraid he’s going to come but this guy is a fucking trooper. He manages to fuck Mae through a couple orgasms until she had enough and tapped out. After that it’s time for another break and some light playing. At one point Mae and Paul are fucking. I’m sitting back watching, something I almost never do. I’d just rather be in there somewhere. Anyway, this time, I’m just stroking my dick, which feels like granite, watching my wife give herself totally to Paul. Her legs are wrapped around him, her hips are meeting each thrust, her arms are wrapped around his back and head, pulling him in for a deep kiss. She releases the kiss and tells him "I love your cock", then cums on it. At this point, we are laying there and Paul says, I can cum any time you guys are cool with that. What a nice guy. Mae lectures him on the need to let go when the feeling overcomes him. He tells her that if he did that, he’d be home by now. So she thanks him for holding out. She also rolls onto her stomach and puts her ass in the air. We all know what is going to happen here. She helps get me under her. I reach up and gape her cunt wide open, an inviting target for Paul as he moves in. He goes balls deep and asks if he can give it to her hard. Mae says ‘just fuck the shit outta me”. I’m bracing for what I thought was going to be a violent ride. Paul seems to know where I am and fucks her hard and fast and manages to avoid me pretty well. I can get my tongue on his balls and lick her pussy and fully enjoy the event. He’s slamming into her so hard, her cunt juice is spattering around, it’s like 3D sense-around porn. He starts to bellow and shoves his dick in all the way. I jab my tongue at his ass which causes him to come harder. After he finally stops throbbing, maybe 30 seconds later, he slowly starts to pull his dick out. I move my mouth to the point his cock is sliding out. I still can’t detect any of his cum so I wonder if maybe he didn’t come very much. Then his dick comes out fully, Mae gives a little push just as my mouth covers her entire slit. I feel the largest load I have ever had, pour in one huge glop into my mouth. I have to swallow a little right away or lose it down my neck as my mouth is completely full. Mae is still sucking me, lightly, to keep me from losing it. She knows I am lying there with a mouth full of Paul’s and her cum, all mixed in her pussy into the most erotic of cocktails. I let her lick and suck me, finger my ass, as I savor the taste, slowly swallowing the load, keeping just a little. I move up and kiss Mae. We share the last of his cum. And he’s still hard! He lies back on the stack of hotel pillows and strokes his cock. Mae and I move to either side of him and kiss, with his dick between our lips. Our tongues explore him, we lick his shaft, head, balls. We take turns taking him deeply into our mouths. He doesn’t hold back this time and lets his second load go. This one much smaller but nearly as enjoyable. I take most of it again but share the last with Mae. He’s still hard. He fucks Mae awhile, unable to come again but enjoying the end of a great time. For the last half hour, my friend John had been texting. He knew that Mae and I were screwing a new guy and he was going to come over after Paul left and we were going to dinner. Paul said he needed to be out in a half hour. I texted John and told him to be here in 45 minutes. Paul was late getting out, John was early, they met. It was awkward for Paul but I had told him that John would be coming over for dinner. Paul left and the three of us walked across the street to a restaurant. When we returned Mae asked us if we wanted to go for a swim. John kinda wanted to get home early but when he arrived, Mae was in the shower. She had walked out naked when he was there. She just walked up to him and gave him a big hug and kissed him. Then she trotted back into the bathroom. There was a noticeable bulge tenting John’s pants. I should say that John had been a lover in the past. We had fucked him a half dozen times but he had stopped due to us not really being what he was looking for in a sexual relationship. No worries, he’s a nice guy and we both like him so a platonic relationship is fine. That was why Mae was so comfortable around him nude, plus she was kinda hammered by then. He decided to take a swim with us. At least he was blowing off his self-imposed curfew. We enjoyed the hot tub, and Mae swam in the pool for awhile. After nearly an hour, in which we had the pool to ourselves, we headed back to the room. We all stripped and put clothes back on. Mae just put on a nightie. John was getting dressed so I assumed he was going to stick to his plan and go with no playing. As he grabbed his pants, I noticed he hesitated, then got on the bed. I was already there and moved over and stroked his dick, through his