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The funny thing is that the spanker we spent a good deal of time with that night talking at the bar in a swing club. He was actually very shy, his wife was the more outgoing. That was one of the reasons it took me totally by surprise. I'm usually a good judge of character. The choker we met while in the playroom of same swing club, different night. He was also a bit quiet, his wife was the one pursuing us. My husband seemed to be completely unaware both times but I informed him that he needs to be more tuned in in the future. Lucky for them both, I was not drunk because i"m not as easy going when I am. I appreciate the responses, I did feel very disrespected and wanted to hear how I should have handled it. Next time I'll deck the guy! (Just kidding)

At the core these issues are all about respect and communication. No respectful person would borrow a neighbors Porsche for the afternoon and proceed to take it to the 1/4 mile track, then 4 wheeling in the dunes and finally pull a Duke's of Hazzard jump over a bridge before returning it. We all understand that our wives and husbands are not property, but the same holds true. I agree with a previous post. When I share my wife and vis-a-versa, and when I'm provided the opportunity to play with another mans wife...it goes without saying that respect and gratitude are paramount. Yes, if a person asked to be spanked, that's okay, but only because their was communication. The guys who perpetrated these aggressive and dis-respectful acts don't get it. They don't understand the lifestyle. They were there to get laid and acted just as they have at their college keggers. They probably couldn't believe their luck, that there are places that they can carry out their Rape fantasies without the possibility of a jail sentence.

I think the OP is a fake post, written for the poster’s “pleasure”. Too effing weird.

We have gone to a few private pool parties and each one has been different from nude parties to full on sex.

Just as a side not, hair pulling is not ok either. I have had some men grab me by the back of my hair and pull. I for some reason had no trouble telling them to stop. I love all the caring responses from you guys, reminds me why I love the lifestyle! What's the verdict on hair pulling? Again, seems like a porn thing...

Hilarious...and true. This is a great question, very creative, thanks for posting! Some we've been to didn't really have any special smell one way or another, but the ones that did, I really don't even know how to describe it. Maybe college bar + sex? Sex is hanging in the air at a college bar of course, but at a swing club, it's not just hanging from hoping it will happen, it is happening, so easier to pick up on. So, beer + liquor + smoke + perfume + cologne + sweat + sex + cleaner + that heavily air conditioned smell. No particular order there, and mixed together with none so strong they are off-putting, it smells like fun

My GF loves both spanking and choking. I am fine doing some spanking on her but choking is just not my thing. If you don't lay down the rules beforehand then some guys will try to push things and that is usually ok (in my opinion) as they are trying to learn and figure out what you like. What is not ok is when a guy tries to push the limits and the woman tells him no or signals no. That is not ok and that is a person who you should stop and not engage with again. And yes I think a lot of the younger guys see this in porn and that's where they learn it. Porn is definitely more rough sex with humiliation and domination nowadays. My friends are young and I see the kind of porn they watch and how they prefer to fuck and there is a correlation. Fortunately my GF enjoys the rough stuff so it ends up working out for everyone but I was never into the rough porn and am not a rough lover.

I'm a woman and that's what I like too, starting with him totally flaccid and letting it grow until it no longer fits.

Were they hurting your wife/partner, J & Wu? We try to stay in the same room for that reason, unless we are pretty familar with the other players.

Report back! This could be epic.

Even in retrospect, I don't think my Lesbian desires were repressed, they just weren't discovered. What opened me up to having sex with women was having a man, my husband, involved and the jealousy that it created in me. Once I was comfortable with and my husband started playing with other women I had the desire to watch, which most were ok with; then participate, which some accepted; then interacting directly with her, which a few eagerly did. The single act that made me go all the way was my desire to lick hubby's semen out of her pussy. It was reclaiming of him in a way and satisfy to me that I could make her orgasm as he did. The two women that became part of our poly family have strong Lesbian sides, something that I don't believe is a coincidence.

Follow Zachary Zane on twitter, he's a hoot. Wife and I are out bisexuals. But it was relatively hidden until Bostock vs Clayton County. Since then you'll find us at Pride, at LGBT bars for burlesque/comedy/etc, and joined the LGBT org at work. In a swinging context I will say we've never encountered a straight woman. And not one man has turned down the offer for a dual blowjob...

