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The first offense would go something like this: "Is that supposed to be sexy?" The second offense would elicit the safe word, "I think we're done here."

I 100% agree, and said nothing to the contrary. Consent is key to everything here, not just the spanking and choking. My point is that there is a strong "all rough sex is shameful and bad" vibe developing here, and that's just plain untrue. It is judgmental in exactly the same way that people here wouldn't tolerate if it were aimed at them.

Why is it such a turn on to read a message from my wife to another guy on a adult website with her telling him she thinks he’s sexy? I have had a fantasy of sharing her but never have and not sure if I could. But damn, reading that turned me on, we both go on the site so she knows I saw what she wrote yet it didn’t bother me one bit and that’s probably the first time She has said someone else is sexy knowing I would know she said it, if that makes any sense. Am I the only one who has felt that way?

She and I discuss this. She wants this also and is excited about it. I would NEVER plan anything like this without her knowledge. I thought forums was for everyone to comment. I apologize. We will not post on anyone else’s post unless it’s ours.

You and your wife have started your journey. Let her take the lead and be the guide on this adventure and enjoy the journey. Please keep us updated.

I don't think even she knew she liked being spanked before that

Consent and respect are a must... But there's a lot of judging here, that's surprising in this community. Lots of people enjoy very rough sex, and it has nothing to do with disrespect or violating trust. In fact, in many cases, it is an extreme expression of trust. I mean, the entire BDSM scene is an extreme expression of trust. You guys get that, right? I know it's not for everyone, and that communication and consent is key. But enjoying rough sex is NOT intrinsically disrespectful or dangerous.

Children can never have 'too much' love. Just sorry to hear that your father would rather cling on to his own beliefs than love and enjoy his grandchildren.

Topic drift... My wife really enjoys spanking and light impact play generally. She describes it as "thuddy" and like a deep, intense massage. One of my play partners enjoyed choking. She believed it was because when she was young and learning about sex, one of her partners inadvertently pinned cord around her neck shortly before orgasm, and she found the loss of air added to the intensity of experience. Of course, she also enjoyed all manner of rough play, some of which I was ok with and some of which was beyond my comfort zone. We actually had a very long online chat discussion about likes, dislikes, and soft and hard limits... "So, when you say you like being slapped, what does that mean?" ... hell of a discussion but very, very valuable. It's always the quiet ones. Actually, speaking as a quiet guy with an outgoing wife and a kinky side, there is probably some truth behind that joke. We can hide a lot behind that quiet face and, more, when we let go and open up sometimes it's too far and too fast. Not excusing what he did by any means, just saying... us quiet guys are sometimes hiding things, sometimes even from ourselves.

Yes it’s sexy and No you’re not the only one who feels that way. If you enjoyed that, just wait until another man texts you a photo of your naked wife! Guaranteed to blow your mind!

When Lora and I have one of our "fights", which turns into a dom/sub thing (one of us submits to the other, it's about equal), the dom peeing on the sub is part of it. None of the others in our poly family wants to participate or even watch. It ends with us two taking a shower then making love.

The Mrs and I have been talking about this. I first brought it up because I thought it would be erotic to feel the warm liquid from her body on me. At first I imagined us in the shower and her peeing on my leg. The more we talked about it the more she wanted to feel it to. But she wanted to feel it on her pussy. This past weekend we finally tried it. Drank plenty of water then as we took a break from making love I reclined back in the tub and she peed on my dick. I loved it. Which she sat on the toilet to pee I reached between her legs and felt her warm liquid and then rubbed her pussy till she came.

I'm having my first train this Saturday. Going to a hotel, I'll be blindfolded, people show up, put on a condom, fuck me and leave. Hoping for a good turnout, so far I have approximately 18 interested guys,who knows how many will actually show up though. Put the hot date on SLS, So I figure there will be more people contacting me between now and Saturday. Hoping its as fun as I'm imagining. Fingers crossed.

I persuaded my wife into not "cleaning" herself after another man came in her. She felt "messy". Yes it wasn't normal to feel that wet down there but she grew to be comfortable with it in a sexual situation. She can't get pregnant so everyone goes bareback. I usually get the party started if we are playing with someone new. When I get that feeling like I'm going to cum I'll pull out. I want him to feel her like I do. She is so wet and lubricated after someone has cum in her that I can barely feel her. It is sexy to know that she is that wet from another man cumming in her. It doesn't take me long to add to the party. I prefer how she feels before someone has cum in her. That's why I let the other guy cum first.

