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You learn plenty when you have sex with others, you try new things that you think your spouse wouldn’t like. I knew my wife was enjoying new partners when she came home and tried many new acts and positions. An open marriage and swinging has been very educational when it comes to sex. Sharing what we have learned while with others has made our home sex much better.

Swinging neighbors

With ourselves, we have about three go to positions. With others, we both like to find out what they like and try it.

When we have sex alone we do change positions even if we seem to do a few most of the time. We will fuck with her on top or me fucking from behind almost never Mish. Oral is again her on top in a 69. When she is with guys she will do what others want. Some will fuck her standing, I can never get that done. She’ll fuck on top, reverse. She’ll suck a guy on his back, and eat a gal the same way. Just wondering if ur partner does sex with others in positions you never do. Do you talk about what she wants or doesn’t.

We find that with couples over 60 the ladies tend to be body conscious .. I find that a few drinks help that and getting to know them we have had drinks than a few weeks later dinner some like to go slow but once they open up its fun

If you know the backstory of our poly family, sort of the same thing happened with us. I fixed up hubby with my friend Lora. She had a boyfriend Walter at the time with whom there was no expectation of monogamy, so it was ok. Eventually Walter and Lora started playing as a couple with the others in our poly family, Clair and Red as well. During that time, Walter and Lora got engaged, then married. But also during that time, hubby and Lora were falling in love, as well as a strong Lesbian relationship developing among Lora, Clair, and me. Lora left Walter and joined our family. Actually, that's what completed our family. There is nothing like the passion I feel in my love for her and the jealousy of her and hubby together.

My wife is on a cheaters site, a site where married people meet for extramarital fun. She told me that many men have offered her gifts in return for sex. She always refuses but is amazed when she is told many women on the site look for money.

Absolutely! My favourite part of the lifestyle is watching and sharing her. Love seeing her being pleasured and pleasing others. It is such a turn on and she amazes me every time. Whether it is another woman, a couple or now single guys. Although I also play with other women if the mutual attraction is there I could easily give that up and be satisfied with her just playing with others.

I found two more. Maybe that site can hire me to screen. I need to find more hobbies. I am finding profiles of single women in their 20s with come hither pictures with their face showing often have profiles that describe “the services that they offer.” That’s not swinging.

Signals, yes; but the kind that can have a double (but innocent) meaning. We'll post something after the get-together.

Here are a couple more of Missus Enhancer in her new green outfit! Getting ready for Christmas.

I tend to masturbate alone however I don't mind the slightest to do it in front of someone else if they want to watch. Helps to reach a strong pleasurable orgasm seeing another getting all turned on watching me.

Yeah... I really don't understand the issue the OP is raising...? "The passion was palpable?" Gee. I would hope so. And why would their spouses want to intervene? "Honey, I'm cool with letting you fuck him. But, only if you promise not to have too much fun. Then I'll have to put a stop to it!" Lol! WTF?

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when I was about 13 my sister caught me jacking off to a hustler, instead of telling dad, she made me Jack off for her. In my early 20’s I got hooked up with a Domme, I would be made to masturbate for her friends. Kim always loved to be watched masturbating at the house parties. Dianne and I would attend Jack & Jill parties, I really enjoyed watching her masturbating sitting in a chair with us watching. The person masturbating when done would pick the next person of the opposite sex. Then when I was single I would go stag, then after everyone was done, we would mingle & recover. Then it became a swing party. One gal would always masturbate her ass, which was very hot.

I find it extremely erotic to watch a man masturbate. If I am lucky enough for them to let me inside this intimate world, I can totally get off. We were at our club in the swing room a few months ago. I asked two guys to join my husband and I. They undressed me and put me in the swing. I asked them to jerk off for me before they took turns fucking me. I was soaked watching their cocks get hard and actually had an orgasm when the first guy ejaculated on me. Amazing foreplay before some incredible fucking.

Just the other night, it was 2AM, my wife woke up from a dream that had make her really horney. She ended up waking me up searching for her toys. When I was fully awake she told me she had to get off, so we masturbated together. Then back to sleep. Awesome.

So you have a pool. Do they have one? Maybe a discussion about the ravages of having to wear swimwear and the preference of skinny dipping when possible could be engaged. As the weather warms and the opportunity to skinny dip avails, that can often get a more interesting response. Once the nudity is present, then a lot of barriers get easier to navigate. As to neighbors, well we had that happen more than once. One of our favorite group pics is that of our neighbors two houses away in our cul de sac enjoying several folks at the same time. Go live in a small, small town where you find that neighbors may be country mile neighbors but still end up being fuck buddies. We had zero idea that those neighbors were LS folks, as they did us. But a hot tub installation at our house and the welcome of the neighbors as long as they skinny dipped ( and the presence of one of our favorite swapping couples also sitting the hot tub naked) seemed to accelerate the swinging that happened almost immediately. Turned out the neighbors were long term LS folks and just needed an opening. The water nudity was the first nudge to open the door to the discussion. We have had other neighbors (one across the street and another couple next door) in a different state, flirt their way into them launching the first questions without the benefit of a pool or a hot tub. We call what you might be experiencing, the "courtship." Probably too broad of a term, but it does seem like the dance is on and the worst part is deducing is what music is really playing and, does everyone want to dance. Oboy...that was really stretching it out to create an image. Neighbors are one thing, kids are the other hand is really, really serious. Good luck regarding the fallout a bad situation might make for the kids. For us, in all instances, their were no school age kids in the mix. Tough call for families where as other Posters have offered can become messy for the kids if a fallout happens. But, as to leading to helping a transition....don't forget the pool. Our pools and hot tubs have produced positive results from folks that we felt were on the edge (and some whom we would have never considered a possibility). Guess it is the nudity, proximity, and pure comfort that a pool or hot tub sets for the environment. If they aren't interested in skinny dipping, probably a dead end. Good luck. Be careful........

My wife and I have masturbated while watching each other at the same time. She loves it when I time my ejaculation right after she has cum and I direct my stream right on her clit. She says the warmth and the sensitivity of her clit at that time gives her an hugely erotic feel.

When I was a really young guy, just out of college, some of my girlfriends ask me to masturbate while we played around. They said, "Can we watch it shoot?" It was sexy and fun to do. I love to watch a girl with her fingers or a vibe make herself cum. Sexy. It was also fun as a young man to learn how sexy nurses really are, and how eager they are to experiment.