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As someone who is setting up for a new home theater before an endurance spin class, I feel attacked. (This is a joke.) With that said, you're not wrong. People are different and have different levels of responsiveness, different motivations. Some people are also exhibitionists and want to impress their partner putting on a show with a different person. In vanilla life and lifestyle experimentation, I've found that marathon sessions work much better with water, chat, and foreplay breaks. If someone is not noticing when a partner becomes less responsive to stimulation, they're not even paying attention to the session.

Thank you, I truly appreciate it. It's great being on the Swingersboard, but unfortunately things get so busy with work, the children, and all the household activities that there's little time left. And with what is left I'd much rather engage in sexual activities than write about it.

We were in London on vacation. Decided to simply go to an elite swing club recommend by the Concierge who didn't flinch at all to our question and got us on their 'guest list'. It was a five star hotel , after all. We decided it would be a 'no foul, no crime' evening that neither of us would be upset at what the other did...no matter what. We met a splendid couple. My husband had her, he truly had me. We had sex with another couple that evening and then with them again. Never looked back.

Both Clair and Lora are more physically attractive than I am. It makes me feel extremely jealous, but it's odd in that the other women in our family are the loves of my life and my sex partners too. It sort of gives love making/sex with the men a competitive aspect. It doesn't make me feel inferior, however, since I am their intellectual and professional equals. And when hubby or Red or our boyfriend on the side Frank wants to bang out a quick one, I seem to be preferred. I really like that.

Well, just so you know, the problems isn't you, it's likely them. Welcome to a manic couple where sex 'charges' them up. The sexual endorphins, physiological rush, orgasm and everything else simply has them wanting much more of a 'good thing' than you. It also drives them to a high level of fitness, massive fashion sense, extreme cosmetics and body care, and often a lot of buying of objects. The opposite is the man who only thinks about sex, then , after sex, has nothing to think about and falls asleep. Be seeing you. K/0

I agree. And you better start soon if you decide to get the vaccine. The CDC is soon to recommend a 4th dose for immunocompromised people. Immunocompromised people may need a fourth Covid-19 shot, CDC says - CNN With the goal posts still moving, imagine what "fully vaccinated" will mean a year from now. I think Vegas has the over/under at 5.5. That's a no-brainer...I'll take the over. Maybe Pfizer will create a wearable pump to give constant doses of the vaccine. You know, like an insulin pump. This way everyone will be "fully vaccinated" regardless of the every increasing booster shots in order to live in our "free society", and avoid the deadly 99+% survivable virus.

Thanks for keeping us updated! Success stories are always a joy to read.

You are correct, we won’t argue with you.

So have you ever walked in on a moment you weren't expected to see? We have walked on each other many times specially if we split during parties, Did you react the way you expected too? Yes, well, it is always hot to watch, to watch each other having sex, it is a huge turn on for us and one of the main reasons to be in the lifestyle.

My husband loves seeing me giving and receiving pleasure, we also enjoy lots of dirty talking, I love to perform for him and put on a good show for everybody involved. I guess he enjoys seeing me having sex because he is a man with no insecurities that really likes my body and loves me very deeply and wants me to have all the fun I can get in this world. He always tells me I am his favourite porn star 😈

After 8 years in the lifestyle, we do not have any reserved acts left exclusively between us, we have been very lucky to meet amazing people, some of them become very close friends and we have made incredible memories a long the way.

I love cum, taking men to orgasm is a big turn on for me, and cum is my perfect reward. Some women prefer to stay away from it, but I just simply enjoy the entire male orgasm process as a hole, the seconds before when the penis gets very stiff, the anticipation of getting covered with it, feeling the the penis spasms in my mouth or pussy, the shots of warm cum in company with the man moans, and also hearing and seeing everybody's reaction as a team in celebration.

I think our bitchy mood posts would also affect the taste of our bodily fluids, just like how it affects our stomach acidity 🙂

We only used a condom once when teenagers, it broke. She totally loves it when a man cums inside of her, that's when she orgasms most. After all, isn't that where nature intended for it to go? As far as her her vaginal juices, the plain fact is, that it is non existent, I never went down on her after another man came in her, but I most certainly would if it were her own. After she got some experience, she began to like giving BJ's, but only under condition that the man had to pull out. Maybe we both liked semen in her vagina, because of her dryness. But that problem was solved after the first guy shot his load into her. The first time we had a MMF, the guy blew the biggest load of spunk into her than either of us thought possiblel LOVE CUM IN HER PUSSY!

