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3 pointsHow we Started in the Lifestyle So hubby and I had many, many conversations about what types of things we would like to do with another couple and what types of rules we wanted to follow…some that got thrown out the window right away! Should we kiss? How about watching each other? What about the big finish? With who? What to do? So many things! Some for us were never a question but others? Being flexible is key, you can’t set things in stone because you never know until the time comes! With this in mind, we were interested to see what opportunities would come our way. We had been on SLS, working on our profile and figuring out what pictures to add. Then we got our first email!!!! We opened it and we were both like OMG she is so cute!!!! She asked if we had any pics, and I was going to post them that day, so I sent her one. She said we were cute too!!!! We felt like a bunch of giggly school girls!!! We exchanged a few teasing emails and we still didn’t know etiquette or if there were any rules…so I told her our names and sent her my phone number. A few days later, after some hot loving, I got a text. Hubby and I were all cuddly in bed and I checked it and was like “it’s her!!!!” So we were texting back and forth and she sent us some naughty pictures…the rest of us exchanged phone numbers so all four of us were texting. We decided to meet the following week. We set up a babysitter and kept texting. It shifted to my hubby to her and her hubby to me texting each other. Lots of dirty, dirty things and pics. We were still virgins and shy, so we didn’t send any naughty pics yet. So the night we met, we were so nervous!!!! It’s like a first date, but with couples. We met at a bar for some drinks. We got to sit and talk and just hang out and see how comfortable we were with each other. Pictures really don’t give people justice…it really is all about the personalities. I was a little unsure about hubby from the pics, but when we met, everything was fine…they were both so nice and fun to hang out with. After a few hours, my hubby asked if they wanted to come back to our place!!! The vibe was good, so why not! So we got back to our house, sent the babysitter on her way and went to hang out in our playroom in the basement. We sat around talking and generally being a little nervous, until finally she suggested we get it started. So she climbed on top of her hubby and started kissing him and I did the same to mine, right next to each other on the couch. Things started to progress and clothes started moving around and body parts were poking out…I heard “Look honey, she has big boobies!”…lol! That totally helped lighten the mood and then she and I started kissing…next thing I know, we are missing clothes and the boys started losing theirs too. After a little of that we were all naked and really fooling around with our spouses and she said, “well, are we going to fuck or what?” and we proceeded to swap. Normally I’m a go for it kind of girl, but I was definitely on the hesitant side of this for some reason. I think I was worried that we were fundamentally going to ruin our awesome marriage because of this, and I wasn’t really sure how into it I really was. But I thought, it was just sex, nothing else! It had never been a problem for me before, so why let it be now? Then hubby basically jumped her with glee right in front of me and there was no turning back. So, her hubby and I started kissing and I realized it really was just about sex and nothing else. It helped put me at ease and really start to get into it. We all fooled around with each other a lot! Lots of kissing and touching and sucking…it was strange having someone go down on you after ten years of just your husband doing it! But it was cool…my hubby brought her to orgasm and she squirted right on his face. Surprise!!!! And it is strange to suck another guy's cock with your husband right near you. Next thing I know hubby starts fucking her…now that was hard to see…I’m not going to lie…so I had to distract myself somehow, so I stopped kissing him and asked if he wanted me to hop on. He said, “What?”. And I said “Sorry, that is something hubby and I say, do you want me to climb on top?” So I got a condom, rolled it on and proceeded to climb on his cock. Well, that was a very different experience and it felt so naughty!!!! There was my husband fucking his wife and here we are fucking each other…bizarre, yet so fun! We switched positions a few times and then switched back to our spouses and then we just stopped. We hung out talking for a while, they are so cool and open and straight forward, so it was easy to talk about awkward things and clear up any issues. For being first timers, it went really, really well! We got to see what it was like and figure out what worked and what didn’t. Needless to say, hubby and I had lots of things to talk about after this and it of course added fuel to our sexual fire! We liked it so much though, that we had a playdate with them a few days later!!!
