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2 pointsSo is your GF onboard with you playing alone? Because if she isn't you are not swinging, you are cheating.
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2 pointsI’ve had social meet-ups with a couple of other members of the board. In each case it was someone I had interacted with substantively in posts or via the site’s PM function. It was lovely to get to know them a bit better in the way that’s only really possible with a face-to-face interaction. Like most of the regular people who post here, I don’t look at the Swingersboard as a dating site, but rather as a place to share experiences and address issues that one faces in the lifestyle. There are a lot of sincere and thoughtful contributors on the site and there are several I’d enjoy having a chat with over lunch or a coffee.
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2 pointsWe like PrivateSociety.com. The videos on there remind us of people and parties we would play with.
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1 pointWe met a couple on this board at a nudist resort/ swingers friendly place. We had a very nice encounter. A potential problem arose thereafter. Let’s just say we tested negative. The couple later divorced and I no longer see them post here. Of course, they will remain anonymous.
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1 pointFollowing our recent LS cruise, we were discussing the couples we met who we really liked. Unsurprisingly (we've been together more than four decades) we keep coming to the same features. It's not age, it's maturity. It's not physical perfection, it's how they look after themselves. It's not their (Myers Briggs) personality type, we gravitate to extroverts and introverts, knowers and sensers etc. It's their authenticity. It's how they treat each other. It's their confidence in, and respect for, each other. It's their joy in being with each other. Call us old-fashioned. Or just call us old. What makes a couple attractive to/for you?
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1 pointHow we Started in the Lifestyle So hubby and I had many, many conversations about what types of things we would like to do with another couple and what types of rules we wanted to follow…some that got thrown out the window right away! Should we kiss? How about watching each other? What about the big finish? With who? What to do? So many things! Some for us were never a question but others? Being flexible is key, you can’t set things in stone because you never know until the time comes! With this in mind, we were interested to see what opportunities would come our way. We had been on SLS, working on our profile and figuring out what pictures to add. Then we got our first email!!!! We opened it and we were both like OMG she is so cute!!!! She asked if we had any pics, and I was going to post them that day, so I sent her one. She said we were cute too!!!! We felt like a bunch of giggly school girls!!! We exchanged a few teasing emails and we still didn’t know etiquette or if there were any rules…so I told her our names and sent her my phone number. A few days later, after some hot loving, I got a text. Hubby and I were all cuddly in bed and I checked it and was like “it’s her!!!!” So we were texting back and forth and she sent us some naughty pictures…the rest of us exchanged phone numbers so all four of us were texting. We decided to meet the following week. We set up a babysitter and kept texting. It shifted to my hubby to her and her hubby to me texting each other. Lots of dirty, dirty things and pics. We were still virgins and shy, so we didn’t send any naughty pics yet. So the night we met, we were so nervous!!!! It’s like a first date, but with couples. We met at a bar for some drinks. We got to sit and talk and just hang out and see how comfortable we were with each other. Pictures really don’t give people justice…it really is all about the personalities. I was a little unsure about hubby from the pics, but when we met, everything was fine…they were both so nice and fun to hang out with. After a few hours, my hubby asked if they wanted to come back to our place!!! The vibe was good, so why not! So we got back to our house, sent the babysitter on her way and went to hang out in our playroom in the basement. We sat around talking and generally being a little nervous, until finally she suggested we get it started. So she climbed on top of her hubby and started kissing him and I did the same to mine, right next to each other on the couch. Things started to progress and clothes started moving around and body parts were poking out…I heard “Look honey, she has big boobies!”…lol! That totally helped lighten the mood and then she and I started kissing…next thing I know, we are missing clothes and the boys started losing theirs too. After a little of that we were all naked and really fooling around with our spouses and she said, “well, are we going to fuck or what?” and we proceeded to swap. Normally I’m a go for it kind of girl, but I was definitely on the hesitant side of this for some reason. I think I was worried that we were fundamentally going to ruin our awesome marriage because of this, and I wasn’t really sure how into it I really was. But I thought, it was just sex, nothing else! It had never been a problem for me before, so why let it be now? Then hubby basically jumped her with glee right in front of me and there was no turning back. So, her hubby and I started kissing and I realized it really was just about sex and nothing else. It helped put me at ease and really start to get into it. We all fooled around with each other a lot! Lots of kissing and touching and sucking…it was strange having someone go down on you after ten years of just your husband doing it! But it was cool…my hubby brought her to orgasm and she squirted right on his face. Surprise!!!! And it is strange to suck another guy's cock with your husband right near you. Next thing I know hubby starts fucking her…now that was hard to see…I’m not going to lie…so I had to distract myself somehow, so I stopped kissing him and asked if he wanted me to hop on. He said, “What?”. And I said “Sorry, that is something hubby and I say, do you want me to climb on top?” So I got a condom, rolled it on and proceeded to climb on his cock. Well, that was a very different experience and it felt so naughty!!!! There was my husband fucking his wife and here we are fucking each other…bizarre, yet so fun! We switched positions a few times and then switched back to our spouses and then we just stopped. We hung out talking for a while, they are so cool and open and straight forward, so it was easy to talk about awkward things and clear up any issues. For being first timers, it went really, really well! We got to see what it was like and figure out what worked and what didn’t. Needless to say, hubby and I had lots of things to talk about after this and it of course added fuel to our sexual fire! We liked it so much though, that we had a playdate with them a few days later!!!