underwear. I pulled the head of his dick out of his waistband and looked at him as I licked it. He responded by lowering his shorts for me. It was still a little uncomfortable so he lifted his ass and we removed them completely. He wasn’t hard. I sucked his soft cock, played with his balls. Jerked my dick. Mae was cleaning up, leaving us alone. After a few minutes she came to the bed and started sucking me off while I sucked John. I started to slowly work a lubed finger around his asshole and her responded. I took my time, slowly sucking him, slowly playing with his ass. He still wasn’t hard. He was moaning loudly and told me he was getting close, to shove my finger all the way in. I grabbed the lube and got him ready and slid all the way to his prostate. I rubbed him lightly, stroking in and out as I continued to suck his dick which was probably half hard now. He warned me he was going to come, I felt his prostate tighten and was rewarded with a nice big load as he throbbed and thrusted into my mouth. Mae never lost contact and kept me on the edge through the event. John left shortly after that and we were alone. Mae was pretty drunk and high and begged me to let her fuck me. I had brought the Feeldo along hoping she would fuck John with it but since I was pretty buzzed I agreed and we got ready. It felt really good to be fucked. Mae fucks like a man and had me feeling really good. The Feeldo makes her come as she thrusts so she’s having a great time. Eventually I tapped out and pulled off all the stuff and fucked her. When I finally came, after several hours of almost non-stop fucking I thought I was being turned inside out. Amazing night!
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1 pointSaturday Night After the wife’s date for the night cancelled on her at point 99, the wife and I went out for a few drinks at our local watering hole, just to spend time alone (got our eldest daughter to Babysit). Wife was all dressed super sexy and when we walked in you could see how some men were looking at her. Was so HOT!!! We sat and had a few drinks when she got a message from one of our friends saying how horny he was and stuck at work. She asked him till what time he is working and was told for an hour still. Right there and then she said when he is done we should meet at the pub. Well he was running late and by the time he left work the pub was closing. Having no place to go, they arranged to meet at a nearby park. We left and drove to the park. We basically stopped at the same time, Wife was driving… She got out and so did he. By the time I got out and walked around the had already started to kiss and fondle each other. His hands were all over her and it was not long and she was standing half naked with his cock in her hand. She bent down to suck his cock and pulled me closer and I started to sucking his cock with her. When she was done she stood up and he turned her around and bent her into the car. I was still sucking him when he pulled away from me and put his cock into her pussy and started to fuck her hard. The sight was to die for. Once or twice he pulled out and put it into my mouth and then back in her pussy!!!!!!!!! This went on for about 10 minutes with my wife moaning like I have never heard before. He asked where he should cum and the wife told him in her. I was still on my knees watching this all happen. He shot his load deep into her pussy and I could hear her cum too. When he was done he pulled out and I lifted my hand to her pussy and felt his warm cum starting to run out. While still on my knees he put his cock in my mouth and I sucked it for a while longer. My wife then asked me to stand up and I leaned against the car. She started to suck my cock while I was fingering her wet cum-filled pussy and stoking his cock. I told them I am about to cum and he took over by wanking my cock for me. I shot my load off and it was a big one. When I had cum he bent down and licked the last cum of my cock and stood up and kissed my wife. We got dressed again and spoke for a while and then went our ways. The drive home was hot and you could smell all the cum. We got home and all were asleep so we went to the bathroom to clean up. My wife took her clothes of and I got instant hard again seeing all his cum in her panty and on her legs. I bent her over right there and shoved my cock into her pussy using his cum and a warm lube. It did not take long and I was shooting my cum load into her pussy too. I kept my cock in her for a while till I was soft. When I pulled out she turned to me and kissed me and the went down to suck on my soft cock. Licking and cleaning all the cum off. We were done, had a quick bath in the early hours of the morning and retired to the room to sleep. Was an unplanned but Super-Hot Night. Can’t wait till we have more time with this guy.