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2 pointsWe were wondering if any posters on here have met others in person for social or swinging. What are the criteria you use to give out personal information and ultimately meeting? Most of us on here don’t upload pictures to the gallery and can only make a first impression by posts.
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2 pointsI was orally bi for years before coming out to the wife. I was assuming, like a lot of us, that she would be horrified. Much to my amazement, she took to it like a pro. We tend to focus on her most of the time but she will always get me between his legs and pass his dick between our mouths for awhile. Her pussy juice will actually run down her leg while we do this. A look of pure lust on her face while our eyes are locked and my mouth is full.
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2 pointsWe have shared a number of penises. It is a huge turn-on for me. Mr OCC knows I love it and even though it isn't his favorite thing, he does it for me. He enjoys it too, just seems to have trouble acknowledging it. But his hard-on gives him away LOL.
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2 pointsMy husband and I have been talking about sharing a penis together! The thought of it really turns me on for a lot of reasons. 1) Total uninhibited pleasurable sex. I think it's sad that even in an open community like swinging male bisexuality is taboo. We thought swinging was about doing the taboo! 2) Watching someone completely open up is like freeing them emotionally. You get to see them at their naughtiest! ;-)
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1 pointThis is was not a gangbang even if it was 3 guys. We normally look for one good man which is sometimes turns into 2. We enjoy inviting an unsuspecting man to our room it could be a businessman or two men at a sporting event. Business travel was not happening much and sporting events were a no go. We were in Florida and started talking to a few guys at our hotel, one was getting married in a few weeks. The next morning we saw them at breakfast and Mike asks if they got lucky the night before. He was seeing if they were looking to have fun before the friends big day or if they were just there to drink, sun and fish. Normally I do the talking and do the inviting this time he was very blunt and asked if before they went out for the day if they wanted to have fun before the beds were made. Three guys and none of them made it to the five minute mark. We weren’t in the room an hour and they were out. Luckily we had other fun on vacation.
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1 pointThe pandemic did not really affect our clothing preferences, although the seasons definitely do. Being nude is just more comfortable and fun when it is hot out. We are fortunate to have a private backyard area. Staying nude with like minded friends is great, but we are always aware of everyone’s comfort level.
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1 pointI messaged you all but please any new people - simply message me instead of posting here. Now let's get back on topic. Our newest neighbor, a tiny little thing, cute as can be, perky, fit, with a very attractive husband, came up to me asking for help. Among other things my neighbor asked me if she should ask her husband if he was bisexual. I asked her, are you? She said – it certainly turns her on. We talked for quite a while and many more times after that building quite the relationship. I enjoy talking sex with her from her fresh young perspective. Months later jerking her husband off while dildoing him she had him so turned on that she asked, “Oh my goodness, you love sucking down your cum when I feed it & getting your ass fucked so much wouldn’t you love a bunch of guys fucking your mouth and ass all day filling you full of their cum?” He said YES! That’s how she found out for certain. She told me she fucked and jerked him 4 more times talking about bisex, sharing cocks, cum, and getting his ass fucked and cum filled. So we may have a new younger couple joining us one day…
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1 pointForeplay is 24 x 7, and every lady of my/our ken notices when a gentleman helps out with chores unbidden.
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1 pointOne other thing , if you get in to some group function, like a party by some local LS club, participate in the non-sex things. When we first started out and were being vetted by the older members I helped set up for the groups dinner, placing chairs setting up the buffet etc. For some reason this was a duty relegated to the ladies. By the time dinner was served I had received a very friendly kiss, a few equally friendly full frontal hugs and had my ass grabbed. I had become a "real" person all thanks to the cold cuts.
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1 pointMany couples disregard people with free memberships, especially single guys.