Like you, in the late seventies, after 10 years of marriage we discussed having sex with others, years before we actually did it. During sex I would say to her just before cumming in her, "Imagine it's Bill or some other male we knew, cumming in you." More times than not it would give her a more intense and pleasurable orgasm. Which leads me to the next reason why we eventually let other men cum inside her. In high school we both had sex for the first time together, I popped her cherry, and you could say she popped mine. I was selfish, and only cared about using her so that I could get off. Then the third time we had sex, she started moaning loudly, i asked her if she was all right, I thought I had hurt her. she replied, "No, you just made me cum." I really wasn't expecting her to enjoy it. It changed my outlook toward having sex with her. I suddenly realized that I liked seeing her enjoy sex more than satisfying myself. After that I worked hard to get her to enjoy. I would eat her pussy, manipulate her nipples, anything to get her to orgasm. Then one night I bought some condoms with the thought of not having to pull out of her, as she didn't produce much lubrication by herself, I put oil on the condom. We were enjoying the sex, I noticed it seemed much more sensitive, and the feeling sent me to orgasm. When I started cumming, she had the most intense orgasm that I had ever seen her have. When I withdrew, she said, "I feel a very wet and warm, in my vagina. We both looked down and saw my semen run out of her, and the condom tattered, I realized that the feeling of being inseminated had given her the most intense orgasm to date. In 1982, after a few years of looking, one night before going out she asked me, "Do you still want to share me with another man?" I replied "Of course". When we got to the night club she said, "Give me 20 minutes before you go in, I'll be more likely to get hit on if I am alone." I entered, and there she was sitting at the bar with a young college boy. His name was Steve. When she introduced me to him, he said "you didn't tell me that you are married". She said "Does that really matter?" I knew then, that tonight, it was finally going to happen. She teased him relentlessly. She had on a, red dress with no bra, it had a plunging V between her breasts, and the sides were wide open from her arm pits to her waist. He could see the entire side of her tit and her nipple was plainly visible. They got up and danced to a fast rock song, her dress slipped from off one shoulder, then the other, exposing her entire upper torso above her waist. She danced and her shaply 36c breasts swayed to and fro, for the entire night club to see, after a minute or so she slowely raised her dress back onto her shoulders. Then they returned to the bar, she said, "I'm hot, come on boys, take me for a ride". I drove, and Steve directed me to a secluded spot, out in the country. He was in the backseat with her, and was rubbing her breasts. When we arrived, I joined them in the back of the van. Steve and i lowwered her dress, I sucked on her right tit as he did the same to her left one. She was rubbing his cock thru his pants, when she blurted out. "Oh, that's a nice one". His hand was all the way up her legs under the dress and he was fingering her pussy thru her panty hose. Then she arose, and removed her dress and hose and said "Sorry honey, guests go first". She laid down and spread her legs, exposing her hairy cunt for his pleasure, and hers. Steve unbuckled and exposed his manhood, he was about 6"+ inches long, but his cock was really fat. Karen winced as the girth of his cock, split her labia apart and drove all the way into her. As he was humping her it occured to me that we never disscussed whether she would let another man cum in her, but knowing her, I was sure she would. She had an I U D so she was protected from pregnancy. I could see Steve tense up and he plunged all the way inside of her as he grunted his orgasm. When he got off of her, I couldn't believe what I saw, his spunk was gushing out of her, and left a big puddle of his semen on the car floor. It was now my turn to mount her. I stuck my 7-1/2 inch very skinny cock into her. I couldn't believe the sensation. Her cunt was red hot from the friction of his cock rubbing against her vaginal wall, I slid right in, because his slimy cum had lubricating her normally very dry passage. I didn't last long because of the feeling of her used pussy. I came and added my semen to his. We went back to the club to have one last drink, as she stood there, she told me it was time to go home, because cum was running down her leg, and was visible to others. it was obvious she had sex with the two of us, and where our semen was deposited. Now I have to say, after numerous encounters, a few times after having sex with a guy, and him cumming in her, as I layed there she would pass her used cunt over my face, to show me what she had done, I couldn't bring myself to put my tongue on her just used pussy, although I'm sure she would have loved it, if i would clean her, and I'm sure she was giving me a hint. But no. I didn't desire another man's cum in my mouth, but sloppy seconds and another man's semen on my cock, didn't bother me. My wife dislikes condoms, and hates facials or the mess of cumming on her breasts or stomach. She gets most of her satisfaction from a man ejaculating inside her. It has been medically proven that when a man cums in a woman, the hormones from his semen are absorbed thru the vaginal walls into her blood stream. The result of this is, a euphoric feeling of relaxation for the woman. Ever notice how, if a woman, who has just been inseminated, will lay there in a daze or goes to sleep? I have read that a man's DNA can be found in the woman's body afterwards. So if you are sharing your wife for her pleasure, Being inseminated by the bull, is I know what, my wife desires, and very likely yours.

