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The insidiousness of this virus is that asymptomatic people can transmit it. So while one may think that not wearing a mask is their own personal choice or freedom, they are actually THE problem - passing on the virus without even knowing it. And if you catch Covid bc of the individual freedom crowd, or unwittingly pass it on to someone who is elderly or immunocompromised, that was not under your or their control. I realize everyone is a youtube expert these days, and I'm no different. But for me it boils down to one simple, indisputable fact: Viruses don't move. People move them.

You're also engaging in some confirmation bias though as you are looking at the end result of cultural conditioning that shoves any same sex attraction in a closet. Where it gets interesting is when you bypass that conditioning and test for subconscious signals of arousal when exposing people to porn in various combinations. Where studies have shown self described monosexuals on both sides of the scale do respond to both sexes. Downright stereotypical for same sex friends to do some exploring while growing up only to later focus exclusively on the more socially acceptable heterosexual relationships.

My father died of pancreatic cancer. My grandfather died of colon cancer. My best friend died - in shape and in his 40's - of a heart attack, while playing tennis. I could go on with other examples, but none of these were in their control or their individual choice. What's missing from your Covid stats is the number of deaths due to some jackwad who refused to wear a mask. Covid is preventable.

Nude beach… Yes, we have been. We were in Spain. We were enamored with the culture and looked forward to the beach. Yet, we forgot the beaches were nude. It was a great experience. It was so relaxed and simply normal. Children playing, families picnicking normal, no worries sun bathing. My wife did give me a nudge when I took a few too many glances at the nude women showering in public. Yet, when the 6’4” Spanish Adonis emerged from the water to drop his speedos right in front of her. I caught her a bit frozen in the moment. I whispered, “would you like to keep walking or stay and watch?” She scoffed and then laughed ourselves as we continued walking. We didn’t go nude ourselves. It’s no big deal for us to go nude in our pool as it’s secluded. It may be an adjustment but we are open to it.

The masks and vaccines are under people’s control. Their advancing age, pre-existing diseases are not necessarily.

A lot of homo/transphobia is actually rooted in misogyny. When someone starts with the assumption that men are superior to women in our society it is acceptable for women to emulate men, but not for men to emulate women. Whether that be by being the receptive partner in sex, cross dressing, displaying emotion, etc. And that's a notion that dates back to Roman times where men who did the screwing of other men were perfectly acceptable, but the receptive partners were not. It even presents in current gay culture particularly among the 'masc4masc' crowd.

My wife is, she awaits in bed whilst the man & I have some fun downstairs, I then take him up and we kiss & suck in front of her, guess what happens next?

Few things you may want to consider: Desire is not a dedicated lifestyle resort. It is resort that, under normal conditions, is simply an adult-oriented venue that allows, and often encourages, nudity, and promotes a sexually charged, provocative atmosphere. True, it is often frequented by people in the lifestyle, but they are by no means the exclusive population. However, that changes during "lifestyle takeovers". These are organized events when nearly everyone at the resort, or a large percentage of guests, are engaged in the lifestyle in some form. The formats and venues range from all-inclusive, land-based resorts like Desire to cruise ships. If you are looking to have access to a lot of people in the lifestyle while visiting Desire (or any other adult-oriented resorts frequented by lifestylers), you probably want to coordinate your visit to occur during a lifestyle takeover. Where to start your planning? There are travel companies that specialize in lifestyle travel and often organize various lifestyle travel events and takeovers. These can range from being relatively small affairs, involving only a few dozen people, to large events involving hundreds of travelers. Without wanting to promote one lifestyle travel company over the other, a quick Internet search will reward you with plenty of results. Ann and I have participated some smaller, upscale group activities with one particular lifestyle travel company in the past (pre-COVID-19) and we always enjoyed ourselves. The events were fairly well organized, and our fellow guests were welcoming and friendly. Lastly, if you've never experienced nudism before, you may want to visit a nude beach before you make the leap to Desire. Nude beaches are NOT sexually provocative venues, but they will definitely help you feel comfortable shedding your clothes in front of other people. And, as a bonus, you'll rid yourselves of those tell-tale tan lines 😉

Regardless of how I feel about the vaccine you make a great point here about nothing is being said about the importance of regular exercise, losing weight, eating healthy and so on! There is no better time then right now for those things to be pushed. I have not seen any shortage of line ups at fast food drive thru’s or delivery of take out food. People seem to use the excuse of not being able to go to gym to not exercise. Meanwhile the people around me just seem to keep getting bigger and less healthy. It is up to everyone to take some accountability for their own personal health. There is no magic shoot or needle that is going to protect people from themselves.

We went to Desire RM before we had any swinging experience. We really had no idea what swinging was about, but we were ready to try. If you just want to have an experience where you do not swing, but observe and learn, that is a good place for it. Note that the preferred dress code at the pool (5 years ago) was naked. Are you comfortable as a nudist? It’s not required, but it was common. We did have our first swinging experience there. If you search my recent posts, it was a funny story. Don’t want to bore everyone again. Also, at the bar at 3am, they serve personal pizzas and BLTs. I told my wife that may be better than sex.

Marriage is a journey. Journeys have different itineraries, structures, and yield different experiences. Imagine travelling to a distant land. You can sit on the bus, peer out the windows, and say that you had a successful journey. You can also choose to walk the land with no more than a backpack without a thought to where you will put your head down for sleep, come home with an entirely different experience, and say that you had a successful journey. Now do that with a companion. It is utterly unlikely that you will report the same levels of satisfaction. They might be close, they might be far apart, but they will not be identical. Marriage is *the* journey. It moves in one direction. So long as you are on it together, you will experience it together but you will never experience it quite the same. There will times when it is "shared wonderful". There will times when it is "shared awful". And there will be times when it seems great for one person, and a whole lot less great for the other. That's just how it works. There is no relationship -- much less marriage--where it's all "orgasms and roses". Compersion means that it's perfectly fine for your partner to have a great time while your experience is mediocre. Not all of the time, of course, but from time to time it's okay and expected for you to find joy in your companion's pleasure. And vice versa. That can be really hard because it makes the other one feel vulnerable. In fact, the most successful and happiest couples we know invest a lot of themselves in finding experiences that make their partners grin. They feel awkward calling off something that makes their partners happy. So the partner has to sense when compersion fails and someone is feeling vulnerable. No one was wrong in the scenario described. Part of the journey, part of the learning, part of growing together.

And saw this on Facebook … couldn’t resist! 😉 People take their kids on a metal tube that goes 500 miles per hour at 36,000 feet without doing their “own research" about who made the plane, who last serviced it, or even reading about the physics of air travel. They just trust that "Big Airline" knows what it’s doing.

We enjoy bringing in a single guy from time to time. It is absolute not a cuckold situation. An no way he he a bull, in control, or dominating/humiliating either of us. We could probably be labeled as hotwifing and may be a little closer to stag/vixen dynamic.

I’m a very dominant woman who enjoys MMF bedroom fun. My husband is a bottom so I find a safe top to play with both of us. I found a sexually safe partner cute and hung with real stamina. He allows me to dominate him including discipline and using his cock for my pleasure. My slave/husband likes him and willingly sucks his cock and take it in the ass. Our buddy loves sucking off my husband rendering him useless temporarily freeing him up to fuck us both. My husband is straight but will do anything sexual as long as I feel it is safe. I love helping him bend over and feeding a hard cock into his ass. I never let the guys out of the bedroom without a load of come in their bellies. Our friend can fuck pussy and ass giving us both orgasms and will voluntarily allow me to fuck him with my strap-on. Having a safe partner is prime.