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1 pointIt needs very careful planning. You also have to remember that nothing ever goes exactly to plan but you have to do your best to control the situation as much as possible. We both realize that a bunch of young horny guys are not going to quit so it's very intense right out of the gate and this goes on for quite some time but my GF loves it. These type of gangbangs are always the most intense and kinkiest (some really strange ideas and fetishes have come from these) so you have to be prepared for what you're going into. As far as the planning goes the most important thing for us was to cut it 1 day short. This way just me and my GF spend the last day together having fun in a variety of different ways excluding any sex. Two days of gangbanging and 1-2 days of just rest, relaxation, and fun together.
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1 pointFrom what I've seen, the max for a woman is not the number of dicks in her, but the total amount of time it goes on. Is there any difference between 60 "Minute Men" and one one-hour guy?
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1 pointHi All. I hope you all are having a wonderful day. I want to start off by saying I am a 32 y/o male married to a beautiful 31 y/o female. I love her very much and have never felt so complete with anyone else. We have been together for 8 years now and she has been nothing but absolutely loyal to the T. We have 2 beautiful kids together, a home, 3 cars, perfect american dream. I love her sexuality. It turns me on like no other. She and I used to run a cam channel together, and her own website where we sold porn I shot of her. We didn't do cheap shit either, photo shoots took hours, but we had fun and fucked in between sessions. She treats me like no other woman has treated me and I have never once felt like she would ever leave me and still don't to this day. We have absolutely no sexual lacking's either. We are bunnies who both get satisfied. She has told me that my mind unlocks her and drops any walls she has and that I am the only man to ever make her cum from piv. Also, I know about my wife's wild past. I love it too. I love to hear the stories from when she was younger and exploring herself with others. I love fantasizing about all the guys who would jerk off to her porn. My wife and I both agree that we should be able to have fun with others sexually, but only connected emotionally to your spouse and I without a doubt agree and dont worry about her at all. I understand, we both have insatiable appetites for just plane old sex. We have been diving deeper and deeper into the lifestyle since we got together, but not till 3 weeks ago have we ever swung with another couple. We met this couple online, and we went to breakfast and go kart racing after. They are a little younger than us, a very solid couple we have spoken to for about 2 years now, off and on. They were/are perfect to get us acclimated into this world. So my wife and I wake up 2 weeks after our first day meeting this other couple, and its D-day... quite literally. We have booked a hotel room that has its own pool, 1 large bed, and a place to sit. As my wife and I get ready, I can get out of my head how badly I want to see her enjoy another man. Just to see her absorbed in her sexuality. So hot. To see another man lust over her. So hot. It gets me going now. We are making dirty jokes all morning and really in a great mood of excitement, spark. We got to the place, checked in, got to the room and invited the other couple in. We started with drinks and a few games. We played strip poker and once we were all naked, spin the bottle (except no m/m as we are both straight which is perfect). My wife and I start kissing and before we know it, we are swept up in each other and the other couple in themselves. The passion of both couples was almost identical. We are very like minded people. We go on for about an hour just focusing on our own significant others when I whisper to my wife I want to see her please him. I was so happy to see everything that followed and it made me un-controllably climax. Shit happens, it was amazing, everything carried on and we all had an amazing day. My wife and I shower before going home and I wash her very romantically, I was so happy I had met my wife, someone I could share this with. Everything was swell for the next two days. My wife and I talk about the experience, joke and laugh, and rejoice together. Then out of no where, these thoughts start creeping into my head; What if I dont like it the next time? (Impossible, unless I cant stay out of my head with worry.) Hey, that's my wife. (Even though I dont think I really feel this way, my wife beyond pleases me, sexually, emotionally, loyalty, I want her to be happy and get those kinky desires fulfilled that I too have, I would love to continue this with her for both our sakes.) Did I just ruin my relationship? Did it just loose its validity? What if I get jealous the 2nd time? (even though I encouraged my wife to enjoy herself and enjoyed watching) I have spoken to her about all this and how I can be so uncomfortably worried at times, and at peace and daydreaming about it at other times. I have told her I am so confused, and that she has done nothing wrong. She has been super supportive and has told me we dont have to do it again and that we could walk away from this at any point... but my mind worries me so.... Guys and gals... What can I do to be more accepting? I was really excited to do all this... and I dont know how I got so clouded in the mean time. It really bugs me that I cant just seem to accept this is something I like, its not a breach of our relationship unless a rule of ours is broken (basically anything including messages privately)...But does this get easier with time?