True. Bf doesnt like swinging. But SO and I are into it. So it is like, "one nation, two systems" (2 sets of rules) for me! ?

2 weeks ago, party at our friends house We live in New Zealand, no issues with COVID down here fortunately.

For me, it's not about having sex or sex acts or multiple partners. It is about 'feeding' different aspects of my personality, occasionally, in diverse ways with sex. It transcends role playing, it's a sexual moment as I'm giving, yielding, engaging and driving my partner(s) into an exquisite moment. To build them up, for the men to enter me in a pure moment that thrills or kissing a woman with tongues plunging deeply. I love it when someone I may have just met can surrender to me and I to them. Then, once we're done that it's perfectly alright to go to the next partner and, who knows, have that same person again later that night (or not). Or, if it's simply to play with another couple, have the sex with the husband be so great that the wife thanks me. Then, of course, there's the knowledge of my husband having another girl, whether it be a wife or innocent bystander, knowing she just might be asking herself if watching me fuck means my husband must be amazing (he is).

I don’t understand how this thread evolved into the word origin. Since it has let me add that Michael and I do use the word Cunt. It has different means like so many other words. We Fuck and also tell someone to fuck off or say fuck you. If you are a cocksucker it’s bad and then suck my cock is fine. Michael and I are very vocal during our sex play. I have no problem with the word cock or prick or any other word for penis. Very early on he referred to my genitals as a pussy and in good nature I said it wasn’t a cat. He joked by meowing and saying Here Pussy Pussy. I playfully said stop calling it a pussy. I said it’s a Cunt, C-U-N-T. CUNT! I jokingly said stick your Peepee into my cunt. It has stuck with us all this time. It’s just words. I know some are put off by the word. I have shocked people who have called me a cunt by saying thank you. I figure what man doesn’t want a cunt.

Spouses in every couple are different. My wife and I are quite different, but that's why swapping without rules has worked so well for us. Sometimes it's couples swaps same or different rooms, sometimes threesomes, sometimes alone play. We both individually have our own preferences, depending on the situation and don't believe that we have to do everything together. Probably the most extreme example is a couple we swap with where the other wife and I have gone to cultural events that my wife and her husband have no interest in, and they spent the night together having sex. The other wife and I have no or just quick sex those evenings. My advice is to coordinate but decouple a little and just do what you enjoy.

An advantage of being in a closed group - we got that figured out.

I think this is a topic worth talking about. My last play session on Thursday I was super hard, my wife was a little dry on one side when she started a reverse cowgirl on me. Which tore the skin on the side of my cock. About a half inch gash. It's happened before but this one was bad. I kept going and got sucked off to completion by the other wife before the night ended. Now a few days later my cock looks terrible. Big gash in the side that hurts and is slowly healing. Which means no play this weekend....dang it. I told the other wife about it yesterday, she wasn't bothered by the prospect of my cock having a wound on it, which is cool but I'm gonna have to not get sucked off or fuck anyone. I guess it's fingers and tongue this weekend. Anyone else get an injury that had them out of commission? Anyone get a similar injury to mine?

Totally. They may also re-define the meaning of fully vaccinated to include a 3rd shot (booster), which would mean that if states or cities continue down a path of vaccine passports (New York) all of you who have gotten the first two shots would no longer be considered fully vaccinated. There's a saying about doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result..... Frankly, the longer this goes on the more insane it all looks.

The stats just don't support your conclusion nor is it particularly useful. The idea that us horrible anti vaxx people are hurting the rest of society is simply a trumped up concept to get people like yourself to pressure people like me to get vaccinated. It's no different than trying to force people to get vaxxed or lose their job. I could make the same ridiculous argument blaming people that don't take care of themselves for filling up ICU's due to heart attack, cancer, diabetes.

When we in our poly family were younger (and before children), we used to do more hardcore outdoor activities in remote places. Sex was inevitable and we would end up with cuts and bruises from sex in places not as accommodating as a bed or carpeted floor. One tends to ignore the discomfort in the middle of it and not see the injury until after cumming. BTW, "bruises" does remind me that when I first got hubby and Clair together, they would bang so hard (and often) that she had some minor black-and-blues on her inner thighs.