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I figured I should make a follow up post. My wife and I have decided to visit a Swingers club here in a few weeks. We have also both decided to start with same room play and work our way up

Re: "Flaws" The human fixation with (physical) appearance is interesting. There are so many imagined "ideals", all of which are culturally determined. Moreover, tissues are dynamic--no one has the body they did yesterday, or the body they will have tomorrow. We tend to notice how people look after their bodies and their minds and their spirit versus some arbitrary standard of perfect versus flawed. Re: Age and gawking Youth envy has been around since people lived long enough to become old. "Youth is wasted on the young", "If only I had known then what I know now", etc. The bodies may seem more perfect, the minds are known to be less mature. The most important sex organ is the one between the ears. The gawking is short-lived. Re: "Just people" Yes and no. People who are comfortable in their own skins have a level of (self) confidence that we like to be around.

You are surely correct. Guys notice, ladies know that guys notice, and clever textiles attract more attention than simple nudity. This is perhaps one reason why we prefer nude beaches and resorts--the variations in human form are neither concealed nor called to attention. People find comfort in their own skins. That, and people look you in the eye when speaking. Guys imagine one thing about nude beaches, and are often disappointed by the reality of ordinary people doing ordinary things with their ordinary bodies. Ladies imagine the same thing about nude beaches, and so often find the reality of ordinary people doing ordinary things with their ordinary bodies quite liberating. Candidly, nude is natural, healthy, and a lot more comfortable. The fashion industry doesn't want to hear that.

That's usually our go to site, and xvideos.com. You can search for anything you like and it's free. I used to be a big Voyeurweb/Redclouds guy, but that changed a lot a few years ago. NewbieNudes is a great amateur site. I like amateur porn the best.

I’m pretty sure from a physiological perspective a vagina would mostly be affected by the total amount of time it was receiving penile thrusting and not the number of penises involved. From the psychological perspective, yeah, probably very different.

I can tell my GF felt a little overwhelmed during her first gangbang when she a bunch of guys around her started pulling out their cocks but once they started fucking her she got over it pretty quick. We have usually done and prefer to do a gangbang over a weekend with the majority (but not all) of the guys being people that are friends and friends of friends. If we're walking into a situation where we don't know anyone then it's at some club or nearby motel where it's in and out. Both situations can be fun but the weekend gangbangs are by far the best for us. For the weekend gangbangs we go to a casino (my favorite for this) or some city a couple of hours away and our friends and friends of friends will stay at the same or nearby hotel. Even these can be very overwhelming and just too much. The first time we did this my GF loved it but even she said it was a bit too much sex so you want to make sure you don't make the weekend too long. I try to create a schedule too so that my GF isn't tied down (literally and figuratively) by the guys but it never goes exactly to plan. It has mostly been a lot of really young horny guys who want to fuck over and over again so if you don't manage it they're all over her all the time. She couldn't do anything without guys all over her. I opened the bathroom door once and saw her sitting on the toilet with some guys dick in her mouth while he was playing on his phone and she looked at me giggling "I just wanted to pee." The entire experience can be very overwhelming but my GF will admit that she likes that overwhelming experience and the sense of euphoria and accomplishment that comes from it. I think she also likes the sense of all the men wanting her all the time. Nevertheless even she admits that there is such thing as too much and that says a lot coming from her. So we pretty much do the same thing but cut it a night shorter and coordinate some planned breaks in between. But overall the weekend is still mostly fucking, sucking, and some other sexual activities that don't require penetration; golden showers, public flashing, dancing, flirting, etc.

Getting or giving I am happy to enjoy both. Younger days I did much more giving and my reward was acceptance. Flashback to sneaking home with a boyfriend and the big act was a blowjob. I must have enjoyed because I would do it without any reciprocity, just touching from him. He treated me special and I wanted to do it again and again. My first time receiving was from my girlfriend, I enjoyed, it was new, I felt it was wrong. Second time was that same friends older brother, I enjoyed but was more focused on him and what he was going to do that day, my first sex. Over the years, I gave a lot more to guy friends. Not all would give. Mike and I, once we found the new lifestyle, would search out partners. Laughing now remembering a pickup who I was giving a blowjob to, said I sounded like I was cumming without him touching me, when he went to reach down said I was drenched. He asked if I had an orgasm from just giving.

I just wanted to share a resource I found in response to my boyfriend's "porn" (Brazzers, Blacks on Blondes, bleh) and even "porn for women" (X-Art, Burning Angel, double bleh). I can rarely get into what he downloads, but I've had three men (boyfriend + two from couples we we've been with) who had no interest in this, but were willing to indulge me. Each wanted to buy every movie directed by Erica Lust afterwards. If I can make a suggestion, my favorite is Life Love Lust followed closely by Cabaret Desire. ERIKA LUST - Award-Winning writer and erotic film director Lust Films - ERIKA LUST If anyone has seen Cabaret Desire...have you ever heard of a lounge that tells stories like that? I would really want to check that out.