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My wife and I are relatively new to swinging but we have found a great couple and we both have explored our bi side to the extreme with them. My question is we have these friends visiting us from across the country for a sex vacation. We have rented a nice condo in lake Tahoe with a hot tub. What are some fun games to play in the hot tub to get the mood and fun going?

Will be visiting vanilla friends (who give off a definite 'open mind' vibe) with a hot tub the Saturday after American Thanksgiving -- we're following this thread with Great Interest!

I don’t have any suggestions for hot tub games, but the times we have been with people in hot tubs it sure didn’t take very long for things to start happening! We just had a mfm with another guy at his house a couple months ago and he had a hot tub! I went to the washroom and came out and there was missus Enhancer standing in front of him making out and stroking his cock. One of the hottest scenes I have seen. Didn’t take me long to get undressed and jump in.

No need to keep your lube in the original bottle. Find a nice pump bottle you like to store next to the bed and a good travel one for on the go.

Coconut oil, hands down the best.

Signals, yes; but the kind that can have a double (but innocent) meaning. We'll post something after the get-together.

Yuck

Here are a couple more of Missus Enhancer in her new green outfit! Getting ready for Christmas.

LOL! I hear you 🙂 Not everybody in the Sunshine State is particularly sunshiny, let me assure you 😉 Regarding the effectiveness of masks versus COVID-19, I am afraid the data is not conclusive. This was a topic discussed ad nauseam in a prior thread. You can search it. Concerning future pandemics, I am afraid the US will not learn. Why? There is no political advantage to learn. The pandemic is just another wedge issue to be exploited and manipulated to the advantage of one party over the other. Nobody is particularly interested in doing any kind of fact-based assessments or After Action Reports to honestly, dispassionately, and objectively, review what worked, what didn't, and what we should do differently in the future. I'm not being pessimistic. I'm being realistic. Look at our 20 years in Afghanistan. The path we followed was as if Vietnam had never happened.

We've used AstroGlide and it works fine but the containers tend to leak when we travel and make a mess in the packed liquid/lotions bag so we were looking for an alternative anyway besides coconut oil which Wu has found irritating and a messy cleanup. There is a U of Maryland Medical Center Assistant Professor of Urology, Rena Malik, MD who posts a weekly YouTube on a variety of urologic subjects. She's strictly the facts and easy/clear to listen to. She had one a while back, "Everything you NEED to know about LUBRICANTS | What to know BEFORE you buy LUBE." One of the ones she discussed was Good Clean Love, we tried it and like it and hopefully it might travel without leaking as we start flying again over the upcoming months.

Actually it was this past Halloween and it was 10 guys

We hadn’t bought lubes before and then we met with friends that had Lube Life. I never minded the taste of pussy, damn I enjoy the taste. Now I enjoy Cotton Candy pussy. Now the wife is using water based lube on her toys, I don’t think her pussy knows it’s flavored.

Have used astroglide in the past. It doesn't perform as well as others we have tried since and it was occasionally irritating. Also now that they have xylitol we wouldn't get it as we don't allow any xylitol containing products in the house.

Wow, we've just kept with AstroGlide. I'm amazed at all the options here. To those who use these lubes we've never heard of, have you used AstroGlide? I'm curious why you switched to something else, and any opinions on why you like the current stuff better than it.

We like Spunk and BadDragon's cum lube. For the extra bit of naughtiness of making it look like sloppy seconds. Bad Dragon's is water based and paraben free. https://bad-dragon.com/products/cumlube Spunk is a hybrid. Amused when googling for a listing(as we usually just pick up at a local sex shop) that it is available at walmart. https://www.walmart.com/ip/Spunk-Hybrid-Personal-Lube-8-Ounce/151580678

Over time, we have come to the conclusion that the least complicated formulations--those that do not include scents, silicone, parabens, and so on--are the least likely to cause problems with the biology of the vulva, urethra, and vagina. The KISS principle, "Keep it Simple, Sexy!", applies.

We like Good Clean Love Almost Naked.

Our Rules No long term relationships No couples close to home No single play, couples only together. It has been months since I met a gym member who is friends with a couple we met who lived hours away. She searched me out and after getting to know her we agreed to be their first swinging friends. In these crazy times I became close friends with her as we have much in common, seeing her in the gym, lunches, shopping and the husbands seem to get along, easy talk and liking the same sports. Up to now we would ghost people after a month, not our new friends. We had broken two steadfast rules, getting involved with locals.

Maybe I used the wrong term, trying to use terms that I misunderstood. We are not that type of people who would hurt others by not saying what are intentions are. We keep in touch with many of the people we have met over the years. I even check in to make sure nothing has hurt the relationship of those who we were the first. I am happy to give advice if asked, we just never wanted to continue physical relationships too long where we become the major go to couple. We want others to grow and not use us as the crutch. I certainly don’t want this to be another Covid post, we had decided to cut back on the people we meet. Meeting people we enjoy being with happened at the right time, not that we hadn’t met equally nice people before. Maybe because they live close, and go to the same gym made it easier to break our rule. I apologize for using the term Ghost, that is not intended and not our modus operandi.

We attended three or four “multiple male” parties awhile back. We both enjoyed them at the time. Currently, we no longer think it’s a great idea for health reasons.

I have never had or planned a gangbang event per see, but a few times during parties with friends I have ended up "entertaining the boys by myself" for a little bit while the other girls take a break and cheer for me. 3 has been the maximum number of men I have entertained at the same time.

Liquid coconut oil for us as we aren't playing yet and we don't use rubbers with each other

Pjur is great but we also like coconut oil...

Our choices show our lack of sophistication, but saliva works fine for us for vaginal intercourse (I get wet pretty easily, but sometimes I need a little just at the entrance to get started). Mostly there is pussy licking going on before fucking anyway, so it's not a problem. For anal play, if it's just a finger in my/her bum, pussy juice will do, otherwise we use astrolube for dick-in-bum sex. My obsession is with products for cleaning up his dick afterwards.

We have been using JO H2O for years and find it works great! Usually buy the flavoured ones. Can be bought on Amazon or most sex stores. We stay away from anything with silicone or the ones that heat things up ourselves. Although she produces a lot of natural wetness from being multi orgasmic and being a squirter we still find lube a good idea for long sessions to keep things from getting raw.

I originally met my wife(kitten) at my first ever LS experience. It was a MMF threesome. So it comes more natural for us than most. I do very much enjoy watching her play with others, male or female. I find I would rather watch her than play myself. When I was younger I never thought I would feel this way about anyone but its the bond that we have with each other that makes it easy. We do only play together that is our main rule.