The most I've had is three guys in one evening on several occasions. (I've only had sex with four guys in my life.) That's before Lora got divorced and Walter stilled played with us; now it's just hubby and Red. I have done it serially and DP, but don't like anything in my mouth while I'm trying to orgasm - I can't breathe. Since Clair and Lora were there I didn't always get freshies from all the guys. That makes a difference, it takes a guy longer to cum the second or third time, but that can be a good thing. Not as much semen to enjoy though.

welcome to the funnest part of it all ... i love groups a lot and can't wait for my next one ... Mikela

We've had a few mini gangbangs... Mostly its just mfm and a few time they had 3 or 4 other gentlemen to join in. we find the more guys we have the more it turns into a train etc... of course no complaints, it's always fun having great sex.

2insandiego4u ‘s link is about right for a full on body 9-way. But most people simple run a train until the female is worn out. We have group of 8 couples so up to 8 guys in our gang bangs. I have been done vaginally by 1, anally by 1, giving 2 hand jobs while sucking another. 5 at a time are the easiest and most comfortable to handle at one time but quite the work out so you better be in good shape, hands and mouth especially. I highly recommend loads of preparation in stretching your vaginal and anal holes. Of course clean VERY Well!!! Beginning the 6-way 1 guy is lying on his back I sit vaginally on his penis facing him leaning forward. Another guy enters me anally from behind and a lot of swapping goes on back there as well as the hand jobs and orally. More vaginal swapping tends to take place later on in the evening IF you begin with a 5-way. Any guy underneath better not be homophobic because cum is going to get all over him whether he likes it or not. And occasionally other guys have to stuff him back in when they are switching out of me anally. You are also going to have multiple cocks directly over your face while I am sucking them and you are going to get dripped on and sprayed from the hand jobs. Not all the guys cum at the same time and typically the anal guy is first to orgasm. Often I am done 2-3 times anally before all the other guys cum. ALL guys who do me anally MUST clean VERY well before they can do anything else. When most of the 5 have orgasmed the ones who didn’t find a new position and the 3 new guys join in. My husband is in there somewhere but I do not always know where. 6-ways are fun but not always practical especially for the guy underneath. I prefer 3 ways with different pairs of guys, doing dual blowjobs for them, dual hand jobs, DP and then moving on to the next pair. That is my favorite. Trains are good in gang bangs as well – having all 8 guys fuck the heck out of you over and over and over and over and again. I like to take one guy orally and one guy vaginally first, then after all the guys have had both (that is 4 pairs times 2 for a total of 8 suckings and 8 fuckings) let them one my one do me anally while the others all watch. This takes about 10-20 minutes per pair on average with the anal taking the longer of the 20 minute since they have all cum 1-2 times already for a total of around 4 and a half hours or so. If you add in prep time while they watch (stretching) and play time, oral and fingering but no orgasms from them it is more like 7 hours plus. If I have to take breaks it can be 9 hours or more. I’ve gone several days doing all 8 guys with their wives helping of course (filling in the in between times for the guys) and tons of breaks and cleaning in between. I eat very light but enough to keep energy and health up. DRINK Lots of WATER!!! And Rehydration drinks - people !!! Need more details/logistics – let me know…

I've become comfortable being nude in front of my teenage son. He knows that I have sex with other men and he's heard me having sex with other men in the house. R

I see no problems with being nude with family. I have raised my kids on nudism

A high school friend used to gangbang and my younger sister did gangbangs but I never did in my teens. I was sexually active back then but I always made the boys take me on dates. It wasn't hard to set it up but one of the men is a new acquaintance. I still love mfm encounters.

We've enjoyed mfm for years and my hubby likes for me to suck him while I'm being fucked. He enjoys watching me being satisfied.

My hubby was in on it. We've done a lot of mfm and I've always wanted to do a gang bang with 6 or 7 guys. I loved every minute of it. They were all very horny and they came all over me.

I just fucked my girfriend wo is married. She was full of cum as her husband fucked her earlier this morning. This was not the first time this happened. I love the feeling of his cum on my cock as it goes in to her pussy and how my cock looks covered with his cum when I pull out. You got me thinking next time why not taste it?