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My swing buddy loves fuck-licking! We have never had a problem finding a guy who was OK with it. Usually I get under her 69 and position myself so I can lick her pussy and clit. Our guests gets behind her on his knees and fucks her doggie if there is enough room on the bed. If not, she and I slide down so my head is hanging almost off the bed and he stands while fucking her doggie. I am bi so it is fine if his balls go back and forth over my nose, his cocks comes out and drags across my face, or his cum drips down into my mouth when he cums. Most women and about 1/4 of the guys are also OK with being the 69 person underneath her. It is always a super hot session!

Hi all. I'm a newbie from Northern Michigan here. What's prompted me to get on various swinger boards is the one most common fantasy my wife shares with me is wanting to be fucklicked. We often discuss fantasies of a threesome or foursome while in bed. Doing so seems to really get her hot. Me too! I'm totally OK with doing a MFM with her, or whatever other combo she's willing to try. I've told her that as well, usually as she sharing her fantasy me responding "I'm ok with that". But that's where it ends. She's pretty conservative in public. A club setting absolutely out. Kind of shy. Mid fifties. Great shape and good looking. We've been married over 30 years. She's a "thinker", so I'm concerned if it's something pre-arranged, such she's expecting it, she will over think it, and back out. That leads me to consider doing some prescreening, arrange a meeting with a candidate, likely a few meetings and let some chemistry start and see where it goes from there. Perhaps find someone with common interests (camping and motorcycling are our areas of interest BTW). Let a friendship develop first. But that seems disingenuous. How do I best move this to the next stage and actually do something? Thanks in advance for your input!

I heard, never went, about that club. Don’t think it’s there anymore. Have fun with your friends old and new. Be safe around a pool, who knows you may meet great new people. Think about it, they are just like you, looking for a fun day.

My wife loves this, too.

Still interested? We can help!

We did 69 sideways which is more comfy and the other partner licked me and at the same time had a close-up view of the other guy screwing me ?

I don’t think you can do it wrong!

My favorite fuck lick story happened in the public room at one of our favorite clubs. We had a group and about 4 or five couples watching us go. I was on top facing him with my back to the group. I was so fucking turned on I decided turn around and ride him reverse so they could see me fully with my pussy open wide and wrapped around my husbands penis. I also loved that they could see him as well and I kept pulling his cock out of me would jerk him off. One of the women came in and joined us and started to suck my husbands cock while I held his shaft. After a moment, she guided his penis back inside me and then planted her face on my pussy. i held her head in place and had one of the most powerful orgasms of my life while our friends watched. There is nothing like oral with penetration.

I have one fuck-lick experience with a guy. After having his Viagra, he had his erection on for over two hours. We changed and tried every position. He pumped, slow, fast and furious but would not shoot his cum. I had already orgasm ed three times over. It was his idea that we do a 69 with me on top. Then he requested that my husband fuck me from behind while he was licking me. I loved the warmth of his tongue on my clit and the bareback fuck from my husband. When my husband signaled that he was about to shoot his cum, I asked my guy to stop licking me. But, he started to lick me more vigorously and after my husband had cum inside me, he licked up all the juice. I was surprised, but very pleased.

Thanks for the good questions, Lee. I'll try to answer them. I've not questioned my sexuality. I just didn't worry about "his juice." I do remember a time when Laura and I had same-bed swapped with Ron and Linda. Both mixed couples had finished. I was lying on my back, gasping, when Laura, who hadn't climaxed, said, "I need your magic tongue, Darling!" and climbed aboard my face. As she spread her labia and nestled them around my nose, the dam broke. I pushed it aside with my tongue, letting it cascade down my cheeks and set about achieving my goal. Ron took one of her nipples in his mouth and Linda the other. Laura held their heads in her hands and shouted "YEEEEESSSSSSSSSS!" When it was over, I had a sticky beard but was otherwise unchanged. I don't recall ever trying it with Laura and Mr. Playmate in a 69 position. (Not sure how that would work.) We probably liked the couch position enough that we never thought of it. Yes, when we did the fuck/lick thing the first time, I did reinsert Mr. Playmate's penis when the thrusting got enthusiastic and his cock popped out, but I learned that I could keep that from happening with my chin and continue making Laura groan with my tongue. Laura and I tried anal once, early in our relationship, just the two of us, but never again. We decided we didn't care much for it. I couldn't kiss her which lessened the experience. Laura remarked, "Why would a guy want to stick his cock in my dry asshole when there's a hot and wet pussy right next to it?" I never could answer that question.

My favorite position is to ride a guy reverse and have his wife or my husband servicing my pussy. It also works well if I am on all fours and taking it from behind while i’m getting oral from the bottom.

Great thread. It sounds like you have more building up to the actual sexual act. But once you get there the most comfortable way I found is my wife would lay on her side while other guy was behind her penetrating from behind. Her top leg spread I was able to lick every part with somewhat minimal male male contact if you’re concerned about that. I’m not and found it super hot watching another mans penis inside my wife that close. I’m sure if you’re a member of sls you can find someone that would be “down”. Wishing you the best.

I loved the article. I have been curious about 3 ways (never tried it). Have your tried or can you recommend the 69 position with rear entry for fucklicking? Is it as good as the technique you described? Also have you had any encounter with "his juice" while licking? Is it a turn on? After thinking about it I think it might. If the "fuckee's" penis pops out have you "manually reinserted" it or do you let her? I think it might be fun to tease her a bit with the tip before pushing it back insider her. The position you enjoy sounds like it would work well for anal too given the added exposure of her lips. Have you tried that too? Thanks again for sharing.