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1 pointMany couples disregard people with free memberships, especially single guys.
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1 pointI’m pretty sure from a physiological perspective a vagina would mostly be affected by the total amount of time it was receiving penile thrusting and not the number of penises involved. From the psychological perspective, yeah, probably very different.
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1 pointIf it is for guys anything like it is for me, they are searching for a word that describes their feelings about having a spouse/partner that is being non-monogamous with them. The package of emotions, fears, pleasures, desires are different for everyone, thus the confusing use of terms. They grab a word that is somewhere in the neighborhood and bend it to their particular situation. No crime is committed by doing so, but it leads to misunderstanding. It saves words, but doesn't hit the mark.
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1 pointI really don't know, gay sex just strikes me as weird in a way that Lesbian sex does not. Your explanation, if correct, bothers me as a feminist modern woman who has strived to be the equal of men, including sexually. Heterosexual couples engage in the same acts as Lesbians and gays, so I don't want to think that having a penis in my mouth or in my bum makes me weak. Is a guy licking a clit "weak?" IDK. It is also strange to me that I feel stronger and more in control when I'm on my back and a man is in me doing all the work, than I do when I'm riding cowgirl. Anyway, thanks for your thoughts. Ultimately, none of this matters so long as everything is consensual and fun.
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1 pointI’m just postulating here. Don’t flame me, please. I think the ‘it’s okay for women but not men’ comes from the historic concept that men who have sex with other men are weak. As the idea that non-monogamous sex is ‘bad’ from the time we are small, so is the concept that gay sex for men is ‘bad.’ (Yes, that’s changing, but only in the last thirty years, give or take.) A non-woke male will assume that if a man even touches another man’s dick he’s weak, he’s not a real man. So that man won’t ever stop to consider, well, it’s only sex, who really cares. A tremendous amount of vitriol is spewed upon ‘gay’ men, still, and a ‘bi’ man will be the recipient of that hate as well. Women, on the other hand, will be looked upon by those same men with the chauvinistic attitude that, ‘well, they were born weak, so it’s okay for them.’ It is right? Hell, no. But, I think, it’s a fact of life in this day and age.
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1 pointI don't tiptoe around it - I don't have a "bi" side, I have a Lesbian side, which after forming a poly family with two other women and two men, is as important to me as my hetero side. Also, it seems that most men, even those in traditional, conservative marriages, wouldn't be upset if their wife had a relationship with another woman. It's just much more acceptable (for whatever reason) than a guy having a gay side.
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1 pointMrs. Shy is exactly the same. It is clearly posted in our profile. Since we are soft/oral swap only it is 100% mood killer and deal breaker. First one was a surprise with a chance encounter at a club. She checked it out and reluctantly played with it a little. Luckily he was a giver and didn’t object to the minimal reciprocation but after that she said never again. I believe its one of the reasons she prefers Caucasian American guys in our age range to minimize the risk of any future surprises.
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1 pointThis is why it's a good thing for single guys to post a few dick pics on their online profile. You don't want to wait til the moment he drops his drawers to find out if he has the kind of cock your Mrs. likes.
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1 pointEveryone has their particular things when it comes to attraction... no judgement here. The key to successful swinging is open, honest communication... and not just within the couple. Therefore, I would say it is absolutely necessary for you to be upfront and honest about this with any potential play partners. Better to let someone know at the start that they aren't an option than find out when the pants come off.
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1 pointWatching my husband suck a dick is an instant puddle in my panties! Sploosh!
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1 pointShe DEFINATELY loves watching me with cock!!! Especially, when she is with her steady, me with another male,!!!