Yes we've got a substantial collection of various strap-on harnesses and dildos to put in them. Offerings there have gotten so much better over the years. Tried a couple of the "strapless" strap-ons, they're a fun aesthetic but they just don't work as well when it gets down to business.

My wife loves to fuck another woman with a strap on. Even better, is when she’s fucking the other lady and I’m fucking her from behind and she has the other guys cock in her mouth.

I thought it was funny to watch Honey get into this contraption to fuck her friend. We have a man who enjoyed watching us have sex and he was the one who brought up the idea and bought us the pretty big purple strap on cock. We had played with this girl before and we all had laughs getting this done. With our friend on her fours I got her pretty juiced up with my mouth before Honey penetrated her. At the time I was very new to this with that man watching too I didn’t want him near me. Honey got into a good rhythm and was fucking like a guy.

We just did this for the first time last night. watching GF strapping it on for the other girl was HOT and then they switched positions which was HOT. I highly recommend this!

Hi All, I just had to come back to this thread Most of the time, with women, there really isn't a need or big desire to use the strap-on. Maybe because most (not all) of my female experiences have been with women who identify strongly as "gay"...and somehow saw the strap-on as symbolically too close to where they don't want to "go", if that makes any sense. However, it sometimes is explored the further into an emotional relationship, and I feel that has everything to do with trust, and feeling like exploration might be a good thing. I'm one that's not too into double standards, if I can help it....But for whatever reason, I am more than willing to oblige with using one on someone wanting that. However when I'm with a woman, and I have tried it, but don't really enjoy being on the "receiving end". I feel like I'm after something totally different with women, and the imagination and creativity I can find with a gal (or guy) is wonderful. Maybe it's an association thing. I do love men, though, and the real thing is great great great for me...I truly enjoy both sexes, and maybe don't like the feeling of artificial..lol...though playing with something not strapped on is not out of the picture, but even there, maybe I'm not as crazy about toys being used on me as I could be. I was with a man, I loved very much, who was such a man's man. So I was shocked when he asked me to use a strap-on with him. I have to say, I was nervous as hell about that, b/c I didn't want to feel "power" over him, or hurt him unintentionally, but the more we explored, and the more I really saw how much he wanted the experience, the more I relaxed. I recall feeling scared that if he didn't like it, he'd somehow connect it to me wanting to dominate, or somehow influence him in a negative way, so I had to be "convinced". When it comes down to it, I think it's always very hot, when I'm doing a thing that is a part of a partners fantasy/pleasure. I can easily orgasm when and simply because my partner does, sometimes taking me by surprise. So, if it's a strap-on one wants, I have no trouble in using one... Best, karmic

Not just yes, but HELL YES. Or another guy for that matter. I've been on the receiving end of that, but I'd love to see my wife giving it to someone else.

Not only WOULD I like watching it--I DID like watching it when she did it on Tuesday (and then had it done to her). I think she's used it now with a total of four women, and she agrees with what some of the other posters on this thread have said: the turn-on isn't entirely about the physical sensation but rather about the power. But she also likes being the recipient of a strap-on, especially in doggystyle--which works out well, as that's not a position in which I'm very functional, so at least she gets to enjoy it this way. Interestingly, the woman of the couple whom we've been playing with longest (ten years or more) brought a double-dildo into play in one of our early encounters with them, and it's reappeared regularly over the years. My wife never minded playing with it, but it wasn't a big deal for her. And I don't think it's a big deal any longer for the other woman, either: ever since my wife introduced her to the strap-on, it's won her heart (along with other relevant parts). In fact, I sometimes think this woman would willingly forsake her husband, me, and any other males if only she and the strap-on were able to run away together and, perhaps, legalize their relationship.

Mrs. Ekies has spent time with a lady friend of ours with the classic double ended 15" dildo and the Feeldoe. For me...hot in ways I cannot describe...for her...hot in ways she cannot describe (her words). With the Feeldoe she was on her back and our lady friend was on top in the classic missionary position. Mrs. Ekies had her knees pulled back and was telling our friend to fuck her hard and make her cum. In the end they tossed the Feeldoe aside and 69'd to the finish. HOT, HOT, HOT! Whew, I need a cold shower...

Would I like it - YES Has she done this - YES Was it hot - HELL YES!!! Always was one of her fantasies and she went out and bought a special harness where she can take care of her female partner while I can take her from behind. She also has one of those double vibrating dildos that has a dual clit stimulator. Talk about getting hot. Mr D.