We have found the swing sites (SLS, SDC, AFF) were the best way to find compatible people for swinging. The recommendation to not have any recognizable photos in your profile is good. Share plain vanilla face photos with prospective people via messages. Ask them if they are into fucklicking. Some guys and gals are not into it. Meet them in a restaurant for lunch or dinner. Have a prearranged single with your partner to indicate acceptable or not. If acceptable, get together with them at a nearby hotel room. When everyone is in the room, everyone gets nude. Nature will take over from there.

It sounds like I need to find that right time to have that more specific "let's do this " conversation first. I'm sure finding a single male won't be all that hard to find, it's just finding the right one (that is hard).

I'm not sure how to tell you how to work your way into the act of your wife being "fuck-licked" since that probably varies greatly from wife to wife. If my late wife is an example, I can assure you that you won't have to talk her into it the second time. So, if this is her fantasy, talk to her a lot. Explore ideas. Keep your eyes open for partners. We preferred couples but beware! You will have two women who won't have to be talked into it the second time. After we found that magic couple, Laura and I (and the other couple) found the following description worked best. A couch works better than a bed. Start with the women sitting on the couch with the men kneeling between their legs. Don't get in a hurry. Laura liked to have me start at the bottom of her slit, using my tongue to gently spread the labia sideways, slowing working myself up until the labia was spread widely along the length and above her clit, which would be standing erect and anxious. After the ladies have had enough of this (may take awhile) both of the men should sit on the couch and lean comfortably back while the ladies climb aboard. Laura liked to start out face to face with her chosen fucker. (She liked kissing.) Eventually, the fuckee-lickee would turn around into reverse cowgirl position and reinsert the fucker's penis. Both would spread their legs and the licker would kneel between them. I've never questioned my sexuality so I wasn't put off by working around my friend's penis to (once again) spread the labia away with my tongue until her clit was once again standing firm at the top, easily licked. One challenge to look out for at this stage is that the fucker's cock tends to slip out when the action becomes enthusiastic. This can be avoided by the licker pursing his lips and tongue around the clit while using his chin to hold the fucker's cock in place. The lady who is not "It" can amuse herself by alternately kissing the fucker and the lady who is "It." After a sufficient number of orgasms, which varies with individuals, the other lady can become "It" and the fucker and licker can exchange assignments. One very pleasant variation is for one of the ladies to be the licker. Laura was fond of this as well because, at the proper time, she could help herself to a treat of man-cream. Keep experimenting and report back to this forum.

Don't get it complicated. Marriage, sex, friendship are all discreet singular items, we make it complex by putting them together. If she wants a fuck-lick , that is what she wants. I can only give our experience. We are also 3 hours away from any club and never been to one. That is why we are not member sin any club. No one in our vicinity knows what we are up to and will never know. We found Hedonism and fulfill all our fantasies there. No need to build towards anything make elaborate plans with ulterior motives , just be open to receive and give and you will be flooded with offers that you may have to decline.

You're going to have to find a way to meet like minded people. That means putting yourself "out there" to a certain extent. With the demise of Craigslist personals I think you're pretty much limited to the swinger's websites. This is going to require building a profile, putting up some photos, even if they don't show your face, but most likely at some point sharing some face photos. A club 2.5 hours away is going to be way more discreet in actuality for most people. Make it a long sexy weekend. Shy is a different issue but you will find people in clubs to be pretty engaging as long as you can make yourselves approachable even if you aren't the type to approach others. If she's hot they will come! If you have the personality to break the ice just let her follow your lead and watch how she opens up. Once she realizes she's in control(the women make the rules) she'll likely become more receptive to advances. That's what happened with my wife. She laughs about being a hermit. She really isn't that bad but she's not a social extrovert...Now that she's comfortable with the club setting she's engaging and seductive in that environment. She seems to see it as a challenge and she's pretty damn good at it.

If you're doing the friendship thing with ulterior motives it is disingenuous at least to her. I'm guessing the other guy would know what you are up to but guys that you find who would be ok with the plan are probably not going to be as patient as you would like or need him to be. My observation is that genuinely good guys get snatched up pretty quickly and aren't single for long. So you court this guy for a few weeks or months, get to know him, become friends and next thing you know he is in some new relationship that he would prefer to pay attention to rather than yours. Why? because he's getting laid with her and not your wife. Now he's out of the picture. Oh, you can find douche bags that will say or do anything to get laid but is that the kind of guy you want to spend a lot of time working on building a "friendship" with? The reality is you're going to have to find a way to talk to her about it. Many couples fantasize about this lifestyle, few actually do it. There's a hurdle you sometimes have to get over. It's that voice inside your head that tells you something isn't right. There's a name for it but I can't for the life of me remember what it is. It's the same voice that tells you that you shouldn't jump out of an airplane, rappel off of a cliff or stick yourself with a hypodermic needle. Lot's of people imagine themselves skydiving but can't take the step in actuality. You have to first find out if this is something she wants to do for real or just keep as a fantasy. If it's real, now you've opened the box and can talk about how she sees that happening and move forward from there. Just be sure not to pressure her. Move at her pace whatever that happens to be. I'm curious as to why clubs are totally off the table. That would be a place where things could happen organically and without too much time to overthink things.

now see that would have got the ball rolling... maybe a mistake not to include details. although leaving it up to interpretation does work well too. what do you think

Thank you for your support. Hope to see you around. Always open to chat. Feel free to drop me a message and I can give you our yahoo ID or something.

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