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1 pointI was in my mid-twenties, I was living with my girlfriend in Singapore at the time. We are both Caucasians and had been living in Singapore for a couple years then. We had a great sex life and were very open with our fantasies and kinky side. She loved sex a lot, and she was equally bi, but she would try to hold back from exploring her sexuality because the social circle of friends and family wouldn't understand or approve of it. But since we were far away from home in a foreign country, I encouraged her to go out and meet other girls. I could see she loved me for that because she was shy and all she needed was the support and approval and perhaps the push from me to make her explore that side of her which she loved but was trying to suppress. A few months after she was going out and putting herself out there, she had a couple experiences with a couple of females and then she met a very attractive younger woman who was a university student. I could feel she fell head over heels for her. They started spending a lot of time together, and my girlfriend was almost like a sugar mummy in this relationship taking her girlfriend to dinners and drinks and even buying her gifts. I was very happy for her. She would tell me all about the hot sex they had but only when I pushed her to tell me about it. It felt to me like she wanted to have that experience for herself only and didn't want to include me in it, she had a very possessive personality. I started to feel a bit left out. They would have very hot and steamy sex in bed while I was sleeping next to them, but never did she offer to include me, I felt she was a bit selfish. She would only want to have sex with each one of us separately so she could enjoy the experience for herself only. Anyhow this was a major turn on for me especially that she broke off that taboo and was acting naturally and openly not being judged, she was very happy, and everything felt great. This was when the idea started coming to me that perhaps I should also explore my bisexual side. It was more the kinky and taboo side of it that turned me on rather than the emotional or romantic side. I don't think I am emotionally attracted to men, it's more the feeling that I am doing something wrong or naughty. We were very open about our sexual fantasies, and we had discussed a lot of kinky scenarios, but I could quickly feel that the idea of me getting involved with another guy was repulsive to her. So I didn't discuss any further with her because I didn't find the support. Although in hindsight if I were more open about it or even more persistent, she would have probably come around the idea. However, I didn't want her ever to hold something against me that she could, later on, use against me which would undermine my macho status in the relationship. The more I tried to not think about this, the more the urge became to explore it until one night I decided to go to a massage parlor with male masseurs. I didn't know what to expect but knowing that I would be completely naked in the presence of another male was already a breakthrough for me as it crossed a taboo. I was laying naked on my stomach on the massage table, and the young masseur was topless wearing tight sports shorts. He was very fit. Quickly I could feel the sexual tension building up, the guy's cock kept brushing against my arm as he was moving around the massage table. Perhaps it was intentional from his side or just happened by accident, but I was getting very much turned on by the whole situation. Things kept heating up as he touched my lower back and slowly made his way to my buttocks, gently massaging my legs and into my inner thighs, and again his pinky would accidentally yet very subtly touch my balls or my cock or close to my anus, and it was hot as fuck. He asked me to turn around on my back, as I was turning around he could see that my erection was in full size, it didn't take very long, but his head dove to my cock and he started sucking me hard. I was in delirium, something I never experienced before. Although I wouldn't consider myself bi at all, I always thought it was the mental fuck about exploring with another guy that turned me on, the taboo, the cheating aspect, etc. But I have to say, the physical aspect was soooo good also. While I was laying on my back, I moved my head forward, took off his shorts, and started sucking him. It all happened very naturally without any exchange of words. His cock tasted so good. I always wondered how my girlfriend felt when sucking my cock and sometimes watching her enjoy it so much made me wonder if it was just acting or whether it was really sexually pleasing for the person giving a BJ. After I sucked the guy's cock, I was so surprised to discover a new form of sexual pleasure that I never knew existed, it was one of those eureka moments. At this stage I was in nirvana, the ecstasy I was in was indescribable. I wanted more. I asked the guy to fuck me, I now wanted to feel his cock inside me. I felt so naughty, and I felt like a slut. I wanted to be abused. He went to get a condom, but it felt like an absolute eternity before he came