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1 pointFirst time was in a 4some with my wife at a swing club. We had settled into a room and were playing with ourselves. Then an attractive older woman knocked on the door and asked to join. Soon as we said yes she dived right between my wife's legs and started eating her out. Which was an indescribably hot first for us as well. After she made my wife cum she started going down on me and went straight to fingering my ass while she blew me. I murmured to her that I bet she's great with a strap-on which lit her up with a devious grin. Then her husband joined as well, which to be honest we never realized we were agreeing to a package deal. He was a tall built prison guard. Things progressed to an outright full swap with us fucking each other's wives. In between rounds there was a little chit chat where he mentioned they were open-minded. When the action heated back up again I was having an internal debate about whether I should go for it and make a move on the husband. His wife was blowing him and I just went for it. Started licking and sucking his cock with her. It felt so strange having that warm hard yet soft cock between my lips. A mixture of what I expected and not. But I was really enjoying it. I mentioned to her that it was my first time and she smiled and fed my his cock. He said it was his first time as well. My wife watched and made out with him as I blew him. His wife got behind me and stuck some fingers up my ass then held her hand against herself and mimed fucking me, clearly enjoying this like it had been a long fantasy of hers. He then said he wanted to fuck my wife again so I slipped a condom on him and guided his cock into my wife as she lowered herself onto him. Then put a condom on myself and fucked his wife. We both came and collapsed in a heap of bodies. Not long after another girl asked to join! We started playing with her but not long after her girlfriend came in and scolded her for leaving her to the creepy single guys out there, which ended that session as quickly as it started. But hey, technically a 5some? We exchanged numbers with the couple at the end of the night but never met up with them again. My wife is only really interested in one night stands in the swinging world. After I felt, I don't know, some sort of pride in myself for finally trying it. Also wondered why I waited so long(mid 20s). Now 15 or so years later have only sucked three other cocks, and been fucked by a nice thick BBC. We don't swing often. Once every few years sorta deal. We have fun with strap-ons and realistic dildos on odd occasion. But I'm finding at around the 5 year mark I just have a need for another cock. I become a bit obsessed with it and just need to vent that energy. Which is right about now... Wife also wants to try a gang bang, so I'm sure we can work that out as a two birds one stone situation. Looking forward to that next experience. We're going to be visiting family in Ohio in July but staying in an airbnb for the week. May well happen there.
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1 pointMy first time was I with a friends wife doggie style and he was licking her at the same time. As I came and pulled out, he took me in his mouth and cleaned me off. I liked tht and have done it many times on both sides many times. the wife loves it that way.
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1 pointWe were with our neighbor. There was a ton of sexual tension between my wife and him. We ended up drinking and flirting. He and I began rubbing her tits nd making out. She undressed for us and and started sucking our cocks. She sucked his cock while I fucked her from behind - his dick was perfect and a lot bigger than mine. I could tell she was totally into him so I invited him to switch with me. I got on my back nd had her straddle my face - i figured it would drive her wild to have be eating her while he pounded her with his big cock. She came very fast and I shot a load in her mouth. when she was ready he put his cock in her again. While he was fucking i just instinctively rubbed his shaft with my tongue. As he pulled out of her i took the head of his cock in my mouth. He went back and forth between my mouth and her pussy until he finally went balls deep in her and ejaculated. I sucked his balls and could feel his thick cock pulsing as he put his load in her. It was a first for all of us. My wife was so turned on by the whole experience. We laid around afterwards and she continued to kiss us and play with our cocks. I held his cock as she sucked him off - he came again. My wife masturbated watching him sucking my cock. We sat back nd jerked off together until we both shot another load. She continues to totally get off seeing me with another guy.
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1 pointIf you are bisexual, it doubles your chance of getting a date. Sounds like a hot scene.
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1 pointThe first time was playing with another couple, the women are bi and wanted us men to suck one another after a swap. Did it to make them happy, and it was good. Later with another couple, the husband had already cum in my wife's ass, while I was in his wife's pussy, but hadn't cum. My wife joked that I should now stick it in his ass, his wife agreed. So I withdrew from her cunt and finished in him. It was hot enough that I got hard again not much later and bum fucked his wife too.
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1 pointMy wife loves to watch me go down on another guy. She says it is the biggest turn on she has ever experienced. That is as far as I have gone to this point. She keeps hinting about me trying anal, not up to it yet.
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1 pointI’m a very dominant woman who enjoys MMF bedroom fun. My husband is a bottom so I find a safe top to play with both of us. I found a sexually safe partner cute and hung with real stamina. He allows me to dominate him including discipline and using his cock for my pleasure. My slave/husband likes him and willingly sucks his cock and take it in the ass. Our buddy loves sucking off my husband rendering him useless temporarily freeing him up to fuck us both. My husband is straight but will do anything sexual as long as I feel it is safe. I love helping him bend over and feeding a hard cock into his ass. I never let the guys out of the bedroom without a load of come in their bellies. Our friend can fuck pussy and ass giving us both orgasms and will voluntarily allow me to fuck him with my strap-on. Having a safe partner is prime.