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1 pointI went back and forth questioning if this was something we should keep doing early on, but as I continued to see that my wife was fully committed to me and the best wingman a guy could ever have I let those feelings and questions go. Just keep communicating with your significant other and I'm sure you'll end up where I am.
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1 pointI knew it when he screamed, “Yes Fuck ME, Fuck me in my ASS, Give me more COCK, fill me full of cum in both holes.” as he sucked one of our friends so hard he was yelping as was the guy who was fucking him bareback. My husband went along for the ride with me and bi couples we befriended over the many years, eventually giving a little here and there, until the day he did this. It still takes him a while to get to this point but he definitely gets there more often and in less time. There have also been a few times recently where I have gotten him so aroused kissing him after sucking some off that he latched on to a few of the guys without me even feeding them to him. And even though he never asks upfront for cock I know he loves it, as well as cum, and most definitely getting his ass cummed in. His orgasms are way to explosive for anyone not to love that. We have been very fortunate to have many extremely trust worthy friends who all get along smashingly.
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1 pointWorrying is like paying a debt that may never come due. you had amazing sex. Stop punishing yourself ( let someone else do that?) Enjoy
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1 pointI can't speak for more experienced couples, but for us it actually was easier after a few play dates. Maybe 3 total. After that I started overthinking and we slowed way down for a while. (first couple months was daily or every other day with 2 couples we met. We jumped in both feet. I think it was when we stepped back that we could take in what was going on and really appreciate the pro's and con's
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1 pointWatching my husband suck a dick is an instant puddle in my panties! Sploosh!
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1 pointShe DEFINATELY loves watching me with cock!!! Especially, when she is with her steady, me with another male,!!!
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1 pointMy wife loves to watch me go down on another guy. She says it is the biggest turn on she has ever experienced. That is as far as I have gone to this point. She keeps hinting about me trying anal, not up to it yet.
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1 pointI’m a very dominant woman who enjoys MMF bedroom fun. My husband is a bottom so I find a safe top to play with both of us. I found a sexually safe partner cute and hung with real stamina. He allows me to dominate him including discipline and using his cock for my pleasure. My slave/husband likes him and willingly sucks his cock and take it in the ass. Our buddy loves sucking off my husband rendering him useless temporarily freeing him up to fuck us both. My husband is straight but will do anything sexual as long as I feel it is safe. I love helping him bend over and feeding a hard cock into his ass. I never let the guys out of the bedroom without a load of come in their bellies. Our friend can fuck pussy and ass giving us both orgasms and will voluntarily allow me to fuck him with my strap-on. Having a safe partner is prime.
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1 pointWe now have 7 of our 8 men who will do most anything as long a woman is there it plead with them, guide them, even force them if need be, but mostly they will do it because they see how much it turns us on. We are all like many of the wives here; it is visibly evident how much we get into it by how much we flow like rivers down our legs. Two guys in a 69 a wife here and there guiding a penis into a mouth, pressing a head down, down, down with two guys taking them anally as we wives hold their legs and help spread their h…., Typically 4 men have to take turns going at it but when they are able to all go at it at the same time it is AMAZING! We have had them all cum so close together so many times, I can’t describe how incredible it is to watch and be a part of and how wet we all get. It is one of my favorite things to take part in watching.
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1 pointMy wife loves not just to watch but join in. It started after she wanted to watch gay porn, which may her so wet. Fantasy became reality after we did a MFM were he was orally bi, after he has sucked me with her I shared his with her. She had one of the biggest cums so far. We are looking for a bi couple to join us.
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1 pointMy wife loves watching me with a guy. She masturbates and usually cums before we do!