back. I was so horny and hot, and I was touching myself fantasizing about what just happened, by the time he came back and put the condom on, I was almost ready to explode. He tried to slide his cock inside me but I have not done anything like this before, and my asshole wasn't relaxed enough for him to enter me. So it took a while, and before he could shove his cock inside me, the touch of his dick on my anus made me quiver, and I came so hard, I was exploding of pleasure. The sight of me cumming so hard must have turned him on so much cause he came and started licking the cum off my body. He started to masturbate super hard, and in a short period of time, he came over my body. It was one of the most sexually fulfilling experiences I have ever had. After that I went to quickly have a shower, dressed, paid him, and left. I never told my girlfriend about it because I didn't think she would understand and I was scared it would undermine me in our relationship. I was very macho and dominating, partly because I felt my girlfriend wanted me to play that role. Had she been the strong, assertive woman in our relationship, then I would have probably been more open to her about the whole thing. Overall the experience was one of the best I have had. Although later on I have had one more experience with another guy while my wife was traveling, but I didn't really enjoy it. I think what would really turn me on is a MMF threesome experience. The following years we have had a few more sexual encounters in the swinging scene, we had moved back to Europe then, and we started frequenting one of the nearby swingers clubs. But it felt it was me pushing my partner who had become my wife by then. I knew she loved sex a lot and was open-minded but we also had our own trust issues in the relationship, and we were fighting a lot about it. She confessed to me that while we were doing the long-distance relationship that she slept with several guys and she had couple regular fuck buddies. Part of me was very turned on by the cheating aspect of it, of how forthcoming she was with other men, how hungry for sex she was. The other part of me felt betrayed. I tried to reconcile those two by talking about how kinky it would be for her to be with other guys, almost reconciling my two feelings which I guess would make me a cuckold. But my macho part would never allow it to happen. The fact that she went behind my back to cheat was the bit I could never get over with. I loved her so much, but I couldn't forgive her. Had she come clean herself or had she discussed her desires with me, then I would have been ok about the whole thing perhaps even getting sexual pleasure from it myself. I think she wasn't forthcoming about her feelings or her fantasies and wasn't assertive. I wish she could talk to me in a more dom tone. So the few times we went to a swingers club, my wife was probably feeling a mixture of guilt of her cheating on me, so she wanted to please me by going with me. I assured her that I am over it, that she could turn this cheating aspect of her into something kinky and enjoyable for both of us if only she would be more open and communicated what's on her mind. That she shouldn't suppress her feelings, that I would be supportive etc. But she never really opened up. And that kind of bothered me because I felt I was pushing her to do something, although I knew she would actually very much enjoy it if she just let go, just when she was enjoying discovering her bi side. I was also partly to blame, the one time she was letting go of her inhibitions while we were at a swingers club, one guy was eating her pussy while I was with another girl. Although we never discussed clearly what the rules were or the boundaries, we were just happy to explore and to take it slow and always include each other in whatever swinging activity we got involved in. She whispered in my ear that she wanted to be fucked by the guy who was eating her. That kind of took me by surprise, and I was a bit unprepared. I wasn't at a stage where I was willing to have my wife shared by another guy yet. So I kind of blocked the situation from happening, and the guy shortly left afterward. I could see that my wife was very sexually frustrated but also angry because she felt that I was pushing her out of her comfort zone and when she finally was there, I betrayed her trust by making her feel guilty about the whole thing. After that incident, it felt that she didn't want to explore the Lifestyle anymore and that was very devastating for me because it was by far the most exciting thing that we were doing in our routine daily lives. Things started to fall apart from there, we were fighting more regularly, and my wife was constantly depressed. The situation kept getting worse and worse until we got a divorce in the end. It was devastating for both of us. Our sex life was fantastic, we were very fond of each other, but I think in the end what killed the relationship is the lack of communication.
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1 pointWe would have responded that "We find his wife pleasant, kind and intelligent but we find her husband is a stupid, insensitive ass".