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We have and would play with newbies if they say they are ready. We were treated very nicely by some experienced swingers when we were new. Others ran for the door. Their loss! We are happy to pay it forward due to the vets who gave us a shot.

Sure. Our first couple were very experienced and we were not. They initiated us in a thoughtful, sensitive, way - checking in every step along the way. While it was not without a bump or two, overall our first time was a fantastic experience in large part because of this couple. We've replayed that evening many, many times. We would absolutely pay it forward with the right couple.

So hey all long time no see. Works been busy as always and had some family things come up but we are back! So on a recent trip we decide to visit a swingers club. Now as you know we both in a line of work that scared me with this one… I could see the fbi rolling in and my picture plastered all over the paper etc etc. I digress… so we went in and did ID checks and all that jazz. So they have wristbands that corresponds to what all you are comfortable doing. Somewhere between my slight wine tipsy state and the loud music I ended up with a few bands on and off we went. So we came because my husbands birthday was coming up. He quickly found a very attractive blonde and they decided to go off into the sunset and have their fun. This very handsome 30’s guy chats me up a bit and we decide to head to one of the rooms. Big room with the typical strip club couches and a bed. Well needless to say we started having sex and it was pretty good actually. Now I didn’t know, but soon found out that green wristbands meant you were ok with multiple partners… at one time. So here comes one guy and another and another. Total of 4 guys. Now first things first props to prom stars because that is not an easy task. Talk about multitasking like no ones business. All in all it was definitely fun and we both had a great time. These clubs though not common are a blast. I definitely recommend them as long as they are clean and not gonna end up with you standing in a mugshot line lol.

Who's willing and not willing to take on the first timers? Yes/no? Why/why not?

We were first-timers to a couple once. Not that we're quite seasoned veterans here, but as long as the chemistry is right and they seem in the right place, emotionally? Sure.

This is very true. It only takes me walking away for 2 minutes to get drinks for guys to start swarming around my GF at these clubs. That shouldn't really surprise anyone though. The guys at these places have 1 thing in mind.

mediccouple sounds experienced and had fun, but just a tip for newbies. If you separate from your wife at a swingers’ club, the whole club is going to bang her.

just to clarify, Dead Horse not Red Horse.

I once met a couple who had driven two hours to go to a club far from home, so they wouldn't be recognized. The first people they saw when the arrived were a couple they knew from home and had definitely not expected to meet at a swingers club. The thing about meeting people you know while swinging is - guess what - they're swinging too. So they have just the same concerns about being "outed" as you do.