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1 pointThat is how we started swinging us when I told her I'd sucked a cock of a buddy in high school. She asked if I still wanted to and I said of course but that I'm married. She gave me the win win for everyone scenario and we've never looked back. We share every cock and she always makes sure I kick her juices off his cock after she fucks him. I love watching her get fucked and she loves Watching me suck cock.
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1 pointMr. Doe had a persistent fantasy about sucking cock, which was fine with me because I'm turned on by guy/guy. Now that he's experienced it several times, he's happy that no body parts are off limits during sex, but he's not particularly drawn there anymore. Fortunately, he really does get how much I like it, so he'll keep it in his repertoire.
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1 pointMy honey and I were just talking about the Obama support of same sex marriage and girl girl sex came up. I thought that people were ok with that, but not ok with man kissing man etc. I'm guessing a bill that supports female same sex but not male same sex marriage would pass both houses and most states without a hitch. She then re-iterated her deep interest and desire to watch men get it on. Say's she'd love to see men kissing, deeply and passionately. We have played with men together a couple of times and it always gets her going and I'd be lying if I didn't say I do it not only for her, but for me. I love to suck cock to completion, sooo satisfying.
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1 pointThe first time I watched him I came without even touching myself. Watching him close his eyes and slowly take that cock all the way in, I have a gag but he does not, it was such a turn-on watching him go to town. Now when we play he is a cock hog and I have to push him out of the way. lol
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1 pointThe first time I saw my guy suck cock, I nearly passed out from arousal. He's more het flex than bi, as am I, but it was really hot and watching gave me a few pointers about new ways to please him.
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1 pointYes I'm looking forward to. I think it's not only going to be different but I think going to be fun for all three of us. My wife and I are already preparing for it with her using a strap-on on me! She is excited! Let you know how it goes. Thanks.
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1 pointI can say that my wife is "Extremely" turned on with ideal of me and another guy having sex! She has been really convincing me to do it for the last 3 years after I told I had sex with a couple guys while I was in the Navy (I was young & full of cum)! In fact while we are having foreplay she fantasizes while I tell her about some of sexual things I did with me the guys. So now she wants her fantasy to come true. So wants me to setup a meet & greet with a guy (that she likes) at a hotel and fulfill the fantasy. We both have been swinging for 10 years off and on, but I never an had an sex with the other guy while we swapping partners, so now she wants to try the bisexual with a guy experience as well as joint in. So at this point I have no problems with it. Actually I think it maybe fun! Note: She has had sex with more than a few women, so now she saying (joking) if she did it now it time for me to have sex a guy(s)! Basically in a nutshell she saying (what's is good for the goose is good for the gander)! Lol
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1 pointThank you all for the frank, and honest, responses. I asked for benefit of some friends of mine. Three other bisexual, married, men and me sort of share resources and woes. LOL! Three of our wifes know about our bisexual interest. Three of our wives have been involved with us in the lifestyle. None are currently interested in either right now and it's nice to have friends in the same boats to exchange with. We've all emailed each of the others over the years and we finally just make a private yahoo group so it's easier. But, we don't have any couples or ladies there to ask questions and I appreciate the responses here. Thanks!
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1 pointMy wife absolutely loves to watch me with a guy, and she has seen me suck cocks, kiss several, and top one of our regular lovers. She will usually lay back and watch us and masturbate while we play...it's pretty hot watching her too...LOL I have met with two of them several times without her and she loves to hear about it later...gets her sooo hot.
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1 pointI am very turned on when I watch Brian playing with another man. It is very erotic to see them sucking each others cock and I usually join in on the fun after a few minutes!
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1 pointMy wife is highly aroused by male/male sexual play. She usually can't keep from joining in. We have received a number of responses from the female member of couples who want to see male on male sexual play, sometimes for the first time. It can be quite arousing. Even when they want just to watch, they often end up getting so aroused they join right in. It's much more fun to have my wife with me when there is man play. It really broadens the sexual horizons.