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1 pointMy wife loves not just to watch but join in. It started after she wanted to watch gay porn, which may her so wet. Fantasy became reality after we did a MFM were he was orally bi, after he has sucked me with her I shared his with her. She had one of the biggest cums so far. We are looking for a bi couple to join us.
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1 pointMy wife loves watching me with a guy. She masturbates and usually cums before we do!
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1 pointThat is how we started swinging us when I told her I'd sucked a cock of a buddy in high school. She asked if I still wanted to and I said of course but that I'm married. She gave me the win win for everyone scenario and we've never looked back. We share every cock and she always makes sure I kick her juices off his cock after she fucks him. I love watching her get fucked and she loves Watching me suck cock.
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1 pointUpdate... Wildfire had a great night last Sat. with some swing friends at our local club. She had some nice Bi-play with the other female. She even enjoyed her first woman to woman orgasm ever while us men lavished her upper body!!!... It was a perfect night all around for everyone. Hopefully more to cum soon... She considers herself to be fully bi-compatible... it certainly adds another dimension to our nights out. What a nice surprise for me too! Mr. Wildfire
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1 pointI do wonder about the number of profiles that say the woman is bi or bi-curious. It seems out of all proportion to any other studies about female bisexuality. I guess there are a couple of options. 1. Women in swinging are bowing to pressure to present themselves and act as bi (everyone else says she's bi, so if we want to meet anyone, I'd better say that as well). 2. Women are naturally more fluid in their sexuality than labels suggest and will be aroused by a situation rather than have a set range of interests (as many of the posts here have suggested). 3. Women who get into and enjoy swinging are a self-selected population that overlaps with the bisexual population. I honestly think it's a mix of all of these. I do know that almost every couple we've been with has advertised the woman as bi or bi curious and none has tried to do more than kiss me (and most have ignored me completely). Now maybe I'm just not attractive to them, but their men seem interested!
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1 pointWomen are so beautiful. I've always enjoyed looking at all different types of women. That said, with all my gawking I have never been tempted to so much as kiss another female (not even in my drunken college days) because I love men so much, and didn't get sexually aroused by the ladies. Going to the on-premise club we like didn't make me yearn for a woman's touch either (I just felt like all the girl-girl stuff was "fake" or not fake, but more for the sake of turning the men on, if that makes sense... which only served to remind me why I don't enjoy fmf or lesbian porn). I was set & settled in this knowledge too, until I actually saw a whole group of only women going at it like 6 months ago. Whoa. My mind has not been the same since. But I've still never so much as kissed a woman, lol! I guess it's a good thing my hubby doesn't have the FMF fantasy lol. Even if I do get to finally experience bi-play, I don't know that I would ever be considered fully bi. And rather than FMF I'd rather do FFM where the hubby and I completely devour & ravish the other girl. But then hey, what do I know? I've never actually tried it... yet....
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1 pointPersonally I think it's more than that, although you are correct too. Women's bodies are softer, skin is softer, tits and nipples are typically bigger, boy I'm gettin myself worked up thinking about this! T
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1 pointOnly speaking for my own experiences... I've always taken notice of hot sexy women and been curious what it would be like to be with a woman. When R and I first started relating our fantasies to each other, we both had the FMF and FMFM fantasies. Neither of us had experienced any sort of swinging, other than in our minds lol. Neither of us had been with partners who would have been open minded enough to explore those fantasies either, until now. When we went to an on premises club and were in the sexually freeing and charged environment things just kind of happened naturally. Dancing on the dance floor led to kissing and fondling on the dance floor which led to going to the bedroom area and more exploring. It was awesome. R could barely contain himself, he was excited to be watching me with the other women. Our profiles state that I am bi-curious, but I think that's mostly because I'm not very bi experienced. The few times we've full swapped have been with couples where the women were bi-curious and were sensual and fun times. Lucky me huh?! I'm sure I'll be changing my profile soon enough lol. T
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1 pointIf that was me, and my husband had set me up like that to be taped, I'd be outraged. Perhaps you knew ahead of time that she would be cool with it, but that should be a decision that a person gets to make FOR THEMSELVES. I got the impression that they were in a strip club and the dancer took his wife into a VIP room to do this. Perhaps there are signs posted in the lobby or other areas warning that there may be security cameras in place. Because face it...if the girls take a patron back into a room alone, she no longer has the 'protection' of a bouncer. How else would they know the dancer is A.) in trouble or B.) doing something she's not supposed to be doing (like having sex with a customer...although apparently that's ok in that particular club